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I know its wierd but i really like movies about mental people...Like the butterfly effect, a beautiful mind, sybil...So if you can think of any like that, i would LOVE to to watch it.

hide & seek. srry thats the only one ican think of right now

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look at this person's question.

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=480811

i have that same problem. like. on my vagina. its not big and baggy. but like. its a little bag kind of, like, maybe an inch long?
is it really normal?
& what does going commando mean?

commando means - wearing no underwear.
&& yes its totally normal for your vagina to be like that

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I am trying out for the Poms team at my school. Tryouts are on Saturday, March 17th. There are tryout clinics the 14th, 15th, and 16th. Those are just to learn what is expected at tryouts. Anyways, I have to have my right and left splits down for one of the requirements, but it turns out they check your splits on the 14th instead of the actual tryout day, which I wasn't aware of until yesterday. I am extremely close, and I can go all the way down, but my back knee is kind of bent. I want to make the team so bad! Any advice on how to get better at my splits in a short time? I stretch a lot and try to go further every day. Please help!!! Thanks so much! I honestly would love to hear anything at all that you think might help :]

make sure your squaring your hips. i know that helped with mine. my back leg was slighty bent but my hips werent squared, once i learned how to do that the knee problem went away. good luck. and ALWAYS stretch. i stretch for like 3 hours a day. an hour before bed. a half hour before schoo. an hour and a half after school. but good luck. hope i helped (:

yes pushing yur hips forward is sqauring yur hips (:

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What do you guys think the best cell phone provider is? I'm on verizon right now & it has good service, but I've had nothing but problems with my phone. It needs a new battery a lot. And not only that, my dad has had problems with verizon. They said I ran up 900 text messages in a month, and I rarely use it. Anyways, I've had my phone for two years and next week I'm supposed to get a new one. My dad said he was going to take us off there and go somewhere else. So I was wondering what everyone thought the best one was. The ones I'm looking into are t-mobile, boost, and amp'd, but any other providers would be good. Oh & if it helps, I'd like to keep my phone number. Thanks!

well. heres a couple things i would take into consideration

1. you need to know some cell companys charge way to much.
2. tmobile told my sister she owed 500 some odd dollars when she had a texting plan or something and thats all she did. she even worked for them and they were doing that. so she had to eventually quit.
3. i know virgin mobile isnt in your list. but i have them do not get them. their a pay-as-you-go company. i had 15 dollars on my phone , and i rarely use it. and now i have 2 dollars! all i use is text messageing. which i have pennie texting. so yah, i wouldnt get virgin mobile.
4. make sure your not breaking contract. you might have had a 2+ year(s) contract and you could break it and legally be in trouble.
5. before you go out and buy a phone of which has a contract find out friends who have that cell phone company. make sure their happy with it. you dont wanna get a phone and find out it sucks and be stuck with it for 2+ year(s)
6. make sure its a good phone with good graphics.i know they dont seem important but when i use peoples phone with bad graphics or their hard to understand i personally feel like throwing their phone on the floor and jumping on it.

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My best friend will be leaving the country for good in 3 months. She will have her bday here sometime before that. Anyway, I want to give her the perfect bday/goodbye present. I had the 'name a star' idea, but i just can't find the authentic site or information about that, so i gave up on that idea.

I need ideas...I like working with my hands if you suggest something craftsy.

One more thing - She's gonna turn 18. I'm 18 as well.

well. do you have loadss of crazzzzyyy pictures together. if so. then make a scrap book of the fun times together. or make a college (sp?) of them and put them in a pic. frame. something like that.

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on my myspace you to request to be my friend you have to put in my last name .. i didnt know this at the time so i just put random letters as my last name so now no one can add me.. i still want my myspace to be privite but how do i make it so they can request to add me without having to know my last name ?

thankssssss =)

go to edit profile.
edit name.
it will say the last name you entered.
change that.
sumbit changes. and then it should workk.

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I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess.

NO NO NO NO. ive wanted to die before too. ive attempted. its not the anwser i know im still glad im here. just dont. go to a doctor. or a counselor. please IM me or msg me if you have any problems. ( brittletsbang x3 )

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Where can I download Sufjan Stevens songs on the internet for free? Please don't say Limewire...

try blubster.

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adn download that , its alot like limewire. but if you ask me 100% better. cuz i dont get virsus from it.

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I spent the night at two of my best friend's houses two nights ago. We were talking about our secrets and I didn't really have any, so they started saying there's. After saying a few, one of them asked the other if they could tell me "the secret." She started freaking out and was saying how I would think she was a freak and stuff. They finally told me and the secret was that they used to cut themselves. I feel so bad because I didn't know about it, so I couldn't help them in any way. One of them is extremely sensitive and the guy who caused her to start doing that is moving into her neighborhood, so it's possible she could continue cutting. If she does, what are some signs? I know like wearing long sleeve shirts all the time and stuff, but are there any others? Like just the way they act or something?

hi. i used to cut so i can really help you with this one. signs are stuff like : after something bad happens they kind of dissaper for a while , always hiding wrists , youll find razors and anything sharp in their room , maybe with some blood. , they kinda bounce back from bad things faster. those are the most common if you need more feel FREE to ask me seriously. IM me on my sn ( brittletsbang x3 ) if you want more. and ps. im always on. just invisible.

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and thank god someone is informing the masses about google.

Here is another good site:
http://justfuckinggoogleit.com/

Have a lovely day and keep up the good work!

sorry but were you being sarcastic or serious?

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I want a new desktop background.
does anybody have any pictures that are like namebrand. Like-
D&G
ralph lauren
abercrombie [&fitch]
hollister
dooney and bourke
lacoste
etc.

preferably older pictures because i'v looked at the ones on most of those websites and i dont like them that much.
so if you could send me a link i'd apreciate it :)
thanks!

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go to google images from there.

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does any1 know where 2 get drum beats for the song breaking the habit by linkin park?
if you do PLEASE HELP!!!

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I am dating this guy and we really love each other and we're both 13 and his mom gave him 2 condoms that she got for him and has aloud to make out on the couch and stuff...we've talked about sex and stuff and we both this we're ready but I dunno how its supossed to happen ? Any tips,comments to suggestions ?

his mom probably gave him the condoms for that just in case thing , you know how parents are all "its better to be safe than sorry" thats probably whats shes doing, and making out on the couch eh. not a huge deal to be honest. i mean i dont like to PDA personaly but its your choice. and dont absolutly have sex until you are personally ready, and so is your partner.

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Well I'm getting an ipod nano for my birthday in early May and I don't know which color to get...although it doesn't make a difference. I'm decided betweenn grean and red b/c green is my fav. color but red is a unique one to have, but it costs more. I don't know...what do you guys think?

red. i wanted a red one becuase it helps a good cause. so id do red. and go to the apple store. make sure you like the green it comes in (:

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where can i find a plain myspace layout (thats all one color, preferably yellow or light blue) that has arial font writing? thankyou!

go to www.myspace.com/jellybeansigns i own that. add me as a friend. and send a msg requesting EXACTLY what you would like . and i can make it for you. ps i only do skinnys.

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i used 2 like 2 guys but now i only like one i used 2like jeremy and hakim so now i only like jeremy and everytime on the bus jeremy would try 2 sit with me and hakim would like tell him 2 sit with him or like throw his school bag in the way and the last time hakim sat with me jeremy was like look at her drinking out of that spider man cup (i luv spiderman) and hakim was like i cant sit with you no more so i was like trade seats with jeremy so he was like no u straight(like you alrite where you at) so then i said no im not and he ignored me and today brooklyn sat with jeremy and she got off on his stop (where in the hell was she going) so i was pissed and jeremy was like are you getting offf and the bus driver did not want 2 let me get off so i was mortified ........ how do i make hakim stop ruining it ? and make brooke back off?

you cant MAKE brooke back off. she will sooner or later. and jsut ignor hakim - or tell the prinicple hes harrasing you , which might seem more childish depending on age.

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can anyone help me find lyrics by Johnny Rebel?
ive been looking for a while & i'm comming up blank.

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ok i know for the PC version of Sims theres a cheat code: motherload, and you use it to get more money. is there a cheat code like tht for the Sims 2 Pets for PSP?







thankx!

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so i am going to sound rediculous, and this may be long, i appologize. but i am in a strong need of advice and this is the only place i can turn to without a biased opinion now.

i went out with this guy zach. he was really sweet but kind of immature. but i really liked being with him b/c he understood me like no other person ever has, he was a good boyfriend. well his immaturity got to me and i broke up with him, but we both thought it was only temporary, i know this.
we never stopped being best friends though, the day after we broke up it still didnt feel wierd. its a little bit mroe distant but that was my choice after this happened...

2 weeks later we were talking bout getting back together and we were flirty and he told me how much he loved me. well i have history with this girl in my school, we were friends and we got in a fight b/c she didnt get invited to my party [yea immature little fight that teenage girls get into, i know i was wrong but we all grow up] and instead of just being catty like any other teenage girl she went to the shcool and told them my dad beats me, i had bruises form volleyball but no my family is fine i never told her this she was just trying to cause drama. me and my sister almost got taken out of our house by social services, she thought this was funny. well her name is kelly.
and at this party zach was all over kelly they were cuddling in the bed, fell asleep together, and flirting alllllll night and every1 there [even he admits] that they were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend. this really hurt my feelings b/c it wasnt just any girl, which i would have been upset but not say anything, but he knows what she did to me and he was the one i was crying in the arms of when social services told me and my sister we were going to be taken into foster homes [they didnt b/c lack of evidence, me and my siste rof course denied everything]

it felt liek he betrayed me... i tried to mention it but all he said was "im not replacing you with kelly" and i told him it was about alot mroe than that, he will just make me feel like im being over jealous.

today he asked me out again, he did that with kelly last sunday. i told him im gonna have to think bout it, that hurt me but we are great together. he gets me more than anybody and i love hanging out with him but the kelly thing will always bother me =/

ONE MORE ISSUE, i dnt have alot of time... there is this guy Matt that is the sweetest guy ever. he likes me soo much and i liekd being with him, he makes me feel really good. he's friends with my friends and really the perfect personality but im not sure he knows me at all... he likes me but i feel liek if i let out my crazy side or my temper gets the ebst fo me he will not expect it and think of me differantly

so the questiosn to answer :: should i dump zach? or go for matt?

it sounds like your friend Zach is torn between two. he doesnt know whos more important. you saw how they act. you obviously care about zach more than matt, matt sounds less like a player though. so it depends on your type of guy.

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I have no friends. It would be impossible to try and tell me to "try and make some friends." Because I've been trying for years. I've been part of so many groups of friends, but sooner or later they've done something horrible to me, so I change groups of friends. Now, there is noone left in the school that I haven't tried to be friends with. I hate Lunch. Because I'm thin, the people at my table call me anorexic. And I just find people in general, EVERYONE is annoying to me. So lately I've been eating in the bathroom because thats how much I hate everyone. I also eat in the bathroom and skip my classes and sit in the bathroom because somehow, in every single one of my classes, I sit next to someone who's sick, and I don't want to get sick because a.) whowants to be sick? b.) my mom won't let me stay home if I get sick and c.) I can't work out.

But thats only half of my problem. Today I came home and I started to talk to my mom about my problems at school, like usual. But then she flipped out and yelled, "Stop complaining! Maybe you should just kill yourself because thats the only solution!" And THEN she took away the thing I love most- my exercise bike. She said that I can only work out 1 hour a day every OTHER day. (For no apparent reason.) It may sound weird, but I love to work out. I live for it. It gives me self confidence, and its one of my only hobbies.

I have been depressed, and I've thought of killing myself before. But now that my mom actually sugguested that I should kill myself, it makes me feel even worse. Especially since I'm being punished (exercise bike being taken away) just for being depressed. Is there any advice you can give me to help me make it through?

P.S. Do not sugguest that I see a therapist, or I will rate you a 1. My mom would probably hit me across the face and ground me for 10 years if I even mentioned the idea of getting professional help. Also we can't afford it.

www.kidscrisis.com [sp on crisis ?] go to chat w. a counselor they can help. and you dont have to pay OR seem them weekly or anything - i used to go there all the time++have a reg. counselor

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