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I use to be on this site all the time. Got sick of reading the same exact questions and basically copying and pasting my answers because no one cared to read questions asked before them. So I left and haven't really been on here.Ps. I'm not perfect and my advice isn't always right. & sometimes I choose to make it sound like you will get hurt more than you actually will to prevent people from doing stupid things. Like if I get drunk what can happen? Well i might just say you can die.....stretching the truth but I think its better than having people go out and get drunk. Plus you can die but you would have to have alcohol poisoning.
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ok so i have this friend, we'll call her leslie. we used to be like best friends, we had a lot of fun. but then school started up again and i made a lot of new friends(im involved in a few activities and she goes to school and goes home and thats it). i dont know what happened but i dont consider her a best friend anymore-it seems like we dont have anything in common anymore, and i cant trust her with anything-she tells her mom every little thing and her mom calls mine. she keeps asking me if i want to hang out and i really dont want to. how can i let her know that i dont really want to be best friends anymore with out hurting her or getting in trouble?
just tell her the way you feel. everything you just wrote tell her so she knows why you don't want to hang out with her.
13/m....i went to a dance alone cuz my mom made me go -.- so i was sitting down and this girl came up to me and started to talk to me. i never met her before but i danced with her and even bought her candy. we walked around and talked most the time......what do i say to her tommorrow at school?
just say hi, i had fun last night...what about you? maybe we should hang out sometime....all things you can go with
Me My friend and my other friend were at my house and so i go down stairs and i hear all this yelling i run up stairs and i see my 2 best friends yelling and screaming at each other over nothing. I was like stop and now we are all in a fight. i dont want to be in a fight and i didnt do anything and we are all mad and i dont want to say sorry cause i didnt do anything.
Stop being babies and say you’re sorry. Or take a phone and do a conference call or a chat on line and talk about what happened and what triggered you all too just start yelling nothing just happens it had to come from somewhere.
okay i havnt had my first kiss yet and im REALLY nervous, I like this guy and I think he likes me, so I think he might ask me out but im not sure, and i THINK he might ask me to the dance but im really nervous because what if he tries kissing me?? i dont know what to do ! helpp pleasee :(
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Well if it does happen it will just happen naturally and the more you sit there thinking of it the worse of you will be just let it happen don't over think it.
Ok well me and my boyfriend have been broken up for 3weeks now.We have both moved on to new relationships.The problem is lately I havn't been thinkging about my new boyfriend but about my ex.I feel really bad 'cuz my new boyfriend likes me alot but i can't seem to get my ex out of my head. I need help i am so confused 'cuz i don't want to leavemy b/f on!!
you always want what you can't have. if you were to stop going out with your current boy friend you would want him back to.
Lately, I've been having a lot of "what if I can't do it?" moments.
I recently got the lead in our school musical, and it was my first time auditioning for this school's performance (I transferred in as a sophomore, and I'm a senior.)
I feel like I'm letting everyone down because I'm having trouble getting the dances. I'm a singer - like, majorly. I sing opera, that's what I'm going into - and I can act rather well, I think. But I don't dance. I can jazz dance and ballet, but not musical theater. It's just not working, lol.
I also have a lot going on. I have a couple scholarship auditions coming up, another performance, and that, and I'm in the middle of two competitions, all vocal. I always worry that I'm letting the cast down because I don't think I'm that good. I can't get rid of any of my obligations. As it is, I never see my boyfriend. I have a date tonight at like 9, after work, and this is the first time I've seen him out of school in the past 3 weeks or so. Any ideas as to how to fix my confidence issue and/or the stress problem?
To start with you have way too much on your plate. but anyway just do your best that’s all they can ask from you anyway. Try to actually have fun while doing it and don't think of it as something you have to do rather something you choose and want to do.
OK im a female 14 years old. Last year i really loved this guy who didnt go to my school but we saw each other alot because he was best friends with my neighbor. Him and i went out for about 4 month for me its was a longest relationship i ever had and he was my first kiss and stuff and then we broke up because he thought i liked another guy well i kind of did but not really and when the guy i was going out with dumped me i didnt really care but then maybe a week went by and i saw him again and brought up alot of memories back but we werent together anymore. After that day i realized how much i want to be with him and how much he means to me. I called him and told him that me liking other guy wasnt true and he said okay and i dont think he cAred then i heard from someone he likes me againa then next time i saw him he didnt. I still liked him alot but we jsut didnt see each other at all over the summer. Well next year(this year) i go to his school and he is on 2 of my classes so i see him alot and everytime i see him i get the memories back. My biggest wish in this whole world if we would go out again then i will be the happies i ever been. Well i had a little chance before getting back together but now he is going out with this girl that he went out last year right before we went out and he dumped her for me but not they are back together. I dont know what to do because ive tried to move i had alot of bf`s after him when his first gf after me was liek a year after we broke up and ya well i want to get back with him together but im not sure if its possible so should i just keep on trying to move or keep on trying to get him back???? plz i really need help i like that guys for over year and a half now and i cant tell him that cuz he has a gf that im really good friends.
If you haven't gotten any signals from him then he moved on and can care less about you. And you shouldn't do anything now anyway because your friends with this girl and if you still want to be then let it be. If they break up, then flirt with him hang out and talk and see how he reacts if he shows no interest then it’s a waste of time. By the way you always want what you can't have that’s why he started meaning so much more to you after you lost him then when you had him.
is kinda gross to ask this question but i reallly really really need help! im still a vergin but my down there it seem to have alot of liquid lately i ask my best friend and she say it was yeast infection that shocked me i wanna konw what is yeast infection, and if u get one what is it like? also what kinda medicein that you can buy at the store well help( b/c if i do have y/i i dont want my mom kown about it is embarresing)
To bad you have to tell your mom about it, if your not sure if its a yeast infections or just discharge and if its a yeast infections it doesn’t just magically go away you will need to go to a doctor and have it checked out better be safe then sorry and the sooner you get help the sooner it goes away. Some yeast infections smell. There’s a lot more but I’m to lazy to type if you really want to know more just ask.
hi i have a ques its embarasing but oh well...i have alot of haire on my "bikini line" or whatever n when i shave little red bumps go all over and i tried waxin with some nerds or Nad's or something and it started bleeding..and it hurt like hell. i tried shavin with senesitive skin shaving cream, bikine zone stuff, conditionaer, baby oil, etc. i think ive tried them all. does anyone know anything that stops it?!
Your skin is just getting irritated. Wait for it to go away before you try shaving it again. The next time you do just make sure to use moisturizer. And don't shave it too often.