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how do i avoid razor burn/red bumps when shaving my vagina? once the bumps started i waited a week almost two weeks to shave again and they were still there for the most part. how do i get them to go completely away and prevent others from appearing?
Well first make sure that you dont have a dull razor, use shaving cream and only shave in one direction, like if you shave down only shave down not sideways or up. That should help =] Hope i helped.
How do you stay confident and throw off nerves during things like interviews and auditions?
ive never actually been able to get rid of my nerves, but just tell youselft that if you good and you dont let your nerves get the best of you then they will like you =] Thats what i usually tell myself and i just kind of forget about being nervous. Hope i helped =]
what are some things to talk about with your crush?
Just get to know each other. talk about facorite movies or music or just things you like to do. And while your talking aobut these things make sure to flirt =] Hope i helped =]
i have a best friend. she is always there for me and i trust her with everything. i often hang out with her alot. She is fun sometimes and a copy cat the next. she is always wanting to get the same things i want and crushes on the same guys i like. i try to be a unique person but, i cant when she gets everything i get. how do i deal with her?
It sounds like she's jealous. I know that it makes you mad but a lot of girls would like other girls to be jealous of them. if she wants to be just like you it means that she likes what you have. tell her that you would like to have your own style and that it kinda bugs you that she tries to be jsut like you.
But tell her nicer than that or it could turn into a fight. Hope i helped =]
How do i get rid of a hickey? If i dont do anything to it, about how long will it take to go away? thanks.
i get hickeys really easy && my boyfriends says that if you put toothpaste on it for 10 mins then take it off and apply it again that it makes it go away but when i tried it, it didnt work and i felt like an idiot for putting toothpaste on my neck ha. So i put ice on it alot and then when it started to go away i put heat on it and rubbed it with my fingers. this makes the blood go down. If you dont do anything it could last for a few days or go as long as a few weeks it just depends on the person. Hope i helped =]
my boyfriend just broke up with me because he didn't want relationship stress but told me he wanted to be my best friend but it would take some time obviously for me to get over him. my prom is in 2 weeks and i have this friend that doesn't have a date. he's a really fun guy and id have fun with him but im worried ill ruin his night because i won't stop thinking about my ex boyfriend during slow songs and stuff. my ex boyfriend said he would still go with me and i still hope for that small chance he'll fall for me again and realize he made a mistake of breaking up with me...who do you think i should bring?
Well if you want your ex back i say go with him. Do something really fun on your date and show him what he is going to miss. Just have a fun time. Dont act sad because your not with him be happy and guarenteed he will probably regret breaking up with you. Tell your guy friend that your still not over your ex and you would feel bad because you would want him to have fun at prom and you would probably be a little sad. He will understand. hope i helped =]
17/f - myself
17/m - my boyfriend
My boyfriend believes he is in love with me. He thinks I have changed his life and he would never be the same without me. He has a history of depression. Before we break up (probably in a few months) I would like to show him we can both benefit from having been in a relationship and that when it ends, it doesn't have to be devastating. Is it possible to change his view on the situation?
Talk to him about it, tell him how you guys are still young and you need to have fun. And after you guys decide that you want to settle down, then you could consider dating again. but if your thinking about breaking up with now, dont make him wait a few months because he is going to be able to tell that your feelings have changed, but thats just my opinion. But talk to him and hopefully he will feel the same way. Its going to be hard for both of you but it will be ok =D Hope i helped & good luck! =]
Hello. I am a 16 year old male. I have been in a realationship with my girlfriend for almost a year on and off. She has cheated on me at least twice. I love her but i just dont think i can ever forget those times she cheated on me. Meanwhile, there is this other girl that i like. We dated a while back but it didnt work out, but i really think it might be able to now. We have gotten in a few fights but we always remained friends. So thats my story. Any advice on which way i should go?
Well if your still with her and she has cheated on you twice, that tells you that you really care about her. Most people cant ever forget when someone who you love has treated you like that, yet we still go back to them.
If you and this other girl are friends but you fight?? That cant be good either. I mean this is my opinion but if your just friends and you like her whats there to fight about?? But if you think it would work then go for it.
I say if your ready to move on you find someone who you like that has really always been there for you. Not your current girlfriend or the one that you like but fight with. but its completly up to you.
But if you are honestly in love with you current girlfriend and think that she might change that is completly understandable too. It just all depends on how you feel. Your kind of in a hard place right now. Right now its just all up to you and your feelings, no one can tell you wrong or right.
Hope i helped and if you need anything else feel free to go to my column and ask me =]
i know how to give hickeys, i think they're pretty fun. the thing is that i want to give my boyfriend one, but then we're still in school. the reason why it's stopping me, it's because we have the same teachers and they all know we're going out. because we seem to have a safe relationship around school, because you know the rules.. no PDA-ing. but the question is, even if i don't give hickeys or just start kissing his neck.. how can i make it seem pleasurable for him? whenever i kiss or suck on his neck... he seems ticklish. is there a way where i can change that into something pleasurable? thanks (:
i slowly kiss all the way up my boyfriends neck, then i slowly breathe back down it, then i kiss back up and bite the tip of his ear softly. He really likes it so you could try that. Hope i helped =]
my boyfriend of 3 years moved away upstate (2 hours away).. now everytime we talk textmessaging wise or on aim, we ALWAYS FIGHT about the stupidest shit too. i dont understand why.. is it a sign to move on? like wtf i need help here ahha.
Well im going to tell you now, my experience with long distance relationships never worked. But yours could be different =]
Your most likely fighting becase he moved and you both miss each other. Its common.
Talk to him tell him how you feel. and ask him if he thinks that you two will work with him being 2 hours away and all.
Just watch your self so you dont get hurt.
Hope i helped =]
i'm not sure what it is, but they're like little red bumps or "pimples" around my pubic area, after i shave. they hurt when i press on them, or touch them. should i just leave it alone and let it heal itself? or should i just do something about it?
These bumps are very normal. Your skin is really sensitive down there and it gets irritated easily. I use shaving cream and just do it slower so it doesnt get so irritated and then rinse the shaving cream off right after or that could irritate it too! Hope i helped =]
Ok so i am a 16 year old male. I like this girl A LOT! We were together for awhile, but we were in different schools and it was just to hard. We are in the same school now and i get to see her a lot. She is in a very bad relationship. Her boyfriend has cheated on her i dont know how many times. I have tried many times to get her to leave him, and come back to me. haha. I have tried everything I can think of, and i still have not been successful. Can you give me some hints or something to do to get her attention? Much appreciated!
Well if she is still with him, it most likely means that she still has feelings for him, or is attached to him in some way.
When she wants to leave him she will, so dont push her. Just be there for her when she needs you.
And your going to have to realize that if her and her boyfriend break up that its most likely going to take her a while to get over him, so just comfort her and help her through it. And hopefully when she is over him she will go for you! Good luck! and hope i helped =]
If you need any more advice feel free to go to my column and ask! =D
I hope you can help me with my problem. I am a young mother and have a good husband, but my family does not like him and thinks we are stupid when it comes to my child. They keep butting in and trying to tell me how to raise my daughter and constanatly tell me what I am doing wrong. What should I do????
Thats weird my mom had the same problem when i was little.
Well tell your mom that she had to choice on how to raise you, and its none of her business on how you want to raise your child. Hopefully she understands and will back off.
Ask her if her mom ever told her how to raise her child and i bet it bugged her too.
Hope i helped and if you need anymore advice feel free to message me again =]
Good Luck!
I'm 21 years old, female, and hovering between 240 and 250 lbs. Size 16, if that helps... so it sits pretty okay on me, but I'm not happy with it.
I was always really fit in high school, always around 180 lbs of pure muscle (I actually hold a black belt in karate), and even after starting university I managed to avoid the freshman 15. However, I went through a very stressful time in my life, and ended up gaining about 70 lbs over the course of 2 years. In the past couple of summers, I have managed to lose 30 or 40 lbs with relative ease, but as soon as I'm back at home, I gain it all back.
This summer, I'm living in my own house, and my husband will be gone for 4 months (he's with the military). I'm thinking that this is a good time to really tackle my weight before it tackles me.
First off, I already do not eat junk food. My problem is too much healthy food if anything. I don't eat fried food and rarely eat sweets. My sweets, when I do eat them, are generally something like a slice of homemade banana bread, or a small piece of dark chocolate. I try to control my portions, but always end up hungry again. I drink nothing but water and the occasional diet, caffeine free soda. I get out for walks regularly, and ride a bicycle to and from work. I've just started up with seeing a trainer a few times a week, but that will only last about a month due to financial constraints. I have a gym membership, too.
The way I see it, I need to lose between 80 and 100 lbs. I'm not planning to do it in one summer, but I figure that while I am bored I will be able to take a good crack at it and get a start.
Any tips on how to lose it and keep it off? I feel like I'm doing the right things, but it never seems to work. It's like my metabolism is stuck.
Also, if anyone out there needs to lose a similar amount of weight, I would love to have a weight loss buddy. All my friends are in the 120-150 range, so they don't really have the same sort of weight loss goals as me.
First off dont do anything to harm your health like dieting pills or going anorexic or bulimic.
it sounds like your eating really well, try eating 5-6 small meals a day. if you get hungry you can chew sugar free gum, or eat something small and healthy like soy nuts, they are a great snack and pretty filling.
You could also talk to your doctor to see if you actually have a physical problem with your metabolism, he could also help you.
Try doing cardio exercises, running a lot, and keep a lot of water in your diet.
When your exersicing start of with running for about 20-30 minns at a fast pace and then slowing down and lifting weights or something.
Hope i helped =]
so, I have this plain yellow t-shirt, and the thing is that it's slightly see through, so on the back you can see my bra.
I was just wondering whether I should wear a white or a yellow bra underneath it? I don't own a nude one...
So yes, which would be better?
Sorry for the weird question.
Ok well you could have a yellow bra, but you could also put a colored cami under it. Like a white one if you just want to be cute, but if you wanna get a little spunky haha put a bright color under it and then pull it down a little bit to hang out of your t. it will look really cute! Hope i helped =]
OK so me and my ex girlfriend broke up because she was crushin on another guy.....and i loved my choice on brakin up with her but i just i cant move on i just cant and each time i get a text message from her my heart jumps for joy and i loved er so much and she tells me she loves me everyday what should i do????
Tell her how you feel. Most guys dont express their feelings and that bugs girls. If she still texts you and tells you she loves you everyday then im pretty sure she still has feelings for you. Ask her how she honestly feels about you. The reason she might have moved on is because when you date someone for a while you forget to flirt. and when a new guy comes a long and flirts with her it made her feel good, so try flirting with her again. Hope i helped & good Luck! =]
Okay, so my boyfriend and my 2-year anniversary is coming up. I am getting him a dc sweater. I think I might be writing some poetry about him too. I am not sure what to get him as he says he wants nothing for the 2 yr or he says he just wants me but I really want to get him something.
About him:
- He doesn't like chocolate
- He can't wear cheap gold/silver b/c it bugs his skin
- He has all of the cds of the bands he likes.
- Can’t do a scrapbook because he hates pictures and I don't have enough for a scrapbook.
- I’ve already bought him movies, clothes, etc.,
I will rate every response and thank you soooo much for your help!
Im not sure how much your looking to spend, but a promise ring would show him that you really care, especially if you wrote a poem to go with it. It doesnt have to be super expensive real silver or tungston can start at $40 and go up. im just not sure you want to spend that much. Hope i helped =]
how do make my girlfriend feel special
Tell her how you really feel.
look her in the eyes and tell her shes the only one.
Buy he flowers for no reason,
Dont look at other girls,
dont talk to alot of girls,
make her feel like the only one.
Trust her.
When your hanging out DO NOT look at other girls.
DONT TEXT other girls while your with her.
Dont talk about your ex's.
Spend as much time with her as you can.
When shes having a bad day, cheer her up.
Dont tell her what to do.
Dont fight over stupid things.
Just tell her how you honestly feel about her. Hope i helped =]
ok so im not exactly tall. I'm 16 and some 8th graders are taller then me :/ but then again they are really tall for their age.
erm so like what can i do to appear taller?
i know that i should have a good posture, but i mean how can i DRESS to appear tall? i already wear skinny jeans. my weight is normal, i dont have any fat dangling or anything like that :P
I know your delema im short too haha
I wear dark skinny jeans, and stripes it makes you appear to be quite a bit taller.
And wear light jeans and dark shirts the skinnier you look the taller you look (dark colors make you look smaller)
Hope helped =]
Ive been on the bc pills since april 9th
on aprill 11th i had sex..
can i still get pregnant?
I dont know if i am.. but what happens if you take bc pills while pregnant?
Well most physicians say that for birth control to work effectively you have to be on it for atleast a week. Since you were on it for only 2 days there is a possiblity that you could be pregnant. Well it depends on what type of pill your on. Talk to your Gyno/physi and just ask them. Thats what they are there for. Hope i helped =]