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15 year old Male I haven't had a girlfriend I don't think i am ready at this age it might sound strange but i don't want anything sexual i want to wait for the right girl, I don't want to have sex until I'm married and I want to find a girl who will also wait for marriage so do you think I will the right girl? I am a devout Christian and waiting for marriage is important to me I don't think there's anything wrong with that is there? (link)
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Hey, I'm sorry for the delay in my answer. I think you should stay true to the religion that you have chosen. I think that you should wait until marriage so you know that the girl is in it for the right things. Be prepared. Thank you for your time.
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Hi so i am a 17 year old female and i am dating a male the same age. We have been dating for about 7 months now and we were both kind of scared to make the first move so the first time we kissed was prom night before we went out to eat. So it was graduation day and at our school juniors show up to support the seniors (the place they hold the ceremony is right by the school so everyone shows up to school and seniors ride over first and then juniors and then we come back blah blah blah)and there is a little ritual going on, anyways that day came and me and my boyfriend were both there and were in the same class and i was just sitting on the table and he was sitting in the chair across from me and at first that was all it was i was just sitting across from him then he kind of leaned in and grabbed my ass and pulled me in towards him so we were sitting closer and had kind of burrowed his head in my chest - i had on a low v-neck romper and a big fluffy jacket because i was cold - so he had his head on my chest and put his hand behind the jacket like out of peoples view and was rubbing my back and my ass , mind you we had just had our first kiss like a week ago, so anyways the teachers had left to take care of stuff and half of the class migrated out so it was just us and then some of my friends and some of his friends. So we were cuddling as we were before and i leaned in and kissed him and we kissed like a couple of times and i was happy because after 7 months i was ready and wanted to get things moving along like i am still a teenager. So we were cuddling and at some points kissing, but after i kissed him one of those times he started kissing my chest area, the area in between my breasts. now remember i had on a big fluffy jacket so he was somewhat hidden and i was getting turned on but we were still at school so i kinda backed up and we went back to playing a card game but i could clearly see he was turned on and so was i so we went to the classroom next door which was open and no one was in there and we started kissing and what not (which we adapted to pretty quickly surprisingly) so we were kissing and he was grabbing my butt and i had my hand on his head and of course the sexual tension was building but we were still at school so we both kind of broke off and it was time to leave for the graduation. by the time everything was over it was like 9:15 and we had gotten invited to a graduation party which i decided not to go to because there was going to be heavy drinking and i don't drink so me and my boyfriend decided to go to his house and watch a movie. so we got there and started off watching a movie but half way through it turned to me on top of him, he was kind of dry humping me, we were kissing and things were getting very heated, but then his older sister came home so we stopped and went upstairs and things started again but no clothes came off he was thrusting but it was never any penetration and he came just in his pants.. i don't really know what i am asking or how to ask it i don't know like what next, i want to wait to have penetrating sex until marriage but our relationship is getting pretty serious i have known him since 8th grade and we have had little crushes on eachother but this time it turned ready, i am open to oral sex. i dont know what i am really asking i guess what are some things we can do to relieve sexual tension between us, why do you think it was such a quick switch between us first kissing to like all of this, anything like that. he is supposed to come with my friends boyfriend over to my friends house who i am staying with this week and they're also in a similar place but they've been dating for like a year and aren't having sex but have done stuff, so there will be a lot of sexual tension, do you think it would be a good idea to even have them over if they do come over should we all stay together...ughhh i am so sorry this is messy and i don't completely know what i'm asking i am just confused and ready. (link)
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I read the entire thing and it seems like he’s moving faster than you want. Talk to him about it and let him know EXACTLY how you feel. If he doesn’t want the same then do not conform to his expectations. The most important thing is your happiness and comfort. You need to be comfortable with everything. Set boundaries.
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21/male from Nigeria... since I was 10 years old i have a problem with my eyes they are constantly sensitive to light or anything bright.it just happened suddenly it's not like I hurt my eyes or anything.... I have gone see an eye doctor and he says it is caused by a refraction and he prescribed transition glasses.. I got the glasses but it did not help at all so I just stopped using it. Am embarrassed to say this but I have not always practiced good oral hygiene,I brush my teeth once a day but not with the right technique because I had tatar and my gums would bleed when I brush.... so three years ago I discovered that four of my front up teeth and four of my down front teeth are loose/shaking so I went to a general hospital to see a dentist and did teeth cleaning (scaling and polish) and the dentist assured me that as long as I practice good oral hygiene my teeth will be healed and strong again.... I have been doing everything the dentist told me to do but my teeth is just getting worse, I go for regular cleaning every six months... But there seems to be no change..... Three months ago I went to a dental clinic for consultation after a couple of tests the dentist told me I have chronic periodontitis that the bone surrounding the affected teeth are being destroyed,he said that I have to do a root canal surgery....All this years I have been really depressed and I have a low self esteem ....am suppose to enter school this year but I can't because I want to use my tuition money for my treatment....I have problem with my eyes and now this! a lot of thoughts have floods in and out of head... . (Thoughts like all of this is my fault, what if I lose those teeth, what if I do the surgery and it fails, should I just end my life?I don't want to die, but if I end up losing those teeth I might not be able to bear the embarrassments the shame, I will literally become an outcast) at times I just sit in my room and cry. (link)
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Hey there! Thank you so much for writing to me. I know you are embarrassed and skeptical but please just try to relax. Have faith in the surgeons and the surgery. Do some research on it and read a few success stories to make yourself feel better. Keep doing what your dentist tells you to do but also ask if you could possibly get a second opinion. Tell your dentist and doctors everything you've told me if you can because they can help more than I can. Thank you so much for coming to me for advice and I really hope I helped you! Thank you for your time.
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in 2013 Adult Swim added Rick and Morty a sci fi cartoon that people are calling the smartest tv show and mostly when you type something in that show constantly gets suggested and most of it's fan pay too much attention to it saying you need to have high iqs to understand the jokes but i think that is ridiculous so how can you ignore Rick and Morty i just don't like seeing those characters everywhere i look. (link)
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I don't really know. Just don't let it get to you. I know that it gets annoying but find something else to do in your spare time.
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This is probably jumbled and random. I'm a little upset, so I apologize. Thank you in advance.
When I was little, my maternal grandmother lived with us a lot. I had a very close relationship with her, as I do with my mother. Her whole life she's had a hard time with personal relationships, and she's moved around and met different men, none of which have been pleasant. Right now she lives with an old man with a farm, and he's a little off his rocker, and doesn't like to go out or be around people, and besides getting anxious sometimes, he isn't that bad of a guy. However, they have this idea that they just cannot leave the farm unless they need something because they might get sick, and of course, they can't afford that. I haven't seen my grandmother in around a year, even though she lives about half an hour away. My step dad and 8 year old brother saw them from across the street at a gas station. They all made eye contact, but couldn't even be bothered to wave. Just last year, when I was still in highschool I had a lead roll in our winter musical, and we were doing South Pacific. It's my grandmother's favorite, and she promised she'd come see. It was the only thing that kept me from dropping out. She didn't come. Graduation rolled around, and I sent out invitations. She sent me a letter saying that she and her boyfriend or whatever he is would "be there in spirit." I cried both times. I know she's never had the best mental health, but it makes me angry. I want to write her a letter, but I don't even know what to say to her. My mother hasn't really ever had the best relationship with her, and it's at it's worst right now. They haven't spoken in months. Grandma sends occasional cards. She doesnt know what my siblings are up to, she doesn't know I moved out, or that I'm seeing someone. I'm so hurt by her lack of action, but I miss her. I know where they live, and I want to go see her, but I don't know if that would be the right course of action. I'm upset right now, so this whole thing is probably very jumbled. I also don't know if I should take how my mom would feel if I went to see her into consideration. I'm 18 and it's not really any of her business, but I love my mother very much. Also, I don't see or talk to my family much, despite living 8 blocks away, and I don't want another confrontation about it..
I want to see my grandmother again. What should I do??? (link)
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You need to make the first move. You say you want to see your family but you have not made an effort on your own. You are 18 and you can make your own decisions without anyone else's input. Go visit her!
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I've just been asked to be part of the bridal party for one of my best friends. While I feel so honoured by her request, I'm very hesitant as she has told me about her intention to ask someone else as well. This person and I do not get along.
This person used to be my friend and former roommate. Our friendship ended 6 months ago when she moved out. Having been friends for over a decade, we had moved in together despite the fact that I was warned by various other friends that it wasn't a good idea. From the day we moved in, the relationship started deteriorating and she started to behave quite badly.
Just a few examples of this included:
- Never washing her dishes or putting them away or putting the garbage out and becoming hostile when I asked her to do so.
- Getting extremely upset with me during the time that my grandfather was dying. I was very sad and withdrawn and she accused me of making her feel as though she had done something wrong.
- Being very angry at me when I told her I felt uncomfortable if she were to sublet her room for a month while she was travelling (I eventually convinced my sister to sublet from her).
- Starting a verbal fight with me and, when a friend came over later, throwing objects around the kitchen and slamming cupboards to the point that we needed to leave the apartment.
- Doing drugs in my room while I was away on vacation.
I'm not innocent in this situation. In a lot of these conflict situations, I would either leave or practice avoidance. However, when I did assert myself or try to communicate, she would become very loud and intimidating. I am usually the 'mother' in any given friend circle and, while she encouraged me to practice boundaries with other friends, she became angry when I wouldn't be flexible with her.
We had come to an understanding that she would move out and I gave her ample time to find a new apartment. After several months of her staying put, I gave her a firm date to leave.
I haven't spoke to her since and had no intention of doing so. I came to the realization that, while I had supported her through many different life situations (losing an immediate family member, a break up, a theft), she had never been there for me or tried to support me in times of need. In addition to this, I developed anxiety during our last few months of living together and I still experience panic when thinking about her.
While the bride was supportive of me during this time, she still remains friends with my previous roommate. We had decided that I shouldn't share my feelings about the previous roommate with her due to the fact that it was very uncomfortable to be stuck in the middle.
When I found out that my best friend was getting married, I was happy for her but felt guilty about the fact that my mind immediately went to the fact that I would have to see my previous roommate again.
To add to this, there has been a lot of heartbreak that occurred between my previous roommate and other mutual friends even prior to our co-habitation. Due to this, the bride decided, out of her own volition to do two sets of events (i.e. bachelorette party, engagement party). This was an unfortunate set of affairs but seemed necessary given the circumstances. At the time, the bride did not want a wedding party.
The bride has now decided to ask her sister, another friend, myself, my previous roommate and my previous roommate's best friend. While I love my best friend and I want to be there for her on her big day, my throat closes when I think about interacting with my previous roommate. But what would be worse is if I bowed out of being in the bridal party and saw my previous roommate involved in my best friend's special day. I feel terrible but I've been fantasizing about skipping out on the entire day.
I haven't said anything about this to the bride and she wants to have a conversation. I don't want to hurt her or make this more difficult than it already is. What should I do? (link)
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Let the bride know exactly how you feel about this. Do not keep anything from her. This other girl obviously makes you very anxious and you do not be around her. Your friend should care enough about you to not even consider the other person who causes you so much emotional pain. Do not allow the ex friend to come back into your life, she will only find ways to manipulate you more.
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I'm in a horrible situation and need help fast. I'm 22 and he is 22, slightly younger than me. I have no one to talk to because I'm not supposed to be talking to him. I met this guy a year ago through a friend when he moved here from another state. He was staying with his friend who lived with my friend. I was also moving into an apartment at the same time. It's my first apartment and I got it all on my own. Me, jumping into adult life quickly, I let this guy stay at my apartment and then lived there and we were dating. Things got real ugly. Long story shot, I've called the cops on him 3 times, had him sent to a mental help place for saying he was going to kill himself, and he's punched a hole through my door and stolen hundreds from me, both cash from my wallet and items that were sold. He's broken 2 or 3 of his phones, smashed electronics I bought, screamed at me making me hyperventilate and lock myself in the bathroom to call the cops.
At one point, I told my parents what happened and my dad came down from another state to stay with me and change my locks because I didn't feel safe. He also pushed me into going to the police station to start the process of a restraining order against this guy.
We had a court date set. To give you an idea of how careless this guy is, he brought over flowers when he knew my dad was here staying with me after all of this. He does NOT think things through or think of consequences.
I didn't know where he was at this time. The court date was probably a week away and I was having second thoughts about a restraining order. I even went to a center for women who are abused to talk to them and get some insight on whether I should go through with it. I was torn. He was my best friend. One night when I was home alone, I started to think a lot and cry and I called him.
He was staying at a friend's apartment not far from me. I told him to just not go to the court date and I wouldn't either. I mostly just felt that he was my best friend and I couldn't do it. I was so close to him. We related a lot. Soon after, the restraining order case was dropped, and the lease was ending at the apartment he was staying at.
I, unfortunately, allowed him in. I told him it was temporary, and that I didn't want to date. But I couldn't let him live on the street or at a shelter. But, he sleeps with me and we act like a couple in secret.
Now, he's gone through MANY jobs and can't keep one. Constantly asks for money and things that I believe he'll pay me back for. He smokes marijuana outside of my apartment (I do NOT smoke). He does not pay rent. I have to watch what I say. I can't bring any friends over. I can't talk to anyone about it. I measure how mad he is by how hard he slams the door. I am CONSTANTLY STRESSED. I work so much and he just stays here.
Out of fear, I can't say too much how I don't want to be kissing him or talking sweet to him because he gets extremely upset and cries and will scream. So I live, just, carefully and it's the same stuff every day.
I'm so sorry this is long. I really, really need help. I am SO stuck.
My dad is moving down here and he cannot be here. But he has no where to go. So I told him a month ago he needed to be out. It's now that time and only now he is messaging people for somewhere to live and no one is answering. Do I just stand my ground and say he needs to be out by tomorrow night regardless? He's saying he'll live in his car, but he doesn't realize what that all entails. His parents won't even take him back. No friends. I can't do this anymore. I want to be free. What would you do? (link)
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I would leave him. You have to think of your safety and if he is putting your safety at risk then obviously he doesn’t care about you. You need to be happy and make friends!!! Stay safe honey, thank you for your time.
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I am a new teacher at this school/district. I am a third grade teacher.I am known to be a nice teacher. Students know me, they think I'm kind, they think I look young, etc. I can be mean if I need to be, just not to the extent some teachers are.
I try to run a positive atmosphere in my classroom. I am all about respect and anti-bullying. The good thing is, that it's working. Even though I have a chatty class, I have students who get along with EVERYONE. If anyone bullies anyone or says something that is disrespectful to someone else, they apologize to that particular person or write an apology letter.
I have a student who actually hates me. Here's the thing, academically, he's great. He's one of my top students in the class. Behaviorally, he's not the best.
I have told him MANY times to get in line, walk in line quietly, to stop talking over my lesson, etc. It got to the point where his behavior had regressed. I had to contact his father about his behaviors. His father ended up getting involved for a short period of time and then disappeared. Meanwhile, his behaviors started regressing again after 1-2 weeks.
This student has spoken about race, saying "for Black History Month, students should go to KFC and only black people should get free fried chicken." When he found out my first language was Chinese, he continued to say "ni hao" in the middle of my lessons. Today, he was talking to my other students about gangs. I have spoken to his father again, and yet, I have not received a response.
The disciplinary actions at this school and district are pretty much non-existent. So, I'm relying on the parents for support.
This student has made it clear SEVERAL times that he does not want to be at school, he does not want to learn. This is a student who told me he wants a new mom because he makes him take out the trash.
I hate lecturing, but someone who values respect and tries to get students to be thankful for what they have, it infuriates me. So, yes. I have made points there are other countries who can't afford to go to school, they should be happy to get free education. He does not care.
He told me the reason why he is rude because "his parents are rude." I am running out of ideas for him. He has been passing around notes to other students telling others that he hates me.
I'm confused. Why does he hate me? Should I even care about how he feels? Should I let an 8 year old make me feel validated?
Having a student that doesn't want to be at school, can throw off the entire class. All of my students want to learn and want to be there. He doesn't, for some reason. He asks politely for help, he doesn't say anything to my face, but my question is WHY does he hate me? Am I supposed to do something about that? (link)
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You are a teacher. Your job is to teach them, you do not have to worry about something like that. If he does not want to learn then focus your attention to the students that do. They do not deserve to have their time cut short because you are trying to get one student to do right. What you should do is ignore him completely and focus on what is important. Do NOT worry about him, you seem like a great teacher and a great woman. I hope my advice helped you. Thank you for your time
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What does it mean to mount someone?
I know its something sexual....
thank you
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Wow! I can't believe this question was from 2006! If you still do not know the answer, it means to get on top of someone.
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I will try to make this quick, but it’s a complicated situation.
I lied to my boyfriend. In retrospect it was so stupid to be insecure to have to lie, but I did it because when we started the relationship he was very insecure and jealous and would question every single friend I have. He would get mad and I would suffer because I just had eyes for him. (Granted my guy friends had crushes on me but I didn’t like any of them) and he would still get jealous about all of them and so angry whenever one would text me or bring up in conversation about a friend.
So I started avoiding telling him the whole truth, or I would twist things to not make it seem like I was hanging out with friends, only girls (even though it was innocent I didn’t do anything ever).
I also twisted the truth about my past because he would go into my pictures and ask about every single guy that he saw like did I sleep with him? And in just one case I had been with a guy and I told him I didn’t but he kept insisting later on asking over and over again every opportunity he would get so eventually I broke down and told him the truth. About everything, I told him because he kept saying that I have to be honest about things and he would understand etc. So when I admitted the truth about the past lies or alterations of the truth, it wasn’t all at once, it was one thing here then another thing there, and he always made such a big deal about every lie that I was afraid to tell him that I hid something else.
Basically now after the last one that is not a new lie it’s a small detail about an old lie I told that was different than what I said, he told me that I’m sick and I’m a compulsive liar and that he wants nothing to do with me. But he keeps telling me I need to fix myself at the same time he dumped me he doesn’t want to let me go.
I am so confused because I’ve never felt the need to have to lie to anyone before because no one has questioned me so scruciatingly about my past and my dark side and every single thing I was doing, so I don’t know how I became this “liar” in the relationship but I don’t want to be this Person because thats not me. I made mistakes because I didn’t want to lose him, is that understandable??? Forgiveable even???
Now I don’t know how to rebuild trust with him, he’s so afraid that I’m going to keep lying even though I decided I would be an open book, completely honest about everything but he keeps saying I broke us so much and he doesn’t believe a word I say.
I should add that I explained to him why I lied, and even though he told me he would be understanding he is not, he doesn’t believe that I was trying to avoid his jealousy and anger about situations, he thinks its because I was sleeping around. I have never not been true to him the lies I told were so insignificant I understand that doesn’t make it ok but I never cheated or dreamt of having any type of relationship with anyone else. I think that’s why I felt it was ok to tell small lies to protect us because I know I wasn’t doing anything with anyone I would just hang out with friends.
I know I was wrong, I just don’t know where to go from here. He’s not talking to me but he will call me at night or every now and then and we sit on the phone and we don’t get anything resolved cause I keep saying iI want to start over and he keeps saying I need to fix it and build trust again but I have no idea how or what to say to him or how to do this? I can tell he wants to be with me, but he wants me to “fix” it somehow and I don’t know how I can, or what actions I can do or take?
Please help how can I rebuild trust again? I’m done lying it is never worth it.
Is this a totally dysfunctional situation?
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I understand exactly where you are coming from. My boyfriend, Alex, does the exact same thing. I love him very much but I just do not know anymore. The best thing to do is tell him how you feel and suggest a "break" from each other. Do not ever lie to your boyfriend. Tell him the truth to avoid more conflict and if he keeps doing it then break up with him. I know it is not as easy as it seems but you will feel much better after you void him. I promise. I really hope I helped and thank you so much for taking the time to read this (if you did). Have a great day!
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The other day i was laying in bed when my back started itching. When i looked i had this huge red swollen mark on my back. Its not just a bump it has lines its like a unusual shape it is really itchy and sometimes sore especially when leaning on it. It is near my left shoulder blade. My hip/leg on my left side was hurting a bit earlier. What could this be? (link)
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Hey there. I will as that you read all of this to point you in the right direction. I do not know much about spider bites because I'm afraid of spiders and I do not want to look them up or anything to do with them. What you described sounds like erythema nodosum. This is an inflammatory condition characterized by the inflammation of the fat cells under the skin that results in tender, red lumps on the skin. This problem should resolve itself in about thirty days. To ease the pain, take warm baths or take iburprofen! I really do hope I helped, thank you for your time!
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Can xasten drugs cause ovarian cyst? (link)
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Hey there! I am sure that ovarian cysts can be caused my a number of different medications and things because the doctors think that I have one. I only know that your medication has pretty serious side effects like increased appetite or weight gain, insomnia, fluid retention (swelling of the ankles), heartburn, muscle weakness, and impaired or delayed wound healing. The least common ones are headaches, dizziness, mood swings, and cataracts or bone thinning. That is pretty much all I know but you should consult with your doctor about your concerns and see what can be worked out about it. Thank you so much for your time!
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I have been struggling with skipping breakfast, lunch and trying to eat as small of a dinner as possible for almost two years. I lost 20 pounds got praise and felt great but now people have realized how I've done it and are concerned they want me to eat but i'm afraid I'll gain back the weight that made me chubby again and I have no idea what to do! (link)
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Hey there!I am currently fifteen years old and I have been studying psychology since I was eight years old. It seems like you may have anorexia. Don't panic! Anorexia has nothing to do with eating when you really think about it. This eating disorder can stem from different disorders like adjustment disorder. Is there any new changes going on in your life? It could also stem from depression, loneliness, insecurity, pressure to be "perfect", and feeling out of control. There is treatment for this! You could think about getting psychotherapy, CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy), family therapy, or getting on some sort of prescribed medications. I really hope that I helepd you! Thank you so much for your time if you read this.
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whenever I am being teaching something in the class I don't seems to understand especially in mathematics why
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You do not have a brain problem. There is a certain part of your brain that deals with math. There is a mental disorder that turns off that part of your brain, making it more difficult for you to work in the field of math. If you can, get it checked out. Acatamathesia is the loss of faculty of understanding. This isn't your fault. I really do hope I helped.
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I swear I'm not doing it anymore, I hated it. I wanted to see how it felt to cut myself. I tried only twice, one on the bottom of my wrist and one on top. The bottom one is bumpy, Is it going to leave a scar? The top one is just a normal cut that will heal. The bottom one is the one I'm worried about. Please don't lecture me on how I shoulden't of done it, I know and I feel guilty. All I want to know Is will the bottom one leave a scar? Thanks! (link)
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It should leave a scar because scars are part of the healing process. If the scar is raised up off of your skin, that is called a hypertrophic or keloid scar and that is because your body is producing too much collagen. I hope that I helped you a little bit. Don't worry about scars because they are beautiful either way.
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Why does my skin scar so easily. Even with the slightest paper cut I will my skin will scar and sometimes I get scars from scratches. (link)
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My skin bruises easily. I do not know why that happens but there are different types of scars. If you have hypertrophic or keloid scars (raised up scars) then that means your body is producing too much collagen and that's fine. It wont hurt you but hypertriohic scars are most common in younger and darker-skinned people. Scars are a natural part of the healing process so I am sure that you have nothing to worry about. Thank you for your time and I hope I helped!
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I forgot my gym clothes today so I had to wear my itchy sweater. I'm not in the best shape so I get really red while exercising. I used to cut but I have gotten over that, but you can still see very faint marks from where I used to cut. When my skin turns red you can clearly see all of then running right down my arm. I asked my teacher to let me go run some water over my arms since the sweat mixed with the itchy sweater caused a bit of burning, and she wanted to see my arms to make sure I wasn't getting a rash. I showed her and she allowed me to go. I'm really worried that she saw the scars and might call my parents, my parents never learned about my cutting. What do I do? I'm really freaking out! (link)
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I've been there before. My teachers saw my scars before and they didn't say anything to my parents. If you feel suspicious about anything then go talk to your teacher personally and tell her how you feel and that you do not want your parents to know. You should either do that or just hang back calmly. The worst is over now and you don't cut anymore so I am sure your parents wont get too mad over something that happened in the past because you're okay now. If you read this, thanks for your time and I hope I helped.
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I just got really expensive human hair extensions, and i was wondering since i want to grow my hair out before i wear them ( they are clip ins) if they can ruin if i dont use them?? They ayre sealed in a bag in my closet and i dont use them at all. I mean, they cant possibly ruin if i dont use them, style them or anything at all right? thanks. (link)
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Make sure they are sealed tight and that they do not get wet or dry out. If you don't mess with them then it will be totally fine. You mentioned it was human hair? If it is 100% human hair then it can be heated up to around 400 degrees. Flat iron or curl it whenever you want. IF it gets matted up or nappy then just wash, dry, and flat iron it like you would do your own hair.
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Ok, so, I'm only 13, and I am lactose intolerant. I still eat dairy reulatly. But after I eat any type.of dairy, I have diarrhea. I was worried this would happen, and it did. I am pretty sure I have an external hemroid. It's purplish in color, and somewhat large. It is causing discomfort. I really don't want to tell my parents.. plus I hate going to the doctors. How do I cute these on my own? (link)
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Do NOT try to cure this on your own. Tell your parents as soon as you can and I understand that you don't like doctors but you need to get that checked out.
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Im a virgin. A few days ago the inside of my vagina started itching and was really sore. Today i noticed some blood when i pee (period blood) usually what i get just before i start my period. Ive already had mt period this month and im regular because im on the pill and ive never had it twice in one month or skipped a month. Someone please help? What could this be? (link)
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A period won't always be normal. Being on the "pill" can cause a few complications with your period and some other things. Its totally fine to have more than one period in one month or not have a period for a while. I've never been on birth control but my period used to be so crazy and it just now came on. The doctors think I have a cyst on my ovaries that is causing my period to be irregular. If you can, check with your doctor and talk to them about it. I am sure there is nothing to be worried about.
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