About scootermclisle
Call me scooter. No, it isn't my real name, but I like the idea of having a secret name. Most of the people who have professional advice columns don't use their real names, so I don't see why I should either. I want to give the best advice possible, and I figure that the first way of becoming professional is to act professional. That isn't to say that I plan on growing up to be an advice columnist. Actually, I want to be a psychologist. But, this is as close as I'm going to get to that right about now. I'm also a very good writer, so I figure writing an advice column is a good way of getting my ideas out there. Please feel free to ask me any questions you like.
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E-mail: hairspray.link@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Member Since: September 28, 2007
Answers: 279
Last Update: June 8, 2010
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That was great advice, but I really could have done without the harsh criticism. I am not a stupid or self-indulgent person, and I'm hard enough on myself as is for allowing myself to get into this situation.
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My only concern is what if he doesn't help himself and ends up getting killed, whether he be killed by an overdose or a fight over the drugs... this is why I'm concerned mainly.
I feel he may never really realize he should stop using drugs, because he's never had anything in life to live for in the first place; he has people who love him and he doesn't really know that. I'm afraid he'll end up killing himself before he can help himself... if that makes any sense. & your advice was helpful though, thank you :)
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Thank you for telling the right thing to do! I can't believe I was ever that stupid. I said no and he went away just like everybody said would happen. And he loved me so much that three days later he was having sex with one of my friends. It worked out because I found a very nice guy. Thanks again!
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thank you!
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thanks good advice
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You're really right. I told him that he was a total tool, and he didn't say anything or apologize. He's a selfish pig. Just like most men :b
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Well, I do use these issues to offer products. The products I recommend I have throughly researched. Most are just recipes and organic products that I can't make or even know how to. The majority of the site just deals with food related health issues. The one for healthy meat talks about dangerous meat additives. Healthy cleaning warns about the accumulative affect of chemicals used indoors. Pregnant women and babies are at risk when using any sort of harmful chemicals applied to the skin. How would I get this information across and not offer a solution?
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wow that's deep. thanks.
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yes my ex wants to be with me, its just so hard to choose which one i wanna be with. My ex has a good life going for him, and the other guy doesn't. Seems like to me i'm being blind, i'm just scared for the other guy to find someone else.... i guess u can say i want them both. This is so hard but i appreciate your help and honesty. :) Take care
Kayla
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thankyou so so so much!
you really helped me put things in perspective
i think right now it's romantic loved, we haven't really discussed the future in great detail we've just mentioned b eing together for a long time . thanks again!!
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Thanks, this is exactly what I needed to hear.
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we do talk about it, almost everyday. but thanks for the advice =)
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believe me i no that 4 sure......
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Thank you :)
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thanks!
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thanks!
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btw.... im not really the drama person
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i said i talk to him a lot, not that i'm best friends with him or close to him. if you're going to be an advicenator then don't tell people to stop asking advice from strangers because if they didn't then there wouldn't be a website dedicated to it. i'm too nice to give you a one so deal with a 3.
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thanks so much. =)
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Thanks! The thing i forgot to add (duh!) is that he does want to date me. Sorry haha but thatnsk for your advice! :D
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I don't like leaving balls in womens courts... always had to go in aggressive pursue mode before they take me seriously. but thanks.
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Thank you soo much! people say i'm really pretty but yeah! He doesnt want to be friends. I'll just move on and tuff it out. He meets girls everywhere. I just feel like no guy in the world likes me. ... thanks though!
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I know to keep it professional, I just don't know HOW to keep it professional...
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Great advice, thank you
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Thanks!
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ahhhh i see.
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Thanks =)
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no no no you have it alllll wrong.
that guy that I like is the one that turned me down. I turned down the guy that was obsessing over me.
I almost went out with the one I really like.
and then he stopped liking me.
and i had stopped liking the one that was in love with me like 2 months before.
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That sounds like a great idea. i don't mind staying away from her. Thanks
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yes i really do like him alot
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she's gothic and i know her really well, she has a bad additude, i know she can kik my butt.
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Thanks. :]
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thxx =))
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aww hehe i hope your right =)
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mayby youre right
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Thanks you helped a bunch, I have another question tho,
he wants me to go trick-or-treating over in his hood, and he didn't tell his parents we are going out, how do you think that will work? should I tell him to tell his parents about us?
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thanks you helped loads an your defintely right! x
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Thank you.
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Thank you, Scooter. Your insight has been priceless. Your manner of answering my questions shows quite an ability to be an influence on people; especially your peers. Here is a website I hope you will get acquainted with: http://www.passionandprinciples.com/ppmain3.swf
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thanks
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thanks ssss
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i have plenty of compassion. i was helping her by calling him to make sure she WOULDNT get hurt. and she is oversensative, she admits to it- and so does everyone else. and i have consideration... kthx.
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Ok i'm not "freking out" or anything ok it's something called self esteem or confidence and my therapist wants me to do this she wants me to do anything that will boost my confidence ok
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