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ok i have a problem....there is this girl and she was one of my good friends untill one day her mom calls to complain all these mean thing that i did even though there not true....so what do i do...i cant just not be friends with her! SHES MY NEITHERBOR!!! (link)
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Sure you can, just because she lives next door there’s no rule saying you have to love her, sure you probably will have to see her all the time, but really if she's going to act like that and get her mom to say that stuff she's not a good friend. Stay on good terms just slowly weed her out of your normal social schedule, you can say hi and what not and be nice to her just don't hang out with her and be really careful about respecting properly lines and you should be ok... throughout your life your bound to have neighbors that aren’t nice, you just have to learn to live with it...and ignor it as best you can...
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ok there is this guy .....and he is cute and everything...so i really wanna dance with him at the event next friday but.... my dad and brother are not allowing any danceing with boys ....plus my sis is going to so if she ses she will blab...what do i do? (link)
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My brother is goofy like that as far as blabbing, its a dance, your dancing with a boy, as long as your not booty dancing i just don't see the problem... dance with him if you want, if your sister blabs kick her ;)... but really now, you have to decide if dancing is worth the consequences... a lecture or whatever it might be, to me it sounds as though they might be being sarcastic and you might not get in any trouble. But then again they might be very serious. Just weight the good and bad in order to decide if it's worth it.
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which church is the best church 2 go 2? how do i pick a church thats rite 4 me? (link)
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Attend many different services, most church’s are open to visitors, take your morals and beliefs now, and compare then to what you hear. Take a stand on some controversial issues then ask the reverend priest or whatever they’re called at that particular place were the church stands on those issues. It’s ok to ask, and it is ok to decide that no particular church is right for you. You can still read and follow a religious text, and interpret it your way. Whatever you beside make sure it feels right and follows most if not all your morals and values now.
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Everybody in my school has already had like 10 boy/girl friends... I've had none. Thats right... zip, zero, zilch! They all say how great it is to be hooked up, and they always have someone to dance with at activity nite. I have nobody!
Sincerely,
BoyCrazy (link)
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Having a boyfriend is not all its cracked up to be, many times two people can become infatuated with each other and end up losing friends. You can end up heart broken when it doesn't work out. You could break his heart. You could fight, yell even so much as the horrible, get out of that relationship now, physical abuse. You could end up getting new pressures for physical intimacy (sex). Consider if youÂ’re really ready for a relationship or are you just getting pressured to want one. The "all my friends have one" shows me per pressure is evident. Enjoy being single, laugh at your friends while there tied down and you can have free weekends, and while there crying about fights they had, knowing you don't have to deal with that. Don't spend your free time moping about and trying to find a guy, you're setting yourself up for a bad relationship, rather, enjoy being single and when you find a guy that you really like when ever it may be enjoy that! I didn't get a bf till I was a senior and I have senior friends that still haven't had one, and there perfectly happy! Haveing a boyfriend can be great, being in love is great, having someone to hold on to is amazing, and I can say I'm so happy with my boyfriend, but that is only because i waited and found the right person. I didn't search the globe for some guy as desperate as me... don't worry love will find you one day...
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sometimes i feel like my weight is getting to high ...although everone tells me i am not fat i feel it and i dont want it! i cant go running i never am able to keep it up....i cant help my self to foodS! i crave easy how can i solve this without those traits! (link)
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In your eyes youÂ’re gaining, and while truth is to everyone else your not. You sound more physically out of it. I've known some bigger people that were really good runners. Anyways, start spacing out your meals, try 6-8 small meals as opposed to 2-3 large meals, this helps with food craving and burning calories better (it also helps shrink your stomach so you crave less, start partaking in physical activity weather you good of not, remember your not bad at it because your fat, your just out of shape, and most importantly don't starve yourself or skip meals its not at all good for you! Eat healthier and take a multi vitamin and tell yourself your not fat, your good just the way you are, really! All those will but you on the path to a better self image and healthier you!
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I'm an athiest, but i don't try to force people to believe what I believe. I don't challenge other people's beliefs. I've had this one guy bother me for 5 years about being an athiest. (I go to a PK-12 school distict). He's always asking me why I'm not religious, why I don't believe in God, etc, ect, and so on. i've done everything I can think of, including inflicting bodily harm on him (well - I dropped a book on his head. But I don't even think that hurt him) but he won't stop. how do I stop him? (link)
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Well, being myself Agnostic I think I can relate to you a bit. Let him have it! Not bodily harm or anything, start just telling him the answers her want and I mean GO OFF! If you need to research Atheism, decide what you don't like about religion to help you be educated as your giving him all your reasoning, answer his questions and then some, I can pretty much guarantee he'll be shocked, impressed, and sick of hearing it by the time your done, betcha he won't ask again. Time to start, at least with him challenging his beliefs, its the only way for you to get him to stop, just don't do it to other people. While its best not to judge and criticize some times it can't be avoided...
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I have in a relationship with a guy for almost a year now, and we have both declared our love for each other. I believe that we have a pretty strong relationship. We have a had the highs and lows, we both survived each other's families and each other's quirky little habits. I love him.
I'm currently enrolled in a theater class which requires us to sometimes be pretty intimate with each other. One of my really good guy friends is also in this same class with me. We had to do one scene where we had to kiss. That wasn't a big deal, it was a pretty quick kiss and it didn't mean anything in my part, however, during the time that we presented the scene, when he kissed me, he held onto much MUCH longer than necessary. There I was, with my eyes closed, my heart thudding like a maniac, my mind racing not knowing whether to pull away and suffer a bad grade knowing full well that we were kissing in front of an entire audience. This guy friend and I have always been flirtatious and all, but that was about as much as it went. It's just really bad timing coz I'm in a relationship...
I felt really guilty about the kiss for some reason even though it wasnt my fault so I called Jeff(my boyfriend) and told him about it. He was cool with it, and said as long as it was just "acting" it's alright... what didn't tell him though is I really liked how my guy friend kissed me. REALLY LIKED IT.
Does every girl go through a phase like this? I love Jeff, but then how can I like kissing someone else and love him at the same time? Please help. (link)
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Well some people are better kisses that other and it might feel better physically but was it emotionally better like as in better because it was him. It might have also been nice because it was new dangerous, unacceptable, just because you liked the kiss doesn’t mean you don't love your boyfriend, its when you start looking for more kisses from your friend then I'd be worried. Make it clear to your friend that was unacceptable, remind him you in a serious relationship and let it end there. A little thrill, a pleasant physical feel, whatever it was make it a last time, unless you want to lose what you have.
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I always seem to have dark circles under my eyes,always. I wear glasses so they're not that noticeable but I'd still rather not have them.
I get about 9 1/2 on school nights and a little more on the weekends so it shouldn't be solely lack of sleep.
Does anyone have any ideas why I've got them or how I could get rid of them? (link)
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Bet you havent heard this one before... get less sleep, 8-9 hours 9 is best, its acctually better to get odd hours of sleep then even and if you sleep to much it has simaler side effects to sleeping to little. Also cucumbers on your eyes, that could help too...
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I'm a volleyball player - does anyone know good excercises to work on my jump? (link)
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Try jumping up, throw your hands in the air arch your back, then when you land touch your toes (and scream "I'M A MONKEY!") it helps strech your back and build strenght
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I have been going out with this boy for 4 mnths and i really care about him. I feel like everything thats going wrong in school or home i take it out on him and he will think i'm acting to bitchy and i'm scared of him breaking up with me. what should i do? (link)
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Not take it out on him? Well seriously find a new vent, go home kill a pillow or buy like a fish and scream at that! that way you can get all your frustrations out so when your with him you can be calmer and less likely to EXPLODE at him... Also make sure you let him know you care about him. Tell him you love him, so he knows your not mad at him, and let him know of all the stress in your life right now, that will help him understand your behavior.
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what do i do if i by all the clothing i think is really cool...but when i were 'em at school they dont look so cool..... (link)
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Learn to spell? Then go to school first, find out what you like that other people are wearing and then buy that. But truth is if you like them that should be enough. Who cares that your not wearing what everyone else is...
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ok heres my quesion .......i get good grades in school i look somewhat good......and i have a great voice....but i feel like i need to be somewht popularr.....and plez dont answer " who cares wht other people think" wht do i do? (link)
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You want to be popular? You need to be personable, smile and say hi to random people, ask people how there doing, give people complements, did I mention smile? All those things make you seem like a nice person, also walk proud, don't cross your arms shoulders back, you don't want to look argent just like you have confidence in who you are, these things will make people want to be your friend, 'popular' people stereotypically are the independent friendly social people, if you really want other people to like you, you have to like yourself and be personable... You are desurving of lots of friends! Ok that said, being popular has its downfalls too but it should be fun!
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I like to run around town in my favorite running shoes, not wearing socks. This is cool because it's relaxing, but not cool because my shoes smell like the living dead. I really, really don't want to wear socks, so besides that, what can I do to cure these things? (link)
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Ever hear of Odor Eaters? You could also try washing then, running shoes can go into the washer, anti odor foot powder. All those will help eliminate the smell, also wash your feet lol...
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So I was walking this evening and I accidently stepped into some kerosene. I just shrug it off and keep walking with my jazz hands lookin' all cool when this guy runs by and yells "That building is on fire!" So I start running towards it all like "yeah, who's your hero now?" with my jazz hands, looking cool. I get next to the firy part and my shoes are on fire randomly. Now I'm on a laptop someone gave me. What should I do?! (link)
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take off your shoes? That might be a good idea, you see when your shoes burn and or melt away (depending on if they have rubber soles or not) your feet will then burn, and that is not a good thing so, please take off your shoes then you won't get burned...
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