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hi
i need help
wheneva i go out with guyz i end up not liking them as much as when we arent going out and i dont kno wat to do cuz i always think i want a boyfrend but then once i get them i stop likin them what should i do ?

Well, alot of people have this problem.
Mostly girls, I think its becuase we want someone because we cant have them .
Then when we have them, we dont want them anymore, we want someone we cant have again.
Its kinda like a cycle, lol.
What you should do , is to the boy you like , tell him how you feel.
Tell him when you guys go out that its not as spicy as when you guys are just liking eachother or tell him to put the relationship on hold until your older.

HOpe I was a help!

_-Kendra

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OK. So there is this guy I like and he likes me. we are really good friends now and he told me he would like our relationship to be more than friends in the future, but not now. I kinda of want it to happen now, but i kind of dont. I like him, but my dad is all "over pretective" and stuff. I really like him, but he said he loved someone else and didnt like me like that anymore. But now he does. I like him, but I'm confused cuz of my parents. What do I do??? Please help if you can!
-thanks
p.s. I'm 13/f

Dear Confused Friend,
If the boy you like wants to be more in the future thats excellent! Then you have a chance of getting some where when you get older.
And since your parents are over protective and stuff, then thats the perfect opportunity!
The key here is time and waiting.
You might have to wait and wait , and if you do its not a bad thing.
He said he liked you , so all you have to do is wait for him to come to you.
Your doing great and good luck!


--Kendra

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Heyyy :] Alright, there`s this boy Austin that I broke up with along time ago but now I think I have some feelings for him still. I want him to know, but then I really don`t because I don`t want him to reject me. But there`s this other guy Steven that`s a freshman and he says he likes me alot and really wants to have a realationship with me. BUT, I will never see him since he goes to another school so I have no idea what I`m going to do. Pleasee help me. ♥

lovee always, Lindsey.

Hey Lindsey!
Okay well basically your choice will be based on who you like more.
If you like Austin more, dont be scared of rejection.
You never know what guys are thinking and guys tend to hide their feelings,so dont be scared.
And he might still have feelings for you too!
And for Steven, if hes important enough to you , you guys can hangout on the weekends and talk on the phone , you guys will still have fun!
Hope I was a help!
---Kendra

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okay..i like this guy and he liked another girl..but i gave him another chance. and he says he really likes me now..but my friend likes him and he likes me not her. and i wana go out with this kid. soo..what do i do?! and i said if we did go out. we could keep it on the D L ..so my friend wont get mad..am i a bad friend?


signed.
boycrazy.

ps. im 13 and im a girl lol

Nonsense!
Your not a bad friend, you had him first and he likes you!
If you liked him before she started liking him then you have all the right to like him
and if she was a good friend then she would be happy for you!
And if she gets mad , you have to tell her to realize that you liked him first, and tell her she will get her chance with someone she likes sooner or later.
Good luck!


--KEndra

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ok-so i have been dating this guy for about 7 months now and my friend is kinda jealous she always trys flirting and sometimes lets her and flirts back i get so mad because shes suppose to be one of my good friends i dont know what to do should i just break up with him and not be friends with her anymore or what??

AHH!
NO need to break up with your boyfriend
Or ruin your relationship.
You have to confront your friend, you have to tell her what shes doing and ask her to stop.
Or else your gonna be loosing your boyfriend and your good friend.
So confront her before things get worse.

Hope I was a help!


--Kendra

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hey.
im fat.
what do i do?

Hmm, Well if you think your fat, do something about it !
Try putting yourself on a diet and a healthy exercise program.
Eat foods with whole grains , vitamins, minereals,protein, calcium etc.
Cut down completely on junk food and portion control is everything.
And maybe for exercise you coulc go for a good walk or mild jog, depending on exercises you like!

good luck!

---Kendra

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okay which do you think is better to wear when you get ur period tampons or pads?? which do you think is more comfortable?

hey,i think its more conforable to wear tampons.
But thats just me everybody's different i supppose
-Alex and kendra

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okay.
im about 5'6'' and 99lb. i feel like im fat, but everyone says im too skinny. i dont know what to do.

Hey,if your naturally skinny theres not much you can do.
but if your starving yr self or somthin like that then you clearly need to gain weight.
if you need anymore help with this question
dont be afaird to ask
- Alex

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ok so i have pretty curly hair and im so sick or always having my hair curly do you girls know of any other styles maybe thats easy to do with curly hair??

hey ugh i know how you feel lolz.
i have the same problem.
Sometimes i straighten it and thats basicly all
you can do.sorry i could help more.
if you have anymore questions about this
dont be afaird to ask.
-Alex

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how do i cook a salad??

k
you take lettus.
and tomatoes.
and mix them with a spoon.
and put some dressing on them!


hope it tastes good!



--Kendra

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ok-
I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin?

hey um no nothing is wrong with being a virgin
i'm a virgin, and i perfectly happy.
Just because everybody eles isnt a virgin
doesnt mean you have to loose it.Loosing yr virginity is a personal option.
hope i helped
- Alex

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Is it rude to ask a guy how large their penis is?

hey,if you know the guy well enough ,i dont
think he'll really care

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please please help me. my hair has been horrible my whole life and i absolutely hate it. it is extremely thick frizzy wavy and coarse. i try straightning it and it gets straight but then it just gets frizzy. i think its damaged. i dont know. ive tried all kinds of frizz control and shampoo and conditioner that makes your hair smoother but it doesnt work.do you know of anything that will help my hair? i dont want to go to a hairdresser or anything but is there just really good hair products that you could get at like walmart or something? please help me. i really need your help.

Hmm, I have an idea.
I used to use this stuff , it was called Matrix [sold only in professional stores]
It was a orange tube, and it was called Styling creme. Put it in your hair right before you style it , that is about 15.00.
Another thing you could try doing, is using a hair straightner and putting shine serum on it before you straighten it.
Good luck!

--KEndra

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i've been told that if you don't eat enough your body will go into starvation mode, and it will actually cause you to gain weight.

is this true? because i was thinking and then how do people with anorexia (not that i'm going to become anorexic or anything) lose weight. because if they hardly eat anything, won't their bodies go into starvation mode and cause them to gain weight?

THANKS!

Hey, Well I know where you have heard that from.
See, people that are aneorexic eat nothing whatso ever. But people that starve themselves , will maybe go 12 hours without eating, then they will eat something. What happens is when you starve yourself for that long, your body will think its never going to get food again, and so the next time your body gets food, it will store it right to fat [aka starvation mode] as for anerexic people , they have went long periods of time without eating at all and thats when the weight comes off , but after a few weeks , your body will finally need for or you could die, so usually after that long your stomach will close up and you would need food pumped into your stomach and it will ruin your metabolism. So either way , starving yourself or becoming anerexic are bad choices!

Hope I was a help!


----Kendra :]

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okay well im preganant and totally stuck on what to name my baby if its a boy..
im thinking Blair as a girl and want a some opinions on a few boys names
thanks in advance!

Personally for boys my favorite name is Cameron!
I dont know why but its modern and I think its cute.
My favorite girls names are Michelle and Carleena.
Tell me how things work out!


---Kendra

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if you masterbate can you pop ur cherry???

hey,um yes i guess.
its possible.
-alex

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do either of you know how to put pictures from photobucket onto your myspace?
thank youu

hey,
you load the picture.
and then you have
url tag and img.
your suppose to take the tag
and you can put it anywhere on your myspace
- Alex

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is it okay to wear sunglasses inside?? or at night??

um it really doesnt matter.
just dont bump into any walls.
k

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i have this cousin who is 15 and im 13 and he is so hot and he has been checking me out and i was wondering (we are blood related) what would happen if we made out or worse.

hey,do you think its honestly a good idea if you makeout with yr Cousin?!

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but then i have a chance of food poisoning or sumtin dnt i?

no not really lol.
hahha -Alex

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