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born and raised in chi-town.(a.k.a.- chicago- for the slow kids)Last time i checked, i was a girl.and i have 10 piercings- 9 of which i did myself.(all but my eyebrow). fun stuff.
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I feel REALLY bad about something that happened today. Well I was in a horrible mood this morning because of what happened at work the other day- things got so bad I almost quit. Also I got no sleep because I ran out of my medication last night that I'm supposed to take before I go to bed. Well my friend walked over to my appartment this morning (uninvited). I was still in a really bad mood and was being really bitchy- not to her just moody. I apologized to her and then treated her to lunch at Mcdonalds. I told her why I was upset and that I was thinking of looking for a new job. I still feel really bad- when she first walked in to my appartment building she said "good morning"- I said "it's not a good morning". I apologized twice- but she sort of just invited herself over which upset me a little she should have phoned first. Should I still apologize for being bitchy or just drop it?
id say just drop it. shes your friend, sweetheart, and shes a girl too. she'll defintetly understand. from what youve said- she doesnt seem to feel bad about it- jsut you. just dont worry about it, and go on with life- except hopefully it gets better for ya! hope i helped!
A lot of people seam to think its gross if you don't shave "down there", I mean should I????? does everyone? lol and is it a turn off if you dont?
Thanks!
its all a matter of opinion. depends on what your guy likes, what you like, and what you find comfortable most of all. and ive never heard a person refer to it as gross if you dont. im sure alot of people might think its gross if you DO. like i said- its just a matter of opinion for you.and you cant ask- does everyone?- because to tell you the truth- i hevent exaclty depantzed everyone in the world to find the answer to that one. hope i helped!
well, you see... i'm trying to lose wieght for like next week just because i'm paranoid like that... but i need help. i found this really good diet on the internet and it really works! like, i e-mailed the people of the weight loss thing and they even replied. all the success stories are there, and i'm almost sure it works! but, you have to pay twenty seven dollars to download it into your computer. the only reason that she doesn't want to get it is because you have to pay! there must be a way that i can pay for it without having to use like a credit card or something... if anyone has any idea please help me out. THank you.
27 dollars to download a diet to your computer doesnt sound very legit to me at all. dump it. you can find free dieting tips online. dont waste your money on a crock.
ah ok.where do i begin,alright well me and my ex-boyfriend had been going out on and off for like 5 months.on memorial day he dumped me.He said he wanted to still be friends but just didnt like me like me and wanted to be single for summer.i got over it fast, but im not sure about him.On the last to days of school he kept starring at me ALLLLLL day,didnt talk to me,passed me a note about the brake up like saying he wants us to be friends a lot still,and he got jelous of me flirting with other guys(i could tell).and when one of my best friends thats a guy came to my house to get something he was like trying to get him to get away from me.he flirts with me alot still and im pretty much over him and he dumped me so what should i do?i dont no what to say to him about it.PLESAE HELP!!!i rate!
--CONFUSED.
dont say anything. just keep continuing on the way yo are. the relationship's over, and i think this is just his way of dealing with it. he needs to ease out of it. jsut let him do what he needs- but dont encourage him. dont tease him into thinking that you enjoy carrying this whole thing out.soon enough he'll notice that its time to move on, and it sounds like thats what you both need.
hey i was going to get my hair done (colored) a certain highlight of blonde. The kid of blonde i want is NOT very "yellowish?" haha sorry i dont know how else to describe it...i think it is a really light blonde, but how would you describe this to a hair dresser? (color not highlight type)
Thanks :)
prolly platinum blonde, or champaigne. chanpaigne's a wee bit darker. dont exaclty know what youre lookin for. good luck!
ok well i am a 17 year old male, and of course my problem involves a girl. i have a major crush on this girl, i mean the whole nine yards. sweaty palms, loss of words, clumsiness, you name it (which is wierd because i NEVER have problems with girls). the cool thing is that i think she has a crush on me too. the thing is, my best friend (17/M) also likes this girl a lot, although she doesnt like him. i need to know what to do in this situation, because it is driving me insane. i will provide feedback. Thank you so much!
just stay true to the way you are- and dont worry about him. so what if he likes her?- it obviously means youve got a nyce gurl on your hands- but dont try and get between them. they may somehow become really good friends while you get the girl. just be yourself- she obviously likes you for that reason! good luck and i hope i helped!
My Dad has a great job oppurtunity that he just accepted & that means I have to move about 14 hours away. Don't get me wrong, I'm really happy & kind of excited to get a chance to start over but I'm kind of scared. I've never moved before... I just started at a new high school this year as a freshman but I had a lot of people I knew around me. I don't know what to do! I've worn uniforms to school my whole life & next year I'll be at public school...I have no idea how I would dress! Can someone relate or help me out? I'm 15, female, soon to be sophomore. I'm moving to the Princeton, NJ area. Thanks!
i guess i might be able to relate to your situation- i lived in one town for 7 years of my life- mainly all of my childhood years- and later my dad kicked me out. it was after my freshman year at high school with all the kids id known since i was little. then i moved in with family about 20 minutes away, and i go to school with no one the same race as me. i was a little bit scared at first- but ive come to find that its a part of life that just has to happen. you cant always be in the same place all your life- otherwise youre not moving forward!- everything should work out fine. since your moving in the summer, you can see how the kids out there dress and everything- just remember- stay within your limits. even if every gurl out there is dressin like a hoochie- doesnt mean you have to.stay true to yourself, and HAVE FUN! - thats what your teenage years are all about! good luck, and i hope i helped. spitfire9631@yahoo.com
does anyone drive a mazda 6?
if so, what year is it?
do you like it?
how does it do on gas mileage?
how reliable is it?
is there anything else you can tell me about it?
also, does anyone drive a toyota corolla (that's all i see on the road now so i'm assuming someone does)?
if so, please answer the same questions.
i'm looking for a car and those are my two choices i have it down to. if anyone has any other suggestions, please let me know. i'm looking for a cute, small car that's good on gas.
thanks so much!
what about a bug?- theyre small, and AMAZING on gas. you didnt state if you were a guy or a gurl- but im guessin if your a girl- a bug could be an option! hope i helped!- good luck!
I relly need help. My hair used to look straight when it was long (down by my hips). I mean it was always wavy and the ends curled....but now people really notice it and I rather straight hair.
I straighten my hair at least once a week or once in 2 weeks and the other fews day it's wavy..i don't mind but when I straighten it...the straightening balm makes my hair luk oily. I was wondering if there's some product that doesn't make it luk oily but helps protect against heat damage?
well, if youre not caring about the cost, i would go to a fantastic sams and ask them to suggest one of their products. they run a little pricey- but nothing too outrageous. and remember- less really is more. you can always add more product- but when youre pressed for time- its a whole lot harder to take away product. but if you do in fact continue to use more- try applying just a little bit of baby powder to your scalp. not too much, though- otherwise your hair will start to look grey. hope i helped .good luck.
i am a 9th grader and at my school we got a pool.today we had to do a 3 by 3 which means swim three laps in the pool and three on the feild and then three in the pool again in less then 15 minutes. this week i havent been feeling to good. my period started of saturday so my stomach has been hurting, and my head. so today for some reason i was having trouble swimming because i was having a hard time breathing. i put in as much effort as i could to do my best becasue this was going to count as a grade. anyways the girls got a 2 minute head start and running isnt my thing and so when i ffinished tgree laps i was almost the last person in. my teacher decided to LOCK the gate that goes from the field to the pool. he told me that i had to go around which meant me in soakin wet clothes walk around the boys locker room and the wait room. so all that work i did was for nothin he is going to make me do it again.. i think that was messed up that he did that and he has no right. am i right? me and my mom r goin to have a talk to the VP about it tomorrow. but i was wondering if that is against the law that he just left us out there. he said i walked the whole thing which wasnt even true i ran as much as i could and when i got tired i stopped i even have other students see me running. and he said somethin that was not called for which was his 97 year old grandma could run faster then me. is the teacher allowed to not watch there students and leave them like that?
technically, no- the teachers arent allowed to leave their students like that. i mean, what if you got seriosuly hurt, or stopped breathing? i agree with your mom for wanting to go up to the school. i give her props on that one. and it sounds like your gym teacher is way sexist. first off- giving the girls a two minute head start- thats crazy. that right there shows that he has no confidence in his female students whatsoever. then, for the fact that he locked the gate and such shows that hes an ignorant sexist teacher. you both go get him in the morning. what he did was NOT right.
I recently sent some pictures to a male friend of mine. They were of me dressed up as a bridesmaid at my cousins wedding. Well I looked REALLY nice- normally I'm just a casual person. I had my hair done; makeup on; and a beautiful strapless empire gown on. I also had been dieting before the wedding and was slim and trim. Well I just got an email from him. He said that I looked awsome and that he could barely recognize me all dressed up; then he thanked me for the pics and said they were GREAT! My question is do you think he's attracted to me by what he said?
well, taking word for word what you said and putting it into my answer- i would say no. because you say that he told you he could barely reognize you. you say you are a casual person- and he complimented the way you looked all dressed up. if thats not THE you, then hes not into YOU.
What are some of the best tanning lotions .. yet still reasonable in price ( under $20)
tanning lotions dont work for me too well. i like tanning oils. they absorb more sun, and work quicker. i would suggest banana boat, or topicana. both are only about 6 or 7 dollars. hope i helped. good luck!
well i the last 2 month a had my period for only 2 days! and this month i only had it really short. there was just a little blood in my underwear and the next day i go this really bad cold and now i never lost any blood since then? so whats going on??? is it something i have to worry about? please help
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it doesnt sound like anything serious- just irregular. i wouldnt get too worried unless you start feeling different. like, nauseous, or any other weird feeling that you dont normally get, then id definetely go to a doctor. i mean, a doctor's the only person that could tell you anyways. hope i helped.
I wanna give my friend a cool nickname with something to do with her name. Her name's Victoria and her middle name's Nicole. What are some nicknames I could call her besides Vic, Vicky, Torie, and Toria?
Vinnie. . . . i dont really know. but a nickname isnt supposed to be thought about. it just kinda happens. like, me and my friend andrew were talking by the pool one day about 'finding nemo', and about the part where the one fish says, ' i shall call you my squishy'. so, then i just strted callin him squishy, and ever since then plenty of kids at school who didnt even know his real name knew him by 'squishy'. same thing with alot of my friends. nicknames just come whenever theres a silly moment btween the two of you. good luck. hope i helped.
Ok so we were signing yearbooks on our last day of school and the guy I like (Andrew) traded yearbooks with me to sign and i he signed his name and like no message and so i signed the same thing only have a gr8 summer. So my bff takes his yearbook and writes ps - she likes you, pointing an arrow to my message and i dont know if he likes me back or not i couldnt really tell his expression but he looked at me often before that. He might be trying to avoid me now that he knows. What am I supposed to think? Should I contact him over the summer? Or does he not like me?! HELPPP!!!
I rate 5's.
Thx in advance.
i ahte to break it to you- so please dont hate me- but im thinkin if he was boyfriend material in the first place and really had feelings for you and wasnt afraid to show them- that he probably would have told you by now-by all means, i could very well be wrong, but ive found in life that this is more than likely true.hope i helped.
so did your boyfriend get a new phone?
do you think i could go to the store and have them take a look at it? or would it be very stupid. and also would they give me a new phone.. i just got this phone last friday
they very wel may give you a new phone because you got it such a short time ago. but no, i dont think taking it up there would be stupid at all- if youre worried about your parents snappin on oyu- then its worth it, right? just try your hardest and look real sorry and sad about the whole thing. they may take pity on you. lol. if not, id check if your parent(s) have insurance on your phone. cuz i know my momma got insurance on her bill for all our phones. no matter the cost of your phone initially- if you losse it, or it get s damaged- they send you another one for fifty dollars. not bad if youve got a nyce phone.hope i helped.
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that was my question
yah i do have the pink razor but the pictures come out kinda wierd.. what are your settings for the phone?
all my pics have come in perfectly clear- theres one i took of my puppy that came in a lil blurry- but its only cuz she was movin. under pictures setup, i have it on automatic. the only time i change it is when im outside or im not in a fully light room. other than that- on automatic- it shuld probably give you as good of pictures as myne. i know my boyfriend's phone wasa lil mest up with his camera. he cracked the lens. you couldnt really tell by looking at it- but as time went n, it got wordse til he couldnt take pics anymore. hope i helped.
I'm looking for clothing companies that design clothes that have a sort of bohemian, retro-esque look similar to the clothes at Forever 21, Gadzooks, and 579. What are some other clothing companies and stores that sell that kind of clothing?
Thank you.
fossil, charlotte russe, actually -pretty much any clothing store in the mall. the bohemian look is very in this season, and clothing stores all over are coming out with different styles of bohemian every day. good luck. hope i helped.
i need some good creams or something to get rid of zits!!! i broke out today adn my forehead has like tiny little zits allllllll over it. i hate it. the only kind i know that works is proactiv...which is on the expensive side..and i only want to buy that as a last resort!
thanks
it sounds like its just prickly heat. if theyre little zitsd, thats morethan likely what it is. keep it cool. apply ice to it as much as you can to keep it from flaring up, and use noxcema- because it cools the skin leave it on until it stops tingling, and be sure to rinse it all off. hope i helped. good luck.
I spilled soda on my phone yesterday and it broke and now I'm afraid to tell my parents. It was an accident, the soda leaked in my purse, it wasnt out of carelessness or anything, but I dont know how to approach telling my parents!!
yuo gotta tell them. theyre gonna find out anyways- you might as well let them know rite away instead of worry ing yourself over it for a long time.