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well i have this boyfriend, and he is older and more experienced then i am. He says that he loves me and he wants to be with me I love him soo much. He says that he wants to take it to the next level. Where im from alot of the girls my age arent virgins and dont care bout sex or nethin. Im young but veryy mature for my age, i dont know what to do, I feel that im ready but i dont know. (link)
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well hopefully hes not pressuring you because than theres something wrong there and if you dont know than maybe your not quite as ready as you think you know im 17 and still a virgin and i still have my douts and thats how i know that im not ready yet you know because if you dont know and if you have douts still than read between the lines and ask yourself why your haveing douts or dont know goodluck and remeber dont rush it because once you loose your virginty you can never get it back hope i helped
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Is it possible to get pregnant when giving someone a blow job. i know you can get stds, but about pregnancy?
I'm not saying that I give them to people. I'm just curious. (link)
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no you can not get pregent giving blow jobs and anyone who tells you different is lying to you so dont worry if you give a blowjob you wont get pregnet
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well what if you and your boyfriend want to have sex but you are both still virgins and you dont want anyone one to know if you lose your viginity (link)
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well if you have sex than you wont be a virgin and the next guy you sleep with will know but if you dont want anybody to know just yet dont answer you know eighther change the subject or simple laugh it off because if you still stay you are somebodys bound to find out and than every body will no that you lied and that can end badly you know but part of having sex is living with the conquenses and complications that follow good luck i hope i helped
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My bf and I (15 f) are thinking about having sex. He's fingered me and stuff like that, but it's the farthest we've ever gone. I'm really nervous. I'm ready, I know I am. I'm a little self consious, I guess, but I know I'm not fat or anything. I'm 5'7'' and 122 lbs. I'm just nervous about him seeing my "parts." Whenever he's fingered me, he just sort of went down my pants, they never came off.
Is there anything I can do to calm my nerves? Has anyone ever had this problem? What worked for you?
Thanks in advance (link)
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look in the mirror and study your body and tell yourself that your beatuful and that theres nothing to be ashamed of and make sure that your ready first and you might feel insucure and nervous and he might be feeling the same way just think he thinks your beatiful so why should it be any difference with or without your clothes just try to relax and not be so nervous you know and plus your goning to be his first so its going to be special for the both of you and i dont think hell be to worried about you look lol just work your magic i hope i helped so good luck
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umm hi. im 13 and i wanna no how to masturbate. and explain where aeverything in your vagina is because im not sure of all the proper language. please all my friends do it but i dont know how so can someone tell me?! thanks! i rate high! just like explain how you did it your first time. thanks! (link)
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awwww i remeber when i first masturbated, OK well some people finger themselves witch is just puting your fingers in there but me i rub all you do is just rub your clitouris anyway it feels good and if you keep doing it evently your have an organsim or you can go in the bath and let the water run down on you or you can get something that vibriates and put it aganist your clitouris you know. YOU just got to touch yourself until you feel the sensations you know good luck hope i helped p.s. everybodys bodys different so do what ever feels right to you
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okay so I love my boyfriend to death and does lots of sexual favors for me and vice versa. we have been together almost 2 years now and we are both 17..well he loves blowjobs and I absolutely cannot stand the taste of semon..I need to know what to do..but don't tell me to tell him know because I want to give them to him I just kinda bear with it and deal with it..and well do the deed. So no guys I do not tell him no, I just do it..but I end up having gag reflexes deep down in my throat..any suggestions how to fix my little dilemna?
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tell him to tell you when hes about to cum so than you can finish the rest with your hand you know and you dont have to swallow you can just spit
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I have a really really important question. It's gonna be long,,sorry, but plz answer!! I will rate.
My best friend told me her deepest darkest secret. Her secret was that she was raped by her cousin as a child.(7 yrs old.) He actually had sex with her, but she doesn't think that he "popped her cherry". She didn't really know what was going on...and she told her parents about it and everything when it happend. (we are 14 now) My question is: is she a virgin? (link)
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sorry sweety techniqly no because if the cousion raped her i dont think shes still a virgin but in her mind and probley even physically to her yeah because she didnt want it you know sorry that happened but i would still consider myself a virgin if i were her you know
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So I like this guy named Chris...and I'm pretty sure he likes me to I mean we text ALL the time and were always talking on myspace and Aim at home...I like him alot and I'm pretty sure he likes me alot but there's one problem that is a BIG problem for me. He never talks! Like i wouldnt say he was shy..just he never talks at school unless you start the conversation...I mean I do talk alot..just i'm not a good conversation starter...so what do you think I should do to help him talk more because I would hate to go out with him and he never talked! HELP! (link)
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get him to loosing up you know and if you must start the convo do it say something stupid make him laugh and get him to join in and if he starts to respond and you sense hope go for it and keep on trying and if that doesnt work talk to him on myspace and ask whats the fuck his problem you know ask why he doest talk to you even when u start the convo and than what ever how can you have a relationship with some one who never talks well if you do have a relationship with him itll be pretty hard to argue with a mute lol hope you the best of luck and i hope i helped
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I have known this boy JD ever sense I was 2 because I went to his day care that his dad owned. Now in 8th grade we are still best friends, and I think that is WAY cool! And some people also think that's real cool too, but most of them make fun of us and say that we like eachother! Then one day his sister told me at school that he liked me more then a friend! I was shocked because I just couldn't believe it! I told her that I didn't believe it, but the next day I turned from "Medium Clique" to "Instant Popularity Clique". I have a crush on his best friend and he actually talked to me! A while later I walked over to J.D. and I asked him what was going on and stuff and he ran away totally embarased, and I didn't know why! Then I turned around and all of his friends were making kissy lips at us. Now everytime I talk to J.D. he ignores me and he is now a TOTALLY differant person! I think he is WAY COOL, AND WAY CUTE but I just want to be friends. I could ask him that but he'll ignore me or start to cry!(he's VERY sensitive!) How do I tell him, but still remain his best friend? (link)
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well he needs to listen instead of throwing away a really good friend ship maybe its everyboby making fun of him thats making him mad you know what i mean if he wont talk to you in person you could right a note and stick it in his loker telling him how you feel you can write him on the computer you know and if that doesnt work than what are you suppossed to do except hope that hell come around you know sorry hope i helped
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he has given me 2 nicknames, but he also has my friends but i was first. lol.i danced with him at a dance. he ocasionaly talks to me but i am shy and don't want him to know i like hiom so i don't really show any affection or talk either. he gives me high fives, and rests his hand on my head( and totally messes up my hair) so what i really want to know is does he like me and should i let him know i like him. please help. please. (link)
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this is a hard question because guys love to play mind games you know but i would try not to be so shy around him and start flirting with him and let him know that your intersted and have one of your friends that you trust if u dont want to do yourself and ask if he likes u your never know until you ask
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i really like him, i cant stop thinking about him, i really think i am in love with him. He said he liked me to his friend when he was drunk, but when i talk to him he is so shy and sometimes he just moves away. I dont know what this means, was he serious or not ? any advice appriciated 15/F thanks xxxx (link)
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well he said it when he was drunk so youve heard and maybe love is to strong of a word because you really dont talk to him but eighther way maybe you need to find a way to break the ice and kinda show him that you like him and than maybe he wont be so shy if he thinks that you like him to
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So there's this guy that's 29 and I'm really attracted to him, both physically and emotionally. We can talk for long periods of time without getting bored and we talk about anything and everything. He's funny, charming, polite, smart, handsome, responsible, everything I look for in a guy. We get along really well and seem to really click. We have fun doing whatever we do. The thing is, I'm 18. I think that's the only thing that's standing in the way of us taking this a step further. I personally don't have a problem with the age difference, but I think he does. What should I do? I really like him and can honestly say that I'm falling in love with him. (link)
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well he obvious likes you and all though there is an age diffence love is blind you know what i mean and you two need to have a talk before you fall even harder you know you have a right to know where all this going an age is nothing but a number to a certin extent you know so have a talk with him and tell how you feel and that you understand where hes coming from and now he needs to understand where your coming from you know good luck
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okay, there's this guy and i really like him and a lot of people think that he likes me because he always hugs me and puts hisarms around me (in a nonpossessive way) and always comforts me when i'm down. but anyways. i don't have any classes with him and i have lunches with him everday but we don't sit at the same table or communicate that much. i mean like every other day he walks to class with me since my class is on the way to his. but anyways, he doesn't get on AIM alot so he basically never talks on there. winter break is starting soon and i can't imagine not talking to him for over 3 weeks! should i ask him for his phone number or something like that? and what are some things that i can do with him over winter break? like what can i do to hang out with him? i don't want to it be too forward or awkward so yeah. (link)
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well you abvouisly get a good vibe so deff ask for his phone number there can be something there if you let there you know and you guys can hang out chill and if your nerves just say me and a few are going to a movie do you want to come or ask to the movies and say you just wanted to get out of the house you know make it known like he does that your just as intrested and see where it goes you can also you know go to the mall play games get a bite to eat and if he seems intersted than forget about awrkard your in the game go get him lol good luck i hope i helped
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im only 14 years old and i've been thinking about sex a lot lately. but see i haven't even gotten my first kiss yet so i'm like really screwed up (link)
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its normal to think about sex your going through adolescents now and your becoming more mature but dont grow up to fast dont rush your first kiss or anything else you know i know gurls who are younger than you and had already had sex and most regret it you can never get that part of you back so dont rush it you know do what you think is right hope i helped
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Are guys willing to have sex with anyone thats a girl, or do they have to be attracted ?
Just wondering. (link)
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it all depends on the guy if a guy can get it hell take it wether or not hell tell anybody he hit it is a different story and some guys are really shallow and only do people who are supermodles to them but in my experence what i seen and hered guys will take what they can get
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ok i'm 16/f lesbian, i've just started going out with a girl, it's the first time for me so i'm very inexperienced, and i need to know: what do girls do together sexually? she's been with other girls so i need to know what to do! and also, do most lesbians like girls who shave it all off? or just some? or don't shave down there at all.
thanks sooo much in advance (link)
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you can tell her to teach you that can be sexy but have you ever watched porn that can teach you somethings but how about finguring eating out playing with her clit feeling up and touching and suckling her boobs you can also be creative what about dildos and some gurls have different tastes some like shaved some dont it will be sexy if you asked her the same question ask her what she likes you know hope i helped
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alright well i met this guy on homecoming night back in september. we got along really well and we flirted alot. but he had a girlfriend. and they have been going out for a little over a year. well we were really close to kissing then i had to run to the bathroom cause i had to puke. well in the middle of october.. there was another party and he was there. and he kept looking at me and he was flirting with me too. but nothing happened again b/c i left early. well then i seen him on holloween night trick or treating and he smiled and we talked for a minute. and then in november there was another party and i asked him if he was still goin out with his gf and he said no that they broke up.. and then my friend asked him and he told her the same thing. well me & him ended up making out and cuddling the whole night and we slept in the same bed, we were about to do more but i felt weird that there were other ppl in the room. then i got his number. well we have been talking on the phone ever since then and we havent really hung out but we have seen each other and talked alot. my friend talked to his ex gf and she said they never broke up. and that they are still going out. so i know he cheated on her but when i asked him if he was still going out with her over the phone he said he didnt know. i dont know what to do. i really like him and i know he likes me.. i think hes just afraid to break up with her because they have been going out for so long. but he is supposed to be coming over in like an hour and a half and i dont know what to do. what if he comes into kiss me or something. i dont want to start any problems but i really like him alot. and i dont want him to cheat on her.. even though i dont like her.. i know how it feels to be cheated on. so what should i do? (link)
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you should tell him what you just wrote that although you 2 like eachother he should break up with his g/f even if he is afriad he moved on and he should give her a chanceto move on to you know tell him 3 a crowd and you dont feel right you know i know eaiser said than done but like you said you know how it feels hope i helped and good luck
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so.. there was this guy who went away for awhile and we were going to date when he got back.. then he did stuff with another girl (made out) i saw pictures.. and i was really said. and he turned it around on me.. even though i had the right to be upset.. and now i cant get over him. its been 4 months.. but he has a girlfriend and we just started talking again.. he said i miss you.. but i think he likes my brother.
he was the first guy i ever felt comfortable with..
everyone has been saying.. theres other guys out there.. but there is no other guy like him.. i tried and tried but everytime i tried to feel what i felt with him with other guys those guys wanted more.. soon enough i was known as a whore.. things have gotten better.. but i really want him back..
what do i do?
talk to him in person? if so what do i say.. (link)
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well if you still care for him tell him you said so yourself that you guys are just beging to talk again so take it slow and about him with another gurl forgive him but dont let your guard down and remeber if there was a feeling or a spark of fire in the first place cause you said you guys were gonna date than maybe theres still a spark left and the fire didnt completely die out you know so try to rekingley that fire and since he has a gurlfriend make him see that she cant give him whaat you can but to a certian extent and remeber take it slow you dont want to put yourself out there just to be turned down so good luck hope i helped
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mk so ive liked this kid in my civics and english class ever since september and he had a gf until llike oct and then he started "liking" me and we flirted and told each other things id never tell anyoneee and same for him he trusted me so muchhh so then he told my friends he liked me and i went super excited then today i found out he has a gf so that made me cry all english hr. he came up to me and hugged me and comforted me and tryed to make me laugh but he didnt ask wats wrong like all my other friends so right now he has no idea y i was crying so in the halls he tryed to catch up with me a bunch of times but i didnt stop and when i did i acted like i didnt care (too harsh??) anyways he hurt me once in septemeber and he hurt me agian help please idno what to do (link)
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fucking guys always playing with us you need to tell him why your upset and your not going to stand him treating you like a stand in you need to tell him that you like him and he has to make a choice he eighther has feelings for you and does something about it or he stops acting like an assholes and playmind games its one or the other he cant have both you and her you know i hope i helped
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how do you know when you like someone enough to actually have sex with them (link)
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only you can answer that queston nobody can tell u when your ready thats something your have to anwser because your the one who is gonna have to live with it afterwards you know hope i helped
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