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hhiyas im kathryn. im a 13 year old girl. i love giving advice on all topics. so ask me anything. ive had tons of experiance with pretty much everything, {relationships, heartbreak, sports, pets, cell phone bills} so dont be afraid to ask. have fun and enjoy my site =]
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well i really wanna have my first kiss with my bf but like im scared and confused....like i dont wanna regret it or anything...but i really wanna kiss him....what should i do??

any advise on how to actually kiss? i have no idea how to!! help!

okay well first of all JUST KISS HIM!!!
hes a guy. so odds are if you wanna kiss him. he defffffenitly wants to kiss you tooo.
and heres an amazing website with tons of good ways and stuff to kiss::
http://myjellybean.com/flirt/kiss.html
good luck!
hope i helped!
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heyy.
i have dirty blonde har, but i want it to look more blonde.

i found the sunsilk color boost for blondes, but its for dyed hair. if i use it will it affect me, even though its for dyed hair?

is there any thing else i can use to make my hair more blonde? thankssss :]

(lemon juice is not an option )


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hey!
yeah i have dirty blonde hair too.
but i never dyed mine before and used the sunsilk stuff
it worked AMAZING on me.
but i already had prettty light hair
however my friend who also has dirty blonde hair. but hers was a little dirtier than mine. (a little darker) she used it too. but it didnt come out quite as well. it didnt come out bad or anything. but it wasnt amazing.
but i LOVED it on me.
so yeah. sunsilk reallyyyy works.
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i got a comment on myspace today but its one of those spam comments that say something like $50 jc penny gift card. if i click delete comment it takes me to a blank page, how do i delete this comment??

-click on view profile on your home page
-scroll down
-click on view all comments
-then click on delete comment
-it should be in the bottom right corner of the comment
hope i helped!
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So I met this girl last year, and I really like her...But all she wants to be is friends..I wish that she would go out with me, but she is blinded by all the cool guys out there..How can I attract her attention to me instead of the cool guys...?

hey
youre gonna hate me for saying this. but just be yourself. it honestly is the best way. there is no secret formula or anything to make a girl like you. however if shes a smart girl (and you like her so she probly is) she can probly tell that most, not all, but most "cool" guys are really superficial. as in they only act how other people want them to act, not how they really are. and that is one of the most unattractive things in a guy, however some girls don't notice if a guy is being real or not. but honestly just be yourself. and you can
-give her compliments (we love it when you give us compliments. it makes us feel special. and shows that your sweet. which is oh so hot)
-be kinda mysterious about it (act like you like her. but dont make it really obvious, this drives us girls INSANE, and makes us crazyyy...thats good)
-dont EVER talk bad about her
-be there for her (let her talk about other guys that she likes. for a while, it might not be you, but after a while she wil realize what a great guy you are and how youve helped her through everything with all of the other guys. and shell realize that she really should just be with you)
-be patient. girls take time to realize how wonderful some guys are. so just give her time. shell realize how great you are

if you really care about her and you do some of the things i just told you. she should realize how amazing you are and will want to go out wth you.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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Does anyone know of any good quote sites. Not just random or lovey-dovey cheesy quotes but like, hollywood, girly, quotes? You're much appreciated.

goodquotes.com
quotationspage.com
you can just enter a name on them and it will bring up tons of quotes of that person.
i would reccomend marilyn monroe for hollywood;girly quotes!
hope i helped!
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is holding in your flatulance like when you cant get to a bathroom or just holding it in generally bad for your health, like i heard it hindered your ability to get and erection. Is that true?

no...holding it in isn't bad for you at all. and it cant hinder your ability to get an erection because the two of those have absolutely nothing to do with eachother.
hope i helped!
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i have a bf and we have been goin out 4 2 weeks now but there is this guy in my pe class at scholl who i really like i dunno which 1 to choose please help????
if i stay with my bf is it still ok to flirt with the other guy alot???
what do i do please help!!!!

hey!
okay well if you cant decide between the two try to think about which one you like more. if you likee them both equally than either stay with your boyfriend because it is easier to stay with him than try to start a new relationship with someone else or you can make a list about the two of them. right your boyfriends name at the top of a sheet of paper and then write down all of his good qualities that you love about him. then draw a line and right down all of his bad qualities that you cant stand. do the same for the guy in your PE class. then compare their good qualities and decide which one has qualities that mean more to you. and which one has bad qualites that juat absolutely make you want to throw him off of a cliff. however if you still really cant decide. stay with your boyfriend. because it is def. wayyyyyy easier to stay with him rather than starting a new relationship. and it is okay to flirt with the other guy. just maybe tone it down a little bit. because think about hwo you would feel if your boyfriend was off flirting w ith other girls.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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theres two girls i realy like one cant have a boyfreind till shes sixteen but the other one can but i dont dont know who to go out with because there both best Freinds so i dont know what to do?i like them both alot...

hey!
welll if you like them both a lot then you probly shouldnt go out with either. because if you went out with one and you still liked the other that wouldnt be fair to the one you are going out with. however if you really do wanna go out with someone..than go out with the girl that is allowed to date. because if you are going out with someone who isnt allowed to date she obviously wont tell her parents and then you guys wouldnt actually be able to go anywhere or anything.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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i need some tips on how to flirt

because well i like this guy
he likes me
now i have to make him like me even more

so i need to flirt a bit

but i SUCK at flirting

and dont give me any [be yourself] junk
not happening

he already likes me for being myself thank you very much

heres a website with everything you need to know about boys. from flirting to kissing::::
http://myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html

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im 13/ f

i have blue eyes and blind hair, and pale skin.
what color eye shadow should i wear/

thanks

if you have light blue eyes you should wear blue eyliner with blue eyeshadow. however if you have dark blue eyes, just wear light brown/darkblue eyeliner. and no eyeshadow!
hope i helped!
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I want a really cute bedroom set for my new house
i looked at alloy and didnt see a thing. I also looked at delia*s the stuff was cute but i want to see if there is anything else around does any one have any other good sites? Thanks

http://www.pbteen.com/?flash=on
i absolutely ADORE there stuff. and think its the cutest stuff in the world! give it a shot!
hope i helped!
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when you hook up with a guy, what does your tongue do?

heres an amzing website with everything you could possibly need to know:::
http://myjellybean.com/flirt/french.html
hope i helped!
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ok one more question thats sorta like additional info. w/a question. The thing about my friend as that she is sorta always in a bad/bitchy mood. And today i found out that my other friend told her what i said about her behind her back when i was mad at her and now she is like super pissed at me...anyway my question is i want to tell my mom i want to see a therapist because ive been kinda stressed lately (no i havent been raped or cutting myslef or anything like that..i jus want to c one) so how do i tell my mom??
Thanx for the advice on the otha questions too!!
XO~Michelle~OX

well, this is what i would do, because im really close with my mom. so if youre also really close to your mom you could just go up to her and be like, "hey mom, can i talk to you for a sec?" then shell probly say like "sure hunny" and then youll be like,"okay, well you know my friend ____ well shes been really really mean lately. and it's making me all stressed out not only with her, but with other things too. so i was wondering if maybe you could take me to a therapist?"
and if youre not really close with your mom and youd prefer not to tell her about your friend
you could just do the hey mom can i talk to you for a sec thingy and then say " okay so ive been really stressed out lately with school, homework, sports(if you play one), and so i was just wondering if you could maybe take me to go see someone about it"
and don't worry. your mom wont think youre weird or anything. shell be sooo happy that you decided to confide in her about this.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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Ok you answered my question about my friends and my boyfriend... I have another question about it. Well my friends havent really been there for me lately, i mean all my real friends live away from me, i have one real friend (im going to name her katie), well katie & i have known each other since kindergarten,but became friend in like 5th grade (we are now in 8th), We are really close. well we have been fighting and she acts like she doesnt want to be my friend, she can be a real bitch and stuff, but we get each other and when its me & her we have like our own world with stuff no one else would get like a donnie moment or a lamo,any way she talks about me behind my back and when i find out i talk about her to the friend who told me that she said that.& i know Katie does it too. so should i stay her friend or what? if you have a question about any of this let me know so i can help you help me if you get what im saying..
Thanx!!&& sorry this is long...

okay well i would defenitly stay friends with her. great friends are hard to find. and it seems liike you have def. found one. because yeah, she talks about you behind your back and that sucks, but when you think about it? who doesnt? because really when you go looking for a new friend youre gonna start to realize that at one point or another all of them are going to talk about you behind your back, some of them you may not realize it, others you will. and all people have their bitchy moments. so when katie is having hers just try to ignore her and wait for her to cool down a little bit! ask again if you want more advice or i didnt answer it the way you wanted(( as i didnt get the question the right way, even thoughi think i did))
hope i helped!
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My birthday is on March 10th and I'm getting a Coach purse for my birthday. I was thinking about getting this one: http://www.coach.com/content/product.aspx?product_no=9394&category_id=256 and I was wondering if it's a good price for Coach and if it's cute to buy..? Thanks soo much!

P.S: sorry about that other question, i accidentally deleted the link!

that's is probly one of the cutest coach purses of seen. {{im not the biggest coach fan}} but that one is def. adorable. andd that is a very very very very good price for coach. most of their handbags cost over $200, so that one's great!
hope i helped!
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Okay. So all my friends make out with their guys, but I havent really done that yet, cause I don't know how to use my tongue. Tips? Do I touch his, how?

heres an amazing site on everything you need to know about french kissing::
http://myjellybean.com/flirt/french.html
hope i helped!
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i started to have a itchy scalp a day ago and it was itching really bad (espeically during the night) The day before, i went to school and came back home- didn't itch. I took a shower but i didn't use shampoo and then when it was around 10 i went to bed but my head started to itch alot. in the morning it was still itching and throughout the day it did. sometimes it'll stop and be not so itchy but it'll come back. i took a bath today and shampooed my hair because i thought maybe it was too dry hair. but now it still itches sometimes.

i'm scared because i might have lice or some scalp proble. but i didn't use anyone's brush or hat or share anything. can someone help me? what should i do?

well it sounds to me like you have lice. you dont have to get lice from using someones hairbrush or anything. you can simply get it from sitting next to someone with it in class. ask your mom or someone to look through your hairline and see if they see anything. if she does you can go to any drug store and buy a special shampoo that sells lice-killing shampoo. read the directions on teh bottle. but for must of them you use it one day. then wait 10 days then use it again. that way you kill all the ones you have now and then 10 days later you kill all the babies from the ones before.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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So how do u use your tongue... if you know what I mean

heres an amazing website with tons of stuff to do with your tongue::
http://myjellybean.com/flirt/french.html
and most of all. rememer to have fun with it.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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15/f

Okay. This is going to sound very weird...but how on EARTH do girls in my school show off their cleavage so damn MUCH? I mean...it's like WHOAH CLEAVAGE MUCH!??!....is it the kind of shirts they wear? Or do they just push themselves up? O_O

hahha. it's pretty much always the bras. you can buy special push-ups bras that push them up like CRAZY! they seem like that would be kind of painful. but idk. girls who want to show off their clevage wear them. i wouldn't reccomend them though, they end up making you look almost kinda slutty, and unnatural
hope i helped!
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Ok so i have asked about this before but i need to ask again and this time with more detail ok i'm 13/F in eighth grade and a while ago i was sitting in one of my classes and this guy i really like let's call him bob lol was sitting behind me and his friend next to me so his friend whispered to me and asked if i would go out with "Bob" and i said no because i thought he was probably joking but then "Bob seemed kind of upset and then a couple weeks later i was walking out of that same class and another two of "Bob's" friends asked me if i would go to the valentines dance with "Bob" this time i told them i would give them the answer later and they asked when i said at lunch but then i never answered them and to this day i still dont know if they were joking or not because i am way way to shy todo anything and i have had 2 people ask "Bob" if he liked me and he has said no both times and that the person who asked them were stupid now my alot of my friends seemed to think "Bob" liked me because like in one of my classes with him i left the class and he was like where's Julie where's Julie (me) also because they think that his friends wouldnt ask twice if they wernt serious but i dont think he likes me but like sometimes i can catch him looking at me and he looks kind of upset when he does and he always looks away if he see's that i saw him looking at me and i'm really confused as to if he likes me or not because i mean he's kind of sending mixed signals i guess and i really like him a lot but i'm way too shy to do anything also i'm not usualy the type of girls guys like so i seriously doubt he likes me but i would still like you opinions please and thank you in advance

okay well yes bob most defenitley likes you. and my guess would be that the only reason he said no to your friends when they asked if he liked you was because you had said no to him so many times. but from what you said im 99.99% positive Bob likes you. so stick with your gut and if you decide you like him too go for it. and next time, if one of his friends ask you out again, tell them " why doesn't he just ask me" instead of saying no. because if you say that, it's basicaly you saying , "yes, i like bob, and do wanna go out with him, however im not sure if you guys are trying to be funny or not"
good luck!
hope i helped!
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