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I don't eat. Is that retarded? No. It's not. I'm happy all of the time at school, and then I'm sad and "depressed" at home. I get mad at my parents a lot, I don't smile. At school, I'm happy all the time, people tell me I laugh a lot, and then i just smile all the time. I'm really sensitive: ex) I once saw a homeless man in front of the subway station. I gave him 5 bucks, and he said happy holidays. I turned around and said happy holdidays to you too. then i went into the subway station, saw one of my friends, and started crying into his shoulders. After like, 6 stops, I stopped, and he asked me what was the matter, and I told him everything. Then I said i was sad cause the guy WASN'T going to have a happy holiday. The next day, i went back with my friend and he held my hand and everything, and we gave the homeless man 10 dollars with a post it attached that gave him the address of a nearby soup kitchen. He said bless you. And then I started crying all over again. How messed up am I?

omg you are not messed up at all! that is so kind of you to do, i give homeless people money al the time too.. i wish i could just bring them home and give them a place to stay, so i know how you feel! your just reallly nice and caring x3

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do u have to not be a virgin to be put on birth control??

hey hun.. no not at all, you dont have to be a virgin.. or you can be a virgin! x3

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Ok yesterday me and my bf his friend and my friend went to the mall and the movies. he was great in the movies cuz we were just talking (don't make out on the first date, hells ya on the second)but we started walking around and he was just different. Not horrible but weird and i didn't like it! wats up w/him? im 13 and ened up talking to my friend most of the time and him to his. Don't say go without friends cuz i can't!

hey hun, i think your dealing with shyness.. he was probably upset because you didnt kiss him or whatever in the movies because he was probably expecting that.. i know you said u dont kiss on the first so thats alright, so then when you got out of the movies it was awkward and so you each talked to ur frined instead of eachother.. i had that same problem.. well with the shyness.. i kinda still am.. when i first like a guy it takes me a while to really warm up and talk to him alone and stuff.. i always need a friend with me.. but i warm up after a while and its totally fine.. but he was probably just upset that you didnt kiss,put arms around eachother etc. in the movies! x3

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I know this isn't really a question.. but I have a lot of spare time on my hands and I was wondering if anybody wanted me to make them glitter name's or glitter sigi's. Just respond to this with your screen name, what you want me to make (like a name or something) and what color you want it to be.
Here's a question though..
Does anybody know any good places where you can get glitter sigi's like just the glitter part not the name? I'd appreciate it if you could help! Thanks!

Love, RacheL
((xoRachel))

hey omg if you would like to make me one that would be awsome =) i would like it to say sweet temptation and the colors i would like black and light pink.. if thats alright! and my AIM screen name is xoxogotbootyxoxo .. thank you so much!! x3

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im a 13f and i just got my first thong. is it slutty to have one at my age? ill rate! thanx

hey hun, nope its definatly not slutty.. i wear thongs all the time.. i started wearing them in 7th grade =) thongs rock! there so comfortable! x3

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i hate asking someone this... but im fifteen and i havent had my first 'make out kiss' .. how do you?

heyy.. its perfectly fine that you havnt had your first make out kiss yet, there is no specific age, there is also no perfect way to do it.. you just roll your tongue around, dont worry you'll be a natural! x3

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1) what is the difference between making out and kissing i thought that making out is just when you do it for a long time but im not sure
2) what does bi mean

well, making out is pretty much when you french kiss, and also do it for a long time// bi (bi-sexual) means that they either like boys or girls instead of being gay where they only like a certain sex, they like both boys or girls.. hope i helped! x3

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my friend lorrin just moved to another state. I miss her so much. What should i do?

hey well there are tons of things u can do.. you can always write letters back and forth.. and if you wanna see eachother just make a time like in the summer where u can fly out and see eachother --if your able too-- and theres always the phone.. member she is just a few numbers awayy! x3

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how can i stop excess sweating under my arms? Everyday when i go to school, i always have huge wet circles under my arms by first period. I usually have to wear sweatshirts or something thicker than a regular t;shirt or long sleeve shirt.Every deodorant or anti-perspirant I use it doesn't work at all!!! Please help me!?








usually if ya just go to a doctor they will give u a subscription to a good deodarant and hopefully it will help u! x3

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i like this guys that has a girlfriend.. he knows i do.. and i have thrown my heart at him but he doesn't care.. and i'm starting to think i am ugly thats why he doesn't want to go out with me... i mena i know he has a girlfriend but i cannot get over him and when ever someone asks something about mee to him hes like ''no comment'' or something!!! i love him so much.. see.. i have been hanging out with his friends ALOT more now.. and now i think i like one of his friends also... and people call me a slut for liking two people... i hate it!!!! wtf should i do???

alright well first your definatly not a slut for liking two guys.. there is nothing wrong with that! so its alright.. and also dont think your ugly! just give it time.. maybe after his girlfriend and him break up [[if they do]] he will realize that ur such a great girl and start to like you.. and its alright to like his friend too.. just go along with it and maybe something wil happen between you two! x3

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i'm soo pissed! see.. well it's like this.. and .. I like this one guy... so fucking hott.. and i have for like five... six months.. and now his girlfriend.. maddie.. SHE HAS THE SAME NAME AS ME... is going out with him.. and she is one of my best friends!!! i'm so pissed i like poured out tears when i figured the were going out.. i was sooo mad.. and my other friend- james.. llikes maddie and he has liked her for like... hmm... nine months and yeah they have gone out and stuff.. so.. i like this guy and james likes madde...me and james spend most of our time feeling bad for eachother and cheering eachother up, we spend most of our day on the phone and we make eachother laugh soo hard.... now i'm beginning to think i like JAMES!!!! but i know that would never happen so.. it's all just too confusing.. please please PLEASE help me

hmm wow it sounds like your very confused lol... alright so if i get this straight u definatly still ave feelings for this guy.. but now your starting to like jamies.. well let yourself like james dont say this would never happen.. because james sounds like an awsome person and hey it may even work out you never know... just see how things go! x3

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One of my "friends" and my other "friend" r spreading a rumor that me and my boyfriend were holding hands...BIG WHOOP!(I DON'T CARE) There's just 1 little problem... THAT IS: THERE'S A RULE, that everybody hates... and it is KEEP HANDS FEET AND OTHER OBJECTS TO YOURSELF...and i dunno how but the teachers ALWAYS finds out about the rumors... and I don't want toget in trouble!! I talked to my "friends" bu they denied doing it. WHAT DO I DO?

wow.. i would hate to have those kind of rules in my school.. but dont worry about it if any teacher finds out you just deny it.. i mean come on holding hands? man i hope they change your school rules soon! x3

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So I'm 16 and I haven't even had my first kiss yet. I have alot of guy friends but they are all what it sounds like "guy" friends not boyfriends. I'm not a tombboy or whatever..Am I missing something here.

your not missing anything, i mean yes kissing is great but there isnt a certain age you have to kiss by.. im sure one day soon you will just be kissed and it will be wonderful!x3

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um im 13 i just start my period last month and my mom told me that period come ever month or 28 days and it last about 4- a week but this month i still didnt have em yet is that a porb? also i got a friend she is 15 she told me that she have her ever half year or few month is that a big porblems im so scard now i dont like to bening a girl now :(

hun its not a problem at all, your still growing and so your period doesnt have exact set dates on when to come, i have the same exact thing.. sometimes i wont get it for 2 months and at first i got scared but them everyone told me its just normal so you dont have anything to worry about! x3

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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor?

yeah thats definatly normal.. your lucky!! i usually have mine for 5 or 6 days! x3

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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days?

well it just all depends on the girl.. i get it for about 6 or 7 days whichs sucks and some girls only get it for about 5 or 6 days! x3

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well.. i have a boyfriend.. well had a boyfriend.. and i liked him but i liked this other guy more.. so i dumped my boyfriend.. and now the other guy i like has a girlfriend!!!! and now i feel super bad for my ex boyfriend.. he like started to cry wheni was on the phone with him!! it made me want to cry..and now i keep on listening to our songs and i feel like i want him back.. i do NOT know what the hell to do..

im sry! thats just not kool.. well you gotta make mistakes in life too learn wut to do better.. but maybe you could talk to your ex again and say hey i feel really badly for what i do and i was wondering if you might want to give it another shot...but dont get ur hopes up real high cause if he says no u will be even more upset..but if i were you thats wut i would do! x3

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hey um.....i tried to use a tampon b4 and it hurt....BAD. I need help am i doing it right??? HELP!!

it shouldnt hurt when you use it.. it may be that you are using to big of a tampon or your just not putting it in right.. i know because when i first started using them i wasnt putting it in right and it hurt so bad! now i just slide it in and it doesnt hurt at all and its so much better than pads! x3

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i have a friend that has recently become bi. she always tells me that i look hot, and she always comes around and slaps my ass. it's starting to bother me. what should i say to her? becuz i cant take it for much longer..!

hey hun, well i think you should definatly tell her that this is bothering you.. dont come on saying that you are against bisexuals or anything you know just tell her whats on your mind and ask her to tone it down a little! x3

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Hey all, well, on Saturday, im gonna get my cartilage pierced! (Like at the upper ear, where actress Raven-Symone has it). And i was wondering, if all of all of you that have one could tell me about the pain, how 2 make it go good and keep my mind off of it, and healing processes?!?!?! Im getting it down with a gun if it helps any....

hey well i can definatly answer this one because i have my cartilage done too! i love it so much, that i actually got it pierced 2 times because the first time it fell out and i loved it so much i got it done again.. that should help because i dont think it hurt that much, i mean it hurts more than ear lobes but it is definatly not bad.. but just warning you it is pretty soar for a while but it will get to where it doesnt hurt at all anymore, just make sure you clean it and everything like that and you will be all set! i love cartilage piercings i think they r so cute and look good on almost anybody! x3

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