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My name is alix. I'm fourteen &i live just moved to massachusets. i love all of my closer friends; theyre my life. i like cats, and my favorite food is soanish rice. i like going to the movies with all my friends; we do it every friday. it's a routine. i love giving advice about guys, but what i really love are questions from guys about girls. im really opinionated, but im usually not very harsh when i answer things. advice
I haven't gotten my period for about 2-3 months. Just so you know, I'm NOT pregnant that I know for sure. I'm still a teenager so what could be the cause of this? Could I just be erregular or something, I mean it would be a little strage if I were but can someone tell me ALL the possibilites for why I haven't gotten my period for almost 3 months. Is it possible for me to have entered menopause already? What are the symptons of it? Could someone get it this early?
All reasons possible?
its not menopause.
if youre light, then that could be a good reason why. i'm really skinny, and i go between 3 to 5 months inbetween each of mine.
if you work out a lot, then that could be why. my bff doesnt get hers during track season, ever.
if you just lost a lot of weight or have an eating disorder, that could stop it. my other friend suffered from anorexia, and her period went away for a year. it was like she never got it at all.
you could also be irregular. if youve had your period for over 2 years, then its unlikely, but its still definitely possible.
its impossible for you to have gotten menopause already.
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im almost positive that that couldnt make it come less often. but if you lost weight, then that might be it. chances are, though, youre just irregular.
i want to go to chinatown, canal street in ny and buy one of those fake chanel bags with the big crossing c's ..do they have those there? how much are they usually and where can i usually find them? like what stores if anyone has gotten a fake bag from there.. any experiences?
you can definitely get one, but the prices will vary a lot. some people will tell you their stolen, and price them a lot higher(it may or may not be true). and you could find them at almost any place selling fake bags. youll have no problem, they all sell those. and i dont think anyone really knows the mane of the stores, they all kind of blend together. but youll be able to do it.
one thing i'd do if i were you would be printing out a picture of the kind of bag you want, or a few versions of chanel bags. just because you can compare them to the fakes and see how realistic they are. like, i got a greattt knockoff tiffanys bracelet, and when i got home, i looked online and found out that the clasp was in the wrong place. i was able to fix it, so no biggie, but i wish i had known before i bought it.
14/f
for a month or more, ive been eating healthy (including the fact that ive given up sweets for lent). i heard from 3 people that i look thinner, and im not sure if thats true. im super stressed about my weight since today i went to the doctor and was 124 on their scales, but on my home scale im near 117. I used to run daily but ive been lazy. I still eat healthy. my meals are..
breakfast- a bowl of cereal and fruit
snack before lunch at school- a few pretzels or grapes
lunch- a sandwitch, some veggies, some fruits, wheat thins or other cracker like snacks
snack after school- some wheat thins or fruit
dinner- usually some type of healthy dinner?
i dont know what else i can do.. im so upset today about my weight. i am not hungrey alot and i dont over eat. before i used to eat alot and i just was a piggy teenage girl. ive got no sports for me now, but cheerleading season ( a long all year round) is starting soon. help please
wow, first off, kudos for keeping so healthy. ive been trying to eat well, but its hard. your meals seem really healthy.
if you have a treadmill at home, take advantage of it! its suchhh an easy way to run, and you can do it while watching tv or listening to music. if not, try to go for runs with a friend. it helps you keep motivated. also you wont not do it because your lazy, because its something to look forward to.
do crunches or sit ups every night. its soo easy, and you dont need to have any equipment. i started out with ten, and added ten more every other night until it got to a hundred a night, but im really good at sit ups, not gonna lie. if theyre not your strong point, add only five, or add ten every three, four, or even five days. figure out what works for you.
also, try doing an individual sport at a gym. try kickboxing or rock climbing- my fave sports, if you could call them that. theyre so much fun, and they keep you very fit.
117 is a great weight. its not fat at all. infact, its absolutely gorgeous. you dont have the bones peeking through, which looks weird, but you dont have flab. 124 is only a few pounds over. you can lose that weight if you really want to(i dont know your height so i cant say whats a good weight for you, but ill guess youre pretty average heighted.)
Ok I wear pajamas to sleep but on tv and stuff I see girls wearing a tank top and some shorts.
Baby-ish? or am i old fashioned?
Depends on how old you are, and what you mean by pajamas. If theyre footsie pajamas and youur like, 17, then yes, its babyish(duh) but really, it doesnt matter so much. and ps i loveeeee pajamas, so if it sounds a little obsessive, im not a freak, i just like sleepwear.
heres what i suggest:
-Nightgown: it doesnt have to be like a lacy slip. I got the comfiest one ever from american eagle. Its so comfy, and soft. its just a paleish blue cotton, and its great. those are always cute, and when you want to feel pretty, theyre perfect.
-tank top and shorts: theyre always cute, but can be kind of blah. unless it looks fab on, then thats not amazing. but it always works.
-tank top and boxers: this looks really cute. You can get boxers made for girls(i got a great striped pair at old navy for cheapish, and you can get them a bunch of other places too) or for guys(just anywhere that they sell guys things). but if you go that way, then get them made small, so theyre short and kindaaa tight on the butt. like how you'd wear your short shorts. this is a really cute combo.
-tank top/tshirt and sweats: cute, especially in the winter. but i probably wouldnt choose this to wear to, say, a sleepover, or summercamp. its fine, really, theres no problem with it. but its just not as cute as it could be.
-matching set of pajamas: when i say pajamas, i mean clothes that are made for sleeping in, but not like babyish. like, cotton top and maybe flannel bottoms. theyre almost always adorable. i love them. theres also the kind thats made of a satiny material. thats cute too, but its a little babyish. but hey, if you like that, go ahead. now if were talking fleece, then id say its babyish. but again, unless youre wearing them around friends, who cares?
-long top: works really well on some people, but not others. if youre flat, then its not a great look for you, but if you have enough chest to be well seen under it, then its prettty cute.
and if youre not wearing them infront of friends, who really cares what you wear? no ones going to know. its fine to just throw something on, or to put on your pajamas, even if they are babyish. whatever, as long as you like it.
hope i helped!
Okay as most people know tomorrow is the first day back for some people..
What should I wear with jeans !?!?! please help! =D
i like hollister and abercrombiee. so any suggestions are appreciated. websites are good but not needed.
If you have a nice tank top, not like stretchy material but something nicer. That ALWAYS looks fab. also, if you have niceish flip flops. not rubber, but pretty much anything else.
whenever i IM this guy, hes always lyk heyy beautiful or hi gorgeous
and idk wut to say bak. bcz, whats like the boy equevalant? like what do i say say hi handsome or hii hottie or what?
thank you so so much!! any advice you have i'd love because i really have no clue!!
heyy :]
hey youu
hey there whats up?
hey there cutie
hello there :]
hey cutie
hey babe
hey sup?
right back at you
I turn polar bears white
and I will make you cry.
I make guys have to pee
and girls comb their hair.
I make celebrities look stupid
and normal people look like celebrities.
I turn pancakes brown
and make your champane bubble.
If you sqeeze me, I'll pop.
If you look at me, you'll pop.
Can you guess the riddle?
NO I CANT GUESS THE EFFIN RIDDLE!!!!!
:)
97% of Harvard graduates can not figure this riddle out, but 84% of kindergarten students were able to figure this out in 6 minutes or less. Can you guess the riddle? Just repost this bulletin with the title "The World's Hardest Riddle", and then check your inbox. You'll get a message with the correct answer in it
^^ its a myspace bulliten and i dunno the answer! haha apparently thos kindergarters are smarter than me.
There are a few possible answers.. i looked it up online.
one is salt.
this came from http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuZIs13Vm6YhbdiGRwVcR5HDxQt.?qid=1006041411060&cp=1&tp=4#all-answers
Salt water give objects more buoyancy. Polar bears swim all the time. Their hollow clear hair appears white. Its hollow to better maximize the buoyancy of the oceanic salt water. Kindergarten kids know that polar bears swim in the sea.
next... Who has ever gotten salt in their eyes? Yeah... you cry.
pee... duh. When you pee your body loses salt. Kids know this because (Amazingly) many of them have tasted pee and(thankfully) they kow that when they eat something salty they drink alot more and then have to pee.
sweat and oil contain high ammounts of salt which causes hair to become dull, and tangle easier. ever get hair in your mouth when working out... its salty.
this is great... when famous people sweat its because they are screwing up and when we sweat its because were working hard. the harder you sweat the harder it seems like youre working.
this is the tricky part... Butter has a high ammount of salt (go lick some) and you have to fry pancakes in butter or margarine. thats why they brown.Fry anything in butter and it browns. ask a little kid how to cook pancakes. (Dont ask the children of crackhead loser parents because they will tell you that pancakes come in boxes ant you put them in the toaster because mommy is too strung out too cook) the champagne thing is sneaky and I dont think young kids would know this...
add salt to champagne and watch it fizz like crazy. hell, add salt or sugar to soda even.. it fizzez like crazy. but then again... i used to mix soda and salt as a kid just to make a mess.
squeeze a salt grain and it explodes along its fracture (cleavage) lines
if you put salt in your eyes they eventually dry out and erupt because the skin of the retina splits and the inner fluid drains out (again, it would be a very inquisitive child but I think kids know that salt dehydrates stuff)
answer...
Its friggan salt people. Try to think like a kid, theyre smarter than we give them credit for.
but i think the answer is "no, i can not guess the answer."
a harvard student would keep looking for an answer, but a kindergardener would just say, "no."
I am new with tampons and i just pull all first one out and it really hurt. How do i make it stop hurting me?
it could have hurt because there wasnt enough blood in it. if you noticed that it wasnt full, then keep it in longer(just not too long that its dangerous-8 hrs)
i havent started my period [EVERRRRRR]
but i was wondering if its still ok to have sex
my friends mom had sex before she got her period and nothing happened to her .
could that have just been her
can i still have sex and get my period ?
is your question whether or not youll get your period after? because if thats it, then you will.
but sweetie be careful, you can get pregnant. you could be about to start your period, and have mature eggs and all, but you wouldnt know. in fact, it could be worse, because if you DID get pregnant, you wouldnt realize that your period was late, and wouldnt have any way of knowing that you were until you really started gaining weight. and, if you would get an abortion, itmight be too late for one.
I put this question to mental health cause it is messing me up.
Whats with all those 12 year olds wanna have sex? And whats with them 15 year olds suggesting they should go for it?
This was the question:
havent started my period [EVERRRRRR]
but i was wondering if its still ok to have sex
my friends mom had sex before she got her period and nothing happened to her .
could that have just been her
can i still have sex and get my period ?
This was my advice after the feedback I got:
DAMN NO.
If you didn t have your period yet it means you are 14 years old. And 14 year olds having sex is Gross.
Your friends mom can do as she pleases. She might be a skunc, just cause she did it it doesn t mean it is ok to do. Probably your 23 yeard old weirdo boyfriend told it to you so he can convince you to allow him to pop your cherry.
Do as you please.
This is the feedback that I got:
no my bf is not 23 and i was just wondering im not even thinking of having sex i was thinking like what if i never get it at all then maybe i could have sex when im married and im not 14 im 15 ! THANKS FOR NOT HELPING BITCH !
This I added after the feedback:
Well thanks for harassing me and calling me a bitch and all, you are only making a fool out of yourself and letting people know how immature you are. Are you even aloud to be on this site?
Anyways, you are being totally unfair, you are just mad cause you didn t hear what you wanted to hear wich is "u go gurl, u r ready whenever u feel like it". Well fine, shoot your self up and look where you heading.
I complained countless times to the administrator, but he seems to be asleep or something. Why wont my rating change? I know people get banned when they rate a one. I never asked the girl to get banned, just to change my rating but unlike others, I am not afraid to admit that
""""Yes, ratings are important for me""""
Is there a place in this site where I can complain and actually get heard or even some feedback?
Also I really believe that some administrators are overusing their powers here in this site. I wants got banned till Friday, bitched about it
and then it changed till next Friday.
It seems everyone can call me a bitch and get away with it, while I cannot even point out to someone that he did something stupid without getting banned. Notice I said "someone did something stupid" cause I never called someone stupid.
i've complained and had my feedback raised. your answer was really immature, and it showed that you were judging her and making assumptions. your answer would not have helped anyone, ever. plus, there were so many things in it that were wrong.
lets just start out with the facts: you said, "if you didnt get your period yet it means youre 14." wtf? why would that make her fourteen? she could be younger, she could be older. i know a few sixteen year olds who havent gotten it; why do you "know" that she's 14?
then, you assumed that her friends mom was a what? was that supposed to say skank? first off, the girl didnt say HOW she lost her virginity. you never know, she could have been raped. that wouldnt make her a skank, not at all. also, there are people who lose their virginity when theyre younger, and they dont get messed up. doing what she did could have been good, it could have been bad. even if it WAS bad, everyone makes bad decisioins sometimes, and usually they learn from them. if i were to lose my virginity before i was, say, thirteen, am i automatically a skank for the rest of my life?
okay, and THEN you say that her boyfriend is probably 23? why? guys reach sexual maturity when theyre around 13 or so. they want sex then, not ten years later.
and, you assumed that she wanted to have sex. she didnt mention ANY intentions of even considering sex in her question.
then, after her feedback, you say "thanks for harrasing me"? you do realize that you just called her and her friends mom a skank, convinced yourself that she was 14 and had a 23 year old perv boyfriend, and decided that she MUST be planning on having sex?
and THEN you ask her if shes even allowed on this site? why on earth would she not be allowed on this site? and thats not rhetorical, i really, REALLY want to know. PLEASE leave it in my feedback.
YOUR RATING WONT CHANGE BECAUSE YOU DONT DESERVE ANYTHING HIGHER. YOURE JUDGEMENTAL, AND YOU HONESTLY SHOULDN'T EVEN BE GIVING ADVICE.
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"She hasn t got her period yet, therefore she is young."
i know plenty of older people who are older and don't have their periods. She even told you that she was 15. My cousin made it to seventeen before she got it. I didnt get mine until i was thirteen. There was a good chance that she was allowed on the site.
"She is asking if it is ok for her to have sex, therefore she wants to have sex."
what?
she wants to know if her period will get screwed up if she has sex before it comes. so she was curious. i;m not saying this is the case, but maybe she'd even been raped, or afraid it was going to happen. its not likely, but its always possible.
and please, PLEASE tell me why i am being judgemental.
i told you the facts, i pointed out all the possibilities.
I have this sonnet I have to memorize for drama. Thing is it's a Shakespeare thing and I dont even understand it. Please help me think of ways to memorize it. I have to do it this monday when I get back from Spring Break. !_!
read the first line outloud, then do it without looking.
if you got it right, read the first and second liines outloud, then without looking.
if you messed the first one up, then keep doing it until you get it, then do the first and second together. keep going, adding a line at a time until you have ti.
My bf told my friend that he was gonna kiss me tomarrow!!! I am excited, but scared cuz this is my first time. I don't want to make out with him, but i do want it to be hot and romantic lol well anyways i could use all the tips i can get (it will come naturally doesnt help) Also we are going out with a group of people. How can we get away from the crowd to kiss. Also I want to hold his hand, but I want it to look casual. How can I just hold his hand without like grabbing his hand. P.S. We are going to see a friends hockey game.
Thanks for your help :)
Haha, i think i already answered your first question(if i didnt read my advice column, theres one just like this) but about getting away from the crowd? go to grab a drink or something. Or, you can be like, hey, do you want to go somewhere a little quieter? he'll definitely want to.
Ok so I am 13 and hav alot of hair on the bikini line and vagina. I dont know how to ask my mom if i can get a bikini wax. Also is 13 to young what is a good age? I wanna look oGood in a bikini this summer. Also is there any good advice to make it hurt less or any kits even
You're not too young. And DONT SHAVE. It looks TERRIBLE when theres stubble, and if the hair's thick, it can hurt. Sugaring hurts less than waxing, and i'd try that. But if you want to get a wax, it doesnt really hurt as much as you'd think.
I'd reccommend using nair, though. It doesnt hurt at all, and it has the same effects as waxing. the only thing about it is that if you leave it on too long, it can be really bad. If its on too long it can make a rash or even make you bleed. So if it starts to burn or sting, take it off immediately. and don't leave it on longer than the bottle says.
Ok so me and my friend have been arguing over an hour about popping your cherry. Does it happen only once, or can it happen more than that?
Only once... how could it happen more than once?
The way you answered my other questions about my first kiss really helped, but I am still wicked nervous about it. I have a bad feeling that I am going to mess up big time. Also we haven't hugged or held hands yet, and I hope that just going straight to kissing won't ruin holding hands and stuff like that. I don't think that i am ready to like make out with him I just want a short kiss, but I am afraid that he might want more. If he does and tries to do more what should I do. He told my best friend that he didn't want to kiss me if I was going to like reject him from kissing me, and that he would be really embarassing for him. I really don't want to make him upset, cuz this is his first kiss too. Also I am still shakey about where to like keep my arms when I kiss him. Thank you for your help.
Love,
Erin x0x0
If your afraid that going straight to kissing will ruin it, then don't. If there's a time that seems right, like if you're sitting together or whatever, hold his hand, or just get nearer him, and he'll probably put his arm around you. You should probably try to do this kind of early on, because you don't know when he's going to kiss you. But if you don't hold hands or hug before, then no worries. It won't ruin the kiss.
And if he wants more than a short kiss, then kiss him for a little longer than you wanted, but less than he wants, and kind of cut it off... like, have you seen John Tucker Must Die? You know how she ends the kiss with him, and leaves him wanting more? That's what you want to do. Just slowly pull away, and look into his eyes, and he'll really want to kiss you again, but at the same time, he'll know that he's not going to get it.
If it's going to just be a short kiss, then your arms really aren't an issue. My first kiss was a total shock to me: I was at a dance at my camp, sitting down and talking to one of my friends, when my date just came over and kissed me, and then walked away. It was perfect, but the arms weren't really an issue at all. However, you should probably do something with them after he kisses you. You should look into his eyes, and smile, and hold his hands or put one arm around his waist(he'll either do the same or put his arm over your shoulders... you know?)
Don't worry. Since it's his first kiss, he's probably just as nervous as you are about everything. Like, you already know that he's afraid that you'll reject him. He's probably also not sure what to do. So even if you end up doing something that's not 100% perfect, he won't care.
Good luck.
I am 13/f and my best friend just talked to my bf and he said that he was going to kiss me this weekend. This will be my first kiss and I have never really been more nervous for anything. LOL!I was just wondering if anyone had any tips on first time kissing. Any would help. ( I really don't want to hear that it comes naturally, or just relax and it will be fine, I really want good tips) Thanks so much x0x0x0x0x0
Love,
Im almost to the point of having a break down. lol
:/
1)You can practice on your fist. (Like you know how when someone draws a little face on their fist and makes it talk, by the first finger and thumb? You can kiss that area.)
2)It's usually really hard to imagine kissing someone if you haven't kissed before. I know that this sounds SO WRONG, but it really did work: my friend told me about it, and I tried, and it really worked: imagine kissing yourself. It's weird, I know, but no one needs to know that you do that.
3)Honestly, for my first kiss, I was hoping it would be amazing, and there would be some secret twist that I didn't know about, but it was really exactly as I imagined it. You don't have to worry.
4)I know you said that you don't want to hear relax, but just remember to not be tense. My friend just got her first kiss about a month ago, and she was so nervous that it turned out terribe. The guy was trying to use tongue, and she was afraid to even move hers. Just relax.
5)If you plan on hooking up, and not just a quick kiss, then remember to kind of use your hands. You should really hold him, and make his whole body feel good. I don't mean that in a dirty way, but kind of wrap your arms around him and make him feel like you need him.
Good luck! I'm sure you'll be fine.
I have a problem. I have this guy friend and he wants to "hook up" with me, here's the catch...he has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do. I have liked him for 3 years and finally he wants to make a move but it doesn't seem right to me. I don't like the idea of going behind her back and making-out with her boyfriend. He wants to hook up in school, I rather do it outside of school so we could be alone and have no chance of getting caught.
I want the same things he wants from me. My best friend thinks that I should leave him alone but I can't help but think that this might be my last chance to be with him. Cam you help me?
-Troubled Heart
Don't do it. You're uncomfortable with it, and I know this sounds like such an old person thing to say, but you really shouldn't do things that you're uncomfortable with. You'll regret it, and it'll be on your concience.
Also, think about this. He has a girlfriend, but he wants to cheat on her. If you were ever his girlfriend, he could just as easily cheat on you. Don't do it. It's definitely a bad move.
I'm pretty sure I'm paranoid,but my boyfriend and I have been fooling around, for a while,and well I just get nervous.
We don't do anything but oral sex and
such. I'm still a virgin, and even though when he fingers me I make sure that I got first and then I'll touch him just so my pants are on.
I don't think I could get pregant.
How long can sperm live?
If you have sperm on your hands but don't penarate you vagina is is possible for sperm to enter on it's own?
I'm just nervous. I've been thinking about it all week.
Honey, the chances of getting pregnant are so close to zero. The only way is if he came and it somehow dripped down to your vagina and went up--what are the chances of that happening? Sperm also doesn't live very long when its exposed(on your hands), so you really have nothing to worry about. Be careful when you touch your vagina after, like if you go to the bathroom and wipe it, but really, you don't have a problem. You'll be fine.
okay there's this song i heard & i really like it.
it starts off "once more i'll say goodbye" or something. then the chorus is kind of yelling & saying something that sounds like "all these things revolve around you". i don't think those are the exact lyrics but i couldn't find it on any lyric website.
anyone know what it is?
GOOGLE IT.
seriously, its not hard.
All These Things I Hate (Revolve Around Me) by Bullet For My Valentine.
^first result on google.
I havn't started my period.But the thing is i saw a small mark in my undies(like a pen dot).I get wedgies ALL the time so I cant tell if it is blood or poop.I want to know what it looks like.And when I saw the mark and stuff, I havnt changed moods,I havnt had back pains, no stomach pains and no spots and no discoloured discharge.so I dont know.What does it look like, do you feel it more than discharge.Tell me everything THERE IS TO KNOW!
13/F
It can be pretty much any color from light pink to brick red to brown. You don't feel it more than discharge, really. I mean, you produce more blood than discharge so you'd feel that, but not really. If it keeps coming, then it's your period.