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Q: well,ok 13/f
i've noticed my vagina has looked different lately....and im getting scared (i think) im devolpoing breasts..and i want to no..is it normal for it to change?
yes its definetly normal to change.. your just starting puberty!

Q: Haha I had no clue what category this should of gone under, so I picked randomly.

Anyway.. I am 14 and a girl and I was wondering.. how many people shave(or wax or ect) their arms? Should i shave mine? I feel like my arms have light colored hair (blonde) but the seem hairy to me. I read in a magazine something about shaving arms, but should I? Would it be weird or would it be weird if I didnt?
well i know some people that shave their arms but i think its kinda wierd but normal haha .. but if you plan on shaving it, it will grow back thicker and plus you'll have to constantly keep on shaving it and it'll get kinda annoying, but its your choice.. you could probably try waxing though cause that will make it come back less faster.. good luck!

Q: Is losing your virginity on prom night the worst thing ever??

cause me and my boyfriend are staying in a hotel with his bro and my best friend... but with 2 rooms?

Im a good virgin but i love my boyfriend... and i dunno if im ready...
if you love your boyfriend and you KNOW you want to do it, then go for it. if your ready and you feel like hes the one you want to lose your virginity to then i guess you can

Q: umph can you help me? im getting my hair cut tomorrow and i want bangs but i want them side swept? maybe? im not sure what its called? send pics?
they are called side bangs ..if you want pictures of them you could go search on google under images and type in side bangs.. good luck!

Q: I have limewire and i've tried downloading an Eminem song about 20 times, seriously. And every single song that i've clicked on it would not download it, it wouldn't even start to download it. Everyone says "Need More Sources" Is there something i can do that will make it work??

Please help i reallllly would like this song by him.
yah that just happened to me, i tried to download a song like a buzzilion times so i just highlighted the whole list and clicked on download.. i know it seems like a lot but most of them wont work because they dont have any sources but thats what i did and i FIANALLY found one.. i dont know if thats any help but goodluck!

you could probably try yahoo.com for music or something though!

Q: iam 15 and i only have sex once bt we used a condom and my period av suddenly stop.d last time saw it was in jan.whats d prob an how can i bring it back
well you might be pregnant if the condom broke .. you can go get that checked at the doctors or buy a pregnancy test ..good luck though!

Q: what's rape? Is it forcing someone to have sex with you?? Cause i don't totally understand what is it.
yes rape is when someone is forcing you to have sex when you dont want to

Q: okay. i have had my period for about two years now and it has always been regular. this month im about five days late so far. i have never had sex, but is it possible for me to get pregnant still?... when i suck my stomach in, there is a little lump there and like wehn i push on it, it feels funny... could i be pregnant?!
your period is probably just irregular and you cant be pregnant if you have never had sex

Q: i know its more than one question - but its all the same topic so i just put it on one.. sorry.

1) if i reject a question - does it go to be public?
2) if i ask a public question [ like this ] - is their like a maximum number of answers?
3) is their a maximum number of favorite columnists you can have?

if you can answer all 3 - automatic 5.
all of the answers are no

Q: Do boys consider makeup to be a turnoff? I know that wearing too much makeup is definitely a turn-off, but I mean makeup in general. I know how to put on makeup very well, and people tell me I do and seek advice from me about it, but I just need to know whether boys think it looks unattractive.
guys wont care if you look good in it, but like you said if you have too much makeup on it'll turn into a turn offff..

Q: Hello. I'm just wondering, but what's a normal weight for a 14 year old female, about 5'2. I'm not looking for 100% "normal" & "healthy" per say, more of what would look good? I'd really enjoy hearing your opinion, for I already know the doctors' and am-i-fat.com. Thanks in advance. I will rate you and possibly give feedback for goodanswers. Thanks again.
okay in MY opinion, i think the best range is around 110 pounds..

Q: Hey is it normal for a girl to miss a period? i know that im NOT pregnate or anything and ive had my period for 2 years....is there something wrong with me? im 13 by the way... thanks in advance!
yes thats normal.. many girls experience that and its just that your period is being irregular

Q: I take a shower pretty much every day, and straighten my hair every day. I know it gives you split ends and stuff but I get a lot of haircuts so that's not a problem. But is it unhealthy? Will it burn your hair?
it probably wont burn your hair since you get a lot of haircuts from all those split ends, you could try getting good shampoo and conditioner for split ends so your hair can be healthier! good luck!

Q: Ive totally forgotten how to save documents to floppy disk! how do i do it?
go to file, save as, then click on the down button to 3 1/2 floppy disk, type in the name of the document if you want to and then press save!

Q: Hey, I'm having a formal party and i'm not sure where to buy dresses. Like I went to JC Penny's and they had a few, but not a lot in my size since I'm small. Where else could you buy a nice dress?. I rate 5's .
you can try deb, filenes, forever 21, macy's ..you could try places like that ! i hope that helped and good luck!

Q: How do you wash mascara off of your eyes? I dont know how to do it and it is really annoying becuase then I get eye problems. Thanks ♥
use makeup remover and put it on a tissue or cotton ball and wipe it on your eyes and itll come off

Q: When you`re friend is mad @ you, is it best to say sorry // talk to them online, in person 0r does it matter? also is it best to give them time to cool down so they`re not as mad or what .. i will rate for answers. anything`s useful. thanks!
i would say give them like 2 days to cool down and if you say sorry, you could do it online or tell them in person, its up to you but i think its better in person because you can tell if they mean it or not. good luck!

Q: i need to get rid of my acne, quick. please help me. i know about pro active but is there anything i can use without buying stuff like creams. if not products are good too. at this point im desperate. anything will do. * automatic 5`s if you give me atleast 7 different ways to get rid of acne *
dont eat greasy or junk foods, wash your face twice a day with some kind of face/acne cleanser, use toothpaste on your pimples overnight because sometimes it dries it out and makes it less red, dont touch your face as much, drink lots and lots of water

Q: Hi Hi just got a bad haircut today and I have school tomorrow. I was planning on wearing a hat but, I don't look very goo in one. What Should I do?
you can always put your hair up and if you have bangs let those down and it looks really cute like that! and alsoo, you can put it half up if you know what i mean or maybe you could try different styles =) im sorry you got a bad hair cut but good luck!

Q: heyy! soo i was wondering which would kill my hair less..like not giving it more split ends and making it unhealthy?! putting gel in it..as in scrunching it lol or straightening it? because i either have to do one of those each day and im TRYING to keep my hair as healthy as possible..because it just doesnt seem to grow and i am tryin to get it long! well thanks :]
i will rate anyone who answers 5!
straightening your hair will give you more split ends so try not to straigten it every day cause then youll get more split ends and then your hair will get all dry and ickkky. well good luck!

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