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i really like the song rock star by r. kelly. and i was wondering if anyone know's any songs that are related too it or that are alot like it?

thanks!

There are many internet websites that could point you to related songs such as last.fm, pandora.com, and slacker.com. Maybe you could go to imeem.com and check out other people's playlists who has the song rock star.

Hope I helped!
♥ kay

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My friend and I are both 13, soon to be 14, going into 8th grade. The summer of eighth or ninth grade we want to go on a trip with Travel for Teens. The trip is 4,000 though, so we need to figure out a way to make money. We were thinking we might be able to have a fundraiser because the trip includes building playgrounds and helping the people of poor villages in south africa. any ideas?

That is very kind of you to go out to a foreign country to help others. You guys could start out something small such as carwashes and baking sales, however you are not going to get $4,000 just by selling cookies. The easiest way I find whenever I do fundraisers is by going to a big neighborhood (usually townhouses), and knock on each door and ask them to donate at least $2. I did this couple years ago and nearly got $500 a day. You could also ask people to donate things that they don't use or need anymore and sell them.

I hope you guys will both collect enough money! (:
♥ kay

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It never fails, everyday I spend the day with myself. I have a couple of friends, but none that go to parties or do anything fun. It seems like everyone else is having an exciting summer with friends chilling by the pool or going to parties but I spend every night in my room watching Friends on tv. Ironic.

I don't want to just invite myself places, but somewhere I lost the old, fun me that used to have a ton of friends. Now, everyones grouped off and I've just been left behind. Getting invited to hang out in a tight group of friends has been the hardest thing. Any advice to make my summer NOT suck so bad?

Maybe instead of waiting for friends to come to you, you should go to them. Try asking the handful of friend you have to go do something fun in your perspective and then next week they could choose something fun in their perspective. You guys could each rotate doing activities that you all find exciting. Who knows, you might find a new hobby or meet new people along the way.
Hope you have a fun summer!

♥ kay

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is there any way i can get cold readings or those mini skits they let you use, online? (for free?!)
also any monologues?


i'm really interested in acting, but i know to get better, i have to do it on my own. So if you know ANY websites where i can get tips, acting excersizes, skits and monologues, i'd be so greatfull! thank you :D !

There are a million monologues in shakespeare. Expecially Romeo and Juliet. You should go on google and type up Romeo and Juliet monologues and there will be a million resources in which you could use! Also try to record yourself doing this or be infront of the mirror.
Hope i helped!
♥ kay

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f/15
my mom and i used to be real close and tight but lately its different. she doesnt have as much time for me and when im around her she is always sayin she has a headache or is mad about sumthin
i cant stand her lately. i dont know what to do helpppp! thanks

I think your mom is going through a hard time in her life right now. Maybe its something at her job. You should try to sit down and tell her what's wrong and try to catch-up on her life instead of worrying about how your mom and your relationship is breaking. Maybe then she'll start to talk to you again. You could also go with her on a free day to go get icecream or have a girls night out by getting a pedicure. Treat her to some nice dinner! :D
Hope everything gets better :)
♥kay

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okay
so i have a sweating problem
i'm not fat
i'm pretty skinny
i'm 5 6 and weigh 120lbs
i've never sweated like this before
but ever since summer started
i'll just be standing their and sweat will come down my face and it'll start to gets oilier then usual too
and it's not just on my face but on my back
and on my chest
it's really gross
this has never happened to me beofore
is there any way to stop this?

There are lotions and bath wash products to control your sweating problem. Remember to take a bath every morning and night time. Use deodorant and buy any type of face wash like Neutrogena that eliminates oily skin. You can get all these products at your local pharmacy store. Plus if you have long hair you should think of trimming it a bit, or if you don't want to do that tie your hair with a cute tie or headband.
Hope it works! :D
♥kay

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its summer and I want to get into shape..I have already started excercising but now I want to get my waist smaller and bring out my curves more...its there any special excercises I can do to bring them out f/15

Crunches, running, squats. That will be your motto for the rest of your summer. Do pilates + yoga! Remember to always have fun though!
♥kay

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so i like this guy [[shockerrrr]] im 16 female [[again shockkkerrr]] anyway i like alot since i met me we instantly clicked and got along and had a great time talking and laughing together it was like the best night ever. He said he had liked me to when i acually got the nerve to say something like a month later only thing is he had a fling with this girl [[not making up a name shes just her or girl]] well they dated and were together for two months untill she broke up with him for another guy. well he was super upset about it and i hate seeing him upset its like even if he doesnt act like it you know from his eyes what hes feeling or at least i can. He's an amazingly wonderful perfect guy. She had no right to play with him like she did and im pissed at her because she did. But it was like when they were together i was invisable he talked to me when she wasnt around mostly cuz i hated seeing them together because i wanted it to be me blah blah. After they were together [[FYI i was the reason they got together =[ bust or what?]] well it turned out she didnt even no his favorite color and didnt care one bit about him. NOWW there broken up and hes single and i realli like him but im not sure how to tell him. my friend told me just to tell him and see what happends but the last guy i liked kinda murdered my heart so its not realli up for being spontaneous atm. my friend told me i was beautiful and he would be stupid not to care and thats realli what he said im not being cocky. im just scared he wont care

help?? anyone.


[[sorrry its like freakishly long]]

As the old saying says, it takes one to know one.
You both have been broken-hearted. It's a part of life. Now what you need to do is just give it time a little bit. Build up a better relationship with him and when the perfect time comes you should confess to him. Who knows he might confess to you before you can even tell him anything. Just be his friend for now because the only thing he needs right now is a friend to lean on.
Hope everything goes well :)
♥kay

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So my gym teacher told me that doing some backward weight lifting would help me tone my arms. I've been doing them for a long time, although I have skipped some days, and I see no improvement. I don't want to tone my arms, I want to loose fat in my chest, back, and upper arms area. I don't know what exercises to do or what to eat, but I want to loose weight fast since summers here. I feel awfully self conscious about these. Does any one have any inputs? Thnx in advance.

It's alright. I've been in this situation before. All you got to do is run. Yes, it does not seem believable how you would lose any arm weight by running, but running is the ONLY and the only way you can lose weight all over your body fast. Don't feel conscious because you just need to have confidence in yourself that you can do this. Don't feel like you're pressure to lose weight, but don't take running as a joke either. Also eating celery is good for you since it burns off more calories than you eat! Stay away from bread or dairy products expecially bread since they're high in calories.
Good luck darling!
♥kay

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*SORRY!!! I DIDN'T TITLE THE OTHER QUESTION!!*

I have Verizon now and I'm thinking of switching to AT&T (Cingular)..Tell me..How good is the service? The few people I have talked to said it was WAY better than Verizon and they liked it alot.

What are some things you like about Cingular?
What are some things you don't like?

I'm also considering buying an Iphone. So if any of you out there in Advicenators land own an Iphone, tell me all about it. Like, what plan you have and how much your bill is (estimate) every month. If I switch, I'll have to pay the bill myself, so, I need an idea of what I'm getting myself into.

If I stay with Verizon and update our phones, I'm looking at a Blackberry Pearl. However, the Blackberry feels too business-y, and I'm not sure that you can have real songs as your ringtone. I'm HIGHLY interested in having real songs as my ringtone, rather than the polyphonic crap they have.

Please feel free to give as many details as your heart desires! I'm desperate.

Okay I'm glad you're switching your plan to cingular. Honestly, verizon gets signal in the most randomest place so it's good, but overall their phones cannot match up to the wow factor of cingular. I own a iPhone. It costs me about $40 for unlimited internet + texting each month. I never really had a problem with cingular so I can't really tell you what I don't like about it. Just to warn you, in the iPhone you cannot add custoimized ringtones unless you jailbreak it. ( jailbreak meaning hacking ).
Good luck!
♥kay

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alright it's almost summer...ive been trying to lose weight and ive been doing REALLY well. okay so i still have my 34 c's, and all these bikinis i have, most of them look bad on my boobs. they make them look like they kind of go to side, and i still have more weight to lose. my friend had big boobs but hers always look so perfect and up there in bathing suits and mine looks kind of saggy. so what do i do? what kind of bathing suits will make me look okay? i want my boobs to look good, like they dont sag at all.
i also think i have like kind of big hip bones..i dont want to be skinny and insanely curvy like my other friend..her stomach is unattractive. i want like the victorias secret model stomach/waist..long and only a little bit curved. helpp

What you need is halter tops and a victoria secret tanning spray. The key to looking slimmer is using spray to slim down all the places where you have a lot of fat on. For example if you were to use tanning spray on your legs you would put a long streak down the middle to make your legs look slimmer. Just don't use too much. :)
Hope I helped!
♥kay

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Sexy [from a guys point of view], acceptable in society if they are bisexual, acceptable in society if they are straight, and/or just plain wrong?

haha its fine,
its not lesbian or bi.
♥kay

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I have side bangs and to keep them together i use hairspray but then they look greasy. I see tons of girls who look like they dont use hairspray but how to they keep them together?

cut your hair a little shorter
& give them a layer, use blowdryer
or curler to curl them at the ends
or use shining serum, it sticks them
together and makes it look like a natural
glowy hair :D

goodluck!
♥kay

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I have been in Special Ed for almost all my life. Now I'm a smart person though I have a company and I work for a 2nd company. But I have missed alot of stuff back in my elementry year and even middle school. Its like as in math I don't know things right off. like example 25*11 things like that are subtracting, adding right off. I don't know what to do are how to get better. I don't know if I'm suffering from ad-d but I need to get better. I want to be smart and be in a regular class with my peers then in a special ed classroom

go to library and study
or get a study buddy to help you,
if its add
then you need to get treatment for that.
i love your determination,
you inspire me :)

♥kay

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I'm turning 18 and I want to have an awesome party. I plan to have it outside with about 20 people. I want to do some Tropical/Hawaiian. I can't think of what to do. Its going to be guys and girls. I want something fun but grown up. I NEED major help though!!!

you should do a pool/dance party,
make everyone dress up like a hawaiian
& you should get like fun ( and corny )
games like hula hoop or limbo.
decorate stuff with blow up palm trees
haha have fun!
♥kay

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So I was dating this guy, and we ended up breaking up. He said I changed, and that why we broke up because he liked who i used to be. Now I did change in drastic ways but he influenced that. I lost my virginity to him and i smoked pot for the first time with him. He says that now i am a poser because i would ocassionaly smoke and that i didnt need it or want it. So i know how i've changed in that bit, but the other bit he is saying my whole attitude is changed. He wanted to get back with me but how i used to be not who i am now. I liked who i used to be better, how do i go back to that?

ty for taking the time to read this

you cant change just because you want to,
it takes time and in no time you will change
automatically, maybe you should try to stop
smoking & if you wrote in diaries before read
them & learn from them :)
hope everything goes well.

♥kay

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I want a new digital camera. I want the best for my money. I want a point and shoot kind of camera. I want to spend around $100 to $150. I want to be able to take cute pictures like this one:

http://xce.xanga.com/f47d461531530124180611/z89814949.jpg

hey the pic you have up there,
is probably just photoshopped,
or the lightin or it was just simply
a professional camera.

if your budget is 100-150
try polaroid,
it comes in cute colors & the picture
quality is really good :DD

hope i helped
♥kay

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i've had the best boyfriend in the world for almost 2 years. he's so sweet and affectionate, and he does the nicest things for me! the problem is my friends. most of them don't have a boyfriend, and they're jealous. for one thing, my boyfriend is really cute and i know some of my friends have crushes on him. besides that, they're just jealous that i've had a boyfriend for so long when they haven't had one at all. so they either wish they could go out with him, or wish they had a boyfriend like him. and its a problem, because sometimes i get the idea that my friends are trying to break us up. like they'll flirt with him a lot, or try to get him mad at me. or sometimes, like if he brings me flowers at school or gives me a hug, they'll act kind of mad at me for a while. and please don't say they aren't my true friends, because they ARE my best friends. i think they just cant help feeling jealous. i'd probably feel that way too. but it makes me mad and sad at the same time, and i dont know how to handle it. or is there even anything i can do???

sometimes you might just over think
about the whole situation, i am pretty
sure at times they get jealous, but if
they were your true friends then they
would feel happy for you, try to talk to
them in a nice way, & maybe hopefully in
the end, everyone wins :)

♥kay

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Lately I've been having weird dreams, not bad weird, good weird.

And they haven't been about the same thing over and over they've been totally different things so it's not something on my mind.

I was just wondering, what might be causing them? Because whatever it is I want to keep doing it. These dreams ROCK!

lol,
i think its mostly,
before you go to bed when you concentrate
on one thing, its most likely you dream it
so whatever is on your mind at the end of
the day keep concentrating, it also might
be cause you dont have stress or your mood
or possibly the weather

haha keep the dreams coming
♥kay

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I am petite and have a size 32B chest. I just bought this dress for graduation and its a sundress with the stretchy fabric at the top if you know what i mean. I'm just worried that it will make my chest look bigger in an unflattering way. Whats your opinion. I absolutely LOVEEE the dress except im a little worried about the chest part.

you are in the exact same situation as me.
just wear lots of necklace or a cute lacy top
to cover it up a little bit to give an allusion.

aww goodluck w/ your graduation
♥kay

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