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Is he falling out of love? Please help me.
Thanks in advance <3 i know this is long
15/f
ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 3 months. we do everything together and we never wanna be apart. our families and friends think we will get married. but anyway.. i know he cares about me.. but it feels like lately i always have to say i love u 1st and make moves on him but he trys to pull away. i give him the option to take a break sometimes but he doesnt want to. i always talk 2 him about this and he says hes just tired (hes a big competative swimmer and im a competative tennis player ) so were both tired. but my question is.. what can i do to keep our relationship strong.. i want this to last.. he even thinks of us as Allie & noah from the notebook soo please help!
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If I were you , you need to MAKE him understand how much it is bothering you. Possibly tell him you will leave if things dont change because its hurting you so much. (You dont have to mean it just say it to let him know you are serious.) It sounds like he loves you, it just seems he is tired. However that isnt an excuse to make you feel like crap. Sometimes a kick in the butt is what a man needs. I go through this all the time with my fiance. Hang in there. :)
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i think that you might be worried too much. he probably has a lot more on his mind about sports right now. and isn' thinking anything is up with you two. im sure, he feels the same love you do for him. he just is having a harder time showing because he's distracted. maybe if you just have faith and not be so worried it'll be okay. you guys def can last. as long, as one persn in the relationship is trying it'll work. because if you both give up, it'll fall apart. one of you hs to be strong for the other always. and right now sweetie it's you turn. things will be just fine. take deep breath and relax. :]
maybe take a break from practiceand sports and you and him can go see a movie, or have a cute little picnic outside. go on a romantic walk. it will refresh the romance and make you feel newer and better. good luck hon.
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okay well my advice to you is to just keep loving him. it may seem like you have to do all the work right now but hes just stressing with alll this sports. But trust me your relationship will stay strong just keep trying && never give up on him. Cause if you love him && you know he loves you than your gonna be strong.
cause love is all that counts =]
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