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not sure if he likes me or if he thinks of me as just a frie


Question Posted Monday December 24 2007, 7:45 pm

i like this guy from school, and we're friendly with eachother. we have two classes together, lunch and study hall, so we talk a lot in school. we also have been talking online for a short time. i don't think he knows i like him, but he could. i don't know him very well though; i just started to talk to him about a month ago. a bunch of my friends have told me that they think he likes me because apparently he smiles at me a lot. a little off topic, but he does a sketch for youtube with his friend, and he told me to watch it when we first started talking. well, i couldn't watch it because youtube lags too much on my computer, so he made me a dvd of it, which i thought was really sweet, but then again it could mean nothing. so i watched his show on the dvd and i really liked it...so i told him, and he offered to put the episodes that he hadn't enclosed on a separate dvd for me. then he asked me if i wanted him to mail me the dvd to me or if i wanted him to wait until school started again to give it to me. i said "well maybe we could hang out over the break and you could give it to me then" and he seemed to like that idea. so we're gonna hang out during the week, at my house. i guess we will hang out in my basement.. watch the dvd and maybe a movie or guitar hero or something...lol. stupidly, i'm really nervous for this hang-out, mostly because i don't know what he wants or what he's thinking when it comes to me...like if he thinks of me as a friend or if he likes me back. i also don't know what his expectations are...if he wants other people (like my friends, and his friends) to be there, or if he wants it to be just me and him. neither of which will happen probably, because my little brother and sister are going to most likely interfere no matter who is over. he did mention that he wants it to be during the day, so i don't know if that implies that he thinks of me as a friend or anything. i know you probably can't tell me what he thinks of me...but i'm just wondering if anyone has any ideas for what i should do about this. thank you so much!<3

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Additional info, added Monday December 24 2007, 7:48 pm:
i forgot to mention that me and him are both really, really shy. he's even more shy than i am, and that kind of makes it hard for both of us i guess. we're both more comfortable when we aren't in big groups, at least that's what i think. but i'm definitely comfortable with him, and i really like that i can be myself for once in my life. i really like him and that's why i'm afraid to mess this up.:/.

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ExOh answered Tuesday December 25 2007, 6:18 pm:
Wow! From what you have said, all the evidence points to that he almost definitly likes you! I mean he made a DVD (dvd is supposed to be in italics) of his you tube video. just cause you couldn't watch it! I mean to go to all that trouble, I am pretty sure he likes you! Ok, so I think that he is to shy to make the first move (ask you out) so if you think you can, you should ask him out first! If you are to shy to ask him out in person, you could im him, or call him, or maybe even ask one of your friends to do it for you. Any way you are comfortable with. hope I helped you out!

<3 ExOh

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AngelaBT4T answered Tuesday December 25 2007, 12:23 pm:
Just take things slow you could wind up with a really good friend or a p[otential boyfriend. Just realise that at this point in your life thingds are always up in the air and you never know who or what is right around the corner. So relax watch T.V. and play video games ( just let him win occassionaly)! Have fun and let me know how things go for you!

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