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what do you know about comas?
they can last about a few days
and normaly you go back to normal right?

give me all the info you can on comas
please

& no like reallly hard stuff to understand

like i wana know if yu can get one from gettin in a car accident by hitting ur head on the windshield

its a health project i need to do.

PLEASE HELP

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coma
that should answer your questions or got to www.webmd.com

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how can you find out who said something on your honesty box? on facebook, i heard it's not anonymous anymore and people found a way to hack it. is that true?

removing the honesty box does not make it where people cant write you messages.
message them back (hit reply under the message) or
use the elimination theory.
if your on and someone write in ur box see if its a boy or a girl (blue boy pink girl) and then go to your online now friends and then to your friends with an honesty box,
after u think you know hwo it is send them a subtle hint in a message or something to let them know you know.

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i'm 16 female and looking for a job. i can't work in fast food because i'm a vegetarian and the smell of meat makes me throw up. i was thinking of working in a department store where i could do recovery (taking the clothes from the dressing room back to the racks) or being a cashier. does anyone know places that hire 16 year olds? thanks.

Walmart I think or some small stores may hire

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whats the song that goes like this:

[[something about dissin my girl and, i dont care]]]

ya he says i dont care alot...

What's with these homies, dissin' my girl Why do they gotta front What did we ever do to these guysi That made them so violent ...
www.songmeanings.net/lyric.php?lid=3041 - 45k

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I am a believer in Christ but i want to know about satanism...salem and all of that. Is that bad? I want to search about it but i am scared of what might be the outcome...God might think I am a sinner. I do not want to convert or anything i am just curious...so if anybody has any sites or any suggestions or just any comment that can be beneficial towards me i wil really really appriciate it.
Thank you.

I think this site might just be what your looking for
www.modernsatanism.com/satanism.html
me my self i believe that God wants us to learn things (after alll He did give us brains to think with) as slong as your not converting I dont think God will think of you as a sinner but if you still feel like that then by all means go to church and talk to a deacon or a preacher and talk with them privately.

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what is the latest song from westlife? remember tha boy band? i feel like theyre not famous and theyve died down... can anyone tell me what happened to them??? and are they split up? making new singles cd's?

why not just google it and see for yourself? I did and found them but not to up todate on the yougins music.

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My dad and my brother always look through what websites i've looked at, i hate it! I was wondering how you delete it with windows xp, I CAN'T FIGURE IT OUT!

THANK YOUU.

Sweetie I for one am bad about looking at what my daughter does online, maybe they are just worried about what you do and who you talk to, try to find someone to go to them and say "Hey you know shes a good girl but look could you to back off a little?" but honestly I am worried about what goes on with my daughter (shes 16) she knows I do it and just let me do what I want and shes cool with it.

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Its after the end of shrek 2 movie when the white titles goes in the black screen(i mean the director's names,members who made the movie etc etc)

the lyric goes

i need a hero

and another part goes
tada dum taada dum tada dum tadei


PLEASE HELP

I love that song

lol I LOVE THIS SONG!!!!! Heres the link to it
www.lyrics007.com/Bonnie%20Tyler%20Lyrics/I%20Need%20A%20Hero%20Lyrics.html - The song is called simiply I NEED A HERO BY BONNIE TYLER

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First of all, I'm a girl and my friend is a guy. We're both in high school. I like him, and he knows it, but we are still really good friends, even though it did hold us down for a while. Anyway, there are several things I need help on. 1 is that he has a girlfriend, which he says he loves, but he is always depressed and afraid of being hurt, and thinks she doesn't care enough about him, which might be true, but he's always telling me about how sad he is, and I care about him a lot, but I don't know how to help him. I want him to feel better. I want to be there for him when he needs me. 2 is that I really like him. A lot. I wish there was away I could show him that I care more than he'll ever know, and I'm the one he needs. When he describes what he wants, it's what I want too, but he likes this other girl. I was fine with them being together at first, because he was happy and she was becoming my friend, but then she became bitchy to me and he was always depressed. I need advice. Thanks.

Tell him you are worried about him and ask if you can help. I know being there is at ttimes helpful but explain the way he was before and how he is since. You may not get the guy for awhile if at all but you may get the chance to eventually tell him how you really feel, maybe by then he will be open enough to consider it or he may decide that you are what he wants. GOOD LUCK to you and wish you and him the best.

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im going shopping wednesday for my new year outfit & i need to know where i can get this dress. please make sure you know for SURE that i can get it at that certain store:

http://assets3.tobi.com/files/product_color/main/35025/DSC_0397_detail.jpg

http://www.gap.com/Asset_Archive/GPWeb/Assets/Product/468/468585/main/gp468585-00p01v01.jpg

thanks (:

It is a beautiful dress!! But have you thought of going to a local boutiqe? Or even a store like Walmart or a Tartget and try looking? You may find something eles you want.

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so i sent them an e-mail explaining myself and how i want to be a part of the site (there going invitation only ) and they said they were considering me and that i was on a waiting list. when will i find out?

I dont know but just be patient maybe send them another email explaining what you can bring with you to the site and what you can accomplish. Show and awwards diplomas or stuuf pertaining to what you can do(kinda like a portfolio) you may gety an answer quickly. I HOPE YOU GET THE JOB!!!!!!!

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my bf of two years (that i live with) bought me a real pretty ring for xmas this year. It wasn't an engagement ring or anything, just a gift. What finger should i wear it on? I dont wanna wear it on the left ring and make people think i am engaged or try to make him think i am hinting or anything. is that the finger i should wear it on?

Wear it on your right finger. And if anyone asks you can tell them He bought it for you for X-mas and poo on them if they want to insuate anything from it.

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"how long dose females bleed after having sex for the first time? and dose there anything that hangs out?"

Okay i had sex two times with the same guy, But three days ago my cherry popped. He didnt use a condom and i didnt tack the pill. But anyways im still bleeding, i feel like its im on my period but im know im not. I think he ripped me because my hymen is hanging out more and it hurts when i wipe. i dont know if this is normal or what.

Hun my advice to you is "GET TO YOUR FEMALE DR NOW!" Things hanging out are not normal. And to answer your first question you normally only bleed 1 day. But GET TO YOUR DR! and find out why yes you may have to tell your mom as you didnt say howold you are but please get to DR.

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hey well i dont go out with this kid but me and him have been hookin up and he said that he is falling for me. wekll a week back i heard he was driving around with some other chick and they were flirting and stuff...well when i asked him he denied it....so i let it go then today i heard again that he has been hooking up with some girl and her ex is trying to fight him...do you think its true has he been playing me?

sweetie if it looks like a duck walks like one and talks like one chances are more than 100% its a duck!

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I have a bunch of pictures of one celeb and I want to make many layouts with them but I have no idea where to start!

Can someone give me some ideas or themes I could do? You can even just list some colours or what type of designs/brushes i should use!

Thanks!

Close your eyes and open your heart the things you see will come off your paint bush, pencil, inks or what ever medium you chose to you in other words do what you think is right not what others think is right.

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i like this guy from school, and we're friendly with eachother. we have two classes together, lunch and study hall, so we talk a lot in school. we also have been talking online for a short time. i don't think he knows i like him, but he could. i don't know him very well though; i just started to talk to him about a month ago. a bunch of my friends have told me that they think he likes me because apparently he smiles at me a lot. a little off topic, but he does a sketch for youtube with his friend, and he told me to watch it when we first started talking. well, i couldn't watch it because youtube lags too much on my computer, so he made me a dvd of it, which i thought was really sweet, but then again it could mean nothing. so i watched his show on the dvd and i really liked it...so i told him, and he offered to put the episodes that he hadn't enclosed on a separate dvd for me. then he asked me if i wanted him to mail me the dvd to me or if i wanted him to wait until school started again to give it to me. i said "well maybe we could hang out over the break and you could give it to me then" and he seemed to like that idea. so we're gonna hang out during the week, at my house. i guess we will hang out in my basement.. watch the dvd and maybe a movie or guitar hero or something...lol. stupidly, i'm really nervous for this hang-out, mostly because i don't know what he wants or what he's thinking when it comes to me...like if he thinks of me as a friend or if he likes me back. i also don't know what his expectations are...if he wants other people (like my friends, and his friends) to be there, or if he wants it to be just me and him. neither of which will happen probably, because my little brother and sister are going to most likely interfere no matter who is over. he did mention that he wants it to be during the day, so i don't know if that implies that he thinks of me as a friend or anything. i know you probably can't tell me what he thinks of me...but i'm just wondering if anyone has any ideas for what i should do about this. thank you so much!

Just take things slow you could wind up with a really good friend or a p[otential boyfriend. Just realise that at this point in your life thingds are always up in the air and you never know who or what is right around the corner. So relax watch T.V. and play video games ( just let him win occassionaly)! Have fun and let me know how things go for you!

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ive been going out with kid for only a week and a day. when he asked me out, it was really random and stuff(i didnt really like him) but as the week went on, we talked on the phone and in the halls and my best friend and her boyfriend said us 4 should hang out at her byfriends house. so i was really excited the whole day. so we got there and said hi and kissed and then the 4 of us made it to the couch. he kinda had his hand over my boob and suff but not like a prev grab kinda way, like i didnt mind it. so i felt weird making out in front of my best friend and her bf( they have been going out for a year and obvii are experienced a lot and stuff) so i kinda just laied in his arms and i knew he wanted to make out. well my friend and her bf left around the corner to do something and we made out really quick and he was soooo bad (it felt like in the movie blades of glory) but you know i still went along with ituntil they came back. well 2 other times the same thing happened and by the end of the night i just wanted to leave like i was totally turned off or whatever, and it was really akward when im with him or on the phone. this kid is really nice and sweet though and my friend really thinks were a goood match and the awkwardness will ware off but i dont know, like i even asked her not to have him hang out with us again tonight! just cause i dont want to make out with him again ( i mean i was expecting to be in the moment and butterflies in my stomach) so now i dont know what to do ( i dont wanna break up with him beore christmas cause i would feel bad and stuff)

My advice to you is this if it feels weird then dont do it! You will know when the time is right and wont be "wierded out " by it. Relax take your time and just date for now. Remeber IF you want to do "it" make sure the guy has a condom if not then dont.

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I sometimes seriously hate them.My dad can be so annoying with the wrong tone and words at the wrong time!!At one time,he takes it jokingly,and at another time,he gets mad.My mom is very bad-tempered.She's always calling me stupid,a bitch,a weirdo,mentally-challenged,and thing like that whenever she gets mad at me.I mean,when my parents are just normal and happy,they're really nice and fun but I think my mom has anger issues.When she loses her temper,she loses it.She doesn't really harm me physically nor my dad,but they say really hurtful things.I did used to respond by talking back,but now,I just ignore it.Three times my mom got mad that I was doing the computer too much and two of the three times she cut all the computer plugs with scissors and got all mad and started pulling books of my shelves and everything.I think it's wrong that they sometimes scare me like that.I hate it when they use verbal abuse and when they threaten me.Like,when my mom was lying on the sofa,she's like:Get me water or I'm gonna give away your dog.
What is UP with that!!What should I do??

I personally agree with ygsgirl at one time I talked to my daughter like that and she looked at me and said" mom if you hate me so much why did you have me?" Boy that stopped me in my tracks and I thinking thats the way I was brought up and always promised myself I wouldn't do it to my kids. So I stopped and now we have a closer relationship the kind that she can come and talk to me about anything.

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