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ok well there is this guy that i like ok well hes 2 1/2 years older then me and my mom is like no hes to old but its not really the age difference its the grade difference cause i am gonne be a freshman and he is gonna be a senior i have a b/f but i really dont know wat to do cause i mean i sorta liek my b/f but i like this guys so much better but hes older then me and my parents dont approve mmk well please help me out i rate!!!

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well um does he like you i mean they guy you like? if he doesn't stick with your bf and if he does id say do what you thinks right cause no one can really tell you except for you heart!

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I am datin this guy but he checks out all these other girls and today he was like (name) has a nice butt.Then he was like man look at them titties and it makes me so mad what should I do?


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omg just say hey dont push it....and remind him he allready has a girlfriend! and like if he keeps doing it i just don't think he is attracked to you.....sry to say that....he just might not be from the sounds of it.......oooooo please don't rate me bad i just helping :) please understand!

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Ok my best friend started datin this guy and his name is Josh but ever since they started datin she has been ditchin me like crazy and I am sick of it.Besides he is supposed to ask a lot of girls out which he has but she won't talk to me so I can't tell her what should I do? (link)
ok this happens to alot of people. i think its just because they get sp cought up in it they forget soooooo just find someone eles to hang around with and when she needs you just say, "when were you when i needed you?" thats all.

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who sings that song that like "move, its on,B**** N**** goanna rock yo dome" ive heard this song in movie trailers, commercials and its a very high tension song its rap by the wway i really wanna no pleaz help me out!!! (link)
um i think its lil john! it sounds like it to me soooooon yeah!

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okay so there's this girl i've found myself quite infatuated with. and things seemed to be going jim dandy and the world seemed to be turning right for once. and then to my shock and dismay it comes out that she has an eating disorder. she refuses to eat, refuses to do anything but excersize and sip water. and she is slowly killing herself with this. i try to tell her that it's not good. i try to tell her of the damage it can do to her. and i try to tell her that it hurts me too (it can send me to tears.. and i never ever cry) and i try all that i can to let her know that it's terrible but nothing will ever work. i feel so useless and worthless and like she's gonna slip through my fingertips and i wont be able to save her. and well i really have no idea what to do or where to go. and i need some help from somewhere in order to help her. this is not good. yet she feels that it will make her feel better about herself. i just don't understand how slowly killing yourself makes you feel better. agh this is so saddening. someone please help me, somehow. (link)
well have you told her see is slowly killing herself? cause i think that will scare her out of it. and if she thinks eating like that is cool it is not really so i am thinking she does it because of what other people think. and, she doesn't need to worry about what people think and to just go on with life cause i dooubt shes fat so what even if she was you liked her i mean she must be nice so just sit down and tell her this stuff!

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MY FRIEND IS ON DRUGS NOW HE TOTALLY RELYS ON IT he thinks its impossible to get off it he does pot and alcohol and HE CUTS HIMSELF HOW CAN I HELP HIM?! (link)
just tell him all the stuff he is going to miss out in life just because he does drugs.....and that drugs aren't helping him. Also throw in nobody is going to be your friend because you do drugs. and you could call a drug hotline and they will talk to you about it. i wouldn't hide his drugs or cut off his supply because he will do bad things to himself.

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i cry a lot. nd i guess my x didnt kno that. but i broke up w/ him nd he used to b my BEST friend! but i broke up w/ him nd he was depressed ALL day long obviously. i couldnt bear it because I was the 1 that broke his heart nd hes my best friend! so later after school i called him so we could talk more (he told me to call him) nd i started crying. he was like "u cant brake up w/ me nd then start crying" im like "i kno i kno but. . ." nd now i feel like a complete idiot nd i dont want him to tell his friends. then i said "i kno im such a loser for crying" nd he said "no yur not a loser" so idk. i still feel like an idiot. help! (link)
all you can say is i too am upset. thats all just leave it like that and if he does truly love you he will understand!!!! hope that didn't sound harsh.....

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Hey, i need help!!! Im going to highschool in about 2 months, and I want to look good! I Know i dress really tomboyish, like with all my band shirts and dickies and stuff, but that stuff looks cute on other girls...My hair is black because I died it and its starting to get brown hilights in it from my natural hair color. It looks kool if i straighten it. I am overweight and I am extremly determined to lose weight.

I really like this guy who is going to my school and would like to impress him. Please help.

I rate 5's Only and if you wanna leave a mean comment go ahead, you'll just be wasting your time. (link)
ok

try some skirts and some makeup! you going to lose some weight so thats good for you!! and just like go to the mall and just like look around there and try on some cute girl stuff.
(hint guys like short shirts & skirts,high heels, hair in a ponytail, and ect.)
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My family is really weird becuz they are like really mean to me but not other people in my family i dont understand why i mean they yell at me more than anybody but then 2 seconds later they expect me to be over it and accept their appology i dont understand it plz help me
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i think they are just trying to help you...yea it sounds wrong but they want to help you be strong agianst things later on in life.

about you family i think mainly they could just be the "mean family" is all.

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well i was walking home from school and an old man came up to me he groped me so i punched him in his nose it was the first thing that came into my head,and it started bleeding he told me he was going to press charges what should i do? (link)
Well, you were just defending yourself and i mean he WAS trying to rob you! and i mean if he touched you HE can be in alot of trouble! and yeah he did start it lol!!!

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I have Hazel Eyes and Brown hair and fair skin what kind of make up should i wear and i also have redish cheeks (nothing bad born with it) I am not dark but not to white and i wanted to kno what kind of makeup would be good for me. (link)
well if you have brown hair i would go with a dark eyeshadow like brown or purple ect. lip color i would stick with a medium ish color!
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i've dyed my hair over 10 times in the past 2 years and now its dry and gross, does anyone know if there is any hair product that doesnt cost alot that would make my hair more silky??, ill rate high.. please someone help me out (link)
garniair frutice is the best was to go


garniair frutice silk & shine!!!!



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hey I really like this guy sooooo MUCH! its like scary lol we talk on the fone A LOT and stuff, but he is not that handsom he is kinda fat and im really skinny, wen i saw him i was lke ewwww and so was every1 else. He is tall and I am short but he is really nice and sweat. I dont know if i shuld go with him or not! he is really nice! if it helps im 13/f PLEASE I WILL RATE HIGH!!! (link)
ok well...... what do you think would happen if you went out with him....... do u think it would last.....do you think people would make fun of you and him..... stuff like that i mean he sounds nice so go for it and if things aren't going well just be friends....


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Well next week my brother's going to college..But not a normal college.. he's going to the naval academy. So basically my question is to all of those who have friends at/or were at the naval academy.. ha well it's not a question. Just encourgment that everything's going to be alright. I'm going to miss him sooooo much..any good ways to help me deal with it? What would be good in a care package? And what about a grad. gift? He can barely have anything there! Blah any tips or ideas about anything would be soo appreciated thanks! (link)
well brothers allways like gift cards to blockbuster lol cause they got there games, movies, food, lol um. also you could get him like a littlw stuffed animal to remind him of you. because stuffed animals can speak more than us....yeah...lol



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im about to break up with my boyfriend. he gave me this braclet, it costs probably 5 bucks. but i dont no. should i give it back? or keep it?
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well no one can really give you advice you just have to follow you heart.....



well i would say give it back and say, "give it to someone who you really truly love." and if he loes you hill give it back for you to keep!

all works out

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i'm just gettin into wrestling, can anyone give me some tips? i'm about 195lb, mostly muscle. i'm pretty fast and flexable, or relatively so. so anyone can give me some tips? (link)
hey.
well yeah im a girl but i know i like wrestling!

well never leave yourself open. (and when you see you opponent open use that chance)
and try and keep you balance cause balance will help you alot so practice standing on one foot then the other for a while!

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How do you make yourself less shy? When i'm in big groups i barely talk at all. i am painfully shy. how do i become more outgoing? (link)
just kinda join in on some conversations...like give answeres....people are just people they can't do anything. and they are your friends well lets hopw so even if u mess up they wont make fun of you.
also hang around some of the louder ones it will help you come out of you shell

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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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hey.

1.if he likes you yes he will stare.
2.if you walk buy him and drop something he will point that out
3.talk with a group of friends near him and have friends look at him to see if he lookes or watches you.


um ill get back to you on some more if i think of any


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I need some ideas for a birthday party fast! I rate high! but it can't be skating, movies, or bowling! PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
ok just go to a mall (you don't have to buy anything), eat, hang out, go in some shops just look (and if yall see something cute buy it another time), call the party shopping training lol, and go swimming or somethin then have a sleepover! any of those things are fun for girls....

if your a boy...

go to a arcade or somthing
sry can't help you out there verywell since im a girl lol


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me and my boyfriend broke up probably two months ago. i dumped him because he changes and stuff and gets really quiet. i dumped him because he wasnt being the guy i fell in love with. im 14 and you might not think its true but i did fall in love with him and he said he loved me too but after we broke up we didnt talk or anything and it sucked. about a week ago we finally started talking again and i realized yet again what i loved about him and that i do still love him. i dont know if i should keep it to myself and try to get over it or if i should tell him (link)
hey. well i defenatly think you should tell him. but, don't say it so suddenly just say, "i love you but whenever we are together it doesn't work." just i think if you go out with him agian the same thing will happen again... but you know....
.....the best information anybody can give you is to follow you heart....i know it sounds unbeliveable but it will lead you the right way.

trust me


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