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GRRR HELP i've asked this before but this is more detailed


Question Posted Wednesday February 28 2007, 8:29 pm

Ok so i have asked about this before but i need to ask again and this time with more detail ok i'm 13/F in eighth grade and a while ago i was sitting in one of my classes and this guy i really like let's call him bob lol was sitting behind me and his friend next to me so his friend whispered to me and asked if i would go out with "Bob" and i said no because i thought he was probably joking but then "Bob seemed kind of upset and then a couple weeks later i was walking out of that same class and another two of "Bob's" friends asked me if i would go to the valentines dance with "Bob" this time i told them i would give them the answer later and they asked when i said at lunch but then i never answered them and to this day i still dont know if they were joking or not because i am way way to shy todo anything and i have had 2 people ask "Bob" if he liked me and he has said no both times and that the person who asked them were stupid now my alot of my friends seemed to think "Bob" liked me because like in one of my classes with him i left the class and he was like where's Julie where's Julie (me) also because they think that his friends wouldnt ask twice if they wernt serious but i dont think he likes me but like sometimes i can catch him looking at me and he looks kind of upset when he does and he always looks away if he see's that i saw him looking at me and i'm really confused as to if he likes me or not because i mean he's kind of sending mixed signals i guess and i really like him a lot but i'm way too shy to do anything also i'm not usualy the type of girls guys like so i seriously doubt he likes me but i would still like you opinions please and thank you in advance

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Additional info, added Saturday March 3 2007, 10:35 pm:
Ok well today in gym we were playing star wars wich is basically dodgeball but a little different and i was standing there and one of my friends said something to me and i turned then i turned back around and "Bob" threw a ball at his friend it bounced off him and hit me right in the face it was so embarrasing and my eye started to swell up and yeha it was just really embarrassing what do i do so "Bob" doesnt think i'm like i dont know whatever and aslo i was in my first class which is choir and he kept looking over at me and so did his friends i felt like i was constantly being watched and sometimes in that class it feel like his friends and him are making fun of me or something cause they willlaugh and point or look at me yeah well ok nevermind about being embarrased but i mean like 30 people and i'm not overexagerating but 30 people know about this and think he likes me but i dont think he does and well yeah but then again it's either i right or 30 people are wrong this is so confusing and frustrating well my friend Alyssa lives like 6 houses away from "Bob" and we were gonna hang out this weekend and maybe go to the movies and she was thinking she might go over to "Bob's" house and ask if he wanted to go with us but should she say that i'm going and should i go with her when she ask's him or like how should we go about doing this i know i sound really pathetic but i really really like this guy and i'm not just gonna give up and yeah Ok so today i'm adding a little more to this and it's saturday so yeah today i went to the mall and we saw Derek and Corey there and Corey is one of the guys that asked me to the valentines dance the second time and he ask me if i liked "Bob" and i said no and then later my friends went home except for corey and derek and corey came over and asked if i liked "Bob" and i asked why he kept asking that and he said because "Bob" likes me he just wont admit it to me and then he asked if i would go out with "Bob" and i said maybe but i didnt say if he liked me he would ask me out himself wich i probably should have done but i had to think fast and yeah so then i left and i told my friend Alyssa who was going to talk to Derek later if "Bob" actualy liked me and Derek said "Bob" does not like me and it's like i keep getting my hopes up and there crashing back down everytime and it really hurts and i try not to get my hopes up but i cant help it and crying seriously is not helping at all and i know i'm stupid and i should jsut askk "Bob" himself but i'd just get my hopes up again and they would crash back down harder then ever cause it would really hurt if i heard it from "Bob" that he doesnt like me so i think i'll be better off not hearing it from him and that i should just forget about it but i have to see him almost evryday at school but do you guys think that corey is just playing a game with me or what is going i dont understand any of this .

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lilmissblondiex3 answered Wednesday February 28 2007, 8:57 pm:
okay well yes bob most defenitley likes you. and my guess would be that the only reason he said no to your friends when they asked if he liked you was because you had said no to him so many times. but from what you said im 99.99% positive Bob likes you. so stick with your gut and if you decide you like him too go for it. and next time, if one of his friends ask you out again, tell them " why doesn't he just ask me" instead of saying no. because if you say that, it's basicaly you saying , "yes, i like bob, and do wanna go out with him, however im not sure if you guys are trying to be funny or not"
good luck!
hope i helped!
xoxoxo

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