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I'm a nineteen year old girl whos dreams are to help the world. But for now, I'll start on Advicenators :)I can't say I can relate to every question that comes my way (probably most though!), but I guarantee I'll understand. And sometimes that's all you need...a little understanding :)
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14/f
Ok so i have a pool, and its big and its really nice, and so, yano its summer, and i always swim in it and junk, but we have these neighbors, down the street, and we dont see them all of winter, they dont call us, or anything, there bdays are in the winter, and they never ever invite my brothers to them [there my brothers age] and so, then though when its summer, there mom will call, and be like the boys are gonna come down and just take a 10-20 minute dip. and were like wtf, no. ok well we dont say that, but we always lie and say we just put chemicals in or something. and they keep asking. i mean, dont get me wrong, its not like i care if people swim in my pool, but they atleasst gotta be my friends, yano? i mean, there tottaly just using us. and then there mom was like to my mom "yeah, were not even renewing our rec passes, because we figure we can just go swim in your pool, whenever we want." and my mom just looked at her. and they break all of our stuff too. like our baseketball hoop, they put a big hole in it. and whenever my brothers like call and say wanna play over ur house, they say no. we'll only play at ur house, where we can swim. so i mean yeah, there obviously using us.
HOW DO WE FIX THIS? what do we say? we dont want to be rude.
Who cares if they their your rude or not. THEIR THE ONES BEING RUDE! Just simply say, we don't feel like having anyone over today everytime they want to come over. They'll get the hint.
14/F
So I'm going on vacation for two weeks and I'm trying to pack light...I was wondering, do I really need to bring shaving cream for my legs/under my arms?
Any opinions are helpful.
Soap and conditioner work too :]
another wieght question
ya ive used google and some sights said im under some said im avarge but i really just want to ask people here who are mabie simalar size from personal experience
13/f 5'2 i wiegh 97lbs ,, 35 inches arround the stomch.
what do yal think?
Perfect weight for your height and age. I'm guessing your a small frame. If your medium like me, then you need to actually GAIN weight.
my hamster chews on the metal bars a lot and its irritating. what can i do to get her to stop?
Get her a new cage that isn't metal.
hey, me and my friend were just going through some of the tampon questions and it just confused me more. See I've had my period for about two years now (I'm thirteen) and I get them pretty heavy. I want to try tampons but I'm scared it will hurt, I'll do it wrong, or I'll gett TSS. I want to try it before my period so I don't like mess up but I've heard it hurts. Is that okay to try before and the first time I try is it going to hurt like crazy?
No it's not going to hurt BUT it might hurt if you try while your NOT on your period because your sticking it up there dry.
TSS is very rare to get.
You can't do it wrong. Just make sure you have it up there far enough. The farther, the better. The way you can tell if you have it up there for enough is when your done inserting it, bend over and see if you feel any pain. Then walk around and if you can feel pain or it feels weird, take it out then try again and make sure you put it up far enough.
i heard of this soda called Jones Soda.. um where can i buy it from.. i live in NJ, too. also have you had it before and is it good and stuff? and is it expensive? and other things i should know :) thanks
Don't listen to that person below me. You don't have to go out of your way and buy it online and crap. They sell Jones Soda every where. Even gas stations.
Yesterday after eating, I got very hot, pale, nauseas, and dizzy. Soon, my stomach began to bloat and all of my stomach muscles cramped up. At first, I suspected period cramps but this wasn't normal cramps and my periods been late for almost two weeks now. My stomach honestly felt like I was exploding. After using a heating pad for several hours, and trying medicines my stomach finally felt smaller but the cramps remained.
Does anyone know what this could be?
Trust me. Period cramps. You'll be starting between 1-3 days.
I'am a 30 yr old male and she is 27 yrs old. I have been dating a girl who is bipolar and everything seems to be going great. I'am nervious about her condition. But I really want to know if this relationship will work and how I should handle the relationship. Thanks.
Even bipolar people can have relationships. Honestly all girls are bipolar haha. We all have dramatic mood swings. If you say things have been going great then you basically just answered your own question. You don't "handle" it any different than anyother relationship. If you really want this to work, then you have to work w/ her. In all great succesful relationships the couple have to work together w/ ALL of each others problems. Being bipolar just happens to be hers.
13/f
i live with my dad and i dont shave yet. wat can i do or say to make him think i wanna start shaving my legs? plz dont tell me to go to the store and just put some in the basket, kuz that will no work...kuz i'm 13 and i still dont shave.
dont yall think thats crazy?!? just tell me wat i should say or do. please and thank you
p.s. i'm very shy even around my dad, so i'm not just gonna come out and say it.
p.p.s. i can't go to anyone else...
That's a good idea. Have a friend come over and act it out but don't make it obvious that you acting it out ya know? lol Or if your afraid to sit down and talk to him about it, write him a letter. He knows ya gotta grow up someday! :]
okay so last night when i went out to eat my i-pod was in my back pockket. so i was sitting on it, and im guessing it wasn't on hold. when i got back home it was on and it was frozen. i thought maybe i should just charge it, i charged it overnight and this morning when i woke up, it's still frozen!!! help me please i don't know what to do. i have the i-pod mini if that helps. if its broken how do i tell my parents? because i recentlyy broke my cellphonne.
pleasee help
Mine did the same EXACT thing! Andddd I have the iPod mini. Just let the battery die out. Then it will automatically shut off by itself. Then charge it and it will be normal again :]
My penis came into contact with my girlfriends vagina. I did not stick in my penis but it did touch the outer walls of the vagina. Precum might have been present but i'm not sure. is there chances of her being pregnant?
Theres a chance. But she's probably not.
Um, I just wanted to know, does it hurt to use a tampon the first time? Second time? Third? Help!
If you insert it correctly it shouldn't hurt at all. So make sure you angle it right and that you have it up far enough. The farther the better. It may hurt when you take it out because theres probably not enough blood on the tampon.
When a dick is hard do you suck it or just jack him off?
I really need help!!!
A little bit of both. Guys like surprises ;]
Sorry if this isnt in the right place..but.
Mkay, i got my first period last april and it lasted four or five days..then i didnt have one all may, then i got one three days ago and its killing me, im bleeding through everything, even though im wearing thick over-night pads. and im cramping sooooo bad its bringing me to tears. My mom is talking about putting me on birth control.. I was just wondering, why is my period doing this and should i agree on getting birth control
Yeh. I would go see the doctor and he'll probably put you on birth control. I would definately agree with it.
I'm turning 18 and I want to have an awesome party. I plan to have it outside with about 20 people. I want to do some Tropical/Hawaiian. I can't think of what to do. Its going to be guys and girls. I want something fun but grown up. I NEED major help though!!!
Pool party and a DJ
I'm a college guy, and I'm in a long distance relationship. I have to talk to my girlfriend on the phone, because she needs to hear my voice. I tend to always say stupid things and make her really upset. What are some things I can keep in mind to keep from hurting her feelings on the phone?
Maybe she's just really sensitive. Just don't say things that you know made her upset in the past.
is there any way to get birth control without a prescription?
Go to that Plan Parenting place.
If i jack my boyfriend off and he cums , wipes it off and everything, then fingers me, can i get pregnant ???
please help.
k thank you
Yeap you can.
i was just talking to my friend and she is mad at me and when i talk to her she just yells at me and i really want to be her friend her name is izzy and i want to talk to her but she thiks i am a jerk and arnt very nice i need help please HELP!!!!!!!!!
This is either Dylana or Rachel.
Whoever you are, you need to make up with Izzy! Maybe there was a mis understanding and if you honestly don't think your mean then talk to her about it.
ok this is kind of gross but right next to the hair down there, like at the top of the hair, then to the right between my leg and vafina sometimes it gets really itchy in that one section ON MY SKIN. And there are red bumps and they itch they are small and they are white at the top. I havent ever had sex so i dont think its an STD. What should i do? I dont get it every day, more like every other day maybe. Its bugging me and scarring me, but I've also been really stresssed out lately so could it be from that too?
Do you get these bumps after you shave? If so that's probably what it's from. Just moisturize it a lot.