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ok my boyfrend broke up wit my like 1 month ago, nd we were goin out for like 4 or 5 months... and i got lik really attached to him nd i think im in lov with him... i cut myself (once) over him... and i cry soo god damn muich im soo sick of all of it... and then just a few nights ago i told him i still lov him nd how i feel and everything.. and he sayd if i want him back i g2 earn him back... but he likes one of my best frends too... and then i talk to him yesterday nd i asked if we got a chance to go out again and he sayd no cuz he aint lik me no more... and then today he just totally lik destroyed my heart again.. and say I WILL NOT GO OUT WITH U and im lik ok sorry and he sayd i dont care.. shut up and now i dont kno what to do... some people say i shudent go out wiht him again.. bcuz hes had sex with like 16 year olds nd were only 13... nd he drinks nd smokes sometimes... but then some of my other frends say we shud go out again... and for me to just keep trying bcuz i was soo happy wit him... but i dont kno
omg who cares! go suck ur thumb while ur at it!
i want this guy- but he has a girlfriend.
but whenever we hang out he is very flirty and touchy and stuff like that but i dont want to do anything because, he has a gf. problem?
give up.
I just have to wonder how all of yall bush lovers can actually support him after all the fucked up things hes done?? you really enjoy us being at war?? how can yall continue to support him?? honestly?
i luv bush. gimme ur addy so i can beat ur fuckin ass up. alright ya'll! yall yall yall! speak english.
I've been doing sit-ups for about a month and a half now basically everyday ( i do 3- sets of 35). My stomach isn't getting any tighter and i still can't see any abs at all, its just kinda pudgy. Any advice on differant ways to get an amazing set of abs? thanks for your time.
libosuction. or sissors.
You've probably heard this before, but here goes anyway.
I've been dating this guy for almost 2 months now. I am really in love with him (im serious!) but sometimes he can be a jerk. We live like half an hour from each other, and neither of us can drive, so we barely see each other. We used to say "I love you" everytime we talked, like before we hung up the phone, but now, he won't say it to me, unless its to make me feel better, or if he's done something I dont like and hes tryin to get me not mad.
So.. does he still love me? Or do you think hes losing interest in me and we should just break up?
I've tried talkin to him about it... and he tells me its my choice what I want to do. And that just makes it harder on me. Please help me come to a decision!
yes.
mi bf dosnt live in the same state as me but the thing is i know him so its not some guy that i met on the internet he use to live here and he went out with one of my friends but now that he lives in a diff state i keep thinking hes cheating on me. there is this other guy that lives here and we like each other and today i got really stressed and he told me i was cute because i didnt know how to do something and he started to blush i talk to him on the phone all the time but i dont talk to my bf on the phone i dont know if i should break up with my bf or not and go out with the one guy thats close by?
shood i
im realli confused
and i care?
Hi* well me and my friend were at my grandmothers and my friend is 13 7th grade and so is my gmas neighbor well hes 12 7th grade. well the neighbor ,me and my friend were in the neighbors garage and my friend and him were making out. well my grandmother walked outside and seen. well when we went in she was telling my friend how much she likes her unlike all my other friends because they are all hyper. well then when she left a little while ago she told me i need to start hanging out with my other friends ( because they are like immature for there ages and arent into the kissing thing ) well im upset because im not gonna stop hanging out with my friend but im really mad that shes gonna tell my friend that she really likes her but tell me i need to stop hanging out with her! what do i do?
signed,
* upset and mad *
hello, make ur stupid ?'s short. it even SAYZ that when yu type it up u lil BEEP.
Does anyone know any ways to peirce your belly button and like ways to make it not hurt! plz respond asap!!! i rate high!
it will alwaiz hurt.
This is gonna be a long one. If you have a knack for tl, dr (too long, didn't read) then keep going to the next "i liKe a guY wut dO i dO!? i rAte hIgh thx!" question.
A little over a year ago I started dating Alex. She was everything I ever wanted in a girl...and then some. For 9 months I enjoyed the best relationship I had ever shared with anyone. I loved her more than anything...
Over last summer she had to go to South Carolina for a month. We talked a few times on the phone while she was there. She wished me a happy birthday when it came, and during the last week she was there she told me how excited she would be to see me again.
When she finally came home early August, she told me she was too tired to see me when she had just gotten back. I understood; she had been on a couple of planes since 5 in the morning and in a car as well.
And we didn't see each other for a whole week.
And at the end of that week, she broke up with me.
During those next three months we spent a bit of time together anyway. There were times when we would snuggle up, and we even kissed a few times. For a while, it had felt like nothing had changed. But for the last couple of weeks, we had both been too busy and I did not have the option to go see her. I decided that it was pathetic to refuse to date other people just because of the slim opportunity she might take me back. I decided to get over it and just stop trying.
She had asked me a while back to look for a couple games for her, and I had found and bought one. I just wanted the chance to take it to her. A couple nights ago I went over there and gave it to her, and hung around for a while. I really wasn't very happy while I was there...being at her house made me feel too nostalgic and brought back too many memories. I told her "just being here makes me depressed...I'm going to go." She called my name as I walked out the door, and I turned back and said weakly, "I love you."
I went to my car and sat in the seat for a minute. And then I started to cry. It's all I could do. After I realized that I would not be able to drive since I could not see, I went back inside and cried on her shoulder. She comforted me as she always does.
3 months after the breakup and it's still obvious I am not over her. No matter where I am or what I am doing, I think about her. I have never loved anyone like I have her. Forgetting about her is not an option. I haven't been able to date other people yet. I have told her how I feel. What else is left?
get over it.
OK I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two months now and I'd do anything for him, I love him so much. Well , I go to a technical high school so I'm in a shop -- Auto repair -- with a bunch of boys and we have a field trip coming up. My boyfriend doesnt want me to go and I completely see why (the boys in my shop are a little perverted sometimes). But my entire shop wants me to go and I'll be the only person not going. There is a possibility that something would happen that my boyfriend wouldnt like. I'd never do anything to hurt him but stuff just happens sometimes. I just wanted some opinions on what I should do. Thanx in advance.. I rate high.
get over it.
Does anybody know a website that has really good lyrics?
Thanx!
yes, but y would i tell yu?
k..well 1st of all im usually one fo those peopel who are more into "friends with benefits" but its sorta changed becuz recently I met this girl my age and supposdely she likes me,but I brought my friend with me when I went to meet her and her friend, the thing is my friend ended up liking her, and she likes him which is great becuz I like her friend isntead've her, the thing is she's a bit older then me(not even a yr but she's a junior and imma freshamn that shuld be a sophomore,she's just like 16 and a junior and im 15 a freshman 16 in a while) and her friend has a b/f, but she is always smiling and talkin to me, and like it seems like she isflirtin off the hook and shyt, and its crazy cuz I like ehr but Idk if she likes me and yeah...
one more time in english plz.
why do every1 spend mmore time rating bad answers than good ones? (1)'s usually get a HUGE explantion, but (5)'s get nothing, and good advice is also usually never rated. doo yu ppl here actually like 2 give ppl bad ratings more than good ones?
i guess they are losers. yu shoudl c all the crap they give me! all i do is b sarcastic. its amusing i should say!
Well, it's a long story but I don't really know how to deal with it. A couple of years ago I was dating a young man for a long time. We were engaged and were planning to get married within a year or so. I loved him like I never loved anyone in my life and he loved me, but one day it all had changed. He grew distant and cold and kept me and all of his best friends in a distance. In addition to the distance, he started treating me really badly and after a long long time of tollarating it and trying to understand what's on his mind and help him as much as I can, I couldn't take it anymore, all my attempts to rescue that relationship crushed and died and I gave up. We broke up. About 3 month later, I've heard that he'd started dating another woman and after another 2 month, I've heard that they've got engaged. As a result from that, My EX had lost ALL of his friends because, as they say, he became completely intollerable. It took me almost two years to get over him (I was overseas for a year which helped a little), But now I came back home and every little thing reminds me of him and that I really miss him and I do still love him, but the thing is that I love the man he used to be, not what he'd become. I don't have any news about him because he'd totally lost touch with "the outside world" and we don't have common friends anymore. I know that I should get over it and go on with my life but I just don't know how, I had tried and it worked for a while but now that I'm back home, I'm surrounded by things and places that remind me of what we used to have and these are things that I can't avoid seing. What should I do?
(I'm a 23 y.o. woman)
hes ur ex, get over him.
Okay. I go out with this kid, lets call him John, and hes the second guy i've dated this year, and people are like all calling me like a hoe and stuff and I haven't been doing anything sexual, im not into the premarital stuff, but i just think its stupid. And people are like starting rumors and crap. Its really annoying. And I don't wanna break up with him just because people are starting rumors. But, I can't stop them either.
ur a fake.
Ok... one of my best friends just left from SC and moved to FL. I miss hime soo much. His parents kicked him out of the house and I loved him but while he was here I was afraid to tell him and now that he is gone I wish I had. He always said he had something for me but everytime we wanted to do something I had a boyfriend. Should I call him and tell him how I feel?
poor baby.
Ok, i am just so lonely. All of my friends have boyfriends and i've never had one. I could prolly ask someone out but i'm shy. I'm waiting for a guy to ask ME. I kno some guys like me, but they dont ask me. But all my friends go out on double dates and all that junk and i'm left out of everything. They'll walk down the halls of school laughing at things that i dont get because i wasn't on the date. There must be SOMETHING wrong with me. BUt what is it? People tell me i'm a great friend, and i'm not too ugly or anything like that. And when it cums to guys, i'm like a sporty/romantic/ fun type. And idk, i just REALLY want a bf and i do like sum guys that might like me but i guess not b/c no one has ever asked me out or anything. I have a lot of friends that are guys, but i might never have a boyfriend. I'm prolly gonna grow up, buy maybe 3 cats and my life will be soap operas and game shows. I dont want to be alone!!! But i dont wanna be the girl who's so desparate that she'll say yes to just any guy who asks her out. PLZ someone tell me what's going wrong!
ur a lonely grl.
I am from South Africa and we are entering a new Angling faset; Match Angling (Pole angling) I love to do the sport but I need as mutch info and study material on the sport as I could, this will help me to buy the correct equipment and set the basics right. Please advice and send me info
Regards
Pierre
huh.
OK...me and my best friend have been friends for about 4 years. we always talked about moving in together after high school and being friends forever. Well we are both seniors in high school and now that this time has come were both looking to get an apartment together. Well she met this kid who is 20 and he wants to move in with us too. I said that it was fine bc he is a really nice kid. Well she has another bf who doesn't know about this kid who is moving in with us. I really like her other boyfriend (as a friend) and i really like the kid who is moving in with us too. The problem is is that she is leading her other boyfriend into thinking that she is going to be with him forever. Ive tried to talk to her about it but she doesn't wanna listen. The only reason she is with this guy who is moving in with us is that he gives her everything she wants. He lets her drive and she doesn't have her permit or license and when im in the car with them i dont wanna get caught cuz i dont want my license taking away. Well i've tried and tried to talk to her about it but the only thing she says to me is that she needs to see her other bf (who lives and hour away...the guy who is moving in with us only lives 10 mins away) to decide whether or not she wants to be with him. Well we already looked at aprtments and are moving in the next 2 months. I dont know wut to tell her anymore because i dont want anyone to get hurt!! can someone please hlpe!! sorry this was long!! ill rate good!!
ouch.
i recenlt attended a party at my friends house...... im 14 female. anywayz. i went out with this boy ryan for 2 months last winter and then again for 3 dayz in september. we broke up then second time because we became too good of friends and it was "weird" n e way.... at my friends party it started out with talking and he was flirting with me. then i was sitting on his lap and i must have been there for 45 min then all the sudden we started making out. the rest of the night we couldnt keep out hand off eachother. He had his hands on my waiste or butt or he was holding my hand. well i talked to him recently and he says he likes me and this other girl. and i kinda wanna go back out with him. but im confused... we were too good of friends to go out but we can still make out? and obviously we like eachother as more then friends... i dono... what do you think?
china.