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well i havn't used this site in FOREVER!!! but i use to give people advice every single day i love it and i hate it when i can't help the people.

well i'm 14 years old i'm short lol 5ft 1in. i have brown hair and brownish goldish eyes. i have some freckles but they fade out in the winter.

on the weekends i like to hang out with as many people as possible. i usually go to the movies bowling the mall or anywhere else that is fun. but of course if i'm there its gunna be fun!!!


well i don't no what i am i dont' like to label myself but i would have to say i'm out going crazy hyper loud. i dress preppy and skaterish depends on my mood.

my fave color is pink it deff. describes who i am.

well thats all i can think of right now so i'll talk to yawl lata

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theres this girl who keeps annoing me about me asking her out-the thing is i never did ask her out- she wants me to ask her out = i dont want t ask her out-now shes got the whole school turned against me-wat should i do?

wow she sounds like a bit** not to be mean. you should tell her that you don't like her and tell your friends that you never did. the whole school shouldn't be against you just for that. that's just stupid. haha i know this is mean, but you should ask her out then in a day be like i don't want a girl friend right now i think we should take a break. i'm srry the whole schools against you. if you went to my school people wouldn't care. hope i helped a little.

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Justin and I dated for like, 2 months and one week. We broke up because he said I couldn't trust him, he cheated. But he admitted it to my face.

Now, we both like each other again, after being broken up for about a month and still talking and stuff. He called me a couple nights ago just to talk, which he's never done before when we weren't together. He wants me to ask him out this time though, because he asked me out last time.

Should I do it? Or wait for him to? I mean I'm pretty sure he likes me, he's said it and he even purposely got kicked out of class so he could come see me (I got kicked out of class too, lol.)

well it seems like yall like each other a lot so go back out and since he admited it that he cheated u can trust him because he will always tell you if he does something wrong. i think that's so sweet that yall both got kicked out of class.

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alright I've been dating this guy for about a month in a half. Hes perfect he already bought me roses and he treats me soo good. But i dont know what to get him for Valentines Day can you please help me? thanks

a card that says how much u love him candy his fave colone if he wears any and like take him to the movies and like do stuff idk like turn him on or w/e

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ok latley i havent been able to talk to guys oh im a 13 yr old female- i just need some icebreakers see once the ball gets rolling i can talk to them fine even flirt if i wanna i just can never think of anything to say when i approch the guy which is weird cuz normaly i can so if you all could just give me some icebreakers that would be great please and thanyou

ummm lets see theres hey wats up or wat yaa doin or wat ya doing this weekend yeah the simple ones.

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me and my boyfriend broke up not too long ago, but he keeps telling me that he wants to get back together. Well, just the other day my friend told me she saw him buying prom tickets and he hasn't mentioned prom to me once. That makes me think he's just leading me on and he doesn't really want to be with me anymore. and the other day my mom took my phone away so i couldn't call him and he couldn't call me, and the next day he wouldnt talk to me at all at school. he just walked right by me without saying a word. SO i called him that afternoon and asked him what his problem was and he said he had to call me back because he had no minutes left on his phone. Well, he never called. So i sent him some text messages and he never answered me back. I dont know what to do anymore. Please help me out.

hmmmmmmmm well i don't think hes leading you on i think hes just a little confused right now. he may be trying to get over you because he thinks you don't like him. i don't really know i'm srry but thats wat it sounds like to me. i hope i helped a little.

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do you think it is weird that a 17 year old is going out with a 13 year old, even if they love eachother more than anything in the world?

yeah kinda

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as said on the subject i have a plugged nose and a soar throat.. the end part of my throat is really really itchy and i can't make it stop ='( and my ears hurt they feel kinda really itchy too i've been rubbing it with a qtip buh it doesn't work wut else can i do? what kinda medicine shud i take? is buckleys good? they advertise it alot.. plz help.. thx

if i was you i would have since enough to go to the doctor.

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ok..well i want to use a tampon but i dont know how to put one in..i tried following the directions in the box but its not working..help?

ask your mom she should help. advice: the first times going to hurt really bad.

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Okay lets start my saying im 13 years old. I am dating a 17 year old. My parents along with his parents think it's a bad idea because of the age difference. I havent been able to get ahold of him and talk to him about it. I also like some one who is closer to my age. But does kind of bad things like drinking isnt a problem to me since i do it but he does ciggerates and weed and stuff. He told me he wouldnt pressures me in to anything and he told me he likes me to.HELP ME IM CONFUSSED!!!

i think you should dump the 17 year old because in a year it's going to be illegal. you should go out with the guy who is closer to your age. he may do bad stuff but since he said he won't pressure you into doing it then thats good. just don't be around him when he does that stuff. hope i helped.

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I am a thirteen year old female and I don't want to live my life anymore. My ex boyfriend and ex best friend are almost going out even though they know I still have feelings for him. My sister has ADHD so my parents have to give her alot of special attention and there are about three family arguments a day. I gave up self harm about a month and a half ago but now I have started again because I am so depressed. I make constant threats of suicide and I suffer from very low self confidence. I am rarely happy and when I am it is short lived. I desperately want my ex boyfriend back and keep thinking that if only I still had him then I would be happy. I have a male friend who I talk to about almost everything and he is very supportive but he can't help me. What should I do?

well you shouldn't think that your ex can help you because the truth is the only person who can help you is you. not trying to be mean or anything. ovbious your ex best friend really wasn't a best friend. your sister who has ADHD shouldn't really get more attention. i would go to the counselour at school and tell her about that. she can help. i go to her a lot and sometimes she takes me to a therapist. i'm 13 years old too and all i can say is that middle scool is going to be the hardest thing in your life to go through. when you get in high school you will have new friends and a new reputation its almost like starting over. thats what my counselor told me. i don't beleive her but i think i am starting too. hope i helped.
~ashleigh~

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I'm like 20 pounds overweight and I REALLY need to loose the 20lbs. Even my mom calls me fat! I really am going to go anorexic if I dont find an easy way to loose the weight! Please help me. I dont wanna go to desperate measures, but I just don't want my mom to call me fat, and I know I want to be the right wait. I'd be much happier!
DO you have any easy ways of loosing 20lbs.?

well don't go anorexic it doesn't help trust me my sister went into a mental hospital b/c of it. i have to admit i am over weight too. i have found that eating less of wat i use to eat helps a lot so far i have lost 10 pounds for just doing that. you should also to crunches or sit ups not like 5,000 like usher just like 50 or so. i hoped i help.

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ok the valentines day dance is the 18th or 19th and i really want a guy to go with..even just as a friend would be fine with me. There is a guy i have had in mind about but he is a grade younger than me? is that wrong? also one of my close friends like him too and she know that i have a *crush* on him but she doesnt know that i actually like him..what should i do? i will rate high!! *lost*

of course theres nothing wrong in going to a dance with a younger guy. well ask you friend if its alright if you can go to the dance with him. if she was a really close friend she should understand and if you no each other really well and she says yes she may not mean it so watch her face and see wat u see in her eyes. i hope i helped
~ash~

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okay, so there's this guy at my school, I dont really know that well, and I'm new here this year. but he''s supposedly the hottest guy. Two months ago he started flirting wit me almost everyday, and some other girls actually did think he liked me. A month ago one of my friends asked him if he did and he said yes( i wasnt there), but then a week ago my friend told me that she and another friend asked him again a week ago, and he said I was disgusting and he only liked to make fun of me. But he still flirted with me uptil then. I'm confused, does he still like me, and tried to cover up for it? Because in the beginning it genuinely seem like he liked me when he flirted. I DO know he's somewhat of a playboy. I'm in Middle School.Female, of course.

ok well hes a guy and most guys right now just like gurls for there looks and are going to try and get stuff from u. once they figure out u won't give them anything they are going to give up. this guy use to flirt with me all the time, but wen he found out i wouldn't do anything with him he just left me alone. he also could have been around his friends wen ur friends asked him if he liked u. most guys want to act all cool around there friends. don't worry about it. hoped i helped.

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hey everyone. i usually give advice, but now i need it. i've been friends with this one girl, Sara, for like ever! and the thing is, she's awesome. she's been there for me in many times, she always helps me with my homework, hair & make-up, guys ... we've only been best friends for about a year, but we've known each other since 3rd grade. now we're freshmen. but the thing is, i can't handle it. my other friends, that i was best friends with before for longer periods of time, and i never fought, me and sara fight alll the time. over the dumbest things we argue. she has a problem with everything. she's a prep, lets put it this way, and i'm just plain casual. she always wantsme dressing up, doing my make up really nice, going over her house whenever she wants (but the thing is, i can't cause i have really strict parents), and she gets pissed off when she doesn't have it her way. ive lost practically all my other friends, i have no other friends besides her, and this is because of her. i thought she was soo nice when i first met her and all and i started ditching some of my old friends for her, and this is where i am. like in the morning, she always wants me to come over her house so we can do our hair and make-up and bitches at me for everything. for being shy, i can't help it. for not dressing really nice, i don't feel comfortable. she says i've changed and i don't care about myself at all. which is so not true, because she made me that way. she is really pretty, but she always likes to make fun of me and put me down for no apparent reason. and its usually while we're with people, afterwards she apologizes. and i forgive. i told her all this before but we ended up making up and we've fought like 16 + times before and i can't leave her cause i'll be a loner. she is very spoiled and always gets what she wants, she also hates the fact that i don't go after older guys, like she does. i stick to my age guys. the thing is she always helps me on test and on homework, so that'd be really hard cause i suck with school. another thing, it seems she only uses me. i mean when her other friends call to go to the movies, she goes and makes plans, but whenever i ask her for something, she doesn't always come thru, ya know? like atparties, she totally ditches me and goes with her other friends, so its really hard to pur up with. i guess what i'm trying to say is, i need advice on what to do to try to make things better. she really hurts me sometimes and i don't want to lose her, shecan beeally awesome but she hates the fact that i'm not like her ... what can i do about all of this?

well i use to have a friend her name was amanda. we became friends b/c i liked her brother and we only were friends for about half a year. i couldn't handle it anymore b/c she was always bugging me and crap just like this friend of urs. she always wants me to go to her house and crap. but i have strict parents too just like urs and they don't let me and she gets all mad and starts talkin about my parents and crap. well one day her mom told me that i was a bad influance. i never talked to amanda since. i don't really know what you should do i'm glad i'm not friends with amanda anymore i've gotten nicer and cooler friends and have gotten closer to my old ones and i'm having the best time of my life with them. i hope this helps

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okay there are two girls who are really pretty who are in my grad(7th). but heres the problem, o dont know who to choose! both think im really funny but one has a popular bf but hes not that handsomeand i can tell shes losing interested in him. the other girl is free but has a crush on every "cute" boy in the class. there also both really popular. so my question is which one? p.s. i rate high for an answer that deosnt piss me off.

ummm if i were u i would pick the 1st one b/c the 2nd one the one who has a crush on every guy in the class is desperate, i think. if you go out with her she will talk about guys behind ur back. the 1st gurl sounds like the kind of gurl for u. so just wait. i guess.

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My boyfriend is prude and won't make any moves like handing hands or kissing. I would really like him to show his affection for me sometimes. Should I make the moves or is he not interested in it? I don't want to scare him off. If I do make moves, what should I do and how? People tell me to follow my heart but how do I know how he feels? Please help!

well i have been in this situation and i didn't do anything and the relationship went down hill fast. you should make a move a little at a time first hold his hand then if you go to the movies rest ur head on his sholder then maybe he will give back. i hope that helps

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Chores are so stupid..Why do we have to do them?

Well first you need money because i am pretty sure you don't have any. second you have to have responsibilitys so you grow up well and thats all i got to say

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anyone know where to get a cute AIM valintine icon? thx a bunch!!

iconator.com

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