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my friends gf broke up with him and hes really depressed and shes such a bitch to him was and still is im like forget about her u can do some much better hes like no i cant! im like watever yea u can i dont knw wat to tell him (link)
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Hi there,
You seem like a concerned friend and all you can do is just be there for him.
Breaking up with a loved one is a hard thing to get over. It takes time. For a while hell wish ther were still together and he'll still like him. But in time, he'll have moved on and gotten over her.
There's so many other girls out there, he'll find the right one. It takes time to find the right girl. There will most likely be other break ups in his life, but he'll overcome them and in the end it will be worth it because he'll find the right girl and he'll be happy.
I know what this is like, It's hard enough as it is to get over people, so it'd best to start as soon as possible instead of dragging his emotions out for ages.
OK so if he's only left with the option of getting over her then lets try and go about this the best way. Tell him not to limit himself to one girl! OK, she'll always be special to him; but nothing is going to change that - keep the memories but now move on. A good way to start getting over someone is to get out all his emotions about them to a friend/down on paper. Once they're out of his system... let them go.
Suggest to keep himself busy, so he can't get down thinking of her. Go out: socialise, join new clubs, meet new people... even meet new girls!
The best way to cure a broken heart is to fall for someone else. Ofcourse he can't force himself to do this, but it will come in time and hopefully the next girl he likes will be just as lovely as this one. So have fun, flirt and get over her!.
All the best with your friend
Good Luck!
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my sister always takes my parents side. like, usually when a parent is unfair to the kids, the kids take sides right?? well for example, my parents won't let me pierce my ears till i'm 18 (i'm 13) and she totally supports it. she's like "oh i'd do that to my kids too". and when my parents complain that i have too much clothes when i only own about 15 shirts and some of them were from about 2.5 years ago, she supported them too while she had like 3495783475 more shirts. and she just never backs me up. every girl i know-they're sister backs them up. mine never does. it's not that she's some suck-up to parents,she's not shes like 21 and shes not like that...but she just never defends me. i just don't fuckin get it. it annoys me so much. i don't get to see her that often but sometimes i wish she would just go away because sometimes she can just be so rude and mean and bitchy to me. please help (link)
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Hiya,
Your older sister probably doesn't hate you, even if it feels like she does.
When people are jealous or envious, they tend to try and make other people (especially those they are jealous of) miserable, don't let her get to you with the things she is saying.
Have you ever asked her why she is doing this? She may be having problems and no one will listen to her so she's seeking attention from your parents. You need to talk to your sister. I mean you only get one. So, be there for her. and in return she'll be there for you.
By not rubbing things in her face you are showing you are a better person.
The best thing you can do is ignore her.
Good luck!Your sister probably doesn't hate you, even if it feels like she does.
Sounds like you're just expierencing some sibling rivalry. From what you've explained to me it just seems like your sister's being a sore loser. She doesn't like to lose, and so when she does she makes it out like it's your fault and that it's really . Don't worry about it. Be mature about it.
Goodluck
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