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Any body know any good myspace layout sites, that are FREE?
besides Createblog, and myspace.nuclearcentury.com
And dont give me the stupid google either.

Heyy.. this is my favorite website everr..I always go to this website to find background's code n' stuff.. this is the URL:
www.whateverlife.com

Hope I helped! Don't forget to rate me..

-ViTaChaN-

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yeah thats what i thought at first but wouldn't you think that after like two months he would be over me by then... they're still going out... and now he's telling everyone like lies about me, he's saying that i'm always ALL OVER him... and he complains and stuff well he doesnt complain when we actually "do stuff" if you get what im saying lol.. im just really confused at the moment... PLEASE HELP

Sorry.. I was taking a lil break..X)I think you should talk to him about WHY he lies or saying stuff that's not true. I'm pretty sure he would tell you the reason but if he said like "coz I feel like it" or sumthing like that..Maybe he is just playing with you *my guess* And I have 1 fact bout boys.. when they break up with their gf.. they'll ask their ex's bestfriend out..like exactly what your ex is doing right now. oow oow.. this thing just went pass my brain so fast.. I THINK he has made a revenge plan,,coz maybe (everything here is maybe coz I don't know him..lol) he was soo angry coz you broke up with him..you know..he loves you so much and you love him so much and all of the sudden you say 'we are done' (maybe you didnt say that,, but means the same.. hehe..) anyway.. maybe that's why he is doing this whole thing..revenge.. so back to my advice,, talk to him!! or you might be able to use your bestfriend to ask him why he lies and stuff. Hope I helped! don't hesitate to ask again.. I'm here to help people,especially you!♥

-ViTaChaN-

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HE is very popular. He's a bad boy who gets into fights all the time.
HE used to like me four years ago. Then I pissed him off really bad and he stopped talking to me.
HE stares at me all the time now.
What does this mean?

I think he is trying to get your attention..You need to talk to him though..there's a chance that he still likes you a lot..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Ok... a hand job is when you take a guys penis and you move your hand up and down. And you see I would make them break up if his gf wasnt my best friend and thats what sucks because they're always together and stuff and then I always have to see them kiss and it kills me when they do it in front of me. HELP!

Oowh..okay..now I got it.. well, it happens to me all the time..it also kills me when my ex starts to tell me bout how his new gf and blablabla..except that they don't kiss..lol..I think you should talk to your bestfriend and ask if it would be okay if your ex broke up with her. But if she said 'no' that means that you just have to wait..or if your ex broke up with your bestfriend without telling you or without your advice and stuff..you're okay because your bestfriend couldn't blame you, right? because you didn't do anything..Well.. good luck.. I hope you'll be okay..You're still lucky coz you know that your ex still likes you,, me? I don't..anyway,, Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Hey! Thanks for your advice. It did help. But I have another problem. So, I went to a party the other night, and he ended up being there. His girlfriend wasn't though. He told me he was still in love with me, so we made out in the bathroom, and I gave him a hand job. I know, BAD thing to do! Please if you could help me out. I would definitely appreciate it! Thanks. XOXOXO

Oo yay..it helped.. O.K. so you have another one.. Told ya he still loves you..=P hand job?? what's that? o well.. I guess it's something that's not really good..Well, because you've already done that thing,, I think you really need to talk to him 'bout your feeling..Because maybe if you tell him bout it, he will break up with his girlfriend and come back to you. I know, maybe you would feel guilty if he breaks up with his girlfriend because of you.. but.. I think that's the best thing you can do.. or you can just find another boy and try to forget that thing that you did with him. It's all up to you.. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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me and my boyfirend have been goin out for three months today he got me a ring for christmas do u think that is to early to be gettin somethin like that?

Is it an expensive ring? Well.. it doesn't really matter if it is or isn't..It's not too early..some people buy a very expensive jewelry for their partner because they really like them,, It's not too early.. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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me and my boyfriend have been goin out three months today we have been fightin alot in the past 2 weeks do u think thats bad?

Kinda bad.. but it's not a relationship without fighting.. like marriage,, have you ever seen your parents fighting? if yes, that's what happens in real life..there must be a problem.. at least.. A PROBLEM.. You should talk to your boyfriend.. hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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What do you do when you've liked a guy for a really long time and are finally dating and you decide that you don't want to date anymore, but then after you break up with him, you like him still and now your best friend is going out with him?
Age: 13
Gender: Female

OMG!! I can't believe this.. that is happening to me right now..I think you should tell him that you still like him..maybe he won't do anything about it..but it's okay..you can still be friends with him, right? But you know what I think? I think that he was so depressed, and so he asked another girl out to make him feels better..that's what I thought..Hope I helped because I really really want to help you!! And this is not a commercial..That thing is happening to me right now and I know how you feel..

-ViTaChaN-

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ok well there is this kid I really like at school . And when I told Him he said he Might like me 2 ! and that he would tell me on monday ! well it is wedsday and i still have NO answer ! so what does that meaN !?!?!?!?! does he like me or not ! HELP !

If I were you, I would probably ask him like "So, have you decided yet?" And if he kinda looks like he doesn't know what I meant, I would just leave him alone n' say "never mind." And if he says so, there's a chance that he's too shy to tell you or he was just kidding bout the whole thing. But I think he does like you =D Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Well, I was just wondering about this because I was just thinking about it randomly, but in the state of Minnesota, would it be illegal, as an example of ages 'for a 14 y/o to do sexual things with an 11 y/o, and they both agree on it'???

Yes it would... If you're not 16 yet don't ever think to have sex.. it's not good for both sides.. you and other, especially if your parents don't know bout it.. so my answer is yes..it would be illegal! Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Mmk.. well theres this boy. that i really like alot last year but he doesnt kno that.. well i dont think. but anyways. ever since the middle of novemeber hes been acting really flirty with me. and he always touchin me and talking to me and hugging me in the hallways and he hold onto me in the hallways when we are walking sometimes.. and hes told my cousin and my friend that he thinks im hott. but well hes a senior and im a sophmore for 1. theres soo many other grls in ma school. and like.. i dunno. Do u think he could possibly like me?? i mean. we talk constantly in class. and he has my number and he texts me sumtimes.. so.. idunno. i need help! ill rate 5 for any advice at all!

Yes yes yes yes yes... there's a possibility that he likes you.. Someday, ask him who he likes and see his reaction.. =D Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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i'm 13yrs.old and a girl. is it bad to feel.... well happy if a guy makes comments about your boobs and butt or touches it?

Not really! There's alot of other girls who actually want to have a girlfriend.. you know what I mean.. kinda sorta sounds crazy, but anyway.. it's not weird or anything.. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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is it true that deoderant can give you breast cancer? especially if you put it on after you shave?

No it's not true even though my dad says it is.. coz i just read the article.. just be aware.. dont shave too often. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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hey, i was wondering if anyone knows any good xanga sites where they have like every song code, because i was looking for howie day - collide the ACOUSTIC version but i cant find it any where... so if you could either find me a site or the direct link where its at that would be really cool... thanks!

I used to search video or song code from these websites:

-http://www.49media.com/
-http://www.musicvideocodes.com/
-http://www.singingfool.com/

Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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okayy well i realllly like this guy for a while now. and we use to call and text everydayy. but then all of a sudden we just stopped, haven't text/called each in a week. and i don't just wanna all of a sudden text him out of nowhere. but when i see him at school i just melt! he's like into all that military stuff, and doesn't always have that nice looking face on. and i reallly wanna talk to him but i'm just wayyy to shy. and when we see each other at school we act like we're strangers. i'm wayy scared to go up to him for some reason! what should i do?! i've never liked anyone soo much!

I've been to that situation before. And what made me close to him is AIM. It sounds kinda dumb, but it's real. Do you have any AIM or any kinda instant messenger? Maybe it would work. But of course, there's another way.. I think you should overcome your shyness for a while. Just think that he's your best friend..At first you can say 'hi, how are you?'It's not a really hard thing to do, because I used to be so shy to this guy i knew, and I tried to think that, that guy's one of my bestfriends, and it actually worked. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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there is this guy that i love very much..but something is wrong..because i think my best boy bud hass fallen' inlove with me...what do i do?

Sorry for making you wait for a long time. Well, if your best friend doesn't make any move, like ask you out,etc.. You can't really do anything. My advice for you is to not tell your best friend about you liking that guy, because you can hurt your best friend's feelings easily. And the last thing you can do is to wait, who will make the move first, your best friend or that guy. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Does straightening your hair really damage it?

Yes, if you do it everyday or very often. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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i feel really stressed out and bumed right now and i dont know why and i kinda just feel like i want to cry...but like i dont know why...hmm can some one right me some cute sad qoutes that include guys or friends... but like i dont want a site because i dont want to like scroll thru them... so if you just know any can you send them thanks...ill rate if you like...

I don't know if there is a sad qoute. Because I've never heard bout it before. I always hear about love quotes, hapiness, and others. But I found these:

--The sad truth is that excellence makes people nervous.
--I love my past. I love my present. I'm not ashamed of what I've had, and I'm not sad because I have it no longer.
--I love life...Yeah, I'm sad, but at the same time, I'm really happy that something could make me feel that sad. It's like...It makes me feel alive, you know. It makes me feel human. The only way I could feel this sad now is if I felt something really good before. So I have to take the bad with the good. So I guess what I'm feeling is like a beautiful sadness.
--He is a hard man who is only just, and a sad one who is only wise.

Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Hi everyone! I was seeing how many people have just sogns in their MySpace page and I REALLY REALLy want to put Beethoven's Moonlight Sonata on mine. I need help since I don't know where to get it or the cpde thingie very well. Can someone please help???

Well, I've found this website for code songs, or whatever. But I don't know if that website has the code for Beethoven's Moonlight Sonata, but at least you can try to go to that website. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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okay well i really like this guy named andrew! and we are rlly good friends but i like him more then that. we were going to go out a couple of times but ended up not. well, i like him again and right now he has a girlfriend. soo should i tell him i like him or not? plz help i rate high! thnx... *megan

I don't think it would be a good idea to tell him that you like him. Because, first, he has a girlfriend, and second, you can ruin your friendship. But if you still want to tell him, go on, cause I'm just telling you my thoughts. Oo yea, and maybe, it would be a good idea if you tell him about your feelings after he breaks up with his girlfriend. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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