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Ok so i was just watching Maui Fever and it was the episode where Chante is no longer with her bf so they go to a club and she is dancing, and i want to know the song that they play there it's like "its going down in here.." o r something..does anyone know?
its going down - yung joc
meet me in the club its going down
is what i thnk you meant
Ok well I have soccer tournaments every other weekend... well this weekend I dont have it, so my friends and I made plans to sleepover from Fri. to Sat.
Well the coach for another team asked me to help her team because they dont have a goalie (i'm a goalie) but really each player on her team practices being a goalie.... she's just using me because her players arn't good at being goalie.
Well anyways, I told her I had plans and that I was thinking about it.... and i told my dad and he says I should help her team out. I keep convincing my dad that I don't want to and that she has other players... but he keeps telling me it's not going to be that bad and that I can handle it.
but you see....
the tournament is at 8:00 am and I would have to wake up at 6... FROM A SLEEPOVER!!!!!! yeahhhhh righhhtt!!!!!!
what should i do?
skip the sleepover make it up to them
i want 2 get str8 2 the point i like 2 guys let me explain them both 2 u..... not the looks but the personality thats what i want
Jeremy
phsyco(but i love it)
examples brung a steak knife 2 school
(i told him not 2 bring it any more) he stopped.
put boot protector on his hand and set it on fire (what a wierdo i still luv it)
i asked him did he have a girlfriend he said no i like the single life 4 rite now (he needs me in his life)
always sits with me on the bus (even when there are empty seats) he sits pretty close
always waves at me and tells me hey
gave me a hug(once because i got this jacket from this girl for him)
Hakim
he is younger than me (by like 1 year)
he is in a lower grade than me
he said that last week he had three girlfriend in a row but the broke up with all of them because they are childish
gave me a hug (once i guess because he wanted 2)
told his cousin he likes me i just have 2 tell him i like him myself(thats not my style)
talks a whole lot(its not a problem with me but dang he can talk)
well thats it plezzzzz help
first onee
Me and my bf broke up of 21 months a month ago. We both were in love so much but he left for college 50 min. away and things changed. Im nothing just but just a jr. in highschool. Its clear we are both moving on but yesterday i read something that he wrote and it said "I am looking for a woman" it just made me burst into tears on the spot. Is it totally natural that Im torn up about it? I know im moving on, going on diff. dates with diff. guys, and all that other sort of stuff... But it just struck me so hard to just know he was officially moving on. I just feel selfish && stupid.
P.S-I'd like to get back together but i dont see that happening if that helps any.
dont take it so hard. he was probably looking for someone his own age someone he could relate to on college or maybe he was lookging for a girl he had more in common with. im not saying change for him. be yourself. just no that if you want him, tell him. just done get hung up on the past. you'll loose out on the future.
well my bff asked me 2 make-out w/her man so i did the next time at skool me and my bff"s man were in a library and he made out w/me he cam on 2 me and now my Bff is PISSED at me and now we r in a BIG fight wat do i do?o i forgot the night b4 she presured me into fucking her man but i didn't.
she may have wanted to see if you would be a loyal friend, or a horn dog [ no offence it jsut kinda fits the example not saying yout horney or anything ] by seeing if you would rather makeout with her man or stay true to her. i also mega agree with the other person ask her.
hi
is anyone else getting something like "(insert web browser) can't open the page" when they try to load myspace?
it's been doing that for like...2 days now...
any ideas? or is myspace just down or something?
thanks?
omg. i have that too. try it off your cell phone if you have one + you have the internet on it thats what ive been doing, not that it helps that much considering the fact it tells you that have have pic comments + comments + friend requests + messages and such when you dont.
does anyone know the name of a new cell phone its something like envoy or something. i dont know.
if not what are some nice cell phones that are out now that arent too much money and wont break easily
enV, but the first one made like that was by virgin mobile. and its called the switchback. i have it, its really nice. and only $130 or something like that
i really want a laptop. i know i'm not going to get one anytime soon but i'm just wondering now so maybe i can convince my parents to get me one for christmas or something :] well what's better? macs or windows? like i have windows now.. but for a laptop.. what would be better? and like what comes with a macbook (that's the one i like) what are the pros/cons of having a mac? also.. what are tablets? thankss.
well. let me tell you something. i got a laptop. and when i got it i was all.YEAH. but sometimes i sersiously hate it. becasue when your trying to do something the finger pad gets in the way if you touch it you can go back to where txt is and accidently ruin what you typed before. its harder to controll - not saying its hard but mouses are easier. but if you get one. i have windows XP. and its like a normal desktop that you can carry with you - but the internet took a while to set up. but . good luck with asking your parents. it took me almost 3 months to convince them. but i had originally been asking for like 2 years. so. good luck.
x0 britnee
Ok, Im planning to get my hair cut like maybe layers or something and I was wondering what you guys think? Any ideas for a different hair style or maybe how I should wear my hair for the time being. Heres two pictures of me, they dont show my face to well but they are all ive got:
http://usera.imagecave.com/sango1993_069/School_Webbie_For_Webteam/MeSide.JPG
http://usera.imagecave.com/sango1993_069/School_Webbie_For_Webteam/Rhodriactsdrunk_4__0001.jpg
Thanks
layers with bangs that go diagonal across your face are really in right now + cute + thinned hair
i'm going to the movies tonight with my friend Lucas. its a late show though. i forgot to tell my dad about it until today, but he said i couldn't go. the movies at 9:15 and i need advice on how to convince him that lucas is actually a really good guy. i'm not completly sure why he says no..but i think it has something to do with what happened when my brothers and sisters were my age (my sisted ended up dropping out of school cuz of it). how can i convince him that i'm NOT like my siblins?
please help me..i don't have that much time..
tell him how your different from them
- grades
- maturatity
- age
WELL Ok i need help with make-up i dont know what make-up to use and i wanted usde help me ok if you go to advice colum theres a picture of me (and my eyebrows are thinner now) lol i wanted to know what to use
-Eye shadows colour
-Eyeliner colour
-blush colour
mascara colour-
or whatever else i need please help me =]
stick to natural colors.
like blacks , browns , maybe some grays ,
some greens , not like lime greens. blush however depends on your skin type
really pale - a tan blush
tan - a redish / tan
colored - i dont know sorry [:
17 female
my name is Rachel and my boyfriend roosevelt and i have only been going out for about 3 days and on the first day we started to go out he asked me if he could kiss me and i told him that it would be my first kiss and i would have to think about it first the thing is iam kind of nervous becouse he wants to french kiss me and i've never kissed a boy before much less french kissed a boy and i don't think iam ready since i've only been going out with him for 3 days and i want to know how do i know when iam read to kiss a boy?
when you ready it will happen. im 13 and my first kiss just kind of happened, me and him leaned in at the same time to kiss. it was weird. but let fate fall like it supposed to.
ok.. lets just say im really bad at computers..
if i have a myspace song up and i want to deleat it so i have no song at all.. how do i do that? can i do that?
and does anyone know the code to make certain words bold in like comments and stuff?
thanks so much.
bold text here
underline text
italic text
on the song it will say the name of it.
the artist + add + delete hit delete
I kep trying to upload a picture onto my page, but it's always too big in filesize. I tried trimming the image, but it's still too big. What do I need to do?
Thanks!!
open up Paint on your computer. hit
ctrl + A to select all
and then ctrl + w.
and put it as 50 x 50
keep doing that till its good.
(14, female)
My past boyfriend and I broke up about three
weeks ago after he cheated on me with the girl
I already disliked. After the breakup, I became
good friends with my old boyfriend, Michael.
My best friend, Annie, had a huge drinking
problem last year, and got to the point where
she had 30 minutes to live after alcohol
poisining. After about 9 months of trying
to change her around, she broke our trust and
drank again.
So to get me through the problems, Michael and
I became best friends again. At one point I
totally fell for him when I realized how great
he was. But I'm having such a hard time trusting
people after my latest problems, I'm not sure
what to do. I love him to death, as my best
friend. He's planning on asking me out soon,
because I told him I liked him to get my
mind off of my ex who cheated on me.
Now, I want to keep him as my best friend,
I'm not ready to trust another person with
my heart like that just yet. I'm not sure how
to tell him, I don't want to hurt him or scare
him away. I really can't lose him, I need
him right now. What should I do?
well. your in a tough sitch.
if you love him like you say
heartbreak wont be on your mind.
if you are worried though say
" i like you as more than a friend
but i need to understand my feelings
more "
Ive tried websites but I cant find the advice!! Sooo what are you supposed to do with your toungue while frenching... like what does "flicking" mean?
ok. well im 13. so i dont have that much expirence. only like 10 makeouts.. so. what i do is. if it is his first time you be the leader use your tounge to your advantage. it will be pretty easy / natural. it would just sorta happen. you kinda masasage [sp?] his tounge wiht yours. if its your first time let him do most of it. if both of you are knew it will be pretty "bad" at first but as you go on [the longer the better] it gets easier.
(FYI I'ma guy) My friend (lets call her T) called me and said that she could probably come over as we talked about a cuopple days before. I walked her back to my house and we talked pretty much the whole time. We can just talk for hours on end about nothing, I love that. It was just towards the end of our visit that I kissed her.. It didn't seem to affect her, but then I started to get physical after we stopped playing this slapping game :P. We ended up having oral sex among other things... After everything happend we just put on our clothes and I walked her back home like nothing happend. The thing is I'm confused, and I don't know how to greet her from now on. I kinda feel like a man whore. Was that kind of like a one night stand? Or the start of a bigger relationship? Help please =/
1. your not a man whore. lol.
2. its only a one night stand if you dont see her ever again after.
3. if you have feelings for her + she has feelings for you , you two should just go with it. dont make it all akward around you + her.
On myspace, there are a selected few that seem to have their profiles hacked or something of the sort. It's obvious by the bullitens posted that they don't have control over what is being typed on their account. Should I delete them off my friends list to protect my account?
no. its simple when the next bulletin comes up from the hackers it reply to poster. tell them to change there password cuz someone has it . and if they do it. the bulletins dissaper.
My sister has loads of anger problems and for the past six years she has caused a lot of tension in our family. During this time I've always been the 'good one' but recently my Dad has been taking things out on me more and more. I admit that I'm not always as well behaved as I should be, but it's not like I'm worse than any other average teen. Now even when I haven't done anything wrong my Dad will be unreasonable and start shouting and swearing. I always try and be mature and walk away from the situation then come back and talk things through calmly later but 9 times out of 10 he will refuse to admit that he has been wrong and usually he won't even listen to what I have to say.
I know that he's under a lot of stress from work and my sister which has also put his relationship with my Mum has been put under strain but I'm finding it increasingly hard to deal with it. It's got to the point where I'll say something completely politely and innocently and he'll start yelling and cause a huge family argument for no reason.
What can I do? I've tried talking to him, my Mum and my sister many times but it makes no difference. We've also completed several sessions with a family counciller but that only made things worse.
well. it seems to me that he's almost trying to show you whos the boss in a way. and trying to keep you from being like yur sis. just try to ignor him while hes yellling. or record it once. like how you talk + how he yells for it. then play it back to him , maybe tht will help!
i have been goin out wif this guy for nearly a month now and at the start was great but now its starting to get boring but he started to get on my nerves and i was ready to dump him. I'm lyk best friends with his best m8 so i told him how i felt and he said basically i need to be spontanious and spice up the relationship instead of waiting for him to do it but i don't really no how to im not willing to do anything dirty with him right now but how can i start lyk teasing and flirtin again... i had been advised to lyk wen he kisses me ive to pull away and then kiss him
so reli stuff along those lines
if u hav any advice please
hm. well you dont feel the way you once felt about him you shouldnt have to waste your own time on him, tell him that your looking for something a little more fun +++++ out there.