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hey everyone. i usually give advice, but now i need it. i've been friends with this one girl, Sara, for like ever! and the thing is, she's awesome. she's been there for me in many times, she always helps me with my homework, hair & make-up, guys ... we've only been best friends for about a year, but we've known each other since 3rd grade. now we're freshmen. but the thing is, i can't handle it. my other friends, that i was best friends with before for longer periods of time, and i never fought, me and sara fight alll the time. over the dumbest things we argue. she has a problem with everything. she's a prep, lets put it this way, and i'm just plain casual. she always wantsme dressing up, doing my make up really nice, going over her house whenever she wants (but the thing is, i can't cause i have really strict parents), and she gets pissed off when she doesn't have it her way. ive lost practically all my other friends, i have no other friends besides her, and this is because of her. i thought she was soo nice when i first met her and all and i started ditching some of my old friends for her, and this is where i am. like in the morning, she always wants me to come over her house so we can do our hair and make-up and bitches at me for everything. for being shy, i can't help it. for not dressing really nice, i don't feel comfortable. she says i've changed and i don't care about myself at all. which is so not true, because she made me that way. she is really pretty, but she always likes to make fun of me and put me down for no apparent reason. and its usually while we're with people, afterwards she apologizes. and i forgive. i told her all this before but we ended up making up and we've fought like 16 + times before and i can't leave her cause i'll be a loner. she is very spoiled and always gets what she wants, she also hates the fact that i don't go after older guys, like she does. i stick to my age guys. the thing is she always helps me on test and on homework, so that'd be really hard cause i suck with school. another thing, it seems she only uses me. i mean when her other friends call to go to the movies, she goes and makes plans, but whenever i ask her for something, she doesn't always come thru, ya know? like atparties, she totally ditches me and goes with her other friends, so its really hard to pur up with. i guess what i'm trying to say is, i need advice on what to do to try to make things better. she really hurts me sometimes and i don't want to lose her, shecan beeally awesome but she hates the fact that i'm not like her ... what can i do about all of this?
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well i use to have a friend her name was amanda. we became friends b/c i liked her brother and we only were friends for about half a year. i couldn't handle it anymore b/c she was always bugging me and crap just like this friend of urs. she always wants me to go to her house and crap. but i have strict parents too just like urs and they don't let me and she gets all mad and starts talkin about my parents and crap. well one day her mom told me that i was a bad influance. i never talked to amanda since. i don't really know what you should do i'm glad i'm not friends with amanda anymore i've gotten nicer and cooler friends and have gotten closer to my old ones and i'm having the best time of my life with them. i hope this helps
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