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i like having fun getting loose as we say in NC getting crunk, im nice but mostly everyone says iam mean because i am a person who speaks her mind . i liike doing new things , i do like challenges , i am a black female representing where i come from to the fullset
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Location: nc
Occupation: high school student
Age: 14
Member Since: June 29, 2005
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I wish i had best friends but i dont. I want to be friends with certain people but i dont know how to fit into heir group. (link)
just be yourself don't worry about fitting in if people don't accept for who you are then you don't need to be around them



My friend that I have known for four years has a cousin who likes me and I kind of like him the only problem is my friend has just told me that he likes me. What should I do I don't want to come between them?
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which one do you like? I thought the same thing when iwas going out with my ex- boyfriend, my best friend who is my ex-boyfrinds cousin had feelings for me and wanted be more than friends, but at one point i thouhgt that i would come between them too but i had to look at it like this they are cousins they are always going to be cousins they have to deal with each other at family gatherings,etc.so if they let a girl come between them something wasn't right to begin witi wouldn't let no guy come between me and my cousin/sister i'll tell her she can have him but it might be better if you just remain friends with both of them


sry for the length but i need help!

ok i like this guy we'll call him "joe" we me and joe talked in the past about going out and i screwed it up now i reallly like him but im afraid to tell him b/c im scared to death of rejection b/c i've never really had to deeal with it.. every guy i liked turned out to like me and tell me they liked me b4 i told them i liked them and they lasted for like 2 years all of them...

and Joe is one of my best friends and i like him so much im willing to risk our friendship to try this out but i talked to Joe about everything like boyz and he tells me about girls and well he likes like 4 girlz ... im just so confused...can any1 give me any advice??


again sry for the length
i'll rate high!!! (link)
just tell him how u feel don't even think about the fact that you can be rejected he probably likes you too but boys have this thing about telling people how they feel but just tell him how you feel and he'll like you cause you were bold enough to tell him what is/was on your heart/mind and if he wants to be just friends you have to accept that but be happy because you have something that no other girl will ever his friendship his openness not many guys will be open and especially with a female so you have a special friendship no one else will ever have that.


me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
you should upfront and blount with him about the whole situation and just let him know how you feel, ask him what has he been up to that ya'll couldn't hang out , or did he just forget if he is too busy to make time for you than find someone else.


ok theres this guy in myschool .. we both always had a thing for each other the whole year .. well the last day of school was the other day nd on the last day he kissed me on the forhead nd told me he loved me nd he was gunna miss me sfm ( were going to diff schools next year ) nd he constantly tells me he loves me nd that im his world .. and yeah i like him but hes a dick to some of my friends should i still like him? (link)
i say go 4 it ,its hard 2 find aguy that wil treat you right but askhim to try to get along with your friends i mean you get a long with his right and they are guys so we know they are jerks so just ask him 2 get along with your and to do it for you and if he refuses then end it


My best guy friend and I are both 17 and will be seniors in HS in september. We have been friends since frosh year, and became really close last year. I know I can tell him anything and he knows he can do the same. Throughout most of our junior year, I had a crush on him. Yet, I could not tell if he felt the same about me cause of mixed signals. We flirt with each other, hug each other sometimes, and talk a lot online(we both are busy with school). A few times he's even stayed after school for no reason on days that I have my flute lesson and hung out with me. One time, he even calmed me down when I was about ready to haul off and kill one of my best friends for being a jerk to me. He's confided in me a few things and I have confided in him my most private secret. We trust each other and value each other. Yet, I can't read his mind when it comes to me. (link)
my best guy friend and i have been friends for 8 years he is a great guy , i understand what you are going threw but if you don't tell him how you feel he will never, after i told my best guy friend who is my best friend i didn't know how he was going to react i was hoping he would feel the same way, he did but the thing is though after you will be glad you did and he will be glad to know how you feel,, it is best to go ahead and tell him what is on your mind b4 some other girl tells him whats on hers


What do you think of a girl in her young teens(say 15,16) starting a relationship with someone thats about 11 years older then her. Say, this guy really does like the girl and the girl totally loves this guy. What are your thoughts on this? They've kissed and really do feel for eachother, but the guy lives a couple hours away, and how would this girl tell her parents if they were to ever start a relationship? (link)
this is what i think Girls shouldn't date guys that are more than a certain amont of years older than them, but anyways i'm 14 this 21 year old guy was/is interested in me the thing is though i felt like he was just physically attracted to me because he really didn't try to get to know me, this is what i think you should talk to to your friend and see where his heart is, he has already explored life and been threw things you have 2 go threw.you have your whole life ahead of you ,so i say end it with this guy and you won't have to tell your parents, but if you end it you have to worry about his reaction


(13/f)Well I really like my friend Jesse....Were like really good friends though, but we go to different schools but I see him a lot. I don't want to tell him I like him but I want him to kind of try to figure it out, like I don't want it to be so obvious. He has a girlfriend but I think shes gonna dump him soon....Well what are some good ways for him to realize that I like him a little. (link)
girl just tell him i have already been through this with my best friend. I thought hey maybe if i don't tell him he'll figure it out but at the same time while you sittin there thinkin about how he should some other little girl is going to snatch him up just tell him how you feel and you never know he might feel the same way, even if he does have a girlfriend tell him how you feel anyway, he will be glad to know whatis on your mind.you will be happy you did its one less thing you have to stress about, hes a guy hes not going to catch on if you wait 4 him to figure it out so jus tell him




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