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Hello There!Erm where do I start?Well, my name is Vikki-Kimberly =)Im a good person. I dont bite =)I give people thousands of chances.I like to eat healthy... and... I have advice on practicly anything.I am in acting/signing/dancing groups.Yeah... Im just... easy to talk to. =)

advice

does anyone know a realllly really good concealer or cover up the covers up under eye bags? im 16/f and i have hereditery eye bags so no cream gets rid of it, ive tried the best of the best. and i get a lot of sleep and drink tons of water, so nothing like that works. so i was wondering if you had any tips or any good cover ups for me, thanks in advance!

My mate says she uses spoons for 10 mins on her eyelids... that have been in the frezzer for 10 mins.
I have never actually tried this as i don thave them. If you dont want to do that, and to be honest i wouldnt want to... Try cumcumbers instead.

Also a healthy diet helps in every way possible. So give it a try.

Just remember too much sleep is as bad as too litle sleep!

Good Luck!

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It would help me soooo soo much if you could do this.. it wont take tht long..


what i would like you to do is say whether these are books films or both..

whatever comes to your head first..

to see whether my theory is right..



1984

Alice in Wonderland

American Psycho

Breakfast at Tiffany's

Brighton Rock

Catch 22

Charlie & the Chocolate Factory

A Clockwork Orange

Brokeback Mountain

The Day of the Triffids

Devil in a Blue Dress

Different Seasons (inc The Shawshank Redemption)

Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep? (aka Bladerunner)

Doctor Zhivago

Empire of the Sun

The English Patient

Fight Club

The French Lieutenant's Woman

Get Shorty

The Godfather

Goldfinger

Goodfellas

Heart of Darkness (aka Apocalypse Now)

The Hound of the Baskervilles

Jaws

The Jungle Book

A Kestrel for a Knave (aka Kes)

LA Confidential

Les Liaisons Dangereuses

Lolita

Lord of the Flies

The Maltese Falcon

Oliver Twist

One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest

Orlando

The Outsiders

Pride and Prejudice

The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie

The Railway Children

Rebecca

The Remains of the Day

Schindler's List

Sin City

The Spy Who Came in From the Cold

The Talented Mr Ripley

Tess of the D'Urbervilles

To Kill a Mockingbird

Trainspotting

The Vanishing

Watership Down

Lord of The Rings

Harry Potter

The Shawshank Redemption

Stand By Me


it would be awsome if you could do it..

I Cant answer All of then but ill andser what i can

1984
Alice in Wonderland > both
American Psycho
Breakfast at Tiffany's > film i think
Brighton Rock
Catch 22
Charlie & the Chocolate Factory > both
A Clockwork Orange
Brokeback Mountain
The Day of the Triffids
Devil in a Blue Dress
Different Seasons (inc The Shawshank Redemption)
Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep? (aka bladerunner)
Doctor Zhivago
Empire of the Sun
The English Patient
Fight Club
The French Lieutenant's Woman
Get Shorty
The Godfather
Goldfinger
Goodfellas
Heart of Darkness (aka Apocalypse Now)
The Hound of the Baskervilles
Jaws > film i think
The Jungle Book > both i think
A Kestrel for a Knave (aka Kes)
LA Confidential
Les Liaisons Dangereuses
Lolita
Lord of the Flies > book i think
The Maltese Falcon
Oliver Twist > both
One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest
Orlando
The Outsiders
Pride and Prejudice > both
The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie
The Railway Children > both
Rebecca
The Remains of the Day
Schindler's List
Sin City
The Spy Who Came in From the Cold
The Talented Mr Ripley
Tess of the D'Urbervilles
To Kill a Mockingbird > both
Trainspotting
The Vanishing
Watership Down >both
Lord of The Rings > Both
Harry Potter > both
The Shawshank Redemption
Stand By Me

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i havent even made out with a guy yet. like ive been planning on to, but i guess it just hasnt happend. a few times i got peer pressured into it, but i would back away cause i dont wanna everyone there watching. i just get uncomfortable. i just want it to be the right moment with the right guy. and im only 13. is that normal that i havent hooked up with a guy yet?

HEy!
Never Be PRessured Into Sumthing You Realy Dont Want TO DO...
My First Kiss Was Whe I Was 14n 1/2
But Dont Go Round Kissing Anyone... Or Anyway
Whait For The right Guy At The Right Time... IT Has To Be Special

ForMe It WAs With A Guy Called Jay... At My AutieWedding.. On The Dancefloor.. Slowdancing TO Angels - RObbie Willams

For My Friends It Was In The Rain Before She Went OnHoliday For A Week To France.. When She Was 15

HEy Everyone Is Different

Good Luck. And Take CAre
xXx

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so ya me and my bf like having oral and i was wondering, he likes to stick his tounge all the way up my vagina, and i mean ALL the way! is that normal?

also, my boobs are huge, theyre D's, and i have a friend who isnt my bf, but he really likes to squeeze my boobs and touch my when im naked. is that cheating?

ERmWell ITs Just Personal PRefrence I Guess...

And Ds R Not Huge... Im A D... Not That Bad...

Yes ITs Cheating...The Only PErson That Should EVER see You Naked Is... Mum/Dad -ObvWen Ur Little... And Boyfriend... So...Yeh...

No OFfence By The Way
And Happy Days ToYou And Your Bf
xXx

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well...i am a cutter. i have been cutting for about a year now. by the way i am 13 and female. i want to know why i feel so great after i do cut. its like nothing is wrong after i cut. i have tried to stop....but it has never worked.

also... do u know where i could find other people that are self addmitted cutters?

I USedTo Cut..
From When I Was 11-14 [Earlier This YEar]
Yes ITs HArd To Stop
Espeically When YOu Do It For A Long Time...
LikeI Did..

It Feel Good Because, ThePain Your Feeling Emotionaly... You Making IT Physocal Pain.
Its A PHyscological Thing Of Why Its Feels So Good.

But Please Do Try TO Stop.
Its Not Great To Make AHabit OF IT Like I Did.

I Have A Few Suggestions...
- Tell your CLOSEST MATE... AndThey Should Help You Through It.
-Ice Cube(s)... When You Want To Cut.. Hold Ice Cube(s) In YOur Hand And LEt It MElt.... It Seems Stupid But It Isnt... And Yes It MiteHurtAndMake Your Hand Numb/Stingy.... Its Meant To.
- Throw All The Stuff U LikeTo Cut With.. Away.
- If Your Really Cant Stop Yourself... Just Before YouDo IT... Take AStep Back.... Think "IS it Really Worth It?" "Why Am I Doing This"
-CRY!... Always A Good thing... Crying Really Does Help

Trust Me
Good Luck
And Take Cre
FeelFreeTo AddMe
xXx

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Well, for the past year I've been feeling more and more depressed.

I criticise everything I do/say/think - no matter how small - which almost always makes me feel like a horrible person and a failure. Looking back on the things I have done/said/thought (again, no matter how insignificant they might be), I want to smash my head against a wall or somehow erase it all.

Most days, I wake up morning and I just sit there. I feel I have no reason whatsoever to get out of bed. Whats the point when it all means nothing anyway.

My grades are falling. I have no energy, even after sleep, or desire for the things I used to like.

I find it hard to concentrate and everything seems blurry.

Despite this, I try to act normal around other people.

It's getting to the point where I can't take it..

Sometimes I just want to end it all.. The main thing that has stopped me killing myself is my family and friends; I don't want to make them suffer. I know it's selfish and pathetic..

I don't know what to do any more..
I know I have people to talk to about this s**t, but I'm just to damn scared to do it.
They'll just say I'm pathetic and overdramatic..

What can I do?

I've gone on for to long. Sorry for the rant and for wasting your time.. Thanks for reading.

(17, male.)

Ive FeltLike This Before.
Try Drinking Lots Of Water For A Start!
IT GetAll The Crap Frm Ur System Out Of You...
And Refresh You In General.

Secondly... Change You Diet A LittleBit.
Maybe Go Out OnceA Night Or Have One Time In The Week Day.. Jus HavingFun

And Start ADiary.. A Monthly One... Write Inn It Like Ev Day [Write All The BAd ThoughtsN Stuff In Ur Head] AndThen At The End Of The Month Burn It... [Burn It Safely Though!]

And Your Grades... EveryoneStarts To Get Their Grades Going Down At Some Point... HAppens To Everyone.

Lastly... Instead OF REflectig The BAd Stuff YOu've Said/Done
Reflect On The Good Stuff Instead =)

Dnt Do Anything Silly Now =)

Good Luck
Take Care!
xXx

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me and my boyfriend have been pretty serious for about a year. but at the same time tryign to keep it calm.. we dont talk every day.. or see eachother EVERYDAY.. we dont go to school together or anything.. im SOOO inlove with him.. for about 6 or more months i have been waking up in the middle of the night.. like i dont want to sleep because hes not with me, or i jsut cant stop thinking about it. thinking about things wev gone out and did.. or what were goign to do.. or jsut thinking about him. it seems to wake me up and sometimes i cant even get back to sleep... does this seem like im obessed??? is this unhealthy?? by the way im 18/f.. thanks for any opinions and advice.

Seems U Love Him =)



Maybe If You Get A Litle Bit More Serious...
It May Help A Bit
But Not Too Sirious...

Its Good To Have PErsonal Space

Good Luck
xXx

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i'm not really that fat and i am pretty active everyday since i play softball but i want to tone up my stomach for swimsuit season. i don't have a problem exercising at all but the diet for me is difficult. i always find myself either eating yogurt for breakfast (which isn't the problem because i love yogurt) a sandwich for lunch and a salad for dinner but i get bored really fast with these foods. does anyone have any other foods to help me lose a few pounds?

Firstly Because You Do Sports Your Going To Need Something With Cabrohydrate In... For Your Energy.

A Main Poinnt On Dieting Is That you DontHave To Resrtict Yourself To This You CAn Have Snacks.... buh Healthy Ones...
For Example An Apple.

And If You Get Bored With Them..
Try OtherThings Instead Like Have A Veggie Soup.
Or... Sottage Pir, Or Something Like That

Try TO Drink Lots Of Water And FRuit Juice too
And Eat Lots Of Fruit And Veg Too...
Youll Be Losing Pounds Before You Know It.

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honestly people,
i hate everything. my family. my friends. my school. my cheerleading team. i cant take anything anymore..someone please help me.

Okay,
Take Some Time Out....
Have A Few Minutes Each Day In A Quiet Room... Alone In Silence And Jus Think Of Stuff That Makes YOu Happy.

Also Try To Pretend Laugh/Smile Even Though You might Not Feel That WAy Inside. If You Jus PRetend Then Before You'll Know IT You Wont Have To....

Um Try Going On A Healthy Diet For A Few Days.... Or Something Refreshing... Like Swimming Or... Something Different Than Your Ordinary Stuff.

Also, Try Have A Long Nap, You May Be Tired.

Lastly, Try And Jus Talk To The People You Are "Hating" Tell One Or Two Of Them How You Feel. They Could Really Help... And Youll Feel Better TElling Them.

Good Luck
xXx

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Since atleast middle school I have made bad impressions on people who don't know me. I am an extremly shy person when I first meet someone and it comes off as being snobbish. I know that is the way I act but it is so hard to change it. I am also worried that the relationships I have made recently might not be able to be recovered because they already have that other me stuck in their head.
The question I have is, has anyone else had that kind problem and how they overcame it.
The reason I am asking is because my boyfriends family members (some of them) have not really liked me because of these impressions. I really want them to like me but I don't know how to get over my shyness. I know people say just don't care what they think and be yourself but it feels like there is something stopping me. I have had more than one of my current friends tell me that that is the reason they second guessed being friends with me and I just really don't want that to happen anymore. Please help me find a way to get over my shyness?

I Used To Be Like You In My Junior School
Erm I Over Came It Though When I Went To High School
Erm Just Go ForAnything. ATEacher Asks For Someone To REad You Do It. Someone Needs A Extre Person In A Talent Show Go For It!
Go ForAnything You Can
Erm And There NewPeople. Try Get To Know A Few People In Different GRoups.Then Get ToKnowThere FRiends Then Im Sure Noone Will Think You "Snobish"
And Your BoyfriendsFamily.... Smile! Thats Always A Good FActor.
Try When Your aloneTo Stare At Yourself In TheMirror AndThink OrSay " I Am Confident" Quite AF ew Times... And Its should Help.
Good Luck
=)

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i'm auditioning for a play on friday, but for the singing part, i have no idea what song to do!
i can pretty much do any tone and have a wide range, so thats fine, but i'm really stuck on what would should that i have that. Any ideas for songs that show my range and are good for auditions? thank you :]

I Recommend A Song From A Musical.
Example. I'd Do Anything from Oliver
Make Sence?
Erm Another thing i suggest. If The Character You Are Auditioning For is a "Rough And Tough" Person do That Type Of Song... If Its is a "Lovey Dovey"PErson I Suggest You Do A HArmony/Heavenly Type signing

Sorry Bout The Bad Describing Words Hehe

GOOD LUCK AT THE AUDITION! =D

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Okay.
im 14 and still in a twin bed and I hate it.
Im talking to my Mom about getting a new bed a bigger bed and she's talking Christmas!! well I was wondering if anyone knew how much they usually go for so I can start saving up, I already have like 200 but do not wanna clean my saving out when i know there expensive. also if anyone knows any chain of Matress stores that sell Matresses and Box Springs Cheep.
I live in New Hampshire so anythign will be helpful

Try looking on ebay or somewhere second hand maybe there a bit cheaper.
But otherwisse try buy a bed from somewhere like DFS when the sales are on
Good luck=)

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i go to a sleepaway camp and this is my second year, this summer. last year which was my first year i got put into a bunk where i didnt really fit in, i had 3 friends. i was really close with the other bunk, i went in there all the time. i told the other bunk i want to switch into their bunk next year, and they agreed. well, forms and request sheets [bunk requests] are due april 15. the bunk i want to be in , they are all making a chain so they will all end up in the same bunk. i told my friend im gonna join there bunk and at first she said i could, now another girl in their bunk is saying she thinks it will be weird if I join because ive never been in it before, but that is the dumbest thing ive ever heard. like are you serious, i went in their bunk everyday last summer. i was basically part of it. i was friends with most of them. now a few of them are saying they dont want me to join it 1.) because they think it will be weird [which i find complete b.s.] 2.) they dont want to mess up the bunk request chain. they think ill mess it up. and okay first of all, they had a girl switch into their bunk last year and they were perfectly fine, but now when i ask, and last year they said i could, now they suddenly want to change their minds. i think it is so incredibly rude and ignorant of them to not want me in it, they think ill mess up their little clique. what the hell i was basically part of that. like wtf. half of them want me in it, only a few dont. but its like how bitchy is that, to not let someone in, because they think ill be "intruding" on their little cliqey group. that is bull shit. they didnt tell me that, but that is sooo obvious that is the reason. okay ive been crying ALL DAY i even got picked up early from school because i felt sick from crying so much. no one is helping me with this!! i cant think! i cant concentrate! and i really dont ant to go back to my old bunk, i felt so uncomfortable in there. so now its like im stuck. i have no choice. please please someone help me, i feel like if i dont get help soon ill become depressed, i am so sad right now. ever since last night, i cried myself to sleep. this is tearing me apart.

First thing dont feel to upset. friends have these little things sometimes. Maybe its this new girl that trying to convince them.

But this other bunk you were in. The second year might be better. Seeing as its your second time this time.
I know when I went to camp. The second year is always better than the first for me and my friends, becuase you feel a little bit more relaxed ect.

Try calmly talking to the girl you your really close to in the bunk you want to move to. She might suade the others =)
xXx
Good luck and that.
Have fun at camp.
Dont get to upset! =)
xXx

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im so confused i dont know what to do. i like 2 guys. one i have liked for 5 years(dustin) and one i have liked for about 2 or 3 years(justin) both have told me they love me.justin still does but ever since dustin has talked to his mom and his mom has gotten in the middle of us dustin doesnt say it anymore. dustin wants to take it slow and justin is willing to wait for me. but im just i dont know wat to do. i love them both but its just so hard. i have to wait to go out with dustin but i dont have to for justin but if i did he would wait for me. i need help HOW DO YOU CHOOSE THE RIGHT GUY!?

To be honest.
At the moment I dont thing you should go for either of them.
You obviously dont know who you like best.
Dont get me wrong. They sound like nice guys
and alot of people get in this situation.
Try talking to Dustin alone about if he still loves you.
However when you do decide which guy. Make sure you let the other guy down gently.
Good Luck with your decision
Hope Ive helped a bit.

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