ok so i have this friend, we'll call her leslie. we used to be like best friends, we had a lot of fun. but then school started up again and i made a lot of new friends(im involved in a few activities and she goes to school and goes home and thats it). i dont know what happened but i dont consider her a best friend anymore-it seems like we dont have anything in common anymore, and i cant trust her with anything-she tells her mom every little thing and her mom calls mine. she keeps asking me if i want to hang out and i really dont want to. how can i let her know that i dont really want to be best friends anymore with out hurting her or getting in trouble?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? eyeloveyou603 answered Sunday February 6 2005, 2:54 pm: She will probably get the idea that you two aren't best friends anymore by the fact that you don't want to hang out with her. All you have to do is keep making excuses and I would tell your parents or mom that you don't really like hanging out with this girl anymore and that should help. But I mean you too were best friends once and you can't change that so don't be mean to her and if she ever needs your help you have to be there for her. I hope I helped!!
pinkblondie7770 answered Sunday February 6 2005, 2:30 pm: are you just trying to be mean thats just mean i cant belive you would do that beacause b4 you had all your other friends you had her im not helping you can get other advice on how to dicth friends that go way back kristen [ pinkblondie7770's advice column | Ask pinkblondie7770 A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday February 6 2005, 2:28 pm: Just talk to her and tell her how you feel about everything. You aren't going to get in trouble by telling this girl how you feel. If she does tell her mom, that's definitely an unfriendly thing to do. Whatever you say to her, she will get hurt. Just tell her that you can be good friends with her anymore because you don't trust people who tell their moms everything. Simple as that. Hope I helped :)
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