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Q: this guy that i really like is a bad kisser. i really like him but i hate kissing him, is there anything i can do to make the situation better and less .. gross? without telling him that hes bad at it? lol good answers get 5's!

ok well all you have to do is kiss him a lot and gradually he will get better at it. eventually though if he is still bad you shouldnt brake up with him cause that is just shallow but you might have to tell him that he is a bad kisser. he will get better though (it just takes time) ~JORDAN E~

Q: I like this one boy and I got his phone number and i am thinking about calling him but i dont know what to say any suggestions will help
I will rate high for good answer

brittany

we all have the same problem and i am sure he is afraid to call you to. When you first talk to him say hi ask him hows he's been and all. Tell him you like him. That might be hard to say but it is easier then telling him directly. I had the same problem but i just started talking then he went right on talking instead. I hope everything works out. Oh yeah and especially say to him (so u want to hang out soon)~JORDAN E~

Q: Hey im 13 oh wait my b-day was one the 13th so now im 14.lol but im a cheerleader and i think that im hearing things my mom thinks im going crazy. lol like sometimes when im home alone ill be downstairs and ill like hear someone call my name from upstairs. Its really weird. Idk what 2 do like i said my mom thinks im going crazy. Sometimes i look around and i see things 4 like a quick second then its gone. whats going on am i crazy?

hey no way your not going crazy, i am no shrink here so this is not the best answer but that is just because you are nervous to be alone or something. i am not that sure but i hoped that helped. dont think your crazy but if it keeps happening i would go to a shrink for moral support it is not that bad i had to go once for my parents divores hope i helped ~JORDAN~

Q: What kind of makeup should I get and wear like tell me brand names and what kinds of colors and where I can get them. Okay I have brown eyes, really dark brown hair it almost looks as if it is black, I have pale skin, and freckles. Honestly I wouldn't like to have freckles but yeahh...Soo please tell me what kind of makeup I should get!

if i were you i would go with soft and simple make up such as hard candy that is cheap and you can buy at sephora in montgomery mall and if you have pale skin try to get some conceler and dab it on your whole entire face to make it jsut a tint darker you should also u brownish black mascara from hard candy or and other brand and a pink blush nothing to dark and a pink shiny lip gloss hope i helped ~JORDAN E~

Q: Hey ok i just asked a question about how old you should be to wear a thong and most people said about 13 and well im 13 and i wanta ask my mom if we can get some but how should i ask??

well i am 13 and i wear 1. its not that big of a deal just ask your mom and then if she says no say it just underwear why cant i its not like any one is going to see it. thats exactly what i did no big deal. ~JORDAN E~

Q: dose anybody know any good fishin lures?
i live in TX and i was wondering if there is a particurly good one to use....???.....

please help
if it is on a website please tell me so i can see it! (ill rate a 5 for a website)

help

yeah sure either go to google.com or what is a good sites it fishing.com glad to help ~JORDAN~

Q: I always seem to ask my self this question..

Why is it that im only visible when people need something to do?

Its seems to always be true that people are really nice and stuff to me only when they actually need something to do..why is this?
thanks a bunch! ill rate you for a good answer!

well mabye you are shy and these kids dont notice you and if thats the reason hey welcome to my world you just have to be more out there and let them no u exsist. also they just might not like you and well no effense just ask you for stuff because they no that you are nice and will do anything withought asking questions. i have done that to some people. just once in a while tell them no you wont do it and they can do whatever they asked you to do by themselves. be friendly to them and dont be afraid to show them yourslef. good luck ~JORDAN~

Q: my girlfriend latly has been ignoring me, and she has a real short fuse with me. Whenever i try to do somthing that shows i love her, she takes everything the wrong way and is like "why are you doing that" or somthing. we thought it was PMS a while back but she's been like this a while now. then i cant ever really show any affection for her, because (well i think anyway) that she feels crowded with this girl, who might i add is completly obsessed with her...the girls name is Ally, and all is CONSTANTLY hugging on, or holding onto my girlfriend and i think thats part of the reason she is acting the way she is. i cant pull her away for a long enough time to give her our first kiss and we've been together for 4 months. she doesnt ever really want to cuddle durring any movies at my house, because if ally happens to be there then ally is on her, and she doesnt want to leave/be rude to ally...sometimes she will blow me off for no apperent reason at all or with some excuse. is there anything i can do to make my girlfriend pay a LIL more attention to me, or is it pretty much hopeless?

well her friend Ally is not the reason. my friends and i hug and cling together all the time it is just because were like best friends its not a big deal. and if she takes everything the wrong way write her a note or tell her that and mabye she will change. give it time and if she dosnt then dump her. if she wants to get back together that means she still loves you and will change. HOPE i helped ~JORDAN E~

Q: theirs a really cool 11 banded spike bracelet that i want. my dad says not to go overboard with bieng punk/gothic. do u think thats going overboard????? i dont think so.

no way that is so not going over bored. if you want to be punk thats ok its not that big of a deal. and if you dont want to then dont but a bracelet is NOT going over board.~JORDAN E~

Q: all of my friends are popular but im not. during the year i straightend my hair and wore cute clothes what should i do next year?

whatever you do do not straighten your hair it will ruin your hair and that means you deffinatelty CAN NOT be cute . if all your friends are popular that means your popular to. whatever you do just be your self that is all that matters ~JORDAN E~

Q: So theres this guy. Ive talked to him online and on the phone..i noe hes not like dangerous cuz he went to my friends old school and every1 noes him. i rly like him and i saw his pic and i think hes hot! i think he rly lieks my personality because he always wants to talk to me. He just asked me if i wanted to go the movies with him and i dont noe if i should say yes because im scared that if he sees me then he wont think im hot enough and that i might be a disappoinment. What should i do?

well before you go to the movies you should make sure that your parents know about it. also if he dosnt like what you look like he is not worth it. if he really likes you he wont give any thought to what u look like. hope i helped ~JORDAN E~

Q: there is this guy i like and we are just REALLY good friends. we would always sit next to each other at lunch. at the award ceremony we were the only ones at our table and he kept on saying that i would get an award. now that school is over im totally going to miss him what should i do???

hey babe kirk does like you dont worry. because your going to mis him this summer you should call him you no tell him you like him there is nothing to lose hope it works out ~JORDAN E~

Q: Okay, I know some people asked if you can like delay your period, but my question's different. I have to go on a Yacht for my friend's going away party on Saturday, and I just got my period this morning. Is there ANYTHING to maybe stop my period by Saturday morning? (Today's Thursday) There's no bathroom on the boat, or trashcan, and we'll be out there for a good 6 hours... :-\ I really want to go, so any help is appreciated!

theres no way to stop your period but if your around 14 then you can wear a super absorbency tampon or something strong if you wear tampons and that would be ok for 6 hours just be careful to take it out as soon as you can. if your period is not that bad then just wear a panty liner and it wil all be ok no matter what it will be fun dont worry and if you really dont want to go then just fake sick ~JORDAN E~

Q: ok well.. my boyfriend [of about 1 and a half years] birthday is comin up in july. and i hve NO clue what to do for him.. like where to go/what to get him.. that sorta thing.. last year for my birthday we met at a pizza place then went to the movies and he gave me a really pretty necklace w. matching earrings.. i want it to be special u know.. even tho we hve been together for 1 and a half years we werent "together" for his birthday last year.. someone please help me! and i want all the details.. please.. thanks in advance!

well i think you should make it special. go to a nice restraunt like Houstons. then afterward why dont you go to a movie or recreate your first date. he is a boy and as we all no boys like baseball cards and hats and jerseys. i have a step bro who is 13 and his girl friend didnt really get him a present just go to the movies and you no made out that is enough of a present for a boy aahahahahha. but if you want to get him a present get like a hat for him or a dog tag neclace with his name on it he would like that. or you can always ask him what he would like. hope he has a great birthday have fun picking out a present. ~JORDAN E~

Q: i like this guy but he lives an hour away and i neva c him. We always talk when we c each other. I duno to b friends wit him our more cause he lives so far away.

i used to have a boyfriend who lives in NY and i never saw him . you should hook up because one hour is not that far away and you guys can go see each other and have like monthly visits. talking on the phone is nice and fun and that is a great way to have a realationship and the best part is you can hook up with some one else and he will never no JUST KIDDING that is SO MEAN hope i helped
~JORDAN~

Q: can u really get breast cancer if u sleep with a bra on? please answer quick.

of course not who did you hear that from breast cancer is only from your jeans of your family but it is not that good to sleep with a bra on it could make them go down laugh at loud happy to help
~JORDAN E~

Q: i was wondering if there are any techniques to running. like any specific ways to move your body? or any way to control your breathing and stuff. thanks.

i used to do cross country the most important thing is to breathe deeply it will help you with speed and long distance

Q: hi, i have a question: If you like a guy and you are not sure if they like you, and you dont want them knowing that u like them, what do you do?

well if you like a guy but you dont want him to know you like him what is the point of likingh him. and what you should do (this sounds corny but) right him a letter saying hey ***** likes you and you should like her. on the letter then write by the way (**** dosnt no i wrote this so dont tel her) hope it works
~JORDAN E~

Q: wats the easiest way to break-up with a guy without saying "lets just be friends"?? or getting someone else to do it??

There will never be an easy way to break up with some one but the way you should break up with him is go to a movie tell him in his face that you dont think you should be together anymore but you must tell him you still want to be friends tell him mabye some day you can get back together again
~JORDAN E~

Q: My boyfriend is pushing me to have sex with him...i love him to death but sometimes he makes me feel like i have to do it with him. He said that he would use a condom if i wanted him to but i still am not ready. What should i do?

DONT DO IT if you are not ready or to young.tell him how you feel and tell him you love him. if he really loves you then of course he will understand. and rember dont do what you dont want to
~JORDAN E~

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13/f! wow i just luuuv answer questions. heres some stuff bout me so u can get to no me betta. i in middle skewl have tons of friends popular 3 kittys and love boys. thats sounds cheesy but w/e. also i am bootyful inside and out and love helping people with there prob. such as mackeup and all that sheeawt haha well i am always heer if ya need anything and u culd always e-mail me @ PerfectPrep13 @ aim well kissesss oh PP.SS hah (inside joke) if ya need anyhelp with boys i am your girl to ask cuz i have only had my share of them!!!