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my right eye wont stop twitching!!
its been doing that for 4 days now.
how can i make it stop??
your body is deficient of magnesium.
eat: more whole grains, nuts, beans, meats, & dark leafy greens.
it will stop. if not, go to a doctor.
does anybody know any tips on how to memorising
YES.
1.) acronyms are your friend. anything you can think of. lists, definitions, just memorize three or four letters at one time. your brain retains more if you do things in 2-4 sets, like phone numbers.
2.) don't necessarily understand it. be able to just recite it like a robot.
i'm really good at memorizing practically anything. i read it, look away, and recite it, and REPETITION. if you need more tips feel FREE to inbox me! it's one of my strengths, if not, then my best strength
i am a boy, how do i mastrubate?
stroke your junk till you get horny and feel like you have to pee
i get to doubting you
and i get to giving up
and i get to feeling blue
and i get to going numb
and then the 'numb' sets in
it's nostalgia, i think
but i can still feel those little pins
baby sure knows how to push me to the brink
sink deep down under
sweet, sweet morphine
i mistook it all for something so serene
just douse thes words down, and use cheap kerosene
burn the memories, too, cause they're haunting me
life's one big battle field and we're waging these wars
but what the hall are we fighting for?
what the hell have i been fighting for?
i'll sleep now, cause i can't stay awake
and the dreams are better than what i face
you've got no right even being here
causing this pain and instilling this fear
i'd give it all, just watch me bleed
in return, fresh insecurity
if we go and start again
it's just watching me fall, and seeing you pretend
i'd more than gladly
sink deep down under sweet, sweet morphine
i mistook it all for something so serene
just douse your lies down, and use cheap kerosene
burn the memories too, cause they're haunting me
life's one big battle field, and we're waging wars
but what the hell are we fighting for?
but what the hell have i been fighting for?
oh, well darling
i loved the way you loved me
and it was nothing but sincerity
when you held my hands and kissed me
and sarcasm's a damn good thing
sink deep down under
sweet, sweet morphine
i mistook it all for something so serene
just douse your lies down and use cheap kerosene
burn the memories too, cause they're haunting me
wow.
"burn the memories, too, cause they're haunting me"
i'd get rid of the 'cause'
but i guess i'd have to hear it in order to appreciate it.
it's very good though. wow.
How do you make your boobs bigger without taking pills or boob jobs?
certain types of exercise.
stretch your right arm against your chest like you're body is locked except your right arm can move. now, stretch it across your chest like you're pointing to something on the left, and same thing for the left arm. stretch your left arm across your chest with your body locked (even head) like you're pointing to something on the right. if you didn't understand, inbox me.
heyy. so like .. i was hanging out with my guy friend, who i guess you could say is like a wanna be player. and we were sitting in his car & he kissed me. we talked after that and he told me he wanted to hook up & it seemed like he was pretty into me ..and i realized that i wanted to also.. so about a week later, we hung out again and we hooked up. i wasn't sure about it before but now i feel like i like him. i wouldn't want to go out with him though because hes a player/ he can be pushy. we talked the day after we hooked up & things seemed to be chill between us but its been a few days and we havent talked. i texted him and he didnt respond .. i'm just in a state of confusion and i dont think i should like him but right now, i can't really help it. what should i do ?
heyy sweetie
aw! okay well HONESTLY, i've never been in your situation, but you can't stop liking someone. you see, if you like him, don't try to stop it. this world which is filled with hate and war is just terrible, and it's really quite sad. you're only on earth for so long, and can only do so much while you're on it, so why not just do what you want? you like him. you want to go out with him - it seems - but you're scared because he might betray you / be a player, etc. well i think you should wait and play hard to get a lil bit to let him know you're not just there for him to hook up with you whenever he wants. so, i'd give it a few days, and because he didn't respond to YOUR text, if he texts you, wait like 5 hours or something before you respond.
wait a few days, see where it goes. if he stops talking to you completely, well i'd say go find another guy! you wouldn't want to get hurt. however, if he talks to you again and starts responding, i'd go out with him and take the risks involved with it because we're young and able to be free and go crazy... do things we want. don't regret going out with him though -- you had fun while it lasted, if you decide to date him!
never try to stop loving someone. it's okay.
i hope i helped & feel FREE to inbox me anytime if you need more help with your situation!
I dont know what it is but when I wake up or go to the bathroom my underwear is wet. I check and its not blood(from periord) or pee. Its kinda whitish clear. And sometime when I go to the bathroom there is the string hanging down thats clear. I dont know what it is and its freaking me out! Girls, can you please help me?
hey
ok, do not worry. it's called discharge, and it happens to most girls, usually before or after a period, but some girls get it all the time. if it's just like mucus-y looking and doesn't smell, it's completely normal. however, if you see that it smells and looks like cottage cheese, you might have a vaginal infection, and i'd get that checked out.
but from what information you've given, it's just discharge. if you're conscious about your underwear being wet, just either go to the bathroom every few hours to clean it out or wear a pantyliner.
well i really like this guy (not dating him) and when i'm alone or even doing something with friends i get the feeling that he's actually with me. like he knows what im doing right now and like he sees stuff that i see and it feels like he also knows when im flirting whith other guys so i try making him 'jealous' even though he's not even there. is that normal? and what does it mean?
hey
omg, the same thing happens to me. like if i REALLY like a guy, and i start doing something stupid, i think to myself, "what if he were seeing me do this?" and i stop. but the fact that you feel him around you ALL the time iis where our situations differ.
you apparently really really really like this guy. i'd say that you definitely aren't crazy, but you have a tendency to feel his energy around you. not many people feel that way -- you might some psychic feelings going on. have you every tried meditating? you could find out some things about him if you try it.
anyway, i'm pretty sure it's normal to do that and you're not suffering from some strange mental disease or anything like that. i think you just feel his energy, and it must get especially higher the more time you DO spend with him, like in school. if you've never felt this way about other guys, and you like this guy the most, it probably means that life is trying to tell you something ;) maybe to make a move on him, if you so desire
Sometimes when I get out of the shower I experience itching, on my legs and arms. It also happens whenever I'm finished shaving.. (I don't shave all the time.)
I have no known allergies, I don't get any redness or rash, just little itches here and there, almost like pinpricks.
hey
the same thing happens to me. usually when i scratch--i know this is kind of gross--but some dead skin cells come off my feet & legs especially. what happens after you scratch? if that doesn't happen to you, you just need to moisturize after you shower. also, if you take really hot showers (you're technically supposed to take warm showers) it sucks the moisture out of your skin, making it even more dry and prone to itchiness. so, try moisturizing ritually everytime you shower. if that doesn't help stop the itching, you could buy a special itch type of lotion. i remember when i used to be a little girl, i had a very dry back, and my mom would put this special type of lotion on it. if THAT doesn't help, go to a dermatologist.
can anyone give me makeup tips?? :]
soo i have darkbrown long straight hair down to my waist, very very white skin and really darkbrown eyes almost black actually and quite long eyelashes. so what kinda makeup goes well with that kinda type? and also what colours should i wear? cos i wanna look really kewl but i only use eyeliner and foundation. and i'm also more of a 'colourfull emo' if you can say that lol
so i'm not into too girly things. more rockish i suppose. and i usually wear really bright colours!?
helphelp please :)
xxx
hey
bright pink blush.
eyeliner on the top & bottom -- also try applying the black eyeliner on top of the eyelashes and then applying a small amount of black eyeshadow onto an eyeshadow applicator (the spongy kind) and smudge the black eyeliner slightly.. it looks really good, but NOT on your entire eyelid. just right above the lashes so that your eyelashes can stick out against your pale white eyelids.
purchase an eyelash curler.
black mascara on top and bottom, but just a touch.
light pink lip gloss. you want your eyes to be the focus of your face, not your lips, considering you have long lashes.
:)
does anyone know where i can download it for free? i'm in desperate need and i can't buy it. :'(
limewire
http://www.limewire.com/
type in as much info as possible, believe me.
I have dry, flaky skin and it's hard to find a foundation right for my skin type. I really want something to moisturize my face, but also cover all my imperfections and smooth everything out. Does anyone have anything they would recommend?
ok first of all, before you put any make-up on, wash your face (to get all the dead skin cells off) and MOISTURIZE. suggestion? johnson's 24 hour moisturizer.
then, put on your foundation.
note: if you only have a few stray pimples, you don't need foundation all of your face, JUST on those places. i hope you knew that.
ok foundation suggestion = l'oreal paris ideal balance balancing foundation. it's so light and smooth and it doesn't cake.
also, i noticed that my foundation starts caking when i put too much powder on. so more liquid, less finishing powder.
good luck.
I KNOW ITS LONG, BUT PLEASE PLEASE ITS VERY IMPORTANT PLEASE READ ALL AND PLEASE TRY TO HELP ME!
i dont have school for the next 2 weeks and today i went to see my mom at work when i got there she was talking on the phone in a veryy flirtatious way. if you knew my mom u knew she has a very strong voice and is often being mean to people. but on the other hand she was actually laughing at what the person on the other line said and was being verrry flirty and talking in a low voice. i listened more and i KNew it was a guy. i also knew it wasn't someone that i knew because that was not the way she usually talks to people. her and my dad have been married for about 19 years now. they always say that they dont belive in gettin divorce and that they love eachother very much. also this might sounds very discusting but i have heard them have sex a lot recently because i cant sleep so i can hear evrything in my house. so then i walked into her room and she went to the bathroom as i got my chance i checked her phonee and this number had called her and she had been takling for about 1/2 n hr. i also checked her messages and in her inbox this number had sent to messages, on saying "what else lady" and the second "can i call you" the only perosn that calls my mom lady is my dad in a cute way sort of saying babe but i knew it wasnt my dad because that is not his cell number nd it would be stupid for him to secretly have another one. the messages in her outbox to him where "uhmm lemme think about it" and "okay call me for like 2 secs" those '2 secs' turned into 1.2 n hr. later when we got home i went to check her mesages and her calls again and she had deleted all of it! meaning she didn't want anyyone seeing that! i wrote down the number before when she was in the bathroom on my leg so she wouldnt see it. i later called it a man that i have neverr heard his voice before picked up. i go everywhere with my parents a lot so i know of all their friends and people around them. i really think she's cheating, WHAT SHOULD I DO? my mom is very religious and i KNOW my dad is crazy and completely in LOVE with her, i dont want to hurt him, but i feel as though im hurtin ghim more by keeping it from him, please HELP.
i think before you go ahead and get your dad involved in this, you should confront your MOTHER about it. ask her about it first and talk with her. if she stops, your dad never has to find out. do it like when you're home alone with her (not when your dad is at home) and just be like, "mom, i have to talk to you." don't tell her you went through her messages or ANYTHING you prowled through. you wouldn't want her getting mad at you & then she wouldn't be able to trust you. be like, "mom, are you cheating on dad?" don't "hint" or "poke" just flat out ask.
good luck, babe.
when you give an hj,do you use your whole hand or just first finger and thumb,or what.
depends on how big he is. if he's really big, you might want to use just your pointer finger and thumb but if he's kinda small / not as "thick" then use your whole handd. if you use your whole hand and he has a huuge dick you might end up accidentally squeezing it too tight and well, that wouldn't be too much fun for him.
Ok, i'm 13/f and i have a round face shape(or so i've been told ha ha). My hair is long and layered, and I like it, but it's kindof boring now. I like to change my hair a lot, and I get bored with it easily. I am NOT dying it, because I love my hair color and get a lot of compliments. Ok, here's a picture of me. I was thinking i'd get 3-4 inches cut off, maybe so it's right above or right on my shoulders, and getting it super layered, so it's extremely choppy all over. Oh, and I want to get it layered so there is shorter layers on the top, but i'm not sure how to do that. And i'm planning on getting some sort of side fringe... but it'll be layered too. Any thoughts? Suggestions? thanks a bunch! :]
me:
http://i240.photobucket.com/albums/ff196/hitoast/jessicamyspacepic.jpg
oh and these are what my bangs normally look like (i have a horrid bump-nose so i wear my side bangs straightened in front of my face to cover it ha ha)
http://i240.photobucket.com/albums/ff196/hitoast/jessicame.jpg
thanks a bunch! and pics are appreciated too!
hey
ok i love your bangs. i just want to suggest keeping it at the SHORTEST, right above the shoulders.
http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y279/NrllAless/blog/hair/melissa-kelly.jpg
(right picture)
i don't suggest getting it even shorter layered towards your scalp (i know what you mean though) cause it might make your face look rounder. get layers on the bottom though and get your bangs cut a bittt shorter would be my suggestion. i can barely see your face in the pics!
whats the best way to remove facial hair of any kind?
you mean like, a moustache? nair.
(eyebrows? threading)
Ok so i'm 13/F. I am only 5"1 which is pretty short, and I'm not supposed to grow much taller than that, which is a real bummer. Anyways, My thighs are shaped strange. They aren't "chubby" or anything, they're like, "fit" in a "round" way... I'm a size 2/3 in jeans and they are thin, so don't think I have a low self confidence, but they curve outward. Like, the Muscle part curves outward. Is there anyway to make them less 'round'? Or maybe help them grow out? Thanks :).
[sorry if It's a little confusing....It's hard to explain...]
hey
i totally understand what you mean, and you know what those "round" thighs mean? IT'S MUSCLE. that "roundness" is the muscle! as you grow taller, they won't be as round unless you continue vigorous exercise. you must participate in some sort of sport or exercise program (and if not, then you naturally have muscular legs!) anyway, your thighs are commonly known as "toned" thighs. it's A GOOD THING. you wouldn't want them to be less round. and unfortunately, you can't make them thinner. slow down on the exercise if you work out everyday. keep it light on the running, etc.
heybbylovee
where can i buy ripped jeans?
besides like hco, ae and a&f?
and dont say "make them yourself"
thanks
wetseal, aeropostale, bodycentral (www.bodyc.com)
Hi, I saw this lipgloss in the January Seventeen magazine, on the one contest page called 'kissing freebies' anyways, I really want some of those their giving away. Like I want to go and buy them, does anyone know where ANY of these are..
-Too Faced
-Benefit
-Red Earth
-Physicians Formula
-N.Y.C New York Color
-Dior
-Ballmania
-Philosophy
-Prestige
If you know where i can find any of those brands of lipgloss PLEASE tell me. even if its one.
sephora definitely has dior, philosophy, benefit and too faced lip stuff. the sephora in the city is AMAZING. it's huge.. it's like heaven.
ok
so im 14/f
and i have a mix p.e class like with 7th graders and 8th and im in 8th grade but i keep getting hit in the face lol but this guy hes a total cutie.. and i think hes trying to flirt with me(hes kinda bad at it!lol.) ok so in pe we talk when we have to run and hes like pushing me like a nudge and its kinda cute.and i hit him back and stuff but hes in 7th grade i have never gone out with a younger guy i mean i have dated a 11 grader but not a 7th grader or anything. i raelly like him but i dont know what my friends will say. about him they dont know him adn me and my friends are all goign to see the eye on friday and stuff i want to ask the 7th grader to come with me but im not sure what he will say.
ok if you need more info then tell me ok?
sweetie. don't care about your friends. cause honestly, you WON'T be friends with them in like, 30 years. yeah sure a couple maybe after college, but so many friendships are lost. think about what YOU want.
if i were you, i'd invite him. you're going with your friends, so it's not like a single date or anything! perfect opportunity.
good luck.