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heyy. so like .. i was hanging out with my guy friend, who i guess you could say is like a wanna be player. and we were sitting in his car & he kissed me. we talked after that and he told me he wanted to hook up & it seemed like he was pretty into me ..and i realized that i wanted to also.. so about a week later, we hung out again and we hooked up. i wasn't sure about it before but now i feel like i like him. i wouldn't want to go out with him though because hes a player/ he can be pushy. we talked the day after we hooked up & things seemed to be chill between us but its been a few days and we havent talked. i texted him and he didnt respond .. i'm just in a state of confusion and i dont think i should like him but right now, i can't really help it. what should i do ?
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heyy sweetie
aw! okay well HONESTLY, i've never been in your situation, but you can't stop liking someone. you see, if you like him, don't try to stop it. this world which is filled with hate and war is just terrible, and it's really quite sad. you're only on earth for so long, and can only do so much while you're on it, so why not just do what you want? you like him. you want to go out with him - it seems - but you're scared because he might betray you / be a player, etc. well i think you should wait and play hard to get a lil bit to let him know you're not just there for him to hook up with you whenever he wants. so, i'd give it a few days, and because he didn't respond to YOUR text, if he texts you, wait like 5 hours or something before you respond.
wait a few days, see where it goes. if he stops talking to you completely, well i'd say go find another guy! you wouldn't want to get hurt. however, if he talks to you again and starts responding, i'd go out with him and take the risks involved with it because we're young and able to be free and go crazy... do things we want. don't regret going out with him though -- you had fun while it lasted, if you decide to date him!
never try to stop loving someone. it's okay.
i hope i helped & feel FREE to inbox me anytime if you need more help with your situation!
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