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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

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I am not a virigin, but for some reason I have bled a couple of times when my boyfriend and I messed around (fingering). It usually hurts when he first starts but then its fine.. but I just feel sore afterwards and bleed a little bit sometimes. Is this bad or normal?

It`s normal, it will hurt and bleed for the first few times. He might also being too rough so make sure he`s not. ♥

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hey everyone well i wuz wondering on the internet, how do u get the history back? like i'll delete it... but its still on the hard drive!! but i don't know how to do get it back!! so someone pleese help me!!! k thnx

*nikita*

I really don`t think you can get it back. Maybe try googleing how to get it back? ♥

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okay . i have been in love with this one kid since the beggining of 7th grade and i am now going into 9th grade . we`ve gone out a few times before and then we broke up each time before a week . and last summer we loved eachother and were going to go out with eachother and we hung out every single day . the most i`ve done with him is makeout. and recently we`ve been hanging out with eachother and my 3 other best friends. but i reaslly do love him and he likes me he told me that but sometimes he doesn`t act like he likes me hes kinda rude sometimes but then he`ll tell me that he loves me. i dont waht to do. please help♥i`m in love with this kid

Put it in this way he`s a guy lol. Guys like to be rude and mean to a girl if they like them and it`s a flirting way for them haha. But anyways, try telling him you really do like him and be honest. He will mature sooner or later. ♥

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what does 69 mean?

It`s a sex position, if you look at the circles in each number think of it as a person`s head. The head is giving oral to the other person. Either laying one on top of eachother or laying down bodies facing eachother lol. Hope that made sense. :D ♥

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the guy i like likes my best friend who knows i like the guy HELP!!!

She can`t help that he likes her. If she respects you enough she won`t go out with him. If she turns him down he will get the point she doesn`t like him. ♥

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whats the name of the song on "the simple life" the one that goes "miss hilton you must be worth a trillion bucks. get the feeling that you dont really give a F***." and who sings it?

Ms. Hilton By: The Penfifteen Club =] ♥

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I'm f/14.. and I really like my best guy friend.. and i have for about a year now. I've told him how I felt a few times and he doesnt like me more than a friend and I'm okay with that because I'm just glad he doesn't hate me for telling him. But so confused because he leads girls on.. alot. So whenever I hang out with him i refuse to let him touch me just so i dont get hurt anymore. but i dont know how to get over him.. do you have any adivce for my situation?

He might be the kind of guy who want`s just a friends with benefits relationship. Tell him you don`t want to do things that you don`t want to do. If he doesn`t listen tell him you don`t want to be friends anymore. The only way you can get over him is really start hanging out with your friends more than him, and dating if you want too. ♥

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my armpit's been hurting my mom says its caus I slept wrong
HELP!!!!!

I`m not really sure what your asking. But anyways, you probally did sleep on it wrong. It should go away after a couple of days, try massaging it? lol ♥

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during sex, a guy knows when he is about to cum.. but how does a girl know when she is about to? me and my boyfriend have sex, and he tells me when hes getting ready to, and he'll ask me if i'm about to.. and im like no??... i dont know when it comes!

Guys pretty much cum when they reach thier orgasm. Same happens for a girl. Sometimes the girl and guy orgasm at the same time. Maybe you have`t reached your orgasm yet and that`s why you haven`t. Some girls don`t reach their first orgasm during the first few times they have sex. ♥

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PLEASE READ. i was with a guy for 3 and a half years, we've been broken up for six months and i miss him terribly... we both decided it was over... with that conversation we said alot of things we didnt mean, well i didnt mean them and later on he told me he didnt mean the things he said... at first it seem'd like he hated me, we stopped talking but i found him on myspace and wrote him a long email about how much i missed him and how it wasnt over and he replied... 'stop and quit' so i did, i was going to give up and then one day he instant messaged me and we started talking again... in the relationship i was so happy but sometimes i wasnt but thinking back now it seems like im nothing without him... he still gets jealous over little things, hes had two girlfriends that lasted 3 days each and i havent had a boyfriend since him... should i tell him i miss him or should i just move on? im so confused... i find myself staring at his myspace everyday to see if his status has changed... pathetic i know but love makes you do crazy things... please help.. i love giving people advice but i dont know what to do with my own problems... : [

I think you shouldn`t throw away a 3 1/2 yr. relationship. You both obviously care about eachother. He is trying to move on by dating && you should try it too. If he is willing to be your friend still, be friends for awhile. You never know what will happen in the future, if your friends long enough something might happen again. Don`t tell him you miss him right away just wait, maybe he will tell you first. Hope things work out. ♥

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Okay. So In september Im going to go see Kenny Chesney in Concert!! Which Im super excited Ive seen him 3 other times and this time im going with my boyfriend! WHICH ive always wanted. Someone that enjoys country music as much as I do. Im starting to go tanning as much as possible again since i just got a new job. but I know i want to wear somethin EXTRA cute. i think like the whole dress with cowboy boots thing is cute. but a dress for a concert? ehh. & i want it to be girly not a plaid shirt with jeans and boots. cuz its still gonna be hotter. I know ill get my hair and makeup done and i want the look to come together completely. Any Ideas?

THANNKS!

I just went to the Rascal Flatts concert last night and I saw alot of cute outfits (wish i dressed up lol) anyways, I saw some girls with boots, light colored shorts, white tank under a redish/orange button up shirt, and then they wore their hair in low pigtails and wore some little cowboy hats. You could wear a tank top and shorts or skirt with boots. If you wear a dress you might not be as comfortable depending on wear your sitting. Have fun, hope this helps. =] ♥

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I have this stomach ache in my lower left side of my stomach. It hurt soo bad that i can't move. Its like a cramp but 10 times worse! What should i do?

Sounds like your pancreas. If you have these symptoms than you might have Acute Pancreatitis: swollen and tender abdomen, nausea, vomiting, fever, & rapid pulse. Go to the doctors as soon as you can. Hope you feel better. ♥

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dow do you stop getting and stop fingering? i seriously hate it and i HATE the smell afterwards. without taking any pills does anyone know how to stop it? thanks.

Your body natural and normal gives off a smell. There are things like feminine "deodorant" you can get at like walmart and it`s by the deodorant section i think. I know it`s for you private area but I`ve only seen a commercial for it so i don`t know how it works or if it`s used for that. If you are fingering alot or someone doing it to you, simply tell yourself and someone no. Hope this helps. ♥

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my boyfriend and i have known eachother for a year but we have only been dating for 4 months...we liked eachother longer than that but its a long story but anyways, almsot every girl i know likes him and i get really jealous which starts fights because i am so scared he is going to leave me, but i dont know how to stop being so jealous..i love him and he says he loves me but i feel like one day he is going to realize he can do better and i will be left by myself. i also have really bad trust issues because while i was at the beach about a month ago he went over to his ex's house and he said they didnt do anything but after i asked him if he went he lied and said he didnt which makes me wonder if he lies about other stuff so i just dont know when i can trust him, i have started trusting him morebut its just really hard whenso many girls like him...so how can i start trusting him and get over my jealousy?

If he really likes you then he should have control on other girls and won`t leave you. I think it`s rude how he went to his ex's without telling you especially when you were gone. Everyone has a little jealousy in every relationship. Talk to him about it, tell him how you feel. And whatever he says - go from there. I`m a jealous person, i tend to keep it too myself alot but then i just builds up quickly and then comes out at the wrong time. Hope things work out. ♥

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ok well my friend jason invited me to his party. i already told him YES!
but now i dont want to go. should i cancel on him?? what should i say??

I think you really should go, because he was planning on you coming. But just tell him your parents said no or you forgot you had plans already. ♥

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I have a question about banana boat-the dark tanning oil.

What does it do? How often should I apply it?


And do you know if there is any lotion, cream, or spray, etc. That turns your sunburn into a tan?

There should be directions for it. I googled it and I found a website that should help..

http://www.drugstore.com/qxp54576_333181_sespider/banana_boat/protective_tanning_oil_sunscreen_spray_spf_15.htm

Usually a sunburn will turn into a tan, after a couple of days. I don`t know any lotions, creams, or sprays to help it, sorry. ♥

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My boyfriend and I were having sex. The condom wasn't lubricated and it was pretty dry. I just went to the bathroom and I was bleeding a little and it hurts. I think I've gotten like, a condom burn or it cut me or something. Is it anything to worry about? Will it heal? Or will it make me anymore lose?

ppplease help!!

It could have irritated you. If it doesn't heal then go to a gyno. Try taking maybe a bath so it will heal faster and clean it. You will only get looser if you have sex alot. ♥

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I recently just went through some second-degree burn trauma on Sunday. I was supposed to get my period on Monday. It is now Wednesday evening and I still have not gotten my period. I am guessing that all the stress from my injury has delayed it but I am showing no signs of getting it. I've never had sex so I'm not worried about a pregnancy but it just seems odd that its been delayed this long already. Any ideas?

Yes your period can get delayed for awhile because you are under alot of stress and thinking about getting your period too. Try to relax and not think about getting your period. Sometimes you may skip a month or so of your period. It should come soon. ♥

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and embarrasing..
but...
i havent gotten horny for like..
two years..
does anyone know why?
14/f.
its starting to scare me..
and me and my bf want to have sex
but yeah..
please help.

It`s normal to be like that, you`re probally really overwhelmed about having a boyfriend. There are other things to do than have sex. Like oral and handjobs and fingering. I think you are too young to be having sex. ♥

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*Okay.. my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a year.. We get along pretty good for the most part,but we do have our arguments.. Well he is always with his friends and we all usually hang out.. The things is, He doesnt like any of my friends and he has no reason to not like them. I have i have about four close friends and his reasons for not liking them are they're whores, they're bitches or he doesnt like the people her boyfriends hang out with. i never have a problem with his friends and i try and get along when them all. Everytime i'm with my friends he's always questioning me.. like what did i do.. who did i see.. who did i talk too.. did anyone hit on me.. he even asks these questions if we only went the mall for a breif second and my sister was with us! He's always checking my phone and asking me what whos numbers are in their if they arent stored in my phone book, when i tell him an answer he doesnt always believe me.. errr it makes me soo mad.. idk what to do.. why is he acting like this and why is it okay for him to do something and not me?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!!!!!!?????????? (Sorry it's so long, but i im so sick of this CRAP!=) )

He obviously doesn't trust you. He's jealous too and trying to make sure you would never cheat on him or anything like that. If he continues acting like that tell him to stop because you care about him and you would never do anything to hurt him. When he said your friends are whore or bitches he probally thinks they cheat on their boyfriends, ect. He could think you might be like that. I'm not saying they are like that, but he`s a jerk for thinking like that. If anything bothers you then tell him. You care about eachother then you should be completely honest with eachother. Hope things work out. ♥

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