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I'm a nineteen year old girl whos dreams are to help the world. But for now, I'll start on Advicenators :)I can't say I can relate to every question that comes my way (probably most though!), but I guarantee I'll understand. And sometimes that's all you need...a little understanding :)
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ok so i like this one guy
and when i talk to him online and on the phone and stuff
hes always so cute and stuff
hes like i wanna cuddle with you
or give kisses
or like whenever i talk to you i cant stop smiling
and he gets speechless when he talks to me
and then he says i love you
but idk if he just saying that to lead me on?
or just a flirty kind of way?
or a liking kind of way?
because before we got like this he said he likes this other girl
and i asked him about her hte other day and hes like yeah i still like her but she likes someone else
so im like oh?
and then one day i asked him what he was doing and hes like nothing on my trampoline with some girls
and he was kinda being an ass
so i really dont know whta to do!!!
help!
You two aren't "together" and he told you he still like that other girl? pshh don't even give that dog a chance! Seems to be he's keeping you on the side untill something happens between him and that other girl. What a creap. I would try finding someone else if I were you :] Then you can show HIM who really was on the side line ;]
Does anyone know how to send a comment to a bunch of people without going to each of their individual pages? Thanks ♥
Go to www.legaladder.com and download the free demo.
you'll figure out the rest :]
14/f
What would you say is the best razor? I have both the Shick Intuition and the Venus Breeze. I want a razor (or good dipilatory) that will keep me smooth for a long time on my legs, bikini area, and underarms. Currently my leg hair grows back with in like 9 hours because i shave before i go to bed but when i wake up they are slightly stubbly.
Hate to break it to ya girl, but it's not the razor. It just depends on the person. The razor honestly has nothing to do with it.
ive been going out with this guy for 2 months and its been okay but hes in a different grade and i hardly get to talk to him. my mom took my phone away before i went out with him and i still havnt gotten it back but he has a cell phone. the problem is my parents wont let me talk on the house phone so i have to call him when my parents arent around which is hardly ever! the problem is that every time i get to call him(which is hardly ever)he ethier has his phone off or he wants me to call him back. the longest phone conversation was maby 16 min and then he said to call him tomoro.every conversation we have ends with him saying can you call me later and its so annoying.i called him today and he asked could he call me later and i told him he couldnt because it was my house phone then he told me to call him later and i asked him when and he said he didnt care just to call him later. i was sooo mad that he would say he didnt care. i understand sometimes your doing something important and arent able to talk on the phone but this is EVERY time i call him! i hardly know him because i can never talk to him for more than 2 min.
2 months is to long to be going out with a jerk like that. If he doesn't want to talk to you for even 5 minutes with out wanting you to call him back, kick him to the curb! There are plenty of other guys that would love his g/f calling. Seriously, dumb him. He seems to immature to have a relationship.
when i really like boys, i cant seem to keep a conversation going with them. i really want to, but i just dont know what to say. what are some good things to say or whatever to keep a conversation going with a cute guy you like?
Guys like funny girls. Randomness is funny. Most of the time. I've honestly talked about chicken with a guy and he asked me out the next day. lol Just talk about what ever comes to mind.
hey, i just got a hamster and it smells bad. i know your not really suppose to bathe them so how can i make her smell better?
Just spray 2-3 squirts of your favorite perfume around the cage. Take the hampster out though. And only 2-3 squirts because that could hurt the hampster if you put anymore.
does anyone know a place where i could get free songs for my ipod??? i've been looking and looking, but it always turns into a big 'ol scam to buy the whole thing or whatever.
i just want a good program where i could get free songs!
That's illegal and yes, you can get caught. And when you do, the fine is $500. It's really not worth it. But if you honestly don't care, then www.limwire.com is what you want. Download it. It's completely free if you get the original version.
13/f i seriously cant stand my dad anymore. he had ADD (well it sure seems like it) ok i will fill you in on some things he does. i was in my room yesterday putting my clothes away, and there was this one shelf i put my old clothes on that don't fit me anymore. my dad came into my room and kicked me and was like why dont you wear these nice clothes anymore? and i was like because there too small i've had them since 5th grade (and im in 7th) and they are size 10 in girls and im size 14 in girls. i told him that, so he goes im not spending anymore money on your fatass anymore because i buy you so many clothes (and really, there was an orange BEBE shirt that my cousin gave me, and a BCBG sweatsuit that my mom bought me for 10 bucks a piece) i buy my own clothes. i dont know what the hell hes tlaking about but i spend my own money at the mall. well he gets mad for no reason, so if i spill water on accident, he goes all crazy and calls me names and slaps me and stuff. he says im bad, and i dont do anything wrong. this has been going on since i was in 1st grade. i cant take it anymore. i dont wanna call the police or talk to a councelor because hes really a good dad and he buys me expensive stuff and at times hes all like a good dad and hes nice but sometimes he acts like that. about 5 minutes ago i was eating a baked potato and he was like you fat ass you dont need to eat anything so i threw it away and went upstairs and cried. i'm 5'3 and 106 pounds, i don't really thing that's fat? my mom is like right there when everything happens but she doesnt say anything. i have 2 brothers ones 7 and ones 9 and my dad is like to my brothers i hope you guys don't turn into a samantha-junior, and im like wtf i dont do anything wrong! im just acting like a regular teenage girl. sorry this is long but i really dont know what to do anymore. any advice?
As much as you don't want to, going to your school counselor is the best thing to do. Just because you and your family talk to a councelor doesn't mean he's a bad dad. It just means he has one MAJOR flaw that he needs to work on and sometimes you can't get problems like that solved without help. I really think you need to talk to someone about this, maybe then your dad will open his eyes and see your really not a bad kid at all.
13/f
i am NOT even close to wanting to have sex but i always wandered can you have sex when your off your period and not get pregnant or have sex when your on your period and not get pregnant or if you jus flat out have it can you get pregnant either way..also can u get pregnant by givin head and a man cum in your mouth??
P.S. im not talkin about not gettin pregnant by condoms or birth control
You can get pregnant when your ON your period or OFF. But, that doesn't mean you will. It just depends of your time of your ovulation. And no, you can not get pregnant if a man cums in your mouth.
what are the possibilities of me asking a celebrity to my sweet sixteen for hte most of 8 minutes? just to dance with me during one song. and how would i go about asking? would it be like over a 100,000 dollars for 8 minutes?
Well, first of all it depends on who you wanted to come. But even so, yes it would probably be WAYYYY up there in the price.
how can i get curves in my body??
14/f
i'm skinny
i'm 5 6
and weigh - 110
Curves are just something that a girl just naturally has. Some have `em, some don't. Which is one of the things that makes everybody different. Like, a model for example. They don't have curves and everyone looks up to them. From your description it sounds like you have a body to become a model. Think about it :]
im 15/f hes 15/m
okay so sometimes i like him..
sometimes i dont. but when i like him i LOVE him so much and think hes the greatest guy in the whole world. sometimes i just get annoyed with him or i feel like im not attracted to him anymore. what should i do?
p.s. weve been going out for almost a year
If that's really how you feel, then it's not love. It's infactuation. Maybe it's time to move it. After all, you are only 15, there are plenty of boys in the sea. Even ones you'll think are cute ALL the time lol.
Tonight my mom and I were talking about jewelry and clothes. She said she didnt care if I buy the jewelry, that it is my money and I should spend it the way I like.. Then we started to talk about clothes. And I told her that I want to go clothes shopping and buy some tee-shirts. She said with all the summer and winter clothes you have you dont need any
more clothes. You need an apartment. I told her that the best times to buy clothes is at the end of the season for two reasons one everyone knows (cheaper) and for another no one knows (they keep some clothes to release at the end of the season). I said to her are you saying you dont think I should ever buy clothes and she said when did I ever say that. She then said to me; that I should wait a couple of months to buy clothes after I pay off my charge card. BUT I FEEL AS IF SHE SAYING SHE DOESNT THINK I SHOULD BUY CLOTHES. YOU SEE SOMETIMES WHEN WE GO TO STORES SHE WILL TRY TO TALK ME OUT OF BUYING. MY QUESTION: AM I OVERREACTING AND IF I AM WHY AND IF I AM NOT WHY NOT?
Sorry to say this, but in a way, your mother is right. You should first look at things that need to be done, before looking at things you want. I think you should pay that charge card off first before you even think about buying some new clothes.
i want to babysit more..
but i dont have anyone to babysit for
im 15/f
how do i get more customers?
Make flyers and out them on on bulletin boards in like grocery stores for example.
I have been having sex for probally about 5 years, but latley like in the past 2 months when ever I orgasm or even have sex, when I get up I feel real dizzy and I have to sit down for a while. Is that normal or is something going on that I need to talk to my doctor about?
It probably has nothing to even do with sex. This might be due to a health issue due to over exercise. In your case, the over exercise would be sex lol. I would go see your doctor right away.
I have a razor cell phone, and I was at the beach and got splashed (not bad) but my phone got wet in my pocket.
It didnt turn on for like a few min, like didnt work so i took the battery out and stuff, and it took me a while to turn on.
Well the phone works, but the numbers dont like work , and i cant answer or send calls.
HELP?
Just take the back and battery off of the phone and let it air out to try for a few hours. Maybe even just for that day. It should work after it airs out :]
Fuck! I made a bet with this guy in my class that I would go on this ride when I go to Great Adventure (northeast) like a week from now, for my orchestra concert. Its to go on Superman. Now.. I'm a 13 year old girl in seventh grade, who is afraid of heights at times, and doesnt "love" rollercoasters that much. heck i was even afraid on the wild mouse! i've never been on a ride with loops and stuff and the superman doesnt have that.. but i saw like on youtube how high you drop at first.. howly freaking crap. is there anyone like me who has gone on this ride at great adventure (or anywhere else if they are the same) and how does it feel? my cousin also said it was hella awesome.. but.. i mean i wanna go on it but can i get hurt on it? i dont have a bad heart or anything but on rollercoasters i feel like my stomach or heart will pop right outta my mouth! if i have no heart conditions and im like 5'5 so im above the height thingy.. will i be okay (though hella scared) on it? also where should i sit. front, middle or back? which is better?
lastly is it okay that i get a note from my mom to give the health people so that i get a wheelchair or whatever they give you so you can skip all the lines? me and my friends wanna do that.. or just butt through people talking on cellphones like we're really important haha. any rides to reccomend for me, too? i love water rides.. im not too afraid of the really high ones.. but for roller coasters.. eh.. idk give me ones you'd think i'd like! thanks a bunches! :]
Trust me, you defiantly don't want to miss your chance on going on the Superman :] It's awesome and if you don't go on it, you're gonna regret it. The whole "scared" part goes away once the ride starts.
16/f
i started babysitting this nine year old girl every wednsday and friday from four to eleven about three month ago. she goes to bed at eight thirty but her older brother gets home around nine thirty or ten from work but i stay until his parents get home so they can pay me. he's 27. he started hitting on me the first wednsday i started babysitting. then about two weeks into it, the fourth time i babysat, i was washing dishes. he came up behind me, put his arms around my waist and started kissing my neck while he was putting his hands up my shirt. he said that it was time for me to stop 'teasing' him. i don't think i was teasing him, i dont dress revealingly or anything and i usually have something on my clothes by the time he gets home.
But anyway, i told him we shouldn't do anything, but he is really cute and it did feel good, but i didn't want to get caught by his parents. i didnt want them to fire me. well we didn't hae sex but he did rub me through my jeans and he pressed his penis into my back. but the next week he came home early and we did have sex and we have been keepingit a secret since then and now i want to stop because it makes me feel guilty. my bff said i shouldn't beaccuse he took advantage of me because he's the adult and he told me that he would tell his parents that i hit on him and tried to sleep with him if ii stopped. i don't know what to do i want to keep babysitting carly because shes kind of attached to me, but i dont want to be pressured when her brothre comes home.pleae help me.
wow. If you honestly want this to stop, you need to talk to him about it. If he threatens you saying he'll tell his parents or anything like that then tell yours! He could get in so much trouble for this. As for little Carly, don't worry about her. I mean, of course you've two grown attached to each other, but eventually she'll grow up. A babysitting job isn't worth the guilt that he has put you through. Stop this while you still can before things get worse.
ok today 9 of my freinds got jumped so on tuesday theres goin to be a rumble should i go in and fight were gangsters
Defiantly not! I honestly don't understand why people think fighting is right or fighting will solve problems. Infact, it just makes things worse! Think of it this way, summers almost out, do you really want to end to school year getting suspended possibly even expelled for sticking up for nine of your buddies? Any friend that expects you to put your self or your future in danger like that isn't a friend at all, there for, don't "rumble" with anyone.
i realy like this girl but theres 2 things that keep me from asking her out one is that the school year is almost over and i wont see her till school starts and second is that shes kinda rich compared to me im not poor but not that rich ive met her mom she seemed nice also shes full white and im full mexican so im darkskin compared to her but i realy like her and we have gone out twice before but does any of that matter? please tell me
Don't bother asking her out. The reason why I say this is because your already planning on not seeing her over summer break. That proves right there that a part of you wants to be single for summer, not tied down! Wait till the next school year starts, you'll probably meet a lot of other girls :]