Welcome all who needs advice. i kno u may not want to open and tell but my advice always works. sometimes you need advice so u can see if wat u think is right wrong and u should ask more den one person. Im very generous and open minded. i dont have much but my advice helps all.
Gender: Female
Location: ny
Occupation: student
Age: 16
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Member Since: July 7, 2005
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Can someone please tell me what the hell is wrong with me?
Everytime i like a descent guy and then they like me back, i pull away and dont like them anymore.
Whats my problem!?! (link)
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YOUR SCARED!!!! relationships are hard to come by and wen you think its perfect many questions run through your head. Its common. Just fight the fear and let you take over your body and not your doubts.
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OK. So. My mom got her period when she was 16. My oldest sister got it the summer before 6th grade, and my other sister got hers around 9th grade. I'm a 32A bra size. In 7th grade ;; Any guesses to when I'll get mine? I rate. (link)
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Um i guess dat you would get yours by da end of dis year beginning of next. Your suppose to get your period between 12 to about 17. There many things dat vary wen you get your period because some bodies mature faster den ohters. BUT I REALLY DONT THINK YOU SHOULD BE IN A RUSH TO GET IT.
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I can't help liking this girl even though there's all these reasons I shouldn't. I'm going to graduate next year and she's a year younger so she'll still be in high school; she knows I like her and specifically told me that she doesn't like me the same way; we talk a lot on a personal one-on-one level, but when there are others around she hardly pays attention to me. Recently, it seems things are becoming more awkward between us - we talk less and I feel like she's putting up a barrier.
My question is two-fold:
- I know I should probably give up on her, but I want to at least remain friends - is that too much to ask?
- I don't know exactly HOW to stop liking her and wanting her to like me in a more-than-friends manner. (link)
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Ok this question has many ways dat it can go. You know what to do its just you dont want it to happen that way.To answer your first question,no its not dat at hard to ask for. You should tell her when you have your one-on-one conversations dat you understand dat she doesnt wanna commit and you would be happy just being friends. She would den understand where you coming from and either tell you whats on her mind or why she is acting that way.She may be feeling dat way because your older den her and dat may scare her dat if she commits you will end up leaving her. Next question, it may take awhile to stop liking her because it doesnt happen with a click of a button. Try to find other gurls dat you feel da same about. Hey your going to college, there's plenty of gurls to match up with. But if you wanther to like you more than a friend just keep being a nice and respectful and she would turn around.
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when on a dinner date, how should handling the check go?
should i, the woman, grab the book and look at it, or should i wait until my date picks it up?
should i ask him how much it is? should i take the money out of my purse? how do i handle a credit card ? (link)
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Ok before any thing starts da question you should ask is who asked who to go where? secondly it is always the guy who is suppose to get the check because its the law of class but if the check stays there for more den 20 seconds den just pick up the check. HOwever if the man doesnt want to be embarass he would pick da check up.
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15/Boy.
I have a problem with my mom's way of life.She
doesnt care what she wears or looks like. She wears always nasty dresses (kinda exposing ). I hate the way the men stairs at her.On last tuesday I was watching tv with my friend (boy), she came in the room, wearing a loose frock, when she bend to collect magazines from the floor, her frock was up and her nude hips were exposed to us (she was not wearing panty as usual). I was soo embarassed in front of my friend.
How should I mend the ways of mom. Pl. advice.
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You need to confront your mother that what she wears is affecting your life and you cant take it no more. Mothers wouldn't understand how they really are making a mockery of your life until you tell them. If your mother doenst understand, if your dad doesnt want anything to do with it then take matters in your hands. Tell her that until she could respect you and your company then you feel as though you cant continue to live under those circumstances maybe she wouldchange her mind before you have to go to drastic measures.
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OK so there was this really cute hooded vest I liked at gap, but I can't find it anywhere in my size (XS) including the website and two different locations. I was wondering if anyone knew where they sell similar hooded vests like that in an XS? (link)
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Ok look u asked i answered next time be more specific and a teen store is a place where u obviously can fit da clothes. u must live in the surburbs or the old country town.
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I've had the same pimples on my face for what seems like months. How can I get rid of them? I don't think they're scars..They are red bumps. If it is scars, is there anyway to get them to fade? (link)
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Personally i use clearsal. But when you use it you have to do it daily. Hope i helped
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16/f. Well my problem is with my boyfriend. He is 18 and I really do care about him. We have been going out for about 2 months and things are just not going so well. Like i said i really do care about him but it seems that our relationship is falling apart. The beginning of our relationship was what i thought was perfect. Well it's only been two months so i guess it is still the beginning, but still it seems like everything is starting to change, for the worse, and i can't stand it. I wanna be with him more than anything but its starting to seem like he doesn't wanna be with me. He barely answers my phone calls and never calls me, but when we do talk it seems like everything is fine until he starts acting like he doesn't wanna talk to me any more, which makes me feel kinda unwanted. We used to talk everyday and he would make me feel like i was the only girl in his life and nobody else matters, but recently its like im the only one who doesn't matter. I am just sooo sick of trying with him but i don't wanna loose him. It would break my heart if we didn't make it. Even when we were with each other in person he was so affectionate towards me and now it seems when ever i see him either he is too busy to notice me or he just doesn't want to talk to me. what should i do. BREAKING UP WITH HIM IS NOT AN OPTION. I hope (link)
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If breaking up is not option then da onlypossible other one is to talk to him about. Dont be shy with it. Let him know that your a big woman who takes strong hold of her feelings and oes appreciate it. He thinks because he's 18 now that he's to big to be dealin with someone whose only 16. Turnin 18 is like turning 13. Yuo try to leave the past behind. But you gotta show him that just cause he enter a new stage doesnt mean hes gonna pass you by. GURL YOU BETTA LET HIM KNOW!
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I need some suggestions on a song for my voicemail on my cell.
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If you like rap- Emeinem, 50 cent, Jay Z Mike Jones, Sim Thug, DEm Franchieze boys, 36 Mafia, etc.
If u like hip hop- Ludacris, Kayne West, Beyonce, etc.
RB- R.kelly, Mary J.Blige, MAriah Carey
if u like pop rock wateva. You chould go to launch.yahoo.com. dey have a variety of aol and new music selcetions of different geners
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14/f...I like one of my best guy friends named Will but he doesn't know it. He is really close with my best friend Kate. They knew each other like a whole year before I met him so that's why. Whenever she's not around me and Will he talks to ME nonstop. But when she's around, I can NEVER get him to even talk to me. I feel left out and I always think "how am I supposed to get him to like me if he's always busy talking to her?" I have no idea what to do and I am so confused. Winter formal(dance) is coming up and I want him to ask me. But how do I get noticed? (and if you say flirting...can you please be specific)Thanks.I RATE HIGH!
ps. merry x-mas to everyone (link)
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He is twisted in his own mind. He likes you but then he doenst wanna hurt the friendship the tree of you had. If you want him that badly then you gotta prove to him thatyou da one. The next time your alone together tell him how you really feel and that you never met anybody like him that made you feel those feelings. He may not wanna hurt his friendship so tell him that is cool but you wanna be more den firneds. Then you gradually ask HIM to the winter formal.
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ok well there's this guy i like, lets name him rick. and well ya see rick has a girlfriend named sonya and well sonya is not very pretty and hes like super hott and well he flirts with me all the time, and he like touches me and like plays tag and stuff and like little things that i can tell that he may like me. and well i dont know what to do ya know and well at this dance my friend kept asking him to dance with me but he said he would if he would dance with his friend but she didnt. but idk he like flirts with me and stuff and i dont know if he is just a flirty guy because he does this to other people well not the exact thing but he flirts with them and i really like rick and i dont know what to do and i cant say anything really because he has a girlfriend who is no offense to her but i mean i am usually honest about if people are pretty but hes not and she wears super weird clothes and i dont think they look good together at all. i really like rick and i dont know what to do please someone tell me i rate high!! thanx (link)
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In this common case its pretty simple that you gotta put your feelins out there. If he keeps flirting with you tell im that you really like him and that if he feels you in the same way then he shoudl stop faking and and ask to get to kno who you really are instead of having a girlfriend that he could care less about. You wanna be the person who doesnt get blame because you was flirting with him but instead he was flirting with you. With giving him boundaries he sees that your really into him and maybe he would give it a chance.
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Whats The Legal Age To Have Sex
Thanks
Tami (link)
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There really isnt no legal age in my opinion because evryone does it at different ages. The only thing is someone 18 or older cant have sex with someone 17 or younger because that would be considered rape. But if u having sex with someone thats between 12-17 or 18-25 den its ok.
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ive heard of girls in the shower taking the shower head and kinda putting it "near" their private areas...well im a girl so how would i do omething like this without the detachable shower head? thanks? (link)
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Well me personally i would turn on the faucet and not the shower head and lie under their to feel the full pleasure
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Hey guys..well i have a question..obviously. Im obsessed with the band Good Charlotte, and have been for about 4 or 5 years..but people always tell me stuff. Im tired of them thinking my music sucks more then theirs because its not "poser" music. I feel like i got more balls then THEY DO cause its harder to admit you like music that will get people to tell you crap the it is to be the crap talker. What should i do? (link)
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What ever music u like u like. It doesntmatter what they say. Just tell them that you rather be a leader who likes their own kind of music and not a bandwagon. If they got a problem with it tell them go jump off a cliff.
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I just made a new friend from volleyball at school, my best friend is jealous because now i also hang out with my new friend. she says i ignore her but never do...sometime it feels like she's the one ignoring me like shes mad at me. We even had a fight just yesterday but i dont think the problem is solved because she still acts different around me.
Its like She can have other friends but i cant
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Your friend things that you gonna spend more time with the girl cause yall have a sport that you both like to do. Your firned is probabyly going through the state of mind saying: Firstvolleyball then the movies then shes gonnaforget all about me. You need to tell her that she's your best friend for a reason and that you and her will always come first.
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Well, last week, I got into a car accident. It was just me driving.
This guy was drunk, and speeding. He ran a red and smashed in the front of my car. He hit me, and then he ran. His plates were from April of 2004!
The policeman came back, telling me that he didn't catch him, but it is my fault, and they are going to send me a citation in the mail.
Should I go to court? Or just pay off the money..
It's not fair that he hit me.. and then ran, and didn't get punished, but I did. Now, I have to pay 500 dollars to fix my car, ontop of the citation...
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You should go to court. That is not right that you have to pay for a car damagethat you didnt even know was going to happen. Go to court and prove that your innocent.
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I have to do a powerpoint on a country. Okay I'm almost done only problem is I need info on the history and goverment. I mean I have the info but I don't know what to put on the (pp). I want the important facts but I don't know how to pick them out. Can someone help me? Oh, the project is on Spain. (link)
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You should put the answers that answer these questions:
Who discovered it?
What are their daily activites?
What do the celebrate?
How are there schools?
Things that you would like to know. Not information such as:
What there houses are made of?
What people wear?
Things that are not common should be on pwerpoint. Hoped i helped
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Help!! Mine and my girlfriend's 1 year anniversary is tomorrow, and we're still searching for something to do in the daytime. We have the whole evening and night planned out, making dinner and all that, but we need ideas for what to do during the day other than our usual movie/mall/stay at home.
We're 17 and 18 and neither of us have our liscense, so we're kinda limited, but her parents are willing to take us if its not too much. (link)
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Why dont you go skating or go go carting. Act like kids for once in your life. One thing you could do is get some of your friends and go laser tagging. Or you could go bowling.
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If you are hit on your breasts (both) and then a few months later, there was large, hard, lumps discovered, what is the chances of them growing??? This happened when I was 12 and I am almost 15. My breasts haven't grown and the lumps are still there. *SCARED* and I am not able to go to the doctor! (link)
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There's nothing wrong with you. Your breasts have been fully developed and its prolly not going to grow anymore. The lumps and bumps really dont mean anything they come with puberty. Hope this helped.
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This may seem disgusting to most and you might feel uncomfortable answering but pelase help me. I am 17 years old and i still havnt done anything with a guy. The reason is i was always afraid i would do something wrong a=or i wouldnt know what im doing. How do you give head anda hand job? please help me. (link)
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Yea that is kinda disgusting. The best thing to do is ask the guy cause he knows how he wants it to be done. Not me.
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