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Q: i want to go to north carolina..wat are some other good colleges?

Harvard, Julliard(if your into the arts and stuff along those lines) William and Mary, Brown, Providence College in RI, RIC (if you want to be a teacher), well it really depends on whAT you want to be lol. xO Ali

Q: My friend has been acting really weird lately ever since her mom started going out with her new boyfriend. She jumps back when people move to fast towards her or swing their arms near her like she thinks they're going to hit her. She's also been waring clothes that are really baggy which isn't like her at all. I talked to her about it and she started crying. She told me that her mom's boyfriend has been beating her and even raped her. He told her that if she tells anyone or tries to runaway he'll kill her mom. She asked me not to tell anyone but I hate seeing her being treated like this. I want to go the police but the thing is he has a lot of money so if they do arrest he can just get out on bail and then go after her. She's really scared of telling people and I don't want her to get hurt anymore. What can I do to help her she really needs help but she's afraid to get it. Is there anyway that I can get her help without her mom's boyfriend finding out about it?

Tell your parents. Tell her mom. Have one of them call the police. Have her family get a restraining order. If your her friend, you should do something. xO ali

Q: Alright. This has been driving me insane since I heard this riddle. The scientific thing is that 80% of kindergarteners could figure it out when only 17% of Students in Universities could. The riddle is what smokes crack. I can't figure it out. It's driving me CRAZY! Can anyone help me figure it out?

Well, there is a riddle somewhat similar to it and the answer is "God" but the "smokes crack" is throwing me off lol xO ali

Q: hey i recently got spacers and one of them came out the next day, and so we put it back in but it did the same thing it did the first time and came back out again. is this normal? will it delay my braces? thanks.

Yea its normal. It means you either dont need them there, your teeth moved, or the orthodontist didnt put them in all the way xO ali

Q: Alright me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months now and just recently for the second time we are on a break. Well every time this happen she it seems like she goes and tries to find someone to go out with i dont know what to do about it she keeps telling me she wants to get back together but know i just don't know what to do. By the way im 17 and a junior and she is 16 and a sophmore. what i am asking is what should i do. should i forget about her or should i do something. please could someone give me some advise!!!

I know this might sound really really mean. I'm sorry but its probably the case. She's probably a tad bit bored. Not bored with you but bored of the same thing all the time. She just wants to find something out of the ordinary for a while then she'll realize how much she loves you. You should do something really special for her. Like get her a stuffed animal or something. Or just confront her and tell her that these little "breaks" she has are bothering you xO ali

Q: ok two of my best freinds started going out awhile ago and i'm afraid if they break up they'l ask me to choose which one to hang out with what should i do?

Well then don't choose, make them battle it out. Make them understand that they aren't being good friends if they make you choose sides. xO ali

Q: We are having a race with wooden Co2 cars at school, can ne one give advice to win???

Yes! make sure your car is thin and heavy in the front and a little in the middle. Try to make the front slant down. A tall car with weight in the back will lose for sure. xO ali

Q: Ok heres the problem. When im out with my friends i tend to sweat a lot more than i do when i'm just sitting at my house. Is this because im nervous? I obviously use deodorant so i dont have to care about the smell but the problem is it always leaves sweat marks like you know it goes through your shirt and you can see it. I tried putting tissues under my shirt to stop it from being noticable but it did nothing! Please help!!!!!!

Been there! You MIGHT have what I have. It is called hyperhydrosis. Hyperhydrosis means that you have overactive sweatglands. Go to your dermatologist and he might prescribe you something called Aluminum Chloride. It's awesome. I used to use but I moved onto a heavier thing. Its a pill that dried out your whole body. It doesnt hurt or anything. Your mouth just gets dry in the morning lol. But if it's not that, Ban and Certain Dry work good for most. Good luck. Anymore questions? IM me at gre3neyedxgirlx3 xO ali

Q: well i did community service last week with my friend and a bunch of kids from my school, and we had to serve food and stuff to the senior citizens. i got assigned table 1 and so did josh

Tell him that you like him. From what you've told me, it sounds like he likes you too. Guys like when girls make the first move. Be brave. Just go for it! xO ali

Q: ok can some one please help me here
my gf keeps getting her ass smacked by dudes and its realy getting me pissed off anyway should i beat the liveing shit out of the guys who are doing it? or just tell them to stop?

Well first tell your gf to stick up for herself. Then tell the guys to knock it off. xO ali

Q: I just broke up with my girlfriend but i still really really like her but i dont thinnk she likes me anymore i cant stop thinking about her what should i do??

Ask her ... It's the only way you'll find out the truth. xO ali

Q: i have a serious problem that is long, and kinda personal, so can i email you instead of asking you on here .. whats your email?

justxlovelyx3@yahoo.com

Q: hey everybody this question is for everyone i am getting braces soon and i am totally freaking out on what colors to get because if i don't like the colors i get then i have to wait till i get them changed again and i am very picky so if anybody could help it would be greatly apperciated thanks i will rate 5's for good and reasonable answers. oh yeah one more thing i am a girl and my favorite color is blue and only blue thanks.

White. It maches with everything. xO ali

Q: :'( i hav frigging sweat circles under my armpits! i wash with soap in the morning and at nite and i put antipersperant on or i go to the washroom when i start sweating and reapply the antipersperant but i still SWEAT! i'm tired of this and i really want to put a stop to this! .. okay i've heard of certain dri but i live in Canada and i've looked and looked but they don't sell it here! i also asked over the counter pharmicists and they told me about this stuff thats like 20 bucks and most of the stuff that like makes u stop sweating that isn't generic are like 20 bucks and i don't have that kinda money so please please help me, its really really embaressing!

Been there! You might have what I have. It is called hyperhydrosis. Hyperhydrosis means that you have overactive sweatglands. Go to your dermatologist and he might prescribe you something called Aluminum Chloride. It's awesome. I used to use but I moved onto a heavier thing. Its a pill that dried out your whole body. It doesnt hurt or anything. Your mouth just gets dry in the morning lol. Good luck. Anymore questions? IM me at gre3neyedxgirlx3 xO ali

Q: Hey you guyz does any one know if the ab lounge works. If so likie if it works good or not.

I have it.. It's ohkay I guess. It works good but dont over due it or you'll get really sore. xO ali

Q: Hey, I want one of those livestrong braclets except I want one for breast cancer. Where can i get them and how much are they?

target

Q: why is it that ma average falls wit out ne bad averages? it just like falls... i had like ova 70 feedbacks and now i only got 54 and there only my worst ones. neone no why? i'll ratei guess

This site only keeps recent ratings. I think they only keep track of the past 30 days

Q: heey does anyone know any quote websites?

Go to www.firehotquotes.com xO ali

Q: OK heres the dealio
i HATE showers...they just seem like a waste of time for me. Does anyone know any ways that will make showering fun?? no sarcastic answers please. Thanks

Just know that if you DONT take a shower, you wont smell good lol. I used to hate them too. What I do is, and hell, im not afraid to say it: I sing in the shower lol. Try that or something else to pass the time. xO ali

Q: I was just wondering..... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 4 months now and i know that may not seem like a long time but i really and truely love him. And it may sound weird but i feel like god is telling me that he is the one i am supposed to spend my life with. Can he be the one? Is it true that i can find someone in my junior year of high school?