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Hi, I'm Jacky.
My life has been rough, because of me.
It got better, until I did stupid things, and now I feel like there's nothing else I can do to make it better, I just mess up more and more. The more I mess up, the more I look like a dumb ass.
First, I have a friend over and I sneak two guys downstairs at 11 at night, and my dad's caught us.
So, my dad and mom have absolutely no trust in me, what so ever. I actually think my family hates me, because I don't listen, and I do things I'm not supposed. I've been doing that, for the past years. Plus they found out I tried pot and I'm sexually active. So that's a huge minus. I get in huge fights with my parents, mostly with my dad. I feel like I just failed my family, honestly. I don't know how to talk or act around them anymore. I just feel uncomfortable and awkward.
And then, I reported this kid for selling drugs, which he sold them to me, and I told a teacher at school about it, and she ended up telling the principal on me, I thought I could trust her. Then I had to rat him out because of what I told my teacher, then I have to go to all this court shit and be a witness, which I don't really want to be. I wish this would've never happened, this kid is going to have a fucked up life with my involvement. What the fuck is wrong with me. It's all my fault. And I can't take it back. But that's my fault.
And 3rd, I cheated on my boyfriend with another guy. I couldn't stand my boyfriend, he's attracted to assholes, shit, and farts. And I'm being honest. He hits me. He's just a jackass. But he knows how to cover himself to make people believe him. But honestly, he was a huge part of my life. And now that's gone. But now I'm with the other guy, who hardly calls me, he says he thinks it's best because he doesn't want us to get too attached and end up being bored with each other. Now, I love talking on the phone, and really like him, but I don't know. I just think there's something wrong with me. I honestly think I'm hated by a lot of people. I do not know what to do with my life anymore. I'm really scared and stuck. I've cheated and lied before. And I've just been a bad person lately.
I wish I could've handled things differently. But, I didn't. I have no idea what to do. I feel like I've fucked up my life. I think a lot of people hate me too. But that's besides the point.
Please anybody, give me advice. I don't know how to start know, I have no idea what to do with myself anymore.
Thank you. (link)
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This is a really huge problem. You need to tackle things bit by bit, apologize to people you've hurt. It'll be very difficult, and I know you probably feel everything from now on is impossible, but it's not. You need to regain everyone's trust, perhaps spend time with your parents, become close to them and stick to what they say, so they feel they can trust you. And as for people hating you, well, once you have sorted out your problems, apologized to everyone you have hurt, then they have no reason to! As for your ex-boyfriend, as someone that hits you, you clearly deserve better, no matter what you've done. I'd say go single for a while, just until you've sorted everything. Don't try and solve it all at once, do it slowly, piece by piece, and although it will be difficult, I know you can do it! Believe in yourself, and I promise you everything will go well =)
Most of all, don't forget to smile!
Everything will be okay =)
Good luck! I wish you well!
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well, i might be bisexual. i had a girl friend that i really liked but then i broke up with her because she wouldnt let me so things to her like finger her. but im not really attracted to anyother girls. am i bisexual or wat? i like guys but i love seeing naked chiks. so idk.. pls help & also should i come out? how do i tell my mom???! (link)
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You may be bisexual, gay or straight, but you have nothing to worry about. Theres nothing wrong with being gay/bi, so don't feel worried. You go through a confused phase, and I know this from personal experience. I now now I'm straight, but for a while I thought I liked girls. You will eventually realise that your feelings for a certain sex are more of great respect or friendship, and the other gender you harbor feelings of love for. However if you are bisexual, those feelings of love will float towards the people you like, but those that you only see as friends you will have respect for. That sounds kinda confusing, but it's really not. I didn't speak to my mum at all during that phase, and even then only a few of my friends know I went through it - and it was quite difficult, so I'd recommend that you speak to your mum, but sit her down and talk to her, and she'll respect you more for it.
Good Luck! xx
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so my 6 girlfriends and I have this notebook that we write note back and forth to eachother in, put quizzes from magazines in, cute quotes, ect.
do u guys have any ideas of cool stuff i could put in the book?
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Ooh! I used to do stuff like this too with my friends until we went into senior school! We used to put photos and funny ideas in, also we used to make lists of what we wanted to happen to us when we were older, and the idea was that the other friends saw it, and did their best to make it happen, for example, my friend wanted to learn piano, so we clubbed together and bought her a keyboard and some piano books for her birthday - she's now amazing at it :D
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i weight 197 any tips to lose weight (link)
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If you are REALLY concered about your weight + appearance, then drink more water, eat healthily, but it doesn't mean you have to skip the things you like. Make sure you don't miss any meals, especially eat breakfast (slimmer people are the ones that don't miss meals). Also, try to cut out snacking between meals, but don't miss out stuff like chocolate, just cut down on it or replace it with some kind of fruit. Get plenty of exercise, walk to places instead of driving, or go by bike.
But to be honest, you're probably perfect as you are !!
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