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guys are confusing but hottt. I like this guy in my calss and my friends want to know who it is, but everytime i tell someone who i like it gets to them, but i think they matured now cause last time i told them who i like was when we were 10 or something like that. do you think i should tell them who i like? and o well if it gets to them. or should i keep it a safe secret? (link)
keep it a secret if its that big of a deal to you, otherwise dont worry about it


I really like the song Jaded by Mest, but i don't wanna buy a cd for one song- does anyone have the cd? is it worth getting? (link)
if it has drawing board and f**ked up kid on it, its not a total waste of money


ok my mom and my sister tryed too hurt my brother bye browing up his car and i broke my sister noes and my mother wind sheild and i have no one too talk too about it no one understands help me and tell me what to do? im so lost i can't live with out my brother i dont have a father he killed him self. . (link)
wow you have it a lot worse than me, id say get a therapist, thats probably the only way you can get good help.


Should i ask out a girl everyone hates in school? (link)
if you like her, hell yes.


ok im 15 years old, and im bout 5'3 i weigh 100 pounds even, and im a size 0. but sumhow i always think im fat! my friends r like "your not fat, stop saying that" i mean yea im not the most self-confident person.. but i dont see why my weight bothers me so much. i dont have like rolls or ne thing. but im constantly talking about how i want to lose weight. yet i know im not fat... but at the same time i convince myself i am. i think it has to do with my x boyfriend, b/c he called me fat as a joke once, but since then.. ive been really concious about it. i dont know wut to do. or how i can stop being so obsessive about my weight and just my personality towards it in general....ne suggestions? thankx


L0v3 - brittany (link)
dont know how to help, but gain weight, thats pretty unhealty, i can tell you right now you wouldnt be over weight if you gained 10 pounds.


My brother got in some mess with some people.They are the type that do drugs have gone through lost of shyt in life.Well my brother did something and they took it very personal and came down to our house and began yelling at the door.but we have a gate so he couldnt come in but he was real ruff he also came with his older brother; i guess thay wanted to fight.Well the younger one which is 17 busted out with im gonna kill you or something like that and that boy is known to have a dangerous background.im really scared i dont know what to do.im very confused my brother tells me not to worry but how am i not suppose to.plz help me!ive thought about calling the police but i dont think i can go through with it until that boy took some serious actions. (link)
tell your parents or somebody close, maybe a teacher, theyll do something to help.


Okay, a long time ago i promised my friend i would be an old time gal w/ her for halloween. now i dont no if i still want to b that. I have 3 choices picked out 4 me. Should i be...
1.) an old time gal (fancey gown, gloves, hats,ect.)
2.) Buffy the Vampire Slayer
3.) Carly Patterson a gold medalist olympic gymnast (2004)

i'll rate u
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#1, it seems the most creative


ok is there a way u can get ur arms like..more strong like more shape cuz mine have fat that needs to go..like wut helps? dont say pull ups..lol cant do those ..but if neone knows ne work out ways like explain it ..um that would help thx (link)
push ups and lifting weights



my friend is 14/m and he keeps askin me how to ask out a girl and etc..
and he asked how to flirt and i said idk..and he said well teach me..and i said well it comes natural and etc..and he said yeah i know but not when your under pressure...

can u tell me how to tell him how to flirt w/ this girl and etc.. (link)
well i cant really tell you how because it does come naturally. i guess just say compliments, and hang around the person a lot. not much to it really, sorry i couldnt explain it better.


Hello! I am a 14 year old young lady and I need help with this certain problem. Where I go to school, there are alot of people that dress "punk" or something like that. I love to dress that way and I wear punk clothes outside of school though. I don't want to wear my punky clothes in school because people see me as this smart and conservative girl. Yes, I do have good grades and I am conservative, but I love to dress "punk", but I am afraid that people will see me as this "wannabe" or "poser" and I don't want that to happen. What should I do? Do what I am doing now or should I finally stop hiding from the shadows? I know what people will say, they will say that I should not care what others think, but it's not that easy when you're a teen! Please help and I would really appreciate it! Thank you again! (link)
just wear some stuff at school, like bracelets, certain shirts, converse, etc. dont wear all of your stuff so you look really really punk, so what im trying to say is dont over do it at school.


i've been playing guitar for a while now, and think i should take a step up from my junk old one. i don't have the deepest pockets, but might be able to manage around $400 after a while. I'm not so much into the les paul or stratocaster hype and am looking for something different and good, but not too gothic looking, my main choices so far are the fender cyclone, the ESP viper, and the epiphone flying V. any suggestions are appreciated, thanks (link)
ESP Viper 400's are nice, check out Fender Telecasters too.


okay well i feel really stupid asking this but okay here i go.. i have done everything with a guy besides suck dick/blowjob w/e.. okay and its not that i dont want to bc i do but im scared! What if i dont do it right or sumthing?! Do you have any advice on how to do it or step by step or anything?! If so thanx! i really appreciate it!
-Desperate girl- (link)
im a guy, so i cant really walk you through it, but im almost 100% positive you wont mess up, just dont use your teeth.


Homecomings coming up which means the dance, the pep rally, and the bon fire. One of the best weeks of school. And its great cause I actually have someone to go with to the dance. :) I need a dress though still. So my question is, what can I do during homecoming to make the best of it? And whats a good kind of dress to wear? Or even just say if your goin this year to urs or a past experience. I want this homecoming to be really memorable, especially cause of the guy Im with now. :) (link)
dont know about a dress because im a guy, but knock people into the home coming court, thats always fun. bring a lot of friends so youre guarenteed fun, and if youre really rebelious, spike the punch :/


ok lets see if i can get this right lol...

-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long)


ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...

he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..
- i said "no"
- he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl"
- i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..

i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he doesnt want to listen to listen when he knows its true...

and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...

-he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx

P.S. i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..then later on the other night on-line what this girls name is and
he said "marissa"

--- when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again

- i think i already hinted that i liked him...im just not suree if he is affaird to ask me out bc i said i rejected 5 guys- (link)
ok, im really not good at these kind of things, but id say he likes you. there might be somebody else and hes asking for advice because youre close, or because he wants to ask you and not get turned down. its kind of intimidating if he knows you rejected 5 people, then hes probably nervous to ask you.

i could be wrong, but hope i helped


ok i have kingdom hearts for the ps2 and im stuck in jungke land with tarzan but i dont know how to go save the lady all the monkeys fight me and the way i get to the tree house i sealed in thaty one save spot where u jump down the log and slide down the tree thatpot is sealed well il rate if u can help me thanks (link)
ok, i dont know the answer, but go to gamefaqs.com and check out the FAQ's or message boards, they have a lot of info.


I really really want to learn guitar. I looked into lessons but their like 20$ a half hour! Its crazy. My friends tell me to just teach myself, but I have no idea how. And my sister told me to get a book or DVD on it to learn from. What do you think? And guitsrists around that could help me? lol. And anyone who taught themselves, how did you and how long did it take? (link)
ok, i learned tabs first, which is nothing like reading music, which i find easier anyway. go here for help.

ultimate-guitar.com
mxtabs.net
cyberfret.com

ive been teaching myself for 2 years, but now i want to learn chords and music theory, and im getting lessons for 15 dollars per half hour, but im pretty good at guitar i guess, teaching myself was just fine. dont get rock guitar for dummies though, its horrible.


I NEED to learn how to swallow pills... i just cant do it, i have a huge gag reflex but i'm in so much pain and the only med. i can get is swallowable. Anyone know any tricks?? (link)
put the pill on the back of your tongue, fill your mouth with water, and swallow while looking up. worked for me, and how i can do it without water.


What is an American dollar worth in English pounds? (link)
1 dollar = 0.554260 Great Britain Pounds

i dont think thats right, but i got it from XE.com


HELP! how much money should i give my friend for her Sweet 16 tonight? (link)
how much do you give her normally? maybe double that, just make sure to give more than before.


well, im turning 14 in february and i wanna go somewhere special with three of my friends... i live in miami(it might help if u knew that) any ideas where i can go???? thanxxxxxxxxx (link)
go to cocoa or daytona beach if you want to stay in FL




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