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is it true that drinking ALOT of milk could make your boobs get bigger? im 14 mine are really small and i know i still have lots of time for them to grow but im very thin with a high metabolism. so if i drank alot more milk would it add some size to them? (link)
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No, drinking milk will not make your breasts bigger. Do not worry about it. It's not a big deal because a lot of people are dying to be as skinny as you. So just appreciate what you have now.
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I have been married for almost 20 yrs and we have 2 teenagers. I was 21 when we married, at 22 I was a mom(this may sound crazy but I know he got me pregnant on purpose). He is very affectionate to me especial in front of people. My husband is an alcoholic and that has always been the source of our arguments and my anger towards him. Of course the next day he would always apologize and say he loves me more than anything. Around 13yrs ago I believe he had been unfaithful but he adamantly denies it. About 3 yrs. ago I was suspicious of his activity on the internet(always clicking off pages when I walked into the room). I got a program to track this activity and found that he was sending intimate pictures of me to porn sites and exchanging them with others. This for me was the ultimate betrayal,disgust and I was totally embarrassed. At the time I didn't confront him with what I knew, but I did tell him our kids were getting porn pop ups. I destroyed the photos and the program.After that, I promised myself that if he ever screwed up again that I would leave him. 1 1/2 yrs ago we sold our home and he moved out of state to start a new business, I followed with children when they finished school yr. The busin. was not going as expected, I think it was more work than he thought it would be. With me pressuring him to get a job, he went searching only to find mediocre jobs. A family member got him a great paying job back home and off he went. I went to visit him with children and dog for the holidays and had a great time, when I left to drive back (15 hr.drive) I would call every few hrs just to let him know we were ok. After 10pm I didn't call until I got home (4am) called his cell and it was turned off, called my mom told her were got back safely. I asked "how could you turn your phone off knowing your wife and children were driving thru the night" and he just said "sorry I always turn my phone off at night"....Well he screwed up again! So now I'm angry, I was now responsible for selling off everything from the busin.,which I ran some great sales and fortunately brought in a lot of money because even though he was making a lot of money he was also spending it(at bars). I started thinking about how unhappy I was in our marriage. I struggled with the idea of divorce because of the children and the rest of our families. I finally confronted him with everything and the fact that I wasn't happy and I didn't think I loved him anymore. With that, he flew down and begged for forgiveness, promised he would change and do anything I wanted him to do. Our families were shocked at what I said to him, everyone thought we had the perfect marriage. Of course they ran to his side feeling sorry for him, not knowing the whole story( cheating, porn site,mental abuse). During all this, my brother died suddenly from cancer...Because I have been so distraught over losing my brother, losing over $100,000. in a failed busin. and the strain of living apart from my husband for months a a time, I agreed to take him back and try to save our marriage. We took a vow almost 20 yrs. ago and morally feel that I should try. Its been over 4 mons. and I'm very depressed, still very angry with him, feeling like I again gave up on myself for everyone else's sake and out of fear of being on my own financially.
I am I disrespecting myself or being dramatic?
Mz.R. (link)
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You are not being dramatic. Your husband needs to change and show you that he really loves you, or you need to tell your family what has happened, or you need to let him go. I imagine you are hurt deeply by the things that have happened, and it doesn't sound like you love each-other anymore. The phone thing, in my opinion, was not a huge mistake, just a habit. But you don't deserve to have your intimate pictures posted for all to see. You don't deserve to be miserable in marriage, either. Just do what is best for you.
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is it normal for a girls breasts to be uneven? im a 14/f and like my left is alot bigger than the other one like practically a half a size or a full size. and its annoying . is it going to change?
sorry if this is in the wrong category (link)
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This is not something that you should worry too terribly much over right now. This happens sometimes when a girl is growing, and they will even out as you get older. If you are worried about it, use some padding or wear black shirts (it will make it less conspicuous).
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I love kids and I want to have my own kids some day. But the thing is, my number one fear in the WORLD even over death is child labor. I read in a magazine, "On a scale of 1-5, labor is a 10." I know there are drugs you can take, but people still tell me you can feel the pain. My mom said when I was born it didnt hurt, but I dont trust her because I think she was trying to make me feel better. And what about the needle they put in your spine? Ugh, the whole thing sounds TERRIFYING. Help! (link)
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If you ask a loving mother, she will say labor the natural way does hurt. But she will also tell you it was 100 percent worth it because of the baby that they bring into the world. There are medicines that you can take and I have heard that if you have that needle in your spine, you feel nothing whatsoever. You don't have to worry about it until the time comes, But it is a good thing to keep in mind when you have a boyfriend, as in, You don't want to have a baby without the support and love that comes with a good husband.
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I had a dream i made out with my best friends boyfriend. I feel so bad that i would have a dream like that. I dont even have feelings for him!! Now i feel like i have betrayed my best friend what should i do to make me feel better? (link)
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This doesn't mean that you would ever actually do something like that. It may mean that you are watching too many soaps(LOL)! You can't really control what you dream, and a lot of the time it's something really random. So don't sweat it. Hope I helped!
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My dog just got put down. I miss her so much, how do I learn to forget about her? (link)
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You can never forget about a loved pet that you have lost. I know that you miss her every day, but when you miss her, think about the joy you had when she was around instead of the pain that she's gone. It helps to tell someone about the funny or happy experiences you had with her or even some of her zany habits.
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For my Ipod.
I've tried singingfish.com, myspace and sometimes purevolume.
I'm not allowed to download from P2P software since it really screwed up my computer... and if my parents knew I installed it again... they'd kill me. Also, my mother said she'd rather buy the music from Ipod music store... but every time I ask her, she avoids doing it.
And I'm not very willing to pay around $20 for a CD when I just want one song off of it.
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If you go to apple.com, you can download the iTunes program for free and pay 99 cents for each song. You can even use a gift card instead of a credit card. Good luck.
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How exactly does one become a famous singer? (link)
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If you want to be a star and you have a great voice, your best bet to become a famous singer is to work hard and long to get noticed. When you sing, try to show everyone that you know you are a beautiful person and you love to sing. Work as hard as you can and then some, and it just might happen. ;)
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What are some good techno songs?
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There's one called Blue or I'm Blue or something like that. It's like, "I'm blue-ba dee ba doo ba da ba da bop adee doo..." If you don't know it, that probably didn't make sense to you, but you know what to look for.
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I have a huge, ugly pimple on my face and I need it gone by tomorrow. I rarely ever get pimples and when I do, they are easy to get rid of, but not this one! Are there any at home remedies I could try? I have a very important event to go to tomorrow and I can't have this thing on my face! (link)
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Sometimes, if you put toothpaste on it and leave it overnight, it will shrink or even go away. But it's not a 100 percent method. Good luck...
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it's summer and i need some extra cash for necessities. what are some jobs i could do? and if anybody suggests soemthing like cleaning/dog walking ora ntyhing HOW DO I ASK people if they want ym services? and how? like how do i say i want 4.00 an hour (or how ever many) w/out sounding demanding? what would you want to hear? and what would uw ant done around the house? or outside? whatver. what would u want to heaR? ANY ADVICE ABOUT GETTING MONEY WOULD BE GREAT (link)
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Mowing lawns is a great way to make money. You could charge ten dollars per lawn or something. And if you wanted to walk dogs, you could put posters somewhere where someone walking their dog would see it. Good luck with your money-making!
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Yay! My mommy told me that when I'm at camp, they are going to repaint my room. We are going to go somewhere to pick out a color before I leave but I'm just wondering what are some good color ideas. Probably something bright and cherey but yet somewhat subtle! Any ideas? (link)
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Sky blue(in a gentle hue) is always good. Or you could go with a light yellow. Just use a color that you really like.
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well theres this girl and she said she wants to kill me. what do i do. im scared he means it. HELPPPP!! we really arent friends but idk if she was jk or is serious. ive heard stoires like this b4 where people dont take it seriously then like, get killed. what do i do? (we are 13) (link)
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Tell someone. A threat is a serious thing, and even if she didn't mean it, it's better to be safe than sorry, right? Tell a trusted adult or a councilor and get the whole thing sorted out.
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which colour eye shadows suit green eyes? (link)
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Try chocolate browns or dark green with copper or gold highlights. Good luck!
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okay i have a few questions:
how long can sperm live before it hits the air?? (don't say it dies when it hits the air, thats ridiculous) i know it has to live in certain conditions & i was wondering what those are?? can sperm swim around clothes?? i heard its possible but what are the chances of that happening?? also, isnt it true that the sperm has to be sent through the guys fluids & reach the girls fluids so that it actually swims?? i heard air can't be involved.
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They cannot travel through air, but if any of the liquid reaches the girl's sexual regions, there is a small chance that the girl could become pregnant. That is the idea behind a condom, to block the sperm from getting into the girl. I don't think that they can swim around in clothes because they can't travel through air.
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Apparently I'm too sarcastic and sometimes people don't appreciate it. They think I don't take things seriously and I make other feel bad. But people say and do some stupid things and they deserve some sarcasm. I love sarcastic people, they're funny (I'm not saying I think I'm funny; I think others are). Anyway, I'm having a hard time cutting down on the sarcasm, possibly because I don't even realize that I am being sarcastic, it just comes out. Any help? (link)
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It's just habit. Try really hard to make a conscious effort to stop or cut down. Even if you catch yourself being sarcastic, you can correct yourself. It's okay to be sarcastic sometimes, just not when it hurts or annoys someone. You don't have to completely let go of your signature humor.
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well im one of those girls who care about there weight 24-7! im so sick of feeling i have to be pretty,smart,athletic,and more improtanly SKINNY. sometimes when i see junk food its just there so why not eat it rite? ik its bad to eat it but it taste so good and i like it. then i do the worst thing ever look in the mirror and go gross im fat! it like duh you were just eating junk. so everytime i go to a party i go its just food think of it as garbage. doesnt work im also one of those people who like starve themselves and my friends know it because one time in school we were watching this movie that talked about crap like that and i looked so sad but i didnt care so they know! and well im 5'5 and like wiegh god who knows now probally still 123 and i dont like that if i ever get to 130 i will kill myself no like so what im trying to do is like l00se the pounds b4 november my next checkup so if i see a 130 something i will really no lie kill myself i dont like that so if you guys would help me any sugestions that would be great!! (link)
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You are NOT fat, okay? It is good to eat healthy, but it is also okay to eat a little junk food sometimes. Think about how some of that weight is muscle mass and bones. If you are extremely concerned about being fat, you can go to someone who can tell you your percentage of body fat and where you should be. Be careful about not eating because the first weight that comes off is from muscles, not fat. Maybe you can go to someone who can help you train and feel confident about your body.
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okay well i just got invisalign yesturday and it totally kills. i keep getting canker sores, and every time i take them out to eat my teeth are so sore its hard to eat. does anyone have them and this happened to them after first getting them? is it just because im not used to it? oh..and if anyone knows about any medicines that will help with mouth pain..that could help too. thanks soo much! =] (link)
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Advil helps the mouth pain. Invisalign has the same effect as braces, which is to move your teeth into the correct position. You will be tender after you get a new one, every time. Try not to eat hard things for a day or two. Good luck!
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is there any kind of way to make your butt bigger because people make fron of me for not haveing one. Thanx to anyone who helps (link)
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I can probably tell you right now that that isn't going to happen without an operation or very unhealthy eating habits. Why should people make fun of you for that? It sounds like you are naturally thin and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. If it gets on your nerves, tell the ones who are teasing you. Or you could tease them back about how they have the opposite problem you do (LOL). Hope I helped!
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i have to get into shape.....this guy i loke is so cute and i want him..and i just wanna make sure my belly is flat...cuz i am not fat i just wanna get nice so he will notice me...but i am 115 lbs. and i am like 5 feet 1 inch
but please help me find ways to get him...cuz he likes me and i like him....and if this helps i go to water polo and swim training everday
and i play soccer and cross country
so i am fit!!
thanks
meghan (link)
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Do ab excercises every day at least once. You can do crunches, bicycles, and sit-ups. Good luck with your guy!
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