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hi my name is Gabe I am puerto rican and very proud of it and i like to help people with there problems and i have also been knowen to give good adivce so u best listen up! lol but anyways i will talk to most anyone so if u got a problem and want someone to talk to im me on aim "Marrero12"

and yes i really and 15
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BlueEyedBlondie725
Well my x-boyfriend and i were going out for like 4 months and we really liked each other we broke up like two times but only for like 7 hours then like out of no where he broke up with me i was so sad so we started dating other people and he is goin out with this girl but he texts me and tells me he misses me and still loves me and how he wants to get back with me and he said he would brake up with her for me but i asked him when were gunna get back together and he said i dont no then he asked me and i was like now and he said that this was not the best time. What should i do to get back with him really soon kuz i like him alot.

P.S. he lives 30min away from me (link)
naw don't even waste ur time seems like he kinda misses you but there is something keeping him with that other girl so if u got back with him there would be somthin bringing him back to the other girl so he would play both of u


Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne (link)
ur prolly goin to find this rude but it sounds to me that ur son is just a lil mac! lol but explain to him how thats bad

Gabe


ok when do guys like really start getting perverted(sex,makeing out)..like do the start at 12,13,14 b/c i kno some guys that are perverted that are like 12 but i dont kno if others are or if its just those guys!!! help i rate good! (link)
just depends when they mature


i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o (link)
i understand ur decision for wanting to have an abortion i think u are doing the right thing cause i know i would rather we dead then growing up in a fucked up life style because u are so young but i think u should go to planed parenthood if u can get a excuse to go see ur doctor that would work to but u better act fast if u go to ur doctor make sure u tell them not to tell ur parents and by law they can't tell ur parents anything and if they do they can loose there license to practice medicine but either of those will work and forget all those ppls that are badgering u about this because it's ur decsion and i think u are makeing the right one.

good luck
Gabe


I noe this may sound kinda stupid...but..i have neva gone down on a guy...i have done other things but not that and i was wondering if you can give head with braces..? i mean i noe its possible but what about tha wires n stuff??? PlZzZz help..Thanx! xox (link)
ok all these people are dumb of corse u can whey would it really matter it'son the outside of ur teeth the only thing is it would hurt more if u drug ur teeth so yes u can and i can vouch for the fact that it wont hurt him

good luck
Gabe


I mite try out for baskbetball or sum sport, so in a physical, do they have to do anythin w/ur private parts or down below? thanks (link)
well if ur a gay they grab u by ur nuts and make u coff but thats it


Hey Does anyone know how to get rid of dark circles under the eyes. I want to know about stuff that i can make at home. Or something that i can buy that doesnt cost too much (link)
umm most of the time it's caused by lack of sleep so i would suggest sleeping more

good luck
Gabe


I am a very skinny girl, but sometimes when I am anxious or I have eaten to much or I eat alot of sugar or fatty things I make myself throw up. I don't throw up alot of food, though and I don't think that I've gotten to the point where I am a bulimic. I know that it's really not healthy though, so I haven't done it in about six weeks but I always want to, and I feel like Im on the verge. I really don't want to talk to anyone at home about it b/c I don't want to go to rehab because the problem isn't that serious. What do I do? (link)
well i would suggest doing what ever u have to do to stop cause being belimic not only is bad nutrtionaly but when u throw up u are pukeing up stomach acids and the food thats why it tastes so bad but when u throw up ur stomach acids it can cause holes in ur throat which are called pockets and what happens is when u try to eat certain foods will get caught in those pockets and cause u to choke and throw it up so i would suggest doing what ever u need to do to stop this

good luck
Gabe


do guys get grossed out when a gurls cherry pops nd blood comes out? (link)
well i don't know about everyone else but i don't because i mean what can they do about it? it's a natural thing they can't help

good luck
Gabe


im getting new rims on my car (cuz someone at school f'd mine up) but i cant decide what would look best on my car, if anyone has any suggestions let me know cuz i have no idea, oh and i have an 02 trans am so no like 24s or anything, im think i wanna go with 18s, thanks (link)
i would suggest gettin 18's yea but only if u don't get low profile tires they will be really bad in the winter but u will get so much better tracktion when it's dry but if do go with the low profile get bigger rims somethin that fills the whole wheel weld but like if u car is dark like black blue or somthin like that i would go with crome rims but if like ur car is like yellow or red or somthin i think it looks awsome if u get colored rims but only the black ones look good

good luck
Gabe


hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
well i am a guy so my answer might be a lil diffrent from the others but i think u should just go ahead and do it just make sure it is under stood it's a one time thing anless u really wanna do it all the time cause i think it's obvious that he ain't just in it to get some so i guess if u really love him and u want to do it why not? but if u don't want to do it don't cause u will just regret it and that will just runin all the fun and could cause some problems between u two

good luck
Gabe


i plan on calling this guy i like tomorow that i havent talked to in awhile... i kno he use to like me n stuff n i think he still does but im not sure if i ever showed him enough that i like him so basically im looking for sum hints n stuff to let on that i do like him n stuff like that (link)
thats simple just tell him hey i really do like u and when ever u get a chance just get close to him like don't be like all over him when his friends are around but i mean don't be affraid to cuddle up to him sometimes

good luck
Gabe


i jus broke up wit this girl that lives in my home town that is rlly clos but things didnt go good and i jus waznt feelin her after i broke up wit her she still luvs me but i like sum1 else and this person lives 1 hour and 30 minutes away but she is rlly coo and idc what ppl think of her there sayin shit and they dont even know her but neways idk what to do cuz i lost a best friend cuz of it and i miss her alrdy and she wont talk cuz she said what i did waz wrong......??? (link)
well i had the same problem exzactly and i did the same thing u did i just said screw it they will get used to what i did and they never did so i would suggest doing what ever it takes to get that best friend back no matter what it means (as long it don't mean her walking all over u)


omg! im so lost and confused right nowi met this guy ryan a couple days ago and i was asked is i liked him and he was asked if he liked me and he said yea and im cool..so i gave him my number he told me that he was gonna call me he never did so i called him and well i told him what my friend rachel had said and hes like yea ur cool..i wanna get to know u a lil better and see if ur cooler than cool im o ok then afterwards i havent talked to him..so i dunno he has yet to call
please help
Tracy (link)
well a guys opion on this one would be that he is one of those guys that has phone-a-phobia that would explain why he don't call u and he is one of those guys that thinks he can get any girl or he really can but that would explain it all it prolly wasn't a good idea for u to call him but now that u did don't call him agian if he don't call u then forget him i am sure u ain't got any problems with gettin guys

good luck
Gabe


SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT I REALLY NEED HELP Me and my boyfriend broke up on the first on August at night of course I cried I liked him but I was over him the next day I wasnt like in love with him Its just that I have a lot of time on my hand and have nothing to do I have to watch my little brother from the morning till 4 b/c my parents are at work then the rest of the day I dont do anything I just stay home for some reason and when I hang out with my bff she always acts like shes soo wonderful and perfect gets annyoing you know Im just wondering how can I like not think of him and just get over him and not feel bad that I dont have a bf and keep myself busy throghout the whole day? I mean this is really bugging me I dont wanna feel like I have a bad life I dont I just need some things to do to like keep me busy and not feel bad that I dont have a bf so please please please someone help me I mean really really help me thank you soo much and if you want me to rate then Ill rate if that will get me some answers thank you neone...sorry it was long but I really want to feel better and some ideas better then watch tv or get online please help me. ThankS (link)
i would suggest doing what i did i was in the same slump i hadn't had a g/f in a year and i really didn't like it but the only thing i could do was just go and meet some new ppls to hang out with it will make u feel so much better cause then u will have someone to hang with and if it's a guy u know he will be jealious cause i am sure u are a really nice girl

good luck
Gabe


how can u tell if ur a good kisser or do sumin bout it if u r kuz i dont want my bf sayin stuff now or after we brake^((i kno this sounds really gay but...)) (link)
well no matter what u do about anything i am sure he will be talkin shit when u guys break up cause most of the time when people break up there is always some mudd slinging but i think the only way to find out is kiss someone and ask them but don't do it to someone who would be obligated to say yes

good luck
Gabe


okay so there is this guy (grant) who is 16 (and im 15)that i have been talking to for about 3 n a half months and before school got out he told my best friend that he wanted to wait until summer to get with me that way he has more time to spend on me since hes busy w. school and now..its like he doesnt have enough time for me. i like him sOo much and he knows it but it seems like hes even more busy now that school is over. i dont know if i should wait for him or find somebody else but everytime i look at another guy i compare him to grant and there is just no 2nd place. some of my friends tell me that i should give up and my other friends tell me that i should wait but grant is everything that i ever wanted in a guy..HELP! (link)
i would say quit worring about it cause i think he wanted u to wait for him so he could get some from someone else or else why would he make u wait if he has less time now then he did originaly so i would suggest just moving on the later on down the road if he comes back to u i would give him another chance

good luck
Gabe


How old do u have to be to have sex? (link)
there is no really age as long as u have hit puberty but i would suggest waiting after that cause it would be kinda early for alot of people so i would suggest atleast being 15 atleast!

good luck


17-F i went over this boys house today his name is Dan. well he wanted to do stuff with me like give him head, hand jobs stuff like that and I said no but the next thing I know he's on top of me like humping. We have all our clothes on. and he's going faster and faster by the second. so my question is that sex or dry humping?? (link)
yes i ain't really sure because u didn't really explain like exzactly how he was going about it but yes basicly thats what it is


ok theres this guy i've liked for a while and he knows that. well he always wants to hang out and be friends with benifits. well i told him that i actually want to have a relationship with him. he told me he doesnt want to rush into getting a gf bcuz he just broke up with his old one. but they broke up like 5 months ago. so he said lets hang out more. is this guy just using me? is he scared to have a relationship with me? i'm clueless.....please help me (link)
they broke up so he don't wanna get back into that shit agian so he is going to use u to get some (the good part of his relatioship with his x)

good luck
Gabe




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