...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
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Why can't he see all the signs I try to make whenever he looks at me I try to look back and make eye contact but he always turns away too quickly. . i really love him! I cantt ake my eyes off of him. . and soemtimes I think he gets annoyed because I stare at him so much. . I just melt wheneerI try to go talk to him I cant do it. . im too nervous I dont have anything to say I men we could talka bout his football. . ugh and well I dont think hed like me. . and Im so negative. . Are his looks of anger? or for love? I dont understand if he likes me or not. . I rlly like him and I wish I could have a chance with him. (link)
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did you not already ask this question? Well I would say he does like you in a way. Get to know him more and maybe you'll go out.
-shay :-)
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if i had a dream about a boy that i dumped like a month ago and i liked the dream does that mean i like him? (link)
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No it doesnt really mean that. It sort of means that you like and remember all the good times that you both had together.
-shay :-)
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im in love with my neighbor and even if we have to runaway im gonna marry that boy someday (link)
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Good for you.
shay :-)
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iv got hungry eyes one look at him and i fantisize i feel the magic betweem him and i (link)
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Totally normal. Fantasizr all you want.
-shay :-)
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ok i told my mom i was going to tell nick i like him but she said no becuz hshe said he is the type of boy that will run off and never come back but im not really sure about that aslo if i do tell him that i like whats a godo way to tell him? (link)
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Well I wouldnt tell him strait out. I would say to him, "You so hot when you do that". Or ask him who he likes. Once he tells you he will ask you who you like. Then you can say "well Ive always really liked you". Or something like that.
-shay :-)
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OK IM 13 IN 8TH GRADE AND IM 5'6 AND WEIGH 130 LBS THATS LIKE SO FAT IM TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT I WANT TO GET DOWN TO AT LEAST 115 IM JUST FAT IN MY STOMACH WELL KINDA OF AND IM MOSTLY MUSCLE CUZ I LIFT HEAVEY THINGS AND PLAY SOCCER SO MY LEGS ARE MOSTLY MUSCLE BUT I THINK IM TO FAT FOR MY AGE I MEAN IM ON A DIET THE FAT FREE ONE BWECAUSE I WANT TO LOOK GOOD IN MY BIKINI BY MAY OR APRIL SO DO U THINK IM TOO FAT AND COULD U TELL ME SOME GOOD WAYS TO GET SKINNY I WANT TO LOOK LIKE PARIS HILTON BECAUSE THE BOY I LIKE WHICH IS MY NEIGHBOR SAYS THAT SHES HOT AND UR PROABABLY GOING TO SAY NOT TO CHANGE MYSELF FOR HIM BUT I WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR MY NEIGHBOR HE IS THE MAN OF MY DREAMS!!! HELP ME !!!! (link)
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Well I dont think you would be fat. There are many people that age at that weight and they're fign. A good way to lose wait is stay off sugar and fast foods. Work out twice as hard as you usually do and eat healthy.
-shay :-)
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OK GTHIS BOY I WENT OTU WITH TELLS ME IM HOT AND THAT IM BEUATIFUL AND COULD HAVE ANY BOY I WANTED BUT HE SAID ALL THIS AFTER WE WENT OUT SO IF HE SAID I COULD GET ANYBOY I WANT HOW COME NO BOYS AVE ASKED ME OUT? (link)
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I would say he wants you back. Hes trying to get you back when he says that and he seems to be giving a good clue.
-shay :-)
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OK THERES THIS BOY THAT I WENT OUT WITH LIKE A MONTH AGO(HIS NAME IS BEN) AND I MEAN HE WAAS GREAT AND STUFF BUT I LIKED MY NEIGHBOR EVEN THOUGH IM NOT GETTING ANYWHERE WITH HIM I LOVE HIM STILL BUT I STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR BEN ,BUT KNOW HE HAS A NEW GIRLFRIEND BUT IM THE TYPE OF GIRL THAT LOOKS ON THE OUTSIDE OF A BOY FIRST AND BEN JUST WASNT WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR BUT ON THE INSIDE HE WAS NOW YOUR PROABABLY GOING OT SAY LOOKS DONT MATTER AND THEY MATTER TO ME BECAUSE I DESERVE A HOT GUY LIKE MY NEIGHBOR BUT HE IS JUST NOT LIKE BEN IN THE INSIDE? (link)
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Im not going to tell you to look on the inside of a guy, Im just going to tell you that you're shallow. I dont mean that in a bad way beacuse many people are. Try to get to know each of the guys more and see which ones better for you.
-shay :-)
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MY EX BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME AWHIEL AGO AND I PROMISED MYSELF I WOULD FORGET HIM AND YET EVERYTIME I TRY I SEE ALL THE GOOD MEMORIES OF US AND WE STILL TALK SOMETIMES BUT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND NOW AND IVE HAD OTHER BOYFRIENDS BUT I STILL THINK OF HIM IN THERE PLACES AM I JUST PATHEIC OR WHAT? (link)
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You are not pathetic you're just getting over aa long relationship. You normal dont worry.
-shay :-)
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OK THE MAN OF MY DREAMS IS MY NEIGHBOR RIGHT HE IS ACTIVE HE PLAYS FOOTBALL AND BASKETBALL AND DOES TRACK BUT HE SAID WHEN HE GETS OLDER HE DOESNT WANT TO HAVE A PHYSICAL JOB DOES THAT MEAN HE IS GOING TO BE LAZY?ASLO HE DOESNT FLIRT AND IS 14 AND DOESNT HAVE PIT HAIRS DOES THIS MEAN WHEN HE GETS ALL THAT HE WILL BE MORE INTO GIRLS? (link)
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I think I already answered this. You may want to check my column for the answer.
-shay :-)
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WHAT ARE THE SIGNS THAT SHOW A BOY LIKES YOU? (link)
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1. He hits you a lot (playing around)
2. He finds every way to touch you. (hair, legs, hand)
3. He always smiles at you
4. He pays more attention to you other than other girls
-shay :-)
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WHAT ARE SOME GOOD THINGS TO TALK ABOUT WITH YOUR CRUSH? (link)
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Talk about the latest movies or music. Things that you like, he likes. Your hobbies. Tell him about yourself, but remember to avoid dead silence!
-shay :-)
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I LKE MY NEIGHBOR ANDI THINK HE LIKES ME BUT HE DOENST ACT LIKE I MEAN HE ISNT VERY OUT GOING OR HE DOESNT FLIRT BUT HE IS REALLY SMART SO DOES HE LIKE ME DO U THINK? (link)
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I think hes more of a friend. Him being outgoing with you may mean that he is comfortable with you and wants to be your friend.
-shay :-)
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IM 13 AND THE BOY I LIKE IS 14 SHOULD I TELL HIM I HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM OR WAIT TILL IM OLDER? IM REALLY REALLY SCARED OF REJECTIONAND I MWORRIED WHAT HE WILL SAY... SHOUDL I WAIT TILL IM IN 9TH GRADE OR SHOULD I TELL HIM THIS SUMMER WHILE HE IS OVER SWIMMING I DONT WANT TO BREAK OUR FRIENDSHIP IM JUST SCARED OF REJECTION PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
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Its okay that you're afraid of rejection. See if you could maybe push your relationship a little farther than it already is.
-shay :-)
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the boy i like well his mom says that he doesnt like any girls but is always hanging around me doe that mean he likes me?we do a lot of stuff like make jumps for my romote control car and we jump on my trampoline together and ride my scooter together do u think he might like me or is he trying to be friendly please tell me (link)
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His mother is probably telling you that because she doesnt want her son in a relationship. In my opinion I would say he likes you.
-shay :-)
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i want to do it on prom night but what if my boyfriend forgets a condum i mean should i wait till he gets one or shouldi go make him buy one? (link)
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You could bring one and once he maybe brings the subject up you could tell him you have one in your purse.
-shay :-)
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if the boy i liked forgot my age and thought i was 12 still and not 13 is that a bad thing? and does that mean he doesnt like me? or do boys tend to forget girls age? i have repeated my b-day a lot of times in front of him (link)
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People usually have a hard time remembering things. Dont worry Im sure hell remember next time!
-shay :-)
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how will i know if he really loves me? i say a prayer with every hearbeat i fall in lovw when ever we meet how will i know if he's thinking of me?i try to talk but im too shy i cant speak well sometimes i can (link)
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Find out. Talk to him. He cant REALLY love you unless he REALLY knows you. Take a risk, sink or swim.
-shay :-)
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what signs will he give me that shows that he likes me? (link)
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Smile at him, laugh at his jokes. Do everything you can to just talk to him and flirt with him.
-shay :-)
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if i like my neighbor should i tell him i have feeligns for him? (link)
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No, not just yet. If he doesnt have the same feelings for you he may begin to feel uncomfortable around you. Wait for signs of him liking you and give him signs too.
-shay :-)
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