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Whatever your problem is, chances are I have dealt with it- either directly of indirectly- at some point in my life. I've worked as a Social Worker (with issues like mental illness, addiction, disabilities, eating disorders, etc.)

I've also taught school (to teens!)and have experience mentoring them.

In addition to that, I've lived in 4 different countries, many different cities, and worked jobs in all different fields from Software Sales to Fashion Designer.

This diverse life experience has given me knowledge on a wide variety of topics- which I hope I can put to good use here. :-)

So go ahead- ask away!

PS- I do not judge people or speak to them in a condescending way. However, I will be honest and tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you WANT to hear.
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Ok i am SO SO SO SO UBER BORED


Barely any of my friends can han gbut yeah idk what to do and my mom is out of country and my dad works all day.

What should i do?

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anything please help me!!


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I don't think boredom is the main problem here. It sounds like you are very lonely. The title that you chose also implies that there may even be some depression, possibly tied into this loneliness.

It's a shame that your parents aren't around more. But see if there are some ways that you can connect more. Tell them you would like to spend some more time with them.

Also, get out of the house more, make some new friends. You WILL get depressed sitting in the house by yourself all day. And tv or a computer is not a substitute for a real human being.

Join a club that you are interested in, try a sport, find some new hobbies, but most importantly, be around people more. Humans by nature are social people. We are not meant to site at home watching tv or on computers all day.





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