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Soo I am 16 years old and I am pregnant and this dude asks me out. I told him that we needed to just be friends because I didn't know him. We was friends for about a week before he asked me out again. I said yes..But I never told him I am pregnant. What do I say to him that won't make him break up with me? I feel weird for asking people this on the internet...

okay start by saying.. you know how i told you that we needed to just be friends before? and then tell him it was because you were uncomfortable having a boyfriend because you are pregnant. he may break up with you. you never know how hes going to take it. it depends on if you are getting an abortion or not probably. if you are he will be like okay its not that big of a deal. but if you arent he most likely wont want to get attached to someone who is going to have a little kid trailing behind them

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OK so im 16 and i FINALLY convinced my parents to let me get my navel pierced. im going to europe this summer and my question was whether it would heal enough by around the last week of june if i get it done in April. another thing also, does it hurt!?? a lot of ppl say it doesnt but im hesitant. also while its healing can you go to the beach with it and go in the water? thnx :]

woww lucky! how did you convince them? i want mine done.. my friends have told me that it doesnt hurt very much. it just hurts a little bit for like a second. and then its done. and dont you think its definetly worth it? i think you have to stay out of the beach water for like a month or so...ask the guy that pierces it. i would get it done as soon as possible. unless you really have to wait until april to do it.

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what are some really good, preferably sad quotes?
you knoww, breakup ones.
none of the common ones.

go to xanga.com and go to blogrings and type in quotes. theres millions of quotes and i bet you can find some! or just type break up quotes into google.

personally, i like this one. its a jonas brothers song =)

When you love someone
And they break your heart
don’t give up on love
Have faith, restart
Just hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on

When it falls apart
And your feeling lost
All your hope is gone
don’t forget to hold on, hold on

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Okay, so i used to think hooking up was sex...most people do. Well some people in my school were saying like "omg jen and bret hooked up this weekend!" (im in 8th grade btw) and i thought wait, its way to early for sex and i asked wait what did they do, they said they made out. So people-boys and girls, of all ages, what in your mind is hooking up?

well.. generally people think hooking up is sex. but in like middle school and high school people say its making out or more. but once you get out of high school hooking up is usually sex.

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so i got tickets for me, my sister, and my two friends for a Jonas Brothers concert.
I had to get all the tickets seperately so we are all in different sections.
Because me and my sister both want the best seat (14th row) my mom is making us take turns in that seat.

We both have floor seats, hers is just farther back. I was wondering if i could just sneak her up to where im sitting (my seat is at the end of the section). Would that be easy/possible?

Also, i gave my friends the kind of bad seats, should i feel bad? Its my friend's first concert and shes going to be sitting next to strangers. should i be guilty?

thanks.

also, any tips like what time to get there, how to meet them, etc. are appreciated!

yeah it probably wouldnt be that hard to sneak her up to where you're sitting. she could just kinda stand next to you. if someone says something about it though, you should have her move back to her seat otherwise you might get kicked out of the concert. well.. you should have gotten your tickets all together so then you guys would have all sat together. its no fun if you dont all go together. you should get there like an hour or so early. you can't meet them unless you get backstage passes or something like that. have fun! xo

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im soo excited for summer. like not even kidding, im obsessed!. how do i make these two springy months go by really fast for me. like i cant take anymore of this crappy weather. im about to flipp. thankss.

haha i know how you feel. usually when it gets warmer the months like automatically feel like they're going by faster. i hate the weatherr too! you can't really do anything about it right now though. just try to do fun stuff on the weekends and keep your mind off the yuckyyy weather!

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I can't find the exact ones online, but I bought tights that look like these, except they're BLACK and go up the whole leg (it's not two separate pieces).

http://images.freepeople.com/is/image/FreePeople/81A0621_43_a?$zoom$

What kind of top should I wear with it? I have black leather boots or black ankle Uggs for the shoes. Should I wear a miniskirt with it? What kind? I'm totally lost here, so any help is appreciated.

Oh-- I also have the tights in white.

Thanks so much in advance!!

i think either of those shoes would be fine with it. you could wear a jean miniskirt with them. or you could wear a short dress. with the black ones wear like a black dress and with the white you can wear pretty much any color dress. =)

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is it bad for girls to have pubes?

no its not bad. everyone has them. most guys dont like it when girls have them though. you can choose to wax/shave them if you want. its your body though. so its your choice.

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16/f
I have long (midback), wavy, thick hair. I straighten my hair about 2-3 times a week. My current straightener (http://www.folica.com/Maxiglide_Hair__d1778.html) just isn't working anymore. It leaves my hair straight, yeah, but a less defined straight. I'm looking for a straightener that will leave my hair pin straight and that will show off my angles and layers.
Any straightener ideas?

get a chi straightener. i have one and its amazing. theyre kinda expensive, but definetly worth it!

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does a real boyfriend ask you to suck their dik i dont think so because if they really love you they wouldnt ask you no question like that help me please?

that doesnt mean he doesnt love you. guys are just really horny. most guys think about that stuff all the time. just because he wants you to do that doesnt mean he doesnt love or respect you. he just wants you to do something nice for him because it will make him feel good. if it makes you uncomfortable, tell him. you dont have to do anything you dont want to.

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i know how 2 give a hicky but it takes a long time so i was wonderin if there is a way 2 give a hicky faster i dont wanna bite really hard so it would hurt them

no it doesnt take very long. you just suck. dont bite hard. it will hurt. you can just suck for a few minutes and it will give the person a hicky.

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man i love this boy to death im so real n i texted him from my cousin phone n he said he the only reason he kissed me for the first time is bc everybody wanted us to n he will never do it again n i love him oh so much n i dont wana break up wid him but im confused n he confessed bc i just had to ask what should i do well he just texted me so bye

wellll if you guys are going out but he only kissed you because everyone wanted him to.. then you should break up with him. he doesnt really like you hes just giving in to peer pressure. you deserve a guy thats better than that. or he might just be scared of kissing girls and he really might like you. i think you should talk to him about it as yourself-- not as your cousin.

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ok so my boyfriend lives in massachusetts and i live in newyork. mhm, one of those long distance things. we're both 16. well im spending the week at his house in april for spring break. i havent seen him since the summer. and we have never gone past second base. and i want to show him that i do really love him but i DO NOT think i am ready to have sex. so i was thinking of giving him head, but heres the thing. i dont know how? any tips, or advice?

he obviously really loves you if hes been going out with you for this long without seeing you! thats a crazyyy long time (since the summer) to not see your girlfriend! he obviously is really dedicated to you. you dont need to prove anything to him. if you arent ready to give him head, then dont. do only what you're comfortable with. but if you really wanna go through with it.. type 'how to give head' into google.com. good luck girll

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where exactly do i shave my armpits?
like what part of my armpits?
and do i shave it from the top down?
or down up?

shave it from the top down. basically you shave the whole part of your armpit. put lots of soap or shaving cream on.

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is it true that if you masterbate using the bath tub focet its bad for you?

um im pretty sure its okay. as long as you dont get water inside you. then its bad for you because it can cause an infection.

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Can someone please help me, the boy I've liked for over half a year and I lost my virginity to, is now going out with one of my best friends and they are going through a rough patch, someone said to him that I was getting over him - I'm not can someone please tell me what he means? does he want me to be over him?:

Ryan: i herd your geting over me give ya a clap is it true then :)
Ryan: not talking then fine
Madi: sorry I was cleaning my room
Ryan lol
Madi: (:
Ryan: you going to anser ym question
Ryan: guess not lmao
Madi: ryan if i did or didn't why would it make a differnce to you. (:
Ryan: i dunno just someone told me lol


It would be much apprecitated. Thankyou X

hes probably just trying to find out if you still like him. but he doesnt want to make it obvious that he cares about finding out so he stated it that way. maybe hes bored because hes going through a rough patch. obviously hes a dick if hes going out with your best friend after having sex with you.. i would stay away from him. i know its so hard when you like someone that much, but you should probably try to move on. he might end up hurting you more. and he does have a girlfriend.

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i wanted to get back into reading again, its just really hard for me to find a book that keeps me interested enough to want to read the whole thing threw

my absolute favorite book was The Uglies,
so if anyone can give me the name of a few titles thatd be cool

the pact is amazing.
anything by jodi picoult basically.
also i like the summer boys series.
and the clique series.
and the a-list series.
those last three are more girly/fun books. the first are more powerful books.

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can someone give me more of the jokes that are like?

are you a cashier? no... then why are you checking me out?

are you a lightswitch? cause whenever i'm near you i seem to get turned on.

do you work at subway, cause whenever i see you, i get a foot long

and stuff like that!
thanks (:

those are called pick up lines.
i have A TON of those.
i'll give you some.
and also.. type pick up lines into google.

* i have skittles in my mouth.. wanna taste the rainbow?
* did it hurt when you fell from heaven?
* i lost my phone number.. can i have yours?
* are your legs tired? because you've been running through my mind all day
* i just moved you to the top of my 'to do' list
* hold out your hand and say... would you mind holding this for me while i take a walk?
* baby you've got something on your butt.. my eyes
* if i told you that you had a nice body would you hold it against me?
* the word of the day is legs.. lets go back to my house and spread the word
* are you from outer space because your ass is out of this world
* hey baby can i tickle your bellybutton from the inside?
* i'd look good on you
* are you a parking ticket because you have fineeee written all over you
* that outfit is becoming on you.. but if i was on you i would be cumming too

haaaa okay go find more!

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on tonights [friday] new episonde of degrassi the next generation how does Marco get the 300$$ from that dude? like what does he do to him. i would have found out but after i saw that i had to leave to go somehwere so i didnt get to catch the end of it.
thanks

he doesnt get the $$. the guy wanted sex..but marco didnt do it because it was against his values and stuff. and the guy was creepy and old

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m/13

I'm having a problem. i really like bright colors in my cloths and don't mind labels such as Hollister,Abercrombie,ect... except i have been wearing more of ( i hate labels but bare with me) "emo" persuasion of clothing for a long time. How could i keep both styles without being a poser? I have been called every name in the book emo,cutter,goth.... im just ready to add different types of clothing into my wardrobe. any advice on a happy medium? thanks

-Dakota

dont wear too much black. wear only a little. like never wear all black. pair a black shirt with like jeans or something. and you can wear skinny jeans but wear them with like a hollister or abercrombie shirt.

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