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Hey my names ali i'm 17 from new jersey. i'm usually really fast with advice so ask whatever you want and i'll answer as soon as possible!!
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Well I know this is kinda sick and all but im gonna ask neways..when I shave down there its gets all red like a rash and then sometimes it bleed and i really dont know what to do..

Make sure you use shaving cream! Don't just use soap or that will happen! Also when you shave go sideways kind of it helps a lot.
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i am 15 f and i really like this guy 15 m and he like me back we just dont ever talk about it and i think we will end up goin out i just dont know if i should tell him that i have never even kissed someone and i know he had done stuff with girls so should i just go with it and not tell him or do u think he can tell?

I don't think you should tell him! I doubt he'll be able to tell, kissing comes naturally.
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i was in two carwrecks with my mom. i am now in a
wheelchair. i go to the doctor alot so i miss school alot. but i still have a 3.5 . anyways,
i can't go and be in sports anymore and i can't ride the rides at the fair and i can't do all of the stuff i used to. is it wrong for me to cry when all of that stuff gets to me? am i just being selfish and a cry baby? if you could please help. signed,
feelin blu

I'm really sorry :( You are not being selfish AT ALL, i know i'd be upset if that happened to me too. are you going to be in a wheel chair forever? Maybe you could find some other things to do, like paint, read, write, eTc`.
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i got this huge pimple that just showed up overnight, does anyone know how to get rid of it fast?

use toothpaste or acnemenal (sp? its this nasty brown stuff you put over pimples) over night and by the morning it should be better!

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hello okay umm i need a huge list of ideas what i could do if i threw apartie in the summer...im only 14

my friend had a party, and she made it kind of like a hawian theme. she had a moon bounce which was really fun for all ages lol. if you have a pool, use that, if not just hang out outside, play manhunt or whatever. then later go inside and watch movies or something? hope i helped!
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My boyfriend and i have been having sex for a while and i got drunk and gave him a blow job, now my face is red and itchy. what should i do?

you should see a doctor! you probably have an STD! next time, use a condom (if its with the same guy)
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okay this is prolly really dumb but im just wondering when you have sex is the guys penis supposed to go all the way into a gurls vagina? and when you firt have sex does it hurt alot?
as you can tell im not really experienced.

please help me asap

yes, when you have sex it hurts! i have a couple of friends who claim it didnt hurt for them. your partner will probably know its your first time and be gentle.
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I had sex about 6 days ago, and i didnt use a condom! im supposed to start my period sometime this week, or at the end of the month! WHat do i do if i dont have my period, i wouldnt kno what to do because i dont talk to my parents about this stuff..pleez help me!!!

If you don't get your period soon, you should go to a clinic. do not risk visiting your regular doctor if you do not want your parents to know. if u dont want an abortion, you could put the baby up for adoption after it was born. if you go to the clinic, they will tell you all your options. before you go to the clinic, you could take a pregancy test (found at a drug store) to see if you really are pregant. the risks are not just pregancy, but there is a high chance that you could've contracted an STD, so you should also get checked out for STDs
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One of my friends is mad at me because she thinks i called her a slut and i didn't. I've said sorry but she wont except it. What should i do? I dont want to lose her friendship forever. We told each other everything and did a lot of things together. How can something so great be ruined by one little misunderstanding?

wow! i think you need to try to make it up to your friend, even though u didnt say it. apologize again, and try to take her out 2 like dinner or something. explain to her that people are starting rumors that arent true. tell her how you are feeling now that you have lost her as a friend. hopefully, she'll understand, and if she doesn't in time it will blow over.
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Hi. I wanted to know. If my boobs are too small and I wanted to get boob pills! How could I get them if im not 18 and I dont have a credit card?
Sigened.
Flat Chested!

breast enhancement pills do not work! try a push up bra or a padded bra to maybe boost your confidence a little, and if its that bad, they do make water bras. work with what you are given and try to accentuate a part of your body you enjoy more.
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i sweat a lot when ever i am working out. so in team practice it gets a little annoying and embarsing...what do i do?

you cant help sweating, but maybe u should try sweat bands. you can buy them at claires or h&m. u wear them on your wrist and when you get hot, you wipe your face with them. also, try wearing a black or white tee shirt while working out ( preferably black ) so then you really cant see all the sweat stains. you can even wear black shorts to hide sweat stains on your legs or butt.
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what is wrong with being a lesbian i mean everyone is always making a big deal what is it?

theres nothing wrong with being a lesbian! no one cannot help the way they are. people in this world should be more accepting and much props to anyone who can be open about this to people.
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i have really frizzy hair and i hate it. im going to flordia in 4 days and i was wodering if there was anything u could buy at walmart or something to keep from getting frizzy while im there?

use frizz ease buy john frieda extra strength, its the darkest color bottle. this stuff works wonders. if that doesnt work on your hair, you should go to a salon and ask for tips there.
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does anyone know any good clothes stores with cheap clothes? i'm not saying cheap cheap but cheaper than abercrombie type cheap. help asap! i rate REALLY good!

forever 21 !! if you only end up going to one store, this should be the store. everything is cheap. you can get a shirt for like 9.99 which is very rare these days. skirts are really cheap also, about 15 - 20 dollars. also, you can try rue 21, i dont know if they still have those around, but yah.
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i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in 18 and hes 19, we have sex often. im a 34b adn he thinks that i should get implants. should i do it just to please him?!?! i really think that he might be the one, adn we've talked about our future.
help

wow, your boyfriend is really superficial if he wants you to get implants. do not do something just to please him! its not his body and if he cant handle you the way you are, you need 2 leave him! he's so not worth your trouble if he's like that. tell him how you feel about him saying these things about your body. he's not worth it if he pressures you into doing that
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ok i have a ?...when do u have ur period can u have sex? and if you do will blood be all over the place??

when you are on your period, you can have sex. and contrary to popular belief, you still can get pregant even when you have sex and are on your period. it will probably be a bloody mess, and it is not something you want to do. just tough it out for the 5 days and then have sex.
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is it healthy to use dildos and "play" toys in sex and i was wondering..should you give head to guys with condoms on? and is there a female condom? i heard there was but i wasn't sure

yes! its very healthy! you should use anything to get you stimulated that your partner feels comfortable with you using. you should give head with a condom on because it reduces the risk of STDs being trasnmitted. most people do not use a condom, and if u do not want to, you should both be tested for STD's before doing it. there is a female condom but i am not familiar with it or how to use it.
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Ok I like this guy who is two years younger than me. Is there something wrong with that :(

of course not! if this guy is mature, there is nothing wrong with it. i say go for it!
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Does anyone know any good places to get good brands of hair straightners (sp)? what are some good brands??? please respond asap i rate really good!

Under 20 dollars? Under 20 dollars and u cannot get a good straightener. but, the best u can buy for about 20 is hot tools. you can buy it like in a eckard or drug store of that sort. if you want to go all out (which i recomend) or you have curly curly hair (or hair that u want PERFECTLY straight) i would go for the CHI or the Superstar iron. A chi can range from about 120 - 200 dollars and a superstar is about 80-150 dollars. I would not buy a straightener off of ebay b/c you dont know whos hair touched it and the person could've had lice! i recomend only buying brand new ones! and make sure to use a heat styling product in your hair to prevent dead ends when you get your straightener! also, if u cannot find a CHI or superstar, make sure u get one with CERAMIC plates because they are less damaging to your hair and they stay hot and the heat is even as opposed to metal plated
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my little sister i always a pain. everday i would say hi to her and she would just give me a nasty look and go to her room. i am nice to her most of the time. we get a long once in a while, but rarely...ahh what do i do to win her over?

My sister and I used to fight like that. When you sister becomes more mature, things will start to get better. just continue being nice to her. like one day, make her lunch or offer her the channel changer while watching TV so she can pick out a couple programs. only time and patience will make her come around.
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