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Q: Well next week my brother's going to college..But not a normal college.. he's going to the naval academy. So basically my question is to all of those who have friends at/or were at the naval academy.. ha well it's not a question. Just encourgment that everything's going to be alright. I'm going to miss him sooooo much..any good ways to help me deal with it? What would be good in a care package? And what about a grad. gift? He can barely have anything there! Blah any tips or ideas about anything would be soo appreciated thanks!

well you shouldnt miss him so much cause he will visit you and you should write him a lot and call him (if your allowed) and he will be fine there dont worry hope it works out and remember he loves you
~JORDAN E~

Q: me and my boyfriend broke up probably two months ago. i dumped him because he changes and stuff and gets really quiet. i dumped him because he wasnt being the guy i fell in love with. im 14 and you might not think its true but i did fall in love with him and he said he loved me too but after we broke up we didnt talk or anything and it sucked. about a week ago we finally started talking again and i realized yet again what i loved about him and that i do still love him. i dont know if i should keep it to myself and try to get over it or if i should tell him

you should tell him you like him again and get back together with him. tell him you dont like how he has been being shy and ect. if things dont work out after a while then you can break up with him
~JORDAN E~

Q: my room is ugly and plain and my mom said i can only have $50 to fix it up! im havin a party and i wanted every1 to be impressed! wat should i do? ~needs a major room makeover

if you can only have $50 for your room then use that money to buy some paint it is not that expensive and paint your room a soft summer color say bage or pink. my mom is a designer so i no what i am talking about. look around your house see what kind of colors or fabrics are in it. see if you have any other bed sheets and stuff. the most important thing is the color of your room and it is fun to decorate it. if you have a picnic blanket that is colorful put it on your floor like a rug.
good luck!!! ~JORDAN E~

Q: How do you make yourself less shy? When i'm in big groups i barely talk at all. i am painfully shy. how do i become more outgoing?

hey i have the same problem. i wish i could help you but all i can tell you is that you have to be out going and just wing it be yourself. if you find a better answer please tell me thanx
~JORDAN E~

Q: i need to no the right make for me. I have fair skin..but kinda a lot more color.I have big brown eyes and Brown hair . What is the right make up for me?

brown eyes deserve only the BEST make up get a brown mascara and a light pink blush and eye shadow if u want your lips to stand out get a dark red shiny lip gloss hope i helped
~JORDAN E~

Q: Noone has asked me to babysit and like all my friends do and like i sent out flyers but how do i get more jobs? You know who i am

hey BABE i no who you are and if no one has asked you to babysit give it time i babysit it is soooooooo much fun mabye you can come with me. for the mean time why dont you ask your parents if they have any friends that will want you to babysitt . love ya see you tonite
~xoxx JORDAN E~

Q: So I am at school right now and I just found out people have been talking about me and my friend going out, but she is a girl. I am not bisexual nor am I a lesbian. People are starting rumors and they dont even know me. I am new at this school and I dont know how to cope with it. Lately everyone has been acting like they dont want me here. I've just came for advice on what I should do because right now no one will listen to me. I've tried about everything to just get friend, but I will never change who I am. I know my sexuality and I know I am straight. I wouldn't say I'm not something if I really was. I mean ever since someone started that rumor people will come up to me and ask me if I am a lesbian! It is irritating. Holyoke has been the worst ever since i moved here.Everyone who knows me is back in chicopee, and I just miss everything and the way things used to be.

if people are stupid enough to make up stuff about you it just means there jelous of you so dont worry to much. also if people come up to you and ask like if you are lesbian just ignore them because sooner or later it will stop. and as for a friend be yourself and talk to every1
~JORDAN E~

Q: I am datin this guy but he checks out all these other girls and today he was like (name) has a nice butt.Then he was like man look at them titties and it makes me so mad what should I do?

sign,
confused

ok first of all TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL and if he still does it then break up with him because he is so not worth it. i have had many boy friends (8) and that has happened before i broke up with him because there will always be some body out there for you and obviously he is not the one hope it works out

~JORDAN E~

Q: Ok my best friend started datin this guy and his name is Josh but ever since they started datin she has been ditchin me like crazy and I am sick of it.Besides he is supposed to ask a lot of girls out which he has but she won't talk to me so I can't tell her what should I do?

ok i no where your coming from first of all if she wont talk to you why dont u write a letter to her or like call her when she is home and tell her exactly what you just told me. A boy friend is fun to have and sometimes you forget your friends because your so caught up but dont take it personally and she still loves you also for the mean time hang out with your other friends (boy friends dont last forever)
~JORDAN E~

Q: okay so there's this girl i've found myself quite infatuated with. and things seemed to be going jim dandy and the world seemed to be turning right for once. and then to my shock and dismay it comes out that she has an eating disorder. she refuses to eat, refuses to do anything but excersize and sip water. and she is slowly killing herself with this. i try to tell her that it's not good. i try to tell her of the damage it can do to her. and i try to tell her that it hurts me too (it can send me to tears.. and i never ever cry) and i try all that i can to let her know that it's terrible but nothing will ever work. i feel so useless and worthless and like she's gonna slip through my fingertips and i wont be able to save her. and well i really have no idea what to do or where to go. and i need some help from somewhere in order to help her. this is not good. yet she feels that it will make her feel better about herself. i just don't understand how slowly killing yourself makes you feel better. agh this is so saddening. someone please help me, somehow.

oh my gosh that is so sweet. but as much as you tell her it is really hard to stop something like that because after a while it gets addicting. what u HAVE TO DO is first take a picture of her and show her how skinny she has become. ask her how much she ways and tell her its not normal. if that dosnt work you MUST get an adult IMMEDIATLEY even though she might get mad at you she will regret it later. you seem like an awesome guy look me up some time 301-802-8532 hope it works out and help her get through it all
~JORDAN~

Q: MY FRIEND IS ON DRUGS NOW HE TOTALLY RELYS ON IT he thinks its impossible to get off it he does pot and alcohol and HE CUTS HIMSELF HOW CAN I HELP HIM?!

yes as much as it might break up your friends ship you have to go to and adult IMMEDIATLY and DO NOT hang out with him any more. it is BAD for you to be around him and if you stop hanging out with him and tell him why he might stop. you HAVE TO tell an adul or he can realllllllllllllly hurt himself. good luck

~JORDAN E~

Q: Hey, i need help!!! Im going to highschool in about 2 months, and I want to look good! I Know i dress really tomboyish, like with all my band shirts and dickies and stuff, but that stuff looks cute on other girls...My hair is black because I died it and its starting to get brown hilights in it from my natural hair color. It looks kool if i straighten it. I am overweight and I am extremly determined to lose weight.

I really like this guy who is going to my school and would like to impress him. Please help.

I rate 5's Only and if you wanna leave a mean comment go ahead, you'll just be wasting your time.

ok i no how you feel. so i would suggest (no effense) to dye your hair brown. and not dress tomboyish unless you like it. you can go to abercrombie or even old navy and find cute stuff there. if your detemermined to lose wait first let me tell u honey we all are it not that big of a deal but if you really want to then dont go on any diets they never work just stay away from sugar and if your craving it then just eat something healthy like an apple to take your mind away from it but sugar is not that bad once in a while and DO NOT straighten your hair i thought it looked cool and i got addicted to it but before i knew it it ruined my hair so just blow dry it or when it is wet put mouse in it try me it will look hot like scrunch up your hair and make it curly hope that helps and no matter whatyou would look good anyway and if the boy dosnt like you for how you act it not worth it
~JORDAN E~

Q: My family is really weird becuz they are like really mean to me but not other people in my family i dont understand why i mean they yell at me more than anybody but then 2 seconds later they expect me to be over it and accept their appology i dont understand it plz help me

i understand your problem all you have to do for now is go right to your parents and tell them how you feel and if this is to hard then why dont you right them a letter. Talk to you siblings and ask them if they feel the same way. i hope that helped you
~JORDAN E~

Q: I have Hazel Eyes and Brown hair and fair skin what kind of make up should i wear and i also have redish cheeks (nothing bad born with it) I am not dark but not to white and i wanted to kno what kind of makeup would be good for me.

ok if you have hazel eyes you dont really want to put that much makup on cause your eyes are awesome already but i would suggest a brownish black mascara and mabye a hint of black eye shadow just at the bottoms of your eyes to brighten the eye a little because of your brown hair and your redish cheeks you dont really need any blush unless you want to put just a little say pink on and of corse as we all no always wear CLEAR only CLEAR lipstick so it looks good but not like you tried to hard hope you like the advice and it works out for
~JORDAN E~

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13/f! wow i just luuuv answer questions. heres some stuff bout me so u can get to no me betta. i in middle skewl have tons of friends popular 3 kittys and love boys. thats sounds cheesy but w/e. also i am bootyful inside and out and love helping people with there prob. such as mackeup and all that sheeawt haha well i am always heer if ya need anything and u culd always e-mail me @ PerfectPrep13 @ aim well kissesss oh PP.SS hah (inside joke) if ya need anyhelp with boys i am your girl to ask cuz i have only had my share of them!!!