i want to give my boyfriend head.
im just not exactly sure what he likes.
you are supposed to put a lot of tounge rite?
and kind of pull the skin with it?
any tips you can give me?
im a little nervous but i heard it comes naturally..is this true?!
thanks!
First of all, don't use your teath. That's painful and uncomfortable. Second, the more suction the better. The way of getting the most suction is to put it as far into your mouth as possible, suck, then slowly pull away. If you need anymore ideas, go to:
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/
Also, make sure you really want to do this. If there's even a slight fear or doubt in your mind, you should probably wait. Your boyfriend isn't about to leave you, so it doesn't matter how long it takes. Becides, if he were about to leave you, why give him head?
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Me and my bf of 11 months have talked for a long time about sex. I'm 17 and he's 18. I'm still a virgin and he's not. I was all for it cause I know that I love him and I want for him to be my first. But when the time came I chickened out. He was really patient about it and told me not to worry about it that it will happen when it happens. I don't know what to do. I know that its something that I want to do I just can't help but let my nerves get the best of me. Plz help!
Having sex is a huge decision. it's good you are taking it seriously. Your "nerves" are telling you something important; you aren't ready for intercourse yet. It is obvious you love your boyfriend and he definately loves you back. It's okay to wait. He's not going anywhere, so you have all the time in the world (and if he were, why sleep with him?). It's a good idea to wait.
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does anyone know those funny e-mails that you can e-mail to people? my mom gets them from her friends. any websites
www.forwardgarden.com
It has a large collection of e-mails you can forward to your friends.
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Ok, well this summer me adn my cousin went down the beach as usual and got guys haha. i am 16 adn she is 17, most guys like us but a few thought we were younger then we are. So what im wondering is, what are some things i can do/change to make me look older. I think i look pretty normal, i dont have braces or anything awkward like that anymore, i have strait brown hair that lands like mid chest area adn is cut in layers. i am like 5'8, and 112 pounds. I dont have anything that i think would make me look young, but any suggestions of things that make you look older would be great, even makeup tips, or hair tips
You shouldn't worry about looking older. The only way of doing that is to dress revealing or wear too much makeup, ideas which would not be smart to see through. Walk with confidence instead.
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Hey everyone,
I am a very loud and outgoing person- but I know how to control myself. I have a big group of friends, but out of them I have...or had, two best friends. We were at homecoming pep rally bonfire at my high school tonight, and I noticed my friend Colleen had been ignoring me. She gets really sensitive over EVERYTHING, and always calls me to just say what all my flaws and imperfections are. She tries to make me jealous with all my other friends, and it hasn't really bothered me too much up until tonight. It started when I was watching a frisbee game- and behind me I heard someone say "Have you heard, someone said that Ryan(kid who is going to homecoming with her), doesnt really want to go with Colleen.". So- I went to my group of friends (Colleen wasnt there yet), and I told Ryan's cousin. I had her call him, and just clear everything up. We all agreed not to tell Colleen- because everything was all cleared up now, and we didnt want her to have another immature temper tantrum. So of course, this girl , Tanya, goes and tells Colleen about our conversation even though we all swore to secrecy. So Colleen and Tanya both gang up on me and the rest of my friends (those 2 against maybe us 8), and at this time we didnt really think she was mad at us. So we were listening to the bands play, and my friend Emily was trying to call over Colleen to show her something - and Colleen doesnt answer so I said "Colleeeeeeeeeen!" a little louder than Emily and all of a sudden she starts bawling her eyes out... and screams "CAMILLE I HATE YOU SHUT THE #%$#%(not a good word...lol) UP"!. None of my friends expected it besides tanya, because right before I yelled to Colleen she wispered in Colleens ear and took a walk around the track with her trashing me. So no one knows why, and whatever. Sorry this is really long, but I am on the verge of locking myself in a shed and drinking endless bottles of snapple. What do I do- and this has happened before, because tanya likes to medle, and colleen is super sensitive.
help=[. everyone is getting sick of this and its really annoying.
Some consideration of your friend's feelings is extremely important in this situation. She isn't being "immature". It's reasonable that she got upset about Ryan not wanting to be with her. That's hurtful and insulting. While you didn't do anything wrong per se, you weren't helping. It would be nice if you did. She's your friend. She doesn't need you to calling her oversensative or judging her. Try having a little compassion.
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im 15/m
theres some girl i realy like i have her in two of my classes but we dont talk, so can i like start talking to her?
Go for it!
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im 15/m
ok i got this realy good best freind i like her alot as a best freind but the thing is i dont want to have a bestfreind no more i dont understand why i just dont, so what a good way of telling her that i dont want to her as a best freind no more but just like a realy good friend? without hurting her feelings
There is no way you can tell her without hurting her. Becides, it doesn't sound to me as if you don't like being her best friend, it sounds to me like you are afraid of being that close to someone. You obviously have trust issues, which is fine since not all people are trustworthy. However, your friend sounds like she is. Don't mess up a good thing out of fear of it getting messed up.
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I am a girl/13years. I'm thinking of getting a new hair cut. I have brown skin and eyes. My hair color is dark brown. So like what kind of harcuts I should get. My hair right now is like 2 inches below my chest and it is long layered. So any ideas. I don't want to cut it short so like maybe an oval shape in the back instead of it straight? Sidebangs or regular bangs? Any ideas or pictures? Oh and if this helpes any I have more of an oval shaped face. Thanks!
It sounds to me like you already have an image in your mind of what you want. That's great! Now, don't be afraid to actually get the haircut; change can be fantastic!
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Ok soo I really want to get some muscels and kinda loose weight around my thieghs... I wouldn't esactly call them to big maybe a little over normal... but I really need to be a bit stornger and get some muscels so I can be better at karate! Please help... I have a little sorta gym ,but what should I use to get stornger
There are several ways you can build up muscles. Search the internet for workouts you can do at home, or take up another sport to make you stronger, ie gymnastics, running, or rowing. As long keep challenging yourself, you'll build up more muscle.
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I want to make an 'anything site' you know, like add quotes, codes, etc.
like this for example:
http://www.preciouscreationz.cjb.net/
I tried that but it's too complicated.
so maybe something simple for me to start off with by adding links, pictures and such?
and if you can, give me an example?
Any sites in mind?
Not MySpace please.
Thank you!
If you don't mind sharing a domain name, piczo is an excellent place to start a website. It's simple and easy, as well as fun.
www.piczo.com
Check it out!
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I have A.P Euro, and for the first marking period, there's a large chance I will get a C on my report card for that class. Will it affect my GPA DRAMATICALLY? I have a 3.8999 etc.
I'm a sophomore and really worried. lol
It will effect your GPA, but don't worry about it. You obviously work hard, and chances are you can raise your grade. Talk to your teacher and ask if there is anyone you can do to boost your mark, ie. extra credit assignments.
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hey so i got my period like 3 months ago once and i havent gotten it since...
is it normal? cause i know its supposed to be irregular the first few times but is it supposed to be this much??
It's completely normal. There are people who get it once and then don't get it again for up to a year later. Don't worry about it; your body is just figuring stuff out.
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I'm in the 10th grade - My chemistry teacher is a flipping moron. He doesn't explain anything, he SAYS he's not going to explain anything, and all he ever talks about it getting a raise. And while this is going on, I have a f****** 1.5 average in his class because I can't understand CRAP. I have tried to read the book by myself, but I don't understand it. I need clarification from a teacher, you know? So now I'm stuck. I have straight A's in ALL of my classes except this one. And I don't know what to do. We have counselors at my school. But I'm not too sure if parents are allowed to talk about grades or anything. Any suggestions on this situation? :( I don't know what to do.
Pick up your act. There is no way someone with straight A's should have a 1.5 average on anything. You obviously know how to work hard, and there is no reason for you not to be at the top of your class. Get a toutor and start paying mnore attention in class. If you have a poor teacher, it's your responsibility to try even harder.
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I'm 19/F, in my third year of university.
I'm starting to really worry. It's about the third week of classes, and I haven't attended nearly enough of them, due to my financial situation (I can't afford to take the bus every day, and the free bus pass I'm supposed to get from the school hasn't arrived yet).
I'm way behind in my studies. I actually ended up skipping class yesterday and missing two labs (both mandatory) due to stress-caused illness. I don't know if I'll be able to get a doctor's note for it.
I've got a bunch of late assignments that I have to do, but it's nearly impossible to do them, because I don't understand any of the course material.
I'm starting to get really worried about all of this. I'm not in a financial position to be in school right now, but I don't have much of an option because my program might be cancelled after this run of it. I have 30 hours of class a week, and a 45 minute long commute to and from school, so I can't get a part-time job.
Any tips on how to deal with being absolutely overwhelmed by everything?
You need a therapist. Your academic life is falling to pieces, and you are not taking any responsibility for it. Stop making excuses, and face reality; there is something bothering you. You should seek professional help so you can learn to deal with whatever it is.
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i'v asked a question called does he like me? Well this is somewhat like it execpt it's just about one guy. Lets call him #2, I really like him ALOT! But we hardly talks. People say he looks at me sumtimes. We've talked a few times. Not alot. And i alway start the conv make the move but he does respond to it. After everyday i hugg him and he's like bye ashley see you tom. I'm like okaii bye. But he talks to every other gurl but me .. Do you know why? i try to approach him but i get a little shy. He's quite shy around me and i don't know why. I want him to ask me out but he hasn't talked to me about the dance soo i geuss he has another girl in his mind. We talk a bit but thats it. Like he kinda teases me once in awhile. When i say hi he does blush and the thing is everyone says he likes me and i'm really like umm comanding and when i command him to do something he does it! In this lazy blushy kind of way. Soo... is their something their?
does he like me at all? Why does he talk to every gurl but me? SHould i talk to him more?
He definately likes you, and you know it. It's time to put your fears aside and let him know how you feel. Tell him you like him and would love it if he would be your date to the dance. Chances are he doesn't have another girl in mind, he's just too shy to ask you.
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I have had like little makeouts haha but not like full on toungue action wow! you know. But i have had like little french kisses if you get what I am saying. Anyways I have never like madeout a lot..and I am worried I will suck and be named "bad kisser" when I actually do. Ive never been told I was great, but no one ever like said I was bad or anything. How do I know? And if I do kiss someone and I suck, will they like go around telling the world and embarass me? Please dont say theres no such thing as bad kisser and everyone is different, because a lot of my friends are always like, wow that guy sucks at kissing haha. Thanks! by the way im 14
Yes, there is such a thing as a "bad kisser", but there is also such a thing as respect. Anyone who would tell their friends you are a "bad kisser" is not someone you should be kissing in the first place. You shouldn't be makeout with anoyne who would judge you that way. You deserve to be appreciated and valued, not gossiped about. My advice would be to be more selective about the guys you kiss.
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I feel like being who i am comes off as a poser? like i moved to florida in 6th grade and came back like two years later to the same people and had found that i looked like the apparent "emo". Now what gets me mad the most is how everyone thinks they know what there talking about. I have listened to my freinds bitch many times and only now have i realized they need to get over it! They have average famileies living in a average suburb and making them seem emotionally disturbed just makes them stand out! if people have a problem with me likeing black coths and bizzare things then they can go fuck off! Now im not gonna be all like im soooo emo and punk casue im not. Nor do i ever want to be. I fell like if you try to be differnt then you get automatic lables thrown in your face and poser labled on your forhead. I dont know how to deal with all this stress!
The reason your attempt to be "different" isn't working is because you aren't being different. Wearing "black clothes" and "bizarre things" is nothing new. Many kids wear dark clothing and unusual accessories to look unique, but it doesn't set them a part. It puts them in a category. They are then labeled "posers"; people who try to be somthing they are not. This is because they try to be unique, but but they aren't unique since many other people trying to do the exact same thing as them. It's understandable that you are upset that other people are judging you, though. No one can tell you how to dress; it's your own personal decision. However, it would probably be best if you stopped focusing on your image being "different" and thought instead about what sets you apart as a person.
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A lot of places I go, I turn heads, get asked for my number, and have a lot of guys talk to me or something. I am not trying to sounds conceided at all. But at school, it seems like nobody really does that. Im a cheerleader for my school, and I thought that would help me with the guys, just because I would be around them a lot more, but it hasn't really. There are a few guys that like me at school, but for some reason it is different. I feel uglier at school than anywhere else, and it seems like that is the truth. I am also told I look like 3 years older then I actually am a lot and am told things like wow your hot and so forth, but never at school so much when I meet new people. I dress and act the same everywhere I go, so why do I get so much attention everywhere but school? I am not an attention freak or anything haha I just am really confused why it is like this. Sorry this is long!!
You're situation, alothogh frusterating, certaintly isn't unique. Most people I know, guys and girls alike, are complemented far more often outside of school than in it. It has nothing to do with you or the way you look. It has to do with the insecurities of the other kids and the fact that they aren't going to say they find you attractive even if they do, because they are worried about what other people will think of them. It's obvious that you are pretty, and it's obvious to me that you are aware of it. Just don't let anyone tell you any different, because they don't mean it anyway.
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ok i absolutely dread these things i hate them i ahev them all on nose and i try to get rid of them i wash my face every day i use facial masks every once in a while does anyone know anything i could do or get to get rid of them
First of all, Blackheads aren't actually that big of deal. Most people have them. Actually, the people who have the most obvious skin problems are generally the people who don't even worry about it. You know why? Because believe it or not, no one cares if you have acne. It doesn't take away from how your face looks and it eventually settels down. If you are really desperate, I'd say the way to getting read of acne is to see a dermatologist. However, in my opinion, you should just calm down and focus on something more important thant the way your nose looks.
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