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Hey my names kayla and im 14 years 0ld...i will answer any questi0n y0u ask me because chances are im g0ing/went thr0ugh s0mething similar. i have realized that i am best at giving advice t0 pe0ple 0n what t0 say t0 0thers 0n a given situati0n. If theres ever s0mething urgent y0u need t0 ask me feel free t0 im me 0n xoredskittleox...if y0u have any pr0blems regarding my advice...like s0mething i might have said that 0ffended y0u 0r anything like that.
Much0 l0ve
Kayla
x0x0

-Im sorry if anyone has been trying t0 email me. My email address is currently n0t w0rking. S0meh0w the pr0gram g0t switched to msn. grr my c0mputer always d0es that. Anyways i am s0 s0rry if any0ne was trying t0 get in c0ntact with me and i didnt resp0nd.

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Ok, Last nite my b/f told me that he smokes. I didnt really know what to do. I mean I dont want him to smoke and he said that he's trying to stop and its not really working. I dont know what to do. Can someone plz help me cuz itz like really annoying me that he smokes. I mean its not really a big deal but I just dunno....

hey even though he smokes and stuff the fact that he told you he does...that makes him a really good boyfriend...cuz hes like totally honest with you...thats great...but i have to be honest, even for adults its really really difficult to stop smoking. Its a really hard habit to break..so its gonna be twice as hard for him since he is younger. You said that in the mornings he doesnt smell like smoke?? Well sometimes guys drown out the smell with cologn...believe me they do...but i think that this whole smoking thing might bring you two closer together...its not a good thing that he smokes but you are learning more about eachother and you can try to help him out. I really hope everything works out...keep in touch...im me on xcuriousx0 if you ever need me. :)
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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Why do people make fun of white people? I mean, it's just a color....Also, people will make fun of me because I'm Jewish and it hurts because Jews fought for their freedom just like black people, so why is skin color such a big deal?

personally i have the same thoughts about the whole situation...but they make fun of black people too...its just this big controversy that EVERYONE is involved in where people feel the need to make fun of other races...its pretty messed up...

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ok i wrote like last month about this boy who called me fat and said he hated me and everything... but he IMed the other day and he said sorry and that he would never do it again and i dont know what i should do because i really like him but i dont wanna get hurt again. i told him i would think about forgiving him but i seriously dont know what to do... help! i rate good! *unless its a stupid answer*

well you should definitly forgive him...if hes puttin an effort to get your forgiveness then it probably means something to him. Give him another chance and if he does it again...well thats a different story...
hope i helped
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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There is this kid at school that I have known for about 3 years. He constantly bugs me and acts like he is flirting with me. We are both in this show at school and I was dancing for my part in the show and he screamed Work it girl! I know he was talking to me but I dont know if he meant anything my it. I dont like him at all. As a friend but not a b/f. He is always trying to go out of his way to be super nice to me to. Please help me.

Luv Ya xoxoxoxo,
XoKisSeSoX

oo la la it seems like somebody has a little crush on you...you should definitly ask him how he feels!! If you dont like him then dont bother with it and just leave it alone...
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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this boy asked me out and i said yes but his friend told me that my b/f said it was over. i asked my b/f if it was true and he said he wanted his friend to tel me it was over but he changed his mind.. i think he's having his doubts, ahould i break up with him b4 he breaks my heart?

Yea i really think it would be best to end it ahead of time...he sounds like a real creap...you dont dump someone and then change ur mind liek 'oops i was kiddin' thats just stupid...thats pathetic and you deserve better than that...
mucho love
kayla xoxo

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what are some good ways i could scrunch? my hair i guess you could say to give it that wavey curly type look thanks.i rate.

hey! well im like the master at scrunching...n0t rele but we can g0 with that..what i d0 is after the sh0wer i c0mb my hair 0ut and thr0w it up in a tight messy bun...and then in the m0rning i use a little gel [al0t will kill it] and al0t of hairspray and it w0rks f0r me...

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is it bad to pop your knuckles? Some people say it is and others say it isn't...

um...i dont know if this is true or not but i dont believe that it bad...in health class in liek fifth grade i had to work on some paper where you had to find myths and factual information...one of the statements was 'you can get athritus from cracking your nuckles' and my teacher told us that it was a myth...well thats what i remember her saying...personally i dont think its too good...you may get pains over time...

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im so ttoaly lost i really need help. Nothin feels right between me and my boyfriend. we have been going out for a while and well everything was great and now nothing feels right... i mean he is doing things he knows will piss me off and hes not really telling me anyhinghting anymore... i dont know what to do and i really need help and some one jsut to tlak to...... PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!

hey hun
you should sit down with him and talk to him about it. I dont know anything about him or what its like so i dont know how he would act if you tried to have a serious conversation with him. o well go for it. If he doesnt cooperate then he obviously isnt worth it and its time to get a new love bird.
hope i helped
x3 kayla x0x0

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I like this guy i work with so much it hurts. He tells me all his personal stuff about his family and and his ex giirl fiend.We have a lot in common. He even gave me a mix CD. I give him free potato chips from the store that i work in. He always seems happy to see me. When he walks in he has a great big cool aid smile on his face. But there is a problem he never asked for my phone #. What's with that. I am way to shy to ask him for his. My question is does this guy like me? Or does he see me as just as a friend what am i doing wrong? how do i get him to take me seriously?

Heyy
Well since you said that you work and stuff im probably younger than you and the last thing you need is a 14 year old giving you advice. Well, he probably isnt asking for your number because he is nervous. If he likes you, asking for your number might not be the easiest thing for him. Maybe he is also shy like you. You did say you had alot in common so maybe you are both shy. There is a possibility that he does just see you as a friend. Keep your chin up and see if he makes any moves. If he doesnt then your going to have to take the situation into your own hands and ask him for his number. You dont have anything to lose. If he likes you as a girlfriend or a friend he will still give you his number so dont base your relationship on that.
Well i hope i helped
mucho love
kayla x0x0

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