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hey i'm courtney! :)i'm nineteen and i live in ohio. i am currently not going to college, and just working fulltime.. i'm single and not really looking but,i love to go tanning, shopping, and seeing friends. i am very social, and love to listen to problems and help the best way i know how. i am a very happy person, and willing to be there for people who need me most, and i care for most in life. that's a bit about me heh.
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Hello,
I have a little problem that seems to be hard to figure out. I thought i would find out some advice from someone else. I have had the same girlfriend for the last 2 years now and im 110% sure she's "The One". We have had some hard times together and been able to over come everyone of them. We want to move in together around next June 16th but inorder for this to happen we both need to be working now to save up money to move in together. I work in the morning from 8:00 to 3:00 and then 3 nights a week i have classes at the college from 5:00 to 9:00. She's in her last year of High School and has school from 7:45 to 3:30. Then she has work 4 days a week from 4:00 to 9:00. Which leaves about 3 hours a night to talk to eachother but i dont think she'll be able to stay up til 1:00 AM then have class and work. We would have wednesday and friday and saturday to spend together but i think she'll be to worn out from the week to stay up. What should we do?!?!?
Thanks
i think you sgould do whatever works for you. you're right, you do need the weekend for yourselves and to unwind. but, if you're both serious about saving money& moving in sacrifces are to be made right. and let her decide if she can stay up late. she will just need a nap to reboost her energy. it will be hard work for both of you. the ending result will pay off though, correct? :]
Ok, so here's the scoop :D
I'm a freshman and I know a lot of people that have been in relationships.
I want to be in one too, but not just to be in one.
The people that like me or ask me out are always THE VERY LAST people I'd think of like that, and I say no, because I feel kind of, I know this is mean, but weirded out. Like, this dude who I don't like like that AT ALL, is obsessed with me.
So that's all fine and dandy but the people I really care about, that I really have feelings about, never seem to ask anyone (or me) out. It sucks though because these are the guys that I REALLY like, and then I can never make a move because at least one of my friends like the same guy or they would think it wa stupid. I really want a relationship, and I don't want to settle, but what if that perfect guy never comes? Should I just....what?
:D
you need to take a chance on a guy &hope he's worth it. that's all we girls ever do. :]
don't settle get who your heart wants. and be more patient. the right guy is out there for you. ;)
can my parents get him arrested do they even have a say so in my life
no. you're of age. don't worry about it you might have to follow their rules if you live with them tho. but legally, no. you're 18.
well my parents wont let me get contacts unless i come up w/ a good reason of why i should have them instead of glasses..... any suggestions........
....please dont give the "oh ppl at skool make fun of me" crap cuz they wont believe it
sports. gym class. they fall off, slide a lot. and sometimes balls knock them off while playing sports. plus, you can acrually see better. the glasses on get so close to your eye, the contacts are ON your eye. :]
Ok well On Friday night my boyfriend and i have a argument and he went off msn and he hasnt been on for 4 days so i havent spoken to him for 4 days and he hasnt replyed to my messages either
Ok well on Saturday and Sunday he gothis friend to call me i think he slept over his house ok well his friend called me on Saturday saying :
His friend:Hello
Me:Hello,whos this
His friend:Rocky
Me:Rocky ?
His friend:Yeh your bfs mate
Me:Oh ok Hello
Hisfriend:how are ya /
Me:good you
His friend:good hey i'll callyou later
well he called i didnt pick up though
Ok now on Sunday his friend called me again his friends name isrocky ok
Me:Hello
Rocky:Hello
Rockyy:HIII MELISAAAA
Rocky:MELISAAAAAA
Me:haha hii
Rocky: Do u remeber me
Me:Rocky ?
Rocky: aww you remembered me
Me:lol well i have to go ok bye
anyways what do u think My bf is tryingto do to get his friend todump me or what and we have had fights before but we always sort themout and this fight was a stupid one over NOTHIING
Sorry its long
he's messing with you head . you try calling him. talk to him. he'll come around sometime. and if the fiht is dumb and he wants to break it off with you, you can do better.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=92012065&albumID=45887&imageID=10999781
where can i find a dress like this. OR this dress?
profiles on private. cant view the dress. sorry.
i wanna ask a question PLease answer me ASAP!! okie here it is.. well i have a friend and she 15 im 13 anyway her birthday already came and tomroow ima give her, her present right i had no idea what to buy her but then i asked my bro to go get me a tape that ha no recordings in it like a tape where i can just record my voice and yyou know i said happy b-day on the tape and i let my whole family tell her happy b-day and tell her you just random stuff and stuff like that i honestly think its a pretty good present cause this is something she can keep for the rest of her life like she can use it till shes older if she ever misses us and stuff she will remeber our voices
well my question is
do you think she would like that??
honestly??
thanks
much love
later
i think it will make her laugh and smile. she can remember you and your jokes forever. its a sweet gift. from the heart. nice thinking girl. :]
I read it for school 2 months ago. And I liked it fro some reason. But I really never understood it. Any one know where I can watch the movie. And would anyone mind explaining it to me. Thanks.
if you want to understand the book better...
go to, www.sparknotes.com
and type the name of the book in. you'll see recaps of the book, it'll help you see the main points of it.
I don't understand what I'm doing wrong or potentially not doing in like, life. All of my friends have had at least one boyfriend, and guys just seem to like them. It's not necessarily that I'm comparing myself to my friends, because I'm not doing that too much, it's just that I don't see how guys just overlook their friends and date random girls that they don't even know very well.
I'm in literally 7 clubs, and I'm really friendly and outgoing. I'm also smarter than many people my age (15). I've been told that I'm really pretty.
Does anyone have any advice to meet people maybe outside my school or social circle? Or have any idea as to what I'm doing wrong?
nothing. you just haven't found the right guy to make you feel prettier or happier. you don't need a man for that though. you seem to be very smart, maybe it intimidates guys. try going to a party, be more outgoing to talk to them. or even at school. just make small talk. it'll grow.
be patient. a guy will come your way soon. :]
Before you press the "Back" button to answer another question, please take this seriously. I know that almost every day, a 13 year old girl asks about being pregnant. This is different.
Oh, and please don't judge me.
I am a 17 year old guy. Before this weekend, I had never done anything sexual with anybody. This weekend, me and one of my guy friends (he is 17) had oral sex. I asked him before if he had any STD's or AIDS, and he said no because some his other partners were virgins before he met them, but he later told me that some of them were not. He has had a sexual relationship with 4 other people.
I am really scared. I need to get tested for STD's and AIDS. I want to do it tomorrow after school at Planned Parenthood. I looked at their website and it says that they do STD and AIDS testing. I'm just worried about getting tested. Will they tell my mom because I'm a minor? I have money from my job that will pay for the testing, but I can't show proof of insurance or anything. Is that okay?
Is it too soon to get tested if I had oral sex today and want to get tested tomorrow? How long will it take for the results to come, and how accurate are they?
I live in Georgia.
Thank you so much. You have no idea how truly scared I am and thankful that you read this.
you can get tested, but sometimes, IF you get AIDS it wont show symptoms until 5-15 years from now. so a test won't show it. you just have to keep getting tested, results would take a few days honey. and don't worry. you might be over-reacting. i dont think you need proof of insurance, and they wont tell your parents either.
okay, im a sophmore in high school.
& i havent done ANYTHING with a guy.
I mean, i've kissed but not madeout.
I dont know what is wrong.
Everyone askes me if ive kissed a guy before & i say yes, but im lying. & I dont want to lie about something stupid anymore. There isnt a particular question but any advice will help.
Thankss.
well, go to a fun party with friends.im sure your attractive, and find a guy who you think is cute. get to know him and maybe you'll get a kiss. dont sweat it though. not everyone has kissed. i knew a senior who never was kissed honey. its not a big deal. and you don't have to follow everyone. just your heart. ;)
okeh. so i really need some ideas of things to do with my friends. I'm 14 and want some fun and creative activites to do. I already know of
Mud Wrestling, Bowling, Movies, Picnic, BBQ, Bonfire, but wut are some other things to do?
=]
p.s. I want it to be good. and something orignal that people will be like, "That was the funnest thing ever!!
makeup some kind of hunt game. like hide things and find them. like an easte hunt, but dont use eggs lol.
try nike racing or just riding.
maybe baking some cool food. something you wouldn't normally make or dont know how to make.
Thanks in advance
i think that you might be worried too much. he probably has a lot more on his mind about sports right now. and isn' thinking anything is up with you two. im sure, he feels the same love you do for him. he just is having a harder time showing because he's distracted. maybe if you just have faith and not be so worried it'll be okay. you guys def can last. as long, as one persn in the relationship is trying it'll work. because if you both give up, it'll fall apart. one of you hs to be strong for the other always. and right now sweetie it's you turn. things will be just fine. take deep breath and relax. :]
maybe take a break from practiceand sports and you and him can go see a movie, or have a cute little picnic outside. go on a romantic walk. it will refresh the romance and make you feel newer and better. good luck hon.
either yesterday or today was exactly 28 days from my period. (yes, i know, sometimes it'll start more or less than 28 days.) the thing is, sometime last week or the week before, i spotted. i bled a little bit, but only like a tiny bit. and yesterday, i had major cramps. i kinda got cramps today too, but not as bad. i got the cramps during my soccer game. and i am sexually active. could this mean something? or is there something wrong with me? but the last time i had sex was like the late july. so i dono??
nah, i think you're alright. are you on birth control, maybe the full affects havent occured yet. sometimes girls spot. im sure you're okay. but if it becomes irregular badly, see a physican. :]
I heard this song on myspace and i tried googling it but didn't find anything. It says the song is "i need you now" and it's by Sandra, but i googled that and didn't find anything. Does anyone know it? Here are some lyrics...
why won't you stay don't you know what u meant to me every step that i take always leads me to you don't be this way boy you know your my everything when i open my eyes your the only one that i see my head is spinning round and round why must you always bring me down if our love is lost let it be found don't you hear me calling? i need you now and i cant breathe without your love
http://www.seeklyrics.com/lyrics/Winger/I-Need-You-Now.html
try this.
On the top half of my arm below my shoulder and above my el ow are these bumps.
they are small and look like zits but they arent for sure
ive had them since about 5th grade and am now in 9th.
any idea what they are or how you can cure them.
going to the dermatologist or doctor is out of the question.
i have them too. they just are there, and some on my knees you know. but, put some lotion on them. they are harmless, which im sure you know. :]
Hey! My bgf and his older brother (who was driving me home) kept saying i should join ROTC i am not sure if i should but i could try it for only a semester. And i would get out of PE... what do u guys think? I am not really that type f person im more girly and preppy but i lead in my church and stuff and my bgf thinks its something i should def. try. His bro was coming up with all these reasons and stuff and super pressuring me! i think i should but idk! I guess how bad can it be right? plus i dont have to wear the uniforms (or i would SO be out) and it doesn't seem that bad. Leadership is super importante to me and i would make a lot ore friends. What do you think? Please help me decided whats best! I rate. :D Thanks
go ahead and try it, what do you have to lose right? and if your friends say that it isn't bad and are offering you to do it, then theres no harm. just dont do it b/c they said to. makae sure it's what you want. try it for a semester, like you said if you still aren't certain. :]
I'm in Alg 2, and my teacher constantly picks on me to go to the board & do problems. I didn't learn ANY Alg 1, so this is kind of confusing. Everytime I go to the board, I go up and say 'I have no idea how to do this' and my teacher just goes, 'come to tutorials'. But then she still makes me do the problem, and I get completely embarrassed. There's 43 kids in this class, we had 7 problems to do on the board, and she made me do 4 of them. I think she knows that I don't know how to do them so she just picks on me. I don't think embarrassing me is going to help me learn. What should I do?
i think you should def. confront her. math is a killer and always got me feeling dumb and frustrated hon. your teacher must know that you're having trouble. maybe she is trying to get you to come to her and ask her for advice by embarressing you. not trying to hurt your feeings though. tell her that you do need help, but not infront of the entire class. see if you can stay after for help, or get tutor classes from her. just make sure she knows it hurts your feelings, and that you're not comfortable with it. see if any of your friends get algebra 2, and maybe they can try and help explain it to you sweetie!
hope i helped you. :]
okay so i just got my belly button peirced,but it gets caught on everything!
how do i avoid it from ripping out while having a breathable space for healing
don't try rubbing against things. were looser shirts. mineALWAYS hit my desk at school, and it hurt. or try putting a band-aid over it while your out or moving a lot. then just take it off while your more relaxed. :]
14/f
i need a b/f cuz it seems like every where i turn seems like theirs always couples. i ain't just wanting a boyfriend to be part of the crowd. i just want someone to love me and me too love them back. I have a crush and we never talk because he is a junior and i am a freshman. I only see him on my highschool bus and i get a glimse of him a lunch and b4 and after 2nd period and after 5th. any advice?
write notes, it's so adorable. and my boyfriend at first was a senior and i was a freshman, now im 19 and he's 21. and we're still together, and it started with a few notes and some IM's on aim .
goodluck honey!