What does a fleur de le mean?
flower of the lily.
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Can anyone suggest a curling iron for me that gets really hot, really fast, and won't fry my hair?
Something below $75, please. :)
I love Sally Beauty Care things.
they always heat fast and are good for my hair.
http://www.sallybeauty.com/styling-appliances-curling-irons/Hair09-01,default,sc.html
look through those. i would tell you the price but it varies by store, and i don't know where you live lol.
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hey u answered my question a few days ago about my "player" boyfriend my mom thinks and doesnt like him. What should i do if my mom wont let him come over or me see him?
Convince her, do some major sucking up and tell her it would mean a lot to you for her to just give him one more chance.
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So I used to have medius golden blonde hair, and last night I dyed it light brown.
It looks fine, but just looking at it bores me to death!
I wanna do somthing crazy to it!
But something that will still look good!
I dont have a lot of options for cutting it (its naturally very curly, however I straighten it sometimes)
And another question..
How long do you have to wait after dying your hair one color to dye it another?
please give me some ideas and if possible pics!
http://www.short-hair-style.com/images/blonde_hairstyle_swave01.jpg
http://www.short-hair-style.com/images/short_curly_hair_top.jpg
http://hairstyles.free-beauty-tips.com/pics/curly.jpg
http://z.about.com/d/beauty/1/0/C/i/curly18.JPG
Try some of those, and if you don't like any, just goto a salon and ask what would be best for you, or just call and ask.
Otherwise I'd say to just try parting it a different way and see how you like it.
You're supposed to wait three or four weeks.
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i am told that i have borderline personality disorder..... what can i do to deal with it? it constantly feels like i am emotionally severely burned and any touch or movement aches terribly.... what can i do... i can't seem to block it....
I found these steps online, so try some of these:
1. Understand what the term "Borderline Personality Disorder" (BPD) means. It can be described as one or more of the following.
* Poor, or lack of control over emotions.
* Lack of, or lapses in, basic social skills.
* Sudden changes in mood, frequently changing opinions and plans.
* Inability to maintain a normal relationship, throwing temper tantrums, arguing over insignificant events, and dislaying uncontrolled anger, often for no apparent reason.
* Fear of lonliness, isolation, or a tendancy to keep people away.
* Suicidal behavior, and attempts or occurances of self-mutilation.
2. Recognize these signs of behavior in the person you care about or have an interest in, or may be in a relationship with, so that you can understand what may be behind these, or similar other behaviors.
3. Understand the causes of BPD. Research indicates that both heredity and enviromental factors may be involved in the onset of BPD.
* If one person in a family has BPD, it is more likely that siblings or offspring will be more likely to become victims of this condition.
* Being raised in a disfunctional family may contribute to BPD. Alcoholic parents, abusive parents or siblings, and poor nutrition, hygiene, and living conditions may also contribute.
* Women are considered more likely to suffer the effects of BPD, especially if they were victims of sexual abuse as children.
4. Know when to seek professional help with BPD. Because some of the behaviors are just completely unacceptable socially, even if you are hesitant to deal with the choice of seeking medical treatment, in the long term, it will likely be best for the person who suffers from BPD.
5. *If the person has intentionally hurt their self, or attempted suicide, or if they have threatened to commit suicide.
* If the person has intentionally hurt someone else, and shown no remorse or regret for their action.
* If the person suffering from BPD consistantly shows lack of regard for normal social behavior to a degree where they are unable to function in work (or school) and social settings.
6. Deal with the BPD sufferer with patience and understanding. They suffer from a medical condition which is not their fault, and being supportive and patient will help them to live a normal, productive life.
7. Make friends and persons who you associate with aware of the BPD suffer's problem, so that they can understand the cause of inappropriate behavior when the condition manifests itself. This may seem on the surface to be a breach of trust, but in the long run, these people will observe the abherrant behavior, and if they understand the underlying cause of it, they will be more likely to react with compassion and understanding.
* Encourage people who you socially interact with not to overreact to any outbursts, emotional displays, or other behavior, as the BPD sufferer may see an overreaction as an escalating factor in their behavior, which they may consider normal.
* Explain to teachers or employers or fellow employees the circumstances around any displays of emotional instability or other behavior, so that they may have a better grasp of the reason for this behavior. Even an understanding person may find it difficult to ignore serious outbursts or emotional swings, but at least they will have a warning it may be expected.
8. Encourage people to accept people for who they are, get to know them and come to understand why people are the way they are, and that they may have little choice the in matter. One might also discover they have legitimate reasons for the way they are and do things.
9. Gently reason with and point out behaviors or inappropriate activities that the BPD sufferer may be engaging in, and explain the consequences of them.
10. Be observant of the alcohol or drug abuse behavior. These are sometimes exhibited by BPD sufferers.
11. Observe dietary and hygeinic habits of the BPD sufferer. They commonly overindulge in food, or eat in an unhealthy or compulsive manner, and fail to observe good hygiene.
12. Remember that if you have to, or want to deal with someone who is Borderline, do not play to their ideal. They will build you up and then knock you down, to prove that all their past misery has been justified.
13. Consider this rule of thumb in any relationship is be yourself and be honest. Even though every relationship requires compromise and consideration, and a degree of change, if others cannot accept the real you it is not going to work. In a very casual relationship one may play the counterpoint. The trick is to be the opposite of their ideal, but retain their respect and thus perhaps friendship. Playing counterpoint by argument alone won't fly. So if counterpoint isn't by living conviction a relationship may be at best difficult if not impossible.
14. Keep a honest perspective, especially in regard to your own needs. develop friendships and social interactions with other people, making sure you are not sacrificing your own quality of life in your efforts to deal with someone who suffers from BPD.
Also, there was a "tip" section, and it said to either buy or read the book: "Walking on Eggshells", by Jane Isay.
A warning was: Borderline Personality Disorder sufferers may cause themselves or others serious harm. In the event the potential for this harm arises, be vigilant, and take action to prevent it if you are able.
Hope I helped, let me know. =]
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so my cycle is irregular.
and it comes every other month for 10days.
im on it right now.
is there anyway to make the number of days your on your period shorter?
besides meds?
anddddd
im goingto be sitting on a van for like 18 hours.
and im on my period.
any advice on not leaking?!
please?
1. The way I had to get mine regular was birth control, I'm pretty sure there's no other way to make it regular.
2. To keep it from not leaking, use a heavier pad before you leave or use a nighttime one. & Every time you goto the bathroom at a gas station or something, just check and make sure they are no leaks, and change the pad if you have to.
Hope I helped, let me know. =]
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how can i have a FLAT stomach?
especially the bottom part of the stomach/abs
http://www.flat-stomach-exercises.info/flat-stomach-exercises/stomach-exercises.html
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how can i learn how to dance online?
is there any online website i can go to to learn it STEP BY STEP, more preferably while watching a video?
youtube doesnt help me but if there is a user you would recommend, please doo
I REALLLY WAANNNT TO LEARN HOW TO DANCE
I HAVE A PASSSSSSSSIIIOONN for it...
also if you recomeend me taking dance lessons at a studio i cant i dont have money but WOULDNT THAT BE GREAT TO LEARN IT IN PERSON?
well. try some of these websites?
http://www.pfunkonline.com/dance-lessons/hiphop-dancing-tips.html
http://www.learntodance.com/
http://www.salsadancedvd.com/
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umm have you ever seen oceans 13? cause in it they keep saying "the nose plays" or the nose did play and i have no idea wat that means and have been trying to figure it out so if u do could u just tell me? thnks
-gina 15
it just means that it helped the disguise matt damon had.
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Is it true that they all come in different shapes? Do guys love them no matter what? I'm kind of self conscious about mine..
Yes. Everyone's breasts are different, and you usually can't control how they turn out.
Every guy has a different preference. Some guys like skinny girls with small boobs, skinny girls with big boobs, fat girls with big boobs, etc.
There's no need to be self-conscious. Whatever guy you like, and likes you, will love you and your boobs no matter what, haha. =]
hope i helped, let me know.
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how do you do speed dial on a samsung sync phone? i want to add more people to it but i don't remember how
read the review someone wrote, and see if this helps.
hope i helped, let me know.
http://www.phonescoop.com/phones/user_reviews.php?phone=1063&r=27656
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ok, yea im a cheerleader. woooo, yea whatever. ok, but anyways. ive been cheerleading for almost 7 years now and i loveeeee stuting and tumbling. im a flyer and ive been working on my heel stretch. i have it, but im not sure if i can do it in the air. and PLEASE EXPLAIN HOW TO DO A FULL DOWN, ive done one like 2 years ago but now im scared and forgot how.
first off, watch this video so you get a good idea:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xqphvgGYfWs
then:
Full Down
A full down is an advanced dismount for an extension prep. The bases and back spot do the same as they would for a cradle. The flyer twists herself by her body position. The bases do not cause the twisting.
1. The flyer waits for the throw.
2. Once she hits the top, she takes a pocket to pocket technique, remembering not to drop her shoulders or look down. Pocket to pocket is keeping arms straight, but placing them in different places (one by the front pocket and other far back pocket). For example, if you are going to turn to the left you place your right arm across your chest to touch your left front pocket. The left arm goes behind your back to touch your right back pocket. Look to the left with head.
3. Once the flyer has spun around, she snaps into a pike.
You have to have a lot of power and whip into it.
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How do I look like a twilight vampire? How do they do their eye makeup? I know they use lavender eye shadow on their eyelid and underneath their eye, but how do I do that right? Also can I look like them with brown eyes?
For the bruise-like shadows under your eyes, apply as much mascara as you can before bed, and when you wake up, you'll have panda-eyes. Just put on some light pale lavender colored eyeshadow or other make-up on top of it.
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so im 14/f and i am trying out for volleyball this year.
i was on vacation and missed some of the clinics and captains practices.
I'm going to a clinic tomorrow but i have NO IDEA how to play volleyball. Like, absolutely no clue.
And i'm kind of out of shape and stuff.
I'm really nervous about going to my first clinic because i've never played a sport before and i'm just like shaking here.
So what can i do to calm my nerves, be productive at the clinic, and make the team?
thanks!
First off, take deep breaths. I had never played, missed a few clinics, went to one, then tried out, made it.
Just calm down because if you're nervous and shaky, you're going to mess up ten times more than you planned on.
Just do some stretches, look up volleyball videos on youtube, and just watch. The instructor tomorrow will help you. Don't worry. =]
Hope i helped, let me know. =]
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okayy. there is this girl and she has been my best friend since she was born. but she is stating to become very bitchy. she doesnt get her period and she is only in 6th grade.
but she was a big copier.
last year she copied me none stop.
now she isnt, but ever since she had these new 'friends' [i think they are using her] she has been not talking to me like i'm her friend.
she makes me feel like crap sometimes.
but its not like i can just ditch her.
our parents have been bff's since 7th grade!
what do i do?
First off, talk to your parents about her, and tell them you just don't feel like she's being a good friend anymore. It's not like your parents are going to disown you for not wanting to be friends with her.
Then, after you talk to them, call her or go see her and tell her how you feel.
If she's still being bitchy, just tell her you don't want to deal with it anymore and you'll just wait for her to change back to how she used to be.
Then just move on, don't think about her. Keep yourself busy so you don't have to sit down and result in thinking about her.
good luck and don't let her talk down to you.
hope i helped.
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I'm 14 and a half. I get massssive discharge, especially in a certian pair of pannies. anyway, my sister got hers in 7th. my mom got it in 6th my other sister in 7th. Why Haven't i got it yet.
so ttwo questions.
1. why dont i have it
2. how come in one certain pair i get more discharge?
Everyone IS different, but I got mine later than cousins and my mom also.
You'll get it soon, I promise. =]
Don't worry about it. Enjoy it while you can haha.
& I also get massive discharge, nothing to worry about. =]
hope i helped, let me know. =]
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My bf and i are 15 and i really lke him we make out and i want to start to do more but hes bit nervous hes insecure about his penis size its not real big i told him no to do worry it doesnt matter much what else can i do so hes not nervous? whats the average size for his age?
Just tell him, be like, "I care about you, now would I lie to you?"
Tell him it's fine and all that, and he should just accept the fact.
Average is about 4-6 inches.
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this is weird but do guys not like when girls don't shave their..area?
Some guys do, some guys don't.
If you're worried about it, just keep it somewhat shaven. =]
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Does anyone know if that Nivea lotion that reduces cellulite really works?
I've been using it and I kinda feel the difference but I don't know if I'm just imagining it. hah...
so lemme know :)
thanks.
Hope this article helps you. =]
http://hubpages.com/hub/Cellulite-Reduction
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Okay so my hair is very thick. It was kind of unhealthy so I trimmed it myself... which I've never really done before.
...I heard that if you cut your hair a certain way, it may take awhile to grow back to the way it was. My hair usually grows extremely fast... and I cut it months ago and it's barely grown. I mean it does little by little but is there something wrong with my hair? I cut a few inches off and it's still pretty close to the same length... maybe a few centimeters longer..
I try to use some good shampoo and conditioners but i don't even know if that will really help.
should I worry?
will it grow back normally eventually? =[
It should grow back normally. Just keep it combed and healthy and you'll be fine.
You could even call a local salon and see if they recommend any type of shampoo & conditioning for your hair.
hope i helped. let me know. =]
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