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I like to write, take pics, hang with friends, play softball, and tennis.
E-mail: Zero22@37.com
Gender: Female
AIM: bcjamey
Member Since: June 21, 2004
Answers: 40
Last Update: May 28, 2005
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i am so bored and i dont know what to do. does anyone have any fun websites to go to exepct bored.com because its acully boring. i want to like like dress up people or something girly thanks i rate! please dont say barbie.com (link)
www.buddypic.com

go rate people...hott boys are fun to look at and amuzing!


ok so i told my bff (who's a guy) that i liked him. I went out w/him last year but we broke up. I wrote him a letter b/c he was moving. and i gave it to him after a party. that night he called me and was like i was surprised when i read ur letter. i was lik o. and he said that he wont act weird around me tomorrow (we had another part). and that he was goin to write me a poem and give it to me. that was the end of the conversation. the next day i saw him and we didnt really talk that much. at the end i gave him the biggest hug b/c i wasnt goin to c him ever again. he invited me over to his house to hang out. and im goin to go over to his house. well im not sure if he's goin to ask me out but i want him to. well there's this other guy and i like him to. he has this thing on his profile that says there is sum1 special out there for me. and i asked him who it was and he said that i would find out who it is at camp.(were goin together) so i kind of think it might b me but im not possitive. i dont no wat to do! i like them both and i want to go out with both of them. p.s. im 13 and a female (link)
Whoah people can be mean!...well isn't this guy moving? If he's moving forget him...long distance relationships never work. And if you don't know who you like give it time...if one of the guys gets tired of waiting for your decision, he obviously doesnt like you as much as he said he did...good luck

- Zero


mah friend has been sick lately and he has missed like 2 weeks...the other day he was in a wheelchair..he told me that people at skool have been talking about him and he wanted to kno who they where...they where saying stuff like hes gay or hes just faking it...even his friends said it...im like the only girl friend he has but now its like im the only friend he has..i dont kno wat to do to make him feel better?!??!! HELP!! (link)
Be supportive and try not to tell him who the poeple were that said it b/c the people are bieng immature and stupid...he'll just get mad at those people and it'll make him mad, and that won't let him get any better...

- Zero


Last night my school played Tomball at our playoffs baseball game. There was so rivalry going on you wouldn't believe. Girls got slapped, people were told off, our field was trashed with Tomball banners which were not supposed to be there, brooms were taken, cars got rear-ended, and people were cut off. All of which got out drill team in trouble.

Well, at drill team practice today, our coach was furious. I mean crazy mad. She gave us a 2 hour lecture about how "ladies" are supposed to act; Cy-Falls drill team ladies.

Well, we play them again tonight to settle the score. Of course, all those same people are going to be there. We want to get them back for all the crap they did to our field because we play them on their field tonight. What can we go that will get them back but keep us out of trouble?
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I agree with ^^^... I understand how competative baseball/softball games can get. I play softball...but I think you should have class and show that your able to be more mature..

- Zero


A friend of mine has his girlfriend's birthday all planned out. Well, almost. There is one point where he doesn't know what he's going to do. This is what he has so far:

Wake her up a 7:30 in the morning; give her 30 seconds to grab anything she needs then take her out to breakfast. After breakfast he's going to take her back home so she can get cleaned up, take a shower, and all that good stuff. Breakfast will probably take an hour so she should be ready by 11am. Then, he doesn't know where he's going to take her. But, at 5pm or 6pm he's taking her to an early dinner where he's giving her her gift. After dinner, at 7pm he's taking her to his fav. local band's show who she's gotten pretty interested in. After their show, him and his band are going on stage and sing her 2 fav. songs to her; Vindicated by Dashboard and Hanging by a moment by Life house. All of that should be over at about 10 or 10:30pm. When it's over, he'll take her to her house where all her friends are waiting for her. We’re gonna party it up through the rest of the night and may be a lil into the morning ;).

But anyway, he still needs to figure out what he's going to do with her from 11am to 5 pm. That's about 6 hours lol. I want to tell him to take her to an amusement park but I don't know if 6 hours will be enough for that. Any suggestions? (link)
thats so fun! But ....tell him to take her to a park and have a picnic lunch...or go SHOPPING, every girl loves shopping! See a movie...cuddle hold hands, girls love that...

- Zero


I'm about to buy a new straightener and I wanna make sure I get a good one this time.. I need some advice on what kind of straightener to get (cereamic, glass, gold, etc). I want one that will NOT ONLY straighten my hair really well, but also make it STAY straight all day. What do u all recommend? (something cheap, not over $30) Thanks!! i'll rate HIGH!! (link)
Revlon, Works the best with my hair and it stays straight all day....good luck!

- Zero


I'm getting my nose pierced on Saturday, and I was wondering if anyone got it done, like did it hurt? & If it did how long did the pain last for?? Also. What side should I get it done on?? Left or Right?.. Whats a nice color to start out with? Your favorite color or, a noticeable one. Thanks :) (link)
My best friend just got hers done and said it didn't hurt at all. She got it done one the left side, and just has a stud earing in it. And if your in school you may want to get a clear one so its not as noticable. Good luck~

- Zero


ok so my best friend amanda is making sooo many wrong choices, she just barely turned 15 and shes been doing weed and drinking and having sex, ive been telling her to stop doin that stuff but she just doesnt listen, she knows its wrong but she is striving for the attention, can you guys please help im soo desperate for help right know i dont know what to do, i rate high!! thanx (link)
There isn't anything you can do. The most you can do is voice your opinion and its her choice from there...good luck~

- Zero


I went out with this guy last summer, but he lives in NJ, we still talk about when he was here and how we had so much fun together and he is comming down this summer also, and i told him that i dont think i could hang out with him but i really want to and he was like Why not? and i said because i might end up liking you again, and that he might not like me back and he was like well i wont have a g/f when i get down there and we ARE going to hang out. Does this mean that he will go back out with me again or not? does this mean any thing? (link)
Never jump to conclusions b/c you may get your heart broken. Just keep things cool between you two and eagerly wait for summer~! Its exciting, but you just have to stay calm and wait it out. If he likes you again you'll be able to tell, if not theres tons of other guys :) But it sounds good to me, have fun :)

- Zero


I am wanting to make my own free web page one I can design and put my own backgrond on it and everything and I was wondering if anyone happened to know of any good website I can go to and make my own web page, thanks bunches everyone,...I rate High to anyone who answers this! (link)
www.piczo.com is a really good one :)...or the freewebs one someone else said...or just go to yahoo and search free web pages and you'll get a big list...but I found that piczo is the simplest, if you have any questions about it just ask~

- Zero


How do you keep a conversation going? I usually say something then it comes out stupid and i stop. (link)
Good question..conversation is a hard thing to keep goin. Especially with someone you don't know very well. You don't want to say anything stupid...but when I meet someone new I just ask them how their day was...sounds retarded but it goes into a conversation and if your lucky that will lead into one and so on. Or you could ask someone their high, in other words the best part of thier day, and then thier low, worst part of the day. Then you could ask them to tell you a secret...thats a fun one. Then if your desparate you can ask someone what their thinking about. It all sounds kinda gay...but when your trying to start conversation they all work. Hope I helped later~

- Zero


hello. i am a girl and 14 years old. i have a boyfriend. he is the sweetest most wonderful person you can ever meet. there is this other boy in school and he told me he liked me. yesterday, i was in school and i said "im bored, i want to makeout" my cousin went over to the boy and told him to go to the restroom when i went. i went to the restroom and he was there. i like him too. so then we kissed. i feel bad about this. i kissed another boy when im going out with another one. i feel so guilty and i dont think it meant anything to him. But i feel like i did something really really bad. i dont know what do to. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend in any way. what should i do? (link)
you really have to tell your bf to at least clear your head of that one b/c if you dont its going to drive you nuts until you do! Then you can take the time to figure out what you want, maybe tell your bf that you want to take a break and if he says okay then he respects your decision...if he gets mad and doesn't want to do that then he doesn't respect you and you should leave him and go after the other guy!
Hope I helped!

- Zero


i wanna buy for my friends.. my best friends and i have l;ike 4 of them but i also have another friend she lies alot and says shes gunna buy me some thing for xmas. but i dont wanna get her anything.. but if she gets me sompin ill feel bad.. i dont wanna ask my mom for more things tho. any help? (link)
Either make somehting, or get something that you could either keep for yourself or give to a sibling...or to another friend!


Ok, so i was thinking about babysitting the kids nextdor, but i've geard thast little kids are hard to take care of. is that true? i need tha cash, and cant afford anything for my friends for the holidays. I'm not really patient, but i have 2 younger siblings, but i get sick of them really easy. my brother is 8, and my sister is 2. the kids nextdoor are 7 and 9, if that helps. (link)
your going to get sick of your yonunger siblings because you live with them. If your good with kids then go for it....i not just stay home and make something for your friends! I hate kids..hah


i was sitting in class and then all of a sudden this guy in back of me said crack kills and i had no idea what he was talking about so i was like "i don't do crack" and then they started laughing and it was about 5 days later that i realized it meant my buttcrack was showing. i feel like sugh a loser i don't know what to say and they make fun of me for it like everyday!! (link)
haha, you have to admit its funny! All you have to do is laugh it off. *Blonde moment* everyone has one of those every now and then. If you laugh it off and act like it doesn't bother you, then trust me they'll stop!

-Zero


At school I was in the locker room and I was taking a shower and then a brat came by whe nI got out and told me she wanted to show me something and I only had 5 minutes before the next class so I just was like fine so when I went to see what it was she got about 3 of her friends to take off my towel and pushed me out side with all the other people and then the classes where changing and the locker room was locked and every one say me naked I mean butt naked and now ever one makes fun of me saying I should be a striper and all (link)
Aww you HAVE to admit...its kind of funny. But all you have to do is laugh about it and be like, "ya, well my moms a stripper, I get it from her" or like "Yea, I'm thinking about it, will you be my manager?" you just have to fuck around with people b/c their going to keep saying stuff until they realize that it doesn't bother you. The more you act like it bothers you the more their going to do it, so just brush it off like its nothing!

-Zero


Last January I told my best friend that I had made out with someone before. It wasnt true-at the TIME I thought I had made out with somebody, but then I asked my older sister and it turns out what I thought it was wasnt, and I hadnt made out with him, just kissed. I was so embaressed (I had told 2 friends and 2 guys it was a small get-together) I haven't told any of them it wasnt true. But my friends are still persisting to know who it was. I dont want to say I lied to them because thats embarressing, but its hard to keep this up cause I'm a bad liar! My best friend said she wasnt sure if she even believed me! I dont want to be like 'in 8th grade i didnt even know what making out was' not to mention the fact ive kept this up forever but its getting out of control! HELP! (link)
Just be like..."well it really wasn't a big thing, I mean it was more of a kiss than making out." I mean your friends should understand, and don't be ashamed of not making out. Its good to go slow TRUST ME!

- hope I helped

-Zero


I was talkin to my boyfriend last night, and out of no where he said that he needed to tell me somthin in a real serious voice. I got kinda nervous since we've never realy been serious before, we're alwayse lauphing and having a good time. So he said- (remember when we first started talking and you asked me if i'm a virgin and i said yes.... well i'm not. I just said that because i didnt want it to be akward if i told you that soon. Then he said that everything else he has said to me has been true, and he felt bad that he hadnt told me before.) When he told me this i didnt know what to say.I feel really uncomfortable with it. I'm not going to do it with him, since i'm only 15 and i dont believe in that, but i dont want him to go off to some other girl when i say no. What should i do, because i really like this guy. He is one of the nicest people i have every met and i still really like him?!?!?!?!?! Please help (link)
When my x told me he wasn't a virgin I felt REALLY uncomfortable with it. I'm 15, and I said "well who cares I'll never do it", and he said he wouldn't pressure me or anything. And well I lost my virginity to him. Most guys once they get it their most likely going to want it agian...but not all guys. If you know your morals deep down are true and that you won't give it up to him...but if your even a little bit scared of what might happen....end it now b/c you'll regret it just like I do now, good luck~
-hope I helped

- Zero


If there is a fight between ur younger sister and her friends, should i help them by trying to fight with younger kids,or do i try and talk to them one by one in a place where no one can her u. Can u help me decide? (link)
If you feel like you have to get involved talk it out...don't fight with younger kids its immature. Be the grown up one and talk to them b/c I'm sure their just fighting about something stupid.

-Zero


(13/f)

i windsurf a lot and i compete a lot to. so next friday i have this competition and i qualified to compete with older people. which means im going to be the youngest one windsurfing in the competition. and well im REALLY nervous..does n e one know what i should do to calm myself down for the race next friday?

thx (link)
aww good job! Just keep telling yourself that your lucky you got that far! Or right before you go don't even think about it. I used to skatebourd and I was all freaked out about going down the ramps and I just said "1 2 3 go" and I did it and I could'nt go back b/c it was too late! so Good luck!!!

- Zero




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